The 5 Dangerous Mistakes That Will Destroy Your Sex Life
Over the last several years, I’ve figured out some interesting and sometimes crazy techniques you can use to be the best lover she’s ever had, and I wanted to share some of these techniques with you in this newsletter.
I’m talking about the tips, techniques, positions, and tactics you can use to:
- Give her the most powerful, intense & addicting orgasms of her life
- Dramatically boost her sex drive, making her crave sex with you more often
- Make her more kinky & adventurous than you ever thought possible, even if your sex life has been boring for years.
With that in mind, I want to start with what is probably my most important advice…
What not to do.
I’m going to teach you the 5 dangerous sex mistakes that most men make that destroy your sex life…
And what you should do instead.
These are the 5 things you absolutely must avoid if you want to be the best lover she’s ever had.
Let’s jump in…
Dangerous Mistake 1: You Don’t Understand How She Gets Turned On & Horny
Women and men get turned on in very different ways.
Most guys are turned on visually, they see something hot and “hey presto,” they are turned on. This is why porn is so popular with guys.
Women are very different; they get turned on more by how they “feel” and what’s going on inside their head, hence the wild popularity of 50 Shades of Grey and romantic novels amongst women.
Many guys already understand this difference, but most don’t know how to take advantage of it.
Here’s the basic 2 step process for how women get turned on and horny.
1) She first needs to have the “Brakes” released on her sex drive so that she can get turned on.
When I say release the “Brakes,” I’m talking about removing things like stress, anxiety, shame, guilt, etc. that she may be experiencing.
2) Next, she needs to be turned on
Getting her turned on is often very different to what turns you on.
For her, it could be when you’re romantic, when you show her how much you care about her, when you’re dominant, when you remind her of a hot time you shared, reading erotica, getting a massage, getting a bit tipsy, etc.
Once you have turned her on and she wants you, then you should use some of the sex techniques I teach at the end of this email.
Dangerous Mistake 2: You Are Killing The Sexual Tension
Sexual tension is like steroids for a girl’s sex drive and horniness. You may even be surprised at the things she does in bed with you if you build enough sexual tension.
First of all, what is sexual tension exactly?
It’s that deep feeling of wanting rip each other’s clothes off, but for some reason, you can’t act on it.
Maybe you’re both working together and have been flirting for the last few months, but due to work policies, you can’t be with each other without the risk of getting fired.
That’s sexual tension.
And…
It drives women insane with lust.
So how do you build sexual tension with your girl?
Tease Her – Teasing your girl in a FUN way is a killer technique to build sexual tension and make her horny. The easiest way to tease her is by treating her like your bratty, little sister.
Build Anticipation – Building anticipation is a cornerstone to creating sexual tension. Anticipation happens naturally at the start of any relationship, when you don’t know each other yet or what the next date will be like and you are wondering what the sex will be like.
Never Stop Flirting – Flirting is the bedrock that sexual tension is built on. It makes any situation more fun for both of you and this is why you should always be flirting with her.
Dangerous Mistake 3: You’re Not Making Her Feel Deeply Desired
The single most powerful way to make your girl horny is to make her feel deeply desired by you.
As a guy, the feeling of being desired may (or may not) mean a whole lot to you, but for women, it’s like casting a spell on them, it can be completely intoxicating and overwhelming when she senses how much you want her…
Provided you do it in the right way.
The best way to make her feel desired is to:
- Flatter her for the things that are important to her
- Show genuine appreciation for the things she does for you and your relationship
- Touch her often and do it dominantly… don’t be a timid mouse
- Make eye contact when talking to her
Dangerous Mistake 4: You Lack Enthusiasm
The best way to turn your girl OFF and have lousy sex is to lack enthusiasm when you’re intimate with her.
The same is true if your girl is the one who lacks enthusiasm.
Imagine that:
- She never initiates sex
- She just lies there, with her arms and legs by her side
- She never moans or breathes heavily and is completely silent, so you can’t even tell if she’s enjoying herself
To be honest, it would feel like fucking a dead horse…
Very unsatisfying.
Now imagine her screaming your name, warping her arms around you and digging her nails into your back as she looks you in the eye and begs you to cum inside her.
That’s super hot.
It’s the same kind of enthusiasm you need to bring to sex with your girl.
Here’s the CliffNotes to being more enthusiastic:
- Talk dirty to her during sex and let her know how good she makes you feel
- Be the one who initiates sex
- Be more dominant during sex
- Try new sex positions and techniques
Speaking of trying new positions and techniques…
Dangerous Mistake 5: You’re Probably Using The Wrong Sex Techniques
Giving your girl the most deeply-satisfying orgasms of her life is surprisingly easy.
It doesn’t require a big dick or a six-pack and, it definitely doesn’t involve licking the alphabet with your tongue on her pussy (this “technique” is a big no-no).
To make things simple, I recorded an instructional video where I’ll show you the 3 simple steps to make any woman squirt, shake & scream with the most intense, addicting, full-body orgasms she has ever experienced.
In this instructional video, I demonstrate the only 2 pussy eating techniques you’ll ever need to make your girl see god and beg you for more.
Until next time 😉
Sean