
Becoming more sexually adventurous is fun for both of you!
The Bad Girl’s Bible is choc full of tips, ideas, techniques and nuggets of information on how to satisfy your man in bed. If you are looking for help of how to keep him sexually satisfied then The Bad Girl’s Bible is thankfully the best place on the whole internet to learn.
But what if I am not that sexually adventurous Sean?
Firstly, it’s important to understand that you don’t necessarily have to be sexually adventurous in bed. You don’t have to use all or any of the great information that you can find in The Bad Girl’s Bible.
It’s here as a reference (& inspiration!). But it’s up for you to decide whether or not you actually want to use it.
Just because other people seem to doing all these crazy things with their sex lives, it doesn’t mean that you should feel forced into doing those things too. You need to do what you feel comfortable with. Don’t let me or anyone else try to tell you otherwise.
But if you have read this far, you probably want to read some tips that will help you take your skills to the next level in the bedroom.
Here goes…
Becoming More Sexually Adventurous – Your Attitude
The first stage to becoming more sexually adventurous involves a positive attitude.
Heck No!
The Bad Girl’s Bible isn’t about that. We are about actual action and results.
When I say ‘positive attitude’, I really mean having the frame of mind where you are more enthusiastic about new sexual experiences, whether they are games, positions, techniques or something else.
Think about that movie from 2008 called Yes Man, where Jim Carrey starts saying yes to more opportunities that arise and as a result he has some really fun and crazy experiences.
But you should at least consider having a more open attitude to trying new things with your man, even if they sound faintly ridiculous.
So Saying ‘Yes’ & Having A Positive Attitude = Becoming More Sexually Adventurous, Right?
That’s pretty much what I am saying, provided you stay safe.
So should I purchase a book on Kama Sutra to learn new things?
You could, but there is no need to start spending money if you want to learn tactics & techniques for the bedroom.
You’ll find a wealth of information right here on The Bad Girl’s Bible for free.
Oral Fixation
I’d like to think that I have created the worlds greatest resource on oral sex tips for women.
I cover some really awesome blowjob tips and oral sex techniques, but before reading them, what I suggest you do first is check out the main section on giving great blowjobs first.
Also don’t forget the killer section where I detail the many different blowjob positions that you can use.
Expanding Your Sex Position Repertoire
Learning new love making positions should be high on your to-do list if you are serious about becoming more sexually adventurous. Without a doubt, you will never get tired of all the different sex positions that you’ll find here.
With high quality pictures detailing over 100 different sex positions that you can try with your man, you will never get bored.
Your Sexual Vocabulary
While learning new sex positions to use with your man along with learning how to give an awesome blow job is certainly important, there are other great ways to become more sexually adventurous with your man.
Talking dirty is a great one as it can be used in the bedroom as well as outside it to keep things spicy.
You can even send him dirty text messages and talk dirty on the phone to him when you are not together to keep him thinking about you
Explore Your Dominant & Submissive Sides
A lot of people are more sexually submissive than sexually dominant. They prefer for their partner to be the one to take control in the bedroom.
If you prefer being the submissive one in bed, then it’s no big deal. But if you want to become more sexually adventurous then it’s time to start exploring your dominant side. The next time you are home alone with your man, grab him and drag him into the bedroom.
Push him onto the bed, jump on top of him and rip his clothes off.
If you’ve never done this before then your man is going to be pleasently surprised.
But becoming more dominant in bed doesn’t necessarily have to involve something like this.
It could be as simple as initiating sex when you are both already in bed or unbuttoning his trousers and giving him a blowjob when he’s not expecting it or pulling him in towards you to kiss him or giving him a back massage when he’s not expecting it.
The whole idea of exploring your dominant and submissive sides with your man is to show him that you are multi-dimensional, that there is more than one side to you in the bedroom.
One Last Thing
A crucial aspect to accelerate your progress in becoming more sexually adventurous is……Your Man.
Often people underestimate this, but your man plays a vital role in helping you to become more sexually adventurous.
The most important trait that your man needs to have is that he makes you feel comfortable and at ease when you are around him. If he is overly domineering or too much of an ‘alpha-male’ then you may feel intimidated when it comes to trying new things and becoming more sexually adventurous.
Try to keep this in mind when you are getting started on your path to becoming more sexually adventurous. This tip is more for people who are looking for a guy to experiment with as opposed to a guy who you are already seeing. [photo credit:Lindarosephotography.com , creative commons]
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My husband likes to be dominant, but he always wants me on top. I want him on top sometime. I want him to take my body in hot passion and have his way with me. We are both large people. He gets winded quickly. We have a 12 inch height difference. We’ve been married almost 25 years. I dress sexy. I sext him. I leave notes for him. I build sexual tension. He calls me a cum sucking b. So I know he likes my frequent blow jobs I give him. Kinda feeling like I want him to take initiative and be on top. Take me like he wants me. I don’t know what to do.
I have considered myself an aficionado when it comes to oral sex. I have NEVER had a single complaint in all the years I have been doing it. I am in a relationship and my man just will NOT cum when I give him head. I am baffled! He says he likes it being done, but he’s never finished when anyone has done it. He says it’s not a psychological thing either. He just seems very uninterested. I want him to grab my head, moan or do something…but he just lays there! I feel like less of a woman. I’ve tried every technique I know and NOTHING works! He’s even gone SOFT while I was doing it. It is very exasperating. He says that all his nerve endings are in the tip, and I know that already. It’s like that for every guy. He’s uncircumcised and I’ve never dealt with one before, I was wondering if that had something to do with it, cause I’m at a loss.
Hi Corro,
Please don’t worry about this too much. It can happen! The one thing that will make it more difficult for your man to come and orgasm when giving him head is to put him under pressure.
There are a ton of factors that could be affecting him. He could naturally be less sensitive than most. His age and general health could also be factors.
Another factor is ‘death grip’. ‘Death grip’ occurs when your man has a tighter than normal grip during masturbation. He gets used to this and then after a while, he needs more and more pressure to orgasm. Much more pressure than is possible during sex. If this is the case, he should lay off masturbating for a few months. This will make him more sensitive and make it easier for him to cum during oral sex.
Sean