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You’re going to learn powerful sexual techniques, tips & tactics to make your man feel an intense desire to be around you, desperate to rip your clothes off and make passionate love to you…along with him feeling more deeply connected to you than you ever thought possible.
In other words, you are going to learn how to make your man sexually obsessed with you.
And don’t be surprised if your friends suddenly start acting jealous when they see how your man is treating you.
With that in mind, I want to teach you the 5 Dangerous Mistakes That Destroy Your Sex Life.
Let’s jump in…
Dangerous Mistake 1: Starfish Syndrome
Imagine a starfish, stuck to a rock. It just lies there. It’s legs outstretched. Hardly moving.
Some girls are like starfish. They have what I call, “Starfish Syndrome”. They just lie in bed during sex, hardly moving at all.
Do you have Starfish Syndrome?
If so, it’s really important that you get rid of it asap. Unless you want to leave your man bored and potentially fantasizing about someone else.
Here are 2 simple techniques you can use tonight to stop being a starfish:
#1 Grab Him! Instead of just passively lying there, grab him. You can wrap your arms around his back or shoulders. Or wrap your legs around his legs. Easy.
#2 Get Vocal! Men have egos. Every. Single. Man. When they have sex they like to hear some feedback on how ‘well’ they are performing. It boosts their ego. If you are completely silent during sex, then your man will feel like he is not pleasuring you. He will feel like a failure. It’s a sad truth. The more vocal you are, the more he will believe he is doing a great job and and the more he will feel validated during sex. In the coming weeks, I am going to teach you exactly how to get more vocal in the bedroom.
Dangerous Mistake 2: No Variation!
Everybody gets bored of the same routine. It’s a fact of life. If you keep giving your man the same sex, using the same techniques and positions, he will get bored. Boredom is unfortunately one of the main causes of cheating.
And I’m guessing you don’t want that, right?
So it’s important to constantly introduce new things into your sex life. I will go into more specific detail in future emails, but for now, keep the following in mind:
1. Have sex at different and random times during the day.
2. Change where you have sex. Not just in the bedroom. Try around the house and elsewhere.
3. Start trying new sexual positions, techniques and roleplaying situations. Not just the missionary position.
Dangerous Mistake 3: Time To Take Control!
According a recent report from Indiana University, up to 87% of guys prefer to be in control in the bedroom. However, nearly all of these men who were surveyed said that they really liked it when their partner took control every once in a while.
Not all the time.
Just ‘every once in a while.’
This is important to understand. Guys usually like to be the dominant sexual partner. But from time to time, it’s a really good idea to be the one who takes control in the bedroom and ‘call the shots’. This is exactly what I said in the previous tip about variation. It’s important to try different things to keep your sex life fun and exciting for both you and you partner. Taking control is one of ways to use ‘variation’.
Dangerous Mistake 4: The Sex Weapon…
No, I’m not talking about using a gun during sex!
I’m talking about when sex becomes a weapon in your relationship. Some women find themselves in a situation where they use sex as a weapon. They withhold sex to try and get their way. And they use sex to try to ‘control’ their man.
This is not healthy.
Obviously there are times when you don’t feel like having sex with your man or it’s not possible because it’s that time of the month. That is absolutely fine.
However, if you try to manipulate him using sex, your relationship will start to fall apart. He will trust you less and less. And eventually he will start to drift further and further away.
Dangerous Mistake 5: No Blowjobs or Bad Blowjobs!
The only thing worse than never giving your man a blow job is giving him a terrible blowjob. If you want to truly sexually satisfy your man in the bedroom, then you need to learn how to give a great blowjob. Here are 3 tips to get you started…
#1 Start With Your Hands
Yes, you give a guy a blowjob with your mouth. But. You need to build anticipation first. Building anticipation is one of the keys to a great blowjob. All you need to do is to slip your hands inside his pants and gently start stroking his penis. Don’t hold it too firmly. Start very gently.
#2 Don’t Forget About His Balls!
A man’s penis is very sensitive. But so are is testicles/balls. While you are giving him a blowjob, start to massage them. Just make sure that you do it very slowly and softly.
#3 Start With A Kiss & A Lick!
Just before taking his penis in your mouth, keep building anticipation by slowly and sensually kissing and then licking his penis. If you do this correctly, he will literally be twitching in anticipation.
These are really just the most basic tips from my detailed book about blowjobs. It’s over 100 pages all dedicated to the art of blowjobs, so it’s pretty thorough!
I can honestly say that knowing how to give a fantastic blowjob is the most important tool that you can have in your arsenal to make your man crave your presence!
Your homework for the weeks ahead is to incorporate these 5 key tips into your sex life.
- Avoid Starfish Syndrome
- Use Variation
- Take Control….Sometimes
- Never Use Sex As A Weapon
- Learn How To Give A Good Blowjob – Click Here To Become A Blowjob Goddess
That’s it for now, I’ll be in touch very soon with more great tips on how to make your man sexually obsessed with you,