Hi,
It’s Sean J. You’re probably wondering who I am and what The Bad Girl’s Bible is all about. Let me tell you…
The truth is that I’m a pretty normal guy, I like hanging out with friends, having a beer and going to the movies. But, I am also a teacher. I teach girls throughout the world how to sexually satisfy their man, every time.
How I Learned This Stuff
Many years ago I was in a serious relationship with a wonderful girl. Everything was going great. She was fun, she was awesome to hang out with and she was really beautiful. Unfortunately though, there was one problem. She was just awful in the bedroom. She just didn’t have a clue about what I liked and what I didn’t like. Or what she liked!
Eventually, one night, we started talking about it. That’s when she said something that hit me like a ton of bricks…
It’s not like they teach this stuff in school Sean!
It’s not like they teach this stuff in school Sean!
It was incredible! She was absolutely right. Obviously they don’t teach sex skills in school. But when you think about it, they don’t teach this stuff anywhere.
So I decided that I was going to do everything in my power to make her better at sex. Like a headless chicken, I purchased every DVD, book, recording and seminar I could get my hands on to help her out. What I started to discover was that most of these products were useless. Each of them contained only 1 or 2 good ideas at most. The rest was bullshit (please excuse my language, but it’s the truth)! I decided to keep the ideas that worked best and I collected them all and wrote them down in my small Moleskin notebook.
When I started teaching my girlfriend what I knew actually worked, she got far, far better at pleasing me. Also I noticed that it happened quite quickly too when I taught her using the right information. She even said it was quite easy to learn!
Sadly though, our relationship eventually ended and we stopped seeing each other
After a while, I started seeing another really interesting girl. Coincidentally, she was just like my previous girlfriend, she was also quite nervous, shy and very inexperienced in bed.
Thankfully I Now Had My Notebook Of Sex Tips!
She wanted to get better and I was happy to teach her! In just slightly less than a week, I was able to take her from being a novice in the bedroom to being an expert. I was really pleased that I could help her to get better in bed and do it quickly too.
That’s when I decided that other girls should have access to the same sex information she had. I really believe that you shouldn’t ever have to feel shy or nervous when getting sexual with your man, but I also feel that you should get the right information for satisfying your man between the sheets.
So a while back I decided to start a newsletter of sex tips. When I started, just a few people received it. But then word got out about it and people started sharing it with their friends. Eventually I started sending my newsletter of sex tips to over a hundred girls, then over a thousand and today it keeps growing.
As a result I started getting tons of emails from girls all over the world asking questions and looking for advice (I try to answer them all personally, but currently I have a massive backlog. Apologies if I have not answered your email yet!). Eventually I decided to write a book (click here to check it out). It summarizes all my knowledge of blowjobs, as I was getting so many questions on the topic of oral sex. I have also written tons of articles on every aspect of having better sex that you can find right here on The Bad Girl’s Bible site.
So if you are interested in improving your sex life, here is what I suggest you do:
1) DON’T just blindly buy my book or any of my products!
2) Instead check out some of my free tips first. What I advise is that you sign up to my free newsletter (click here to find out more about it) to get my most powerful strategies for giving your man a great blowjob, talking dirty and having wild, passionate sex. You can cancel at any time.
3) After signing up for my newsletter, check out some more of the articles on The Bad Girl’s Bible website. You’ll find wonderful information on every aspect of lovemaking and sex right here.
4) If you’ve enjoyed my free information on different sex techniques and positions, but want to take things to the next level, then you should consider one of my many wonderful products which will help you to enhance and improve your love life.
To Better Lovemaking,
P.S. You Might Be Interested In Watching The Dirty Talking Video
If you are interested in learning more about how to talk dirty to your man, then you should check out this free presentation I just recorded. It will teach you everything you need to know about talking dirty to your man. Click Here To Watch It Now.



Hi I just wanted to say thank you so much for this wonderful website!!! it has really changed my life! well my sex life at least
keep up the great work!!
Hi Hayley,
Glad you like it so much! Make sure to check out the blog for all my latest sex tips, techniques and news.
Sean
Thank you for the blowjob tips on your site. I have tried each of them with great success. I totally love giving blowjobs.
Thank you so much for this! My other half has often just laughed at the tips in mags like Cosmo and said that guys don’t really enjoy half of the things they suggest, but I know that he also feels a bit awkward about telling me what he really wants. It’s so great to get this info from a man and now I can treat him to the fun he deserves
I’ve been having great sex with my husband of five years since we started… but these tips have been great for changing things a bit! The dirty talk tips and the sex positions are so nicely described, and I love love love the blow job tips! My husband and I both love blowjobs, so thank you!
I just decided to make a mission out of trying all the positions on the website, coaxed my friend into joining me and another friend into lending me her pilates-ball when that’s the only position left!
This is going to be fun.
(And thanks for the great list!)
Hey Sean I really love reading your book and my boyfriend loves it too! I bought the complete set. Thank you for helping me please my bf!!
Hi Sean,
I’ve been with my man for 4yrs now. At first it was very exciting and fun. Then we started to lose “the spark “. He would just call me once a day or no calls at all. Not to mention we had a son. I tried everything even lying about my health condition but nothing changes. Until accidentally I found your website. I’ve tried and keep trying your advice. You already know what exactly happened right ? You’re my angel Sean . We are now just like newlywed everytime. Written can have sex all night long. And I’m keeping him always interested !! God, thank you
Hi Sean,
i have bean following your tips for a log time and i my boyfriend asked me how come u have got so good in bed so i told him about this website…
thank you
My girlfriend is amazing in bed I asked her how she does it and she led me to here so thanks and keep up the good work Sean
Impressive articles you got here Sean!
I signed up for your newsletter, and I just read ’5 mistakes that will kill your sex life’. Spot on!!
Thanks man! I aim to please
This site was recomended by my best friend actually; she usually comes to me for advice, and wanted to return the favor. I gladly searched your site; according to my boyfriend, I was already good at getting him off, but if there’s information out there that can teach me to please him even better, I’ll jump at the chance. I’m glad I did, I learned things from the website that hadn’t even crossed my mind.
~Thank you for the awesome advice ^__^
No problem Megan, glad you like it!
Ok so I an 21 my boyfriend is 35 we are in love however when we have sex if he cums 1 time and I haven’t yet but we both still want to keep going it takes forever for him to get hard again then I lose the feeling to have sex and we were wondering what can we do in order to help him to keep going? Btw we love this site very much it helps to spice our love life up…..
Hi guys,
There are a number of things that you can do. The easiest would be to take something like Viagra or Cialis. The other would be for him to masturbate (or for you to give him a handjob) about an hour or 2 beforehand. This will help him to last longer when having sex.
Hi, do you have any advice on how to handle a man’s performance anxiety? My boyfriend of six months and I have actually not been able to have penetrative sex yet, because as soon as he tries to come inside me, he loses his erection. This is clearly a psychological problem, not physiological – he functions perfectly well when I give him blowjobs and handjobs (which I btw love, and often do!).
He says he worries about being able to satisfy me and doesn’t want to disappoint me, and as soon as he starts thinking about this, he goes soft. He’s also told me that he wanted this realtionship to happen so badly that now that he got me, it almost scares him. We have just started seeing a sexual therapist and I hope this will help the situation, but in the meantime, do you have any tips on how to make him comfortable and help him not to worry about his performance?
Obviously, I have told him many times that sex doesn’t have to always be amazing (I’m starting to get so sexually frustrated that I’d be happy to just have him inside me for a few seconds), and that I love him and would never leave him over this issue. Also, oral sex is not the answer – as much as I love giving it, it doesn’t do much anything for me when I’m at the receiving end. It’s just not my thing at all. I really, really need penetrative sex, and the feeling of a big strong man’s weight on top of me (I’m mostly sexually submissive).
Hi Em,
Thanks for your question. Firstly you need to realise that your man may be feeling embarrassed, inadequate and possibly insecure about the whole issue, so the last thing you will want to do is put pressure on him (which can obviously be frustrating if you want penetrative sex with him).
If your man is having performance issues, then the easiest way to solve this problem is simply by using something like that little blue pill, Viagra or Cialis.
Other than that, it’s difficult to give you concrete advice without knowing your exact situation.
Sean
Sean thank you for been part of my sexual life. Because of you I feel like a porno star
Hi Lina,
Glad I could help!
Sean
finally a bit of equality. I mean a guy who wants to improve his techniques can find useful info but for the reverse there’s not much out there or rather there’s not much out there written by men for women to read. I guess it gives the false impression that we’re rather simple by comparison.
It’s spot on that they don’t teach this kind of stuff in school in sex ed. class but they really should. It’s not much use for them to focus on anatomy when kids these days have such easy access to porn. If they’re going to teach kids about sex they might as well go all the way and teach them how to have good sex and then that way learning about reproduction, birth control and safe sex has more meaning. Anyway that’s what I think and I’ll be sure to recommend this site wherever possible, keep up the good work.
Respected sir,
I have a serious issue with my penis and i feel this happens with me only as compared to other males. I have a non circumcision penis and hence my foreskin is still above my penis. the problem is whenever i do my foreskin downwards and touch the tip of my penis it gives me a burning sensation. The sensation which is not tolerable even If by mistake also i touch the tip i feel disgusted. not only this when i had sex with my girlfriend i could not let her suck my penis as it gave me burning feeling when her mouth touched my penis tip. It’s been a problem since very long and also i have seen in many porn videos that guys can easily have sex and give blowjob to girls without any problem but why do i have this problem then? kindly help me with this problem. Also i am not able to do sex sometimes as it always pains at the tip of my penis.
Thank you!!
Hi Anil,
Sounds like you could potentially have an infection. The best thing you can do is talk to a doctor about it.
Sean
Dear Sean,
I enjoy reading your tips on improving sex and bedroom skills. I am a middle aged mother recently divorced and starting over with a new man. I sexually have only been with my ex and my current man and feel very deficient in the bedroom and your site has helped bunches. However, my man is not responsive to most of your suggestions. He spent a few years single and says he just got used to not having sex! What? Well anyway, he has NO erogenous zone to be found and the only thing that seem to get him aroused is good long blow jobs, which I seem to satisfy him well. I am the one who gets rejected in the bedroom! Help!
Longing for more
Kat
Hi Kat,
Thanks for your comment. You’ll find that talking to your man about it is the key. All guys are different, and so each has their own preferences. It could turn out that he has certain kinks and fetishes that he is embarrassed about. Or maybe what turns him on most is just being with you and he really doesn’t have that strong a sex drive.
Sean