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Blow Job Princess
This is an OK score. It means you give OK blow jobs. Basically, you still have a lot to learn if you want to become a Blow Job Queen and goddess in the bedroom. Don’t worry, I’m going to teach you exactly how to do this.
You’re going to learn powerful sexual techniques, tips & tactics to make your man feel:
- An intense desire to be around you
- Desperate to rip your clothes off
- A compulsion to make passionate love to you
- More deeply connected to you than you ever thought possible
In other words…
You are going to learn how to make your man sexually obsessed with you.
And don’t be surprised if your friends suddenly start acting jealous when they see how your man is treating you.
With that in mind, I want to teach you the 5 Dangerous Mistakes That Destroy Your Sex Life.
Let’s jump in…
Dangerous Mistake 1: Starfish Syndrome
Imagine a starfish, stuck to a rock…
It just lies there…
Its legs are outstretched…
Barely moving.
Some women (and men) are similar to starfish. They have what I call,
“Starfish Syndrome”
They just lie there during sex, hardly moving at all, just like a starfish stuck to a rock.
The question I want you to ask yourself is
Do I have Starfish Syndrome?
If so, it’s critical that you get rid of it asap…
Unless you want to leave your man bored and potentially fantasizing about someone else.
Here’s what I want you to do tonight, to stop being a starfish:
Instead of just passively lying there, grab him and pull him close to you during sex…
You can wrap your arms around his back or shoulders…
Next…
You can wrap your legs around his legs or back.
Then…
Pull him closer to you…
Easy.
Of course, you can take it further by:
- Running your hands over him
- Digging your nails in for some extra grip 😉
- Massaging him
- Running your hands through his hair
- Pulling his hair and more…
Dangerous Mistake 2: You’re Not Vocal!
Men have egos.
Every. Single. Man.
When they have sex, they like to hear some feedback on how ‘well’ they are performing.
It boosts their ego.
If you are totally silent during sex, then your man will feel like he is not pleasuring you.
He may start to feel like a failure.
It’s sad but true.
The more vocal you are, the more he will believe he is doing a great job, and the more he will feel validated during sex.
The easiest way to get vocal is to moan, and if you’re feeling more confident, you can even whisper in his ear to let him know what you’re enjoying.
In the coming weeks, I am going to teach you how to talk dirty and exactly what you should say to drive him wild in the bedroom.
Dangerous Mistake 3: You’re Not Getting Your Big ‘O’
As I mentioned in the previous mistake, giving your man feedback on how much he is pleasing you is vital for him to enjoy sex…
But…
If you aren’t thoroughly enjoying yourself and climaxing during sex too, then you’ve got a serious problem.
Thankfully…
Having a back-arching, screaming ‘O’ every time you’re with your man requires…
3 simple steps that I’m going to cover briefly now…
And more in-depth in later emails.
Here are the 3 steps:
1) The Problem With Stress & Anxiety
Before even thinking about more pleasure, take a step back and work to reduce stress and anxiety from your life.
“Huh? What has reducing stress & anxiety got to do with better sex?”
Many women don’t realize that stress and anxiety is the biggest roadblock to cumming more easily…
Yet researchers at the Kinsey Institute in Indiana University have found exactly that…
Stress/anxiety is the biggest reason you’re not climaxing more often.
So…
Work on removing stress and relaxing before getting physical.
Yes, this sounds a little boring…
But it’s vital if you want to cum easily and often during sex.
Next…
2) Deeply Understand What Turns You On And Gets You Aroused
This is going to push you closer to climaxing, with less effort.
I know what you’re thinking…
“Duh, this couldn’t be more obvious!”
The tricky part is letting your man know these turn ons…
AND
Having him truly understand these turn ons and following your instructions correctly…
He may also need some guidance and clarification to make sure he’s doing it just right.
3) Me Before We
You need to reliably cum on your own before doing it with your man.
It’s infinitely easier to reach the big ‘O’ alone than it is with your man.
So…
Focus on yourself first, and…
In the process,
You’ll discover exactly what techniques and type of stimulation you enjoy most, without the added pressure of your man being there.
To cum alone…
Focus on what feels most pleasurable,
And
AVOID seeing climax as the goal.
This may sound counter-intuitive,
But…
By focusing solely on what feels most pleasurable, your body will naturally learn what brings it to to the big ‘O’.
Dangerous Mistake 4: You’re Killing The Sexual Tension
You know why the sex is so good at the start of all new relationships?
Sexual Tension.
- You don’t fully know this guy yet.
- You don’t always know when you’re going to have sex.
- You start wondering what his friends and family are like.
- You’re not entirely sure where the relationship is headed.
There is an air of mystery, uncertainty & excitement.
This all creates a massive amount of sexual tension…
And, it makes your relationship electric.
But…
As times passes, you:
- Learn everything about him.
- Fall into a routine.
- Know exactly what the sex is going to be like.
There is no longer any mystery or excitement.
And…
He feels it too.
The sexual tension has vanished.
The solution?
You need to rebuild the sexual tension…
Here are some quick tips on how to do it (the right way)
1) Send Him A Filthy Text Message Before You See Him
You can do this in the morning while he’s at work, telling him about what you plan on doing to him that evening. Make your message a little mysterious to keep his mind buzzing and wondering what you have in store for later.
“Can’t wait to taste you later” or “It’s hard to concentrate at work, all I can think of is taking you in my mouth” are two great examples.
2) As You Are Saying Goodbye
The next time you say goodbye to your man, whisper something suggestive in his ear to keep his mind on you after you’re gone:
Something like: “I wish I didn’t have to leave, I’m soaking wet” or “It’s a pity I’ve got to go to work, I want to jump back into bed with you.”
3) When You Can’t Have Sex
The next time you are stuck someplace together where you can’t have sex, tell him how much you want him.
Try telling him: “I wish we weren’t at my parent’s house right now. All I can think about is ripping your clothes off” or “We shouldn’t have come to this party, I’m far too horny.”
Keep in mind that you need to tailor this advice to your own relationship and situation so it sounds natural.
The main takeaway here is to ask yourself…
What am I doing to build sexual tension in my relationship?
Dangerous Mistake 5: No Blow Jobs or Bad Blow Jobs!
The only thing worse than never giving your man a blow job is giving him a terrible blow job.
If you want to completely sexually satisfy your man in the bedroom, then you need to learn how to give a great blow job.
Here are 3 tips to get you started…
1) Start With Your Hands
Yes, you give a guy a blow job with your mouth…
But…
You need to build anticipation first.
Building anticipation is one of the keys to a great blow job…
It’s a bit like building sexual tension…
All you need to do is to slip your hands inside his pants and gently start stroking his penis.
Don’t hold it too firmly.
And, start very gently.
2) Don’t Forget About His Balls!
A man’s penis is very sensitive…
And…
So are is testicles/balls.
While you are giving him a blow job, start to massage them.
Just make sure that you do it very slowly and softly.
3) Start With A Kiss & A Lick!
Just before taking him in your mouth, keep building anticipation by slowly and sensually kissing and then licking his penis.
If you do this correctly, he will literally be twitching in anticipation.
Now that you know the dangerous mistakes that can ruin your sex life…
You may want to hear a somewhat upsetting and shocking story about my friend, Beth, who made all these dangerous mistakes and almost lost her man…
You see…
She recently discovered that her husband was cheating on her.
And in a recording I want you to listen to in just a minute, she explains the harrowing details of how she found out about his infidelity
And…
What she did about it.
What amazes me most is how she overcame it all to completely transform her marriage from the brink of divorce to deep, passionate intensity.
She explains every gruesome detail, including:
– How she decided to face and overcome intense pain and hurt.
– How she sexually hypnotized her husband to make him completely obsessed and addicted to her.
– How she learned secret oral sex techniques that turned her into a “sexual goddess” in her man’s eyes.
If you’re currently in a relationship that that lacks intensity and passion
Or…
You just long for your man to look at you with a burning desire in his eyes…
Then…
You may want to use some of the oral sex techniques she explains at the end of her story.
You can listen to her story and see these BJ techniques demonstrated in this tutorial video.
While these techniques will certainly give your man more intense pleasure than he ever thought possible as his back arches and he convulses in body-shaking satisfaction, they have an even more powerful side effect.
They will change how your man feels about you.
So don’t be surprised if he starts bragging to his friends about you…
And…
Understand that other women may become jealous of your relationship and how your man starts treating you once you start using these BJ techniques on him.
You’re also going to see…
How these intense sensations and feelings you give him will compel him to cancel on his buddies just so he can spend more time with you.
Of course…
Some women just enjoy the feeling of power and control they have over their man as…
They effortlessly bring him wave after wave of pleasure all while making him completely and utterly sexually obsessed with you and only you.
If any of this sounds like something you’d be interested in, then you may want to listen to Beth’s story and use the techniques you see in the instructional video.
That’s it for now, I’ll be in touch very soon with more great tips on how to make your man sexually obsessed with you,