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91 Dirty Things To Say To Turn Him On & Have Crazy Wild Sex

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I can't publish my most intense and wild sex tips online, so I send them in my private and discreet email newsletter. You can find out more here.

Below you are going to find 91 different dirty things to say to your guy that will make sex a powerfully satisfying experience for both of you.

If you want to jump straight to these dirty talking ideas and lines, click here. This article is actually Chapter 3 of the Dirty Talking Guide. In Chapter 1, we discussed why talking dirty to your man is so powerful…It builds sexual tension which is vital if your relationship has become a bit stale. It also makes sex a lot more intense. Finally, it keeps you man thinking about you when you’re not around.

Side Note: I put together this in-depth assesment that will uncover just how good you are at sexting and talking dirty to your man. It may uncover some uncomfortable truths, or you may discover that you are already a queen at sexting & dirty talk. Click here to take my quick (and shockingly accurate) β€œSexting & Dirty Talking Skills” Quiz right now and find out how good your sexting & dirty talking skills really are...

We also discussed some of the ground rules to make sure you get the most out of talking dirty to your man, so that you don’t accidentally freak him out when you do it and that you talk dirty with confidence. If you want to brush up on these rules and guidelines, then click here to go back to Chapter 1.

In Chapter 2, we discussed how it’s NOT the actual dirty talking phrases you use that are most important, but HOW YOU SAY THEM. Once you master the proper voice tone, inflections and body language, you will feel like you are a superhero with the ability to turn your man on and make him act like a horny teenager without much effort at all.

This chapter, Chapter 3 is going to focus on the different dirty things you can say to your man depending on the situation. As I explained previously, the type of dirty talk you use when you are in the bedroom having a night of naughty, filthy sex is going to be entirely different to the type of dirty talk you use when you are in public together and need to be discreet.

Now, let’s learn some dirty sexy things to say to your man…

Dirty Things To Say In Bed – Filthy

The first place everyone thinks of when it comes to talking dirty to your boyfriend is the bedroom. If you want hotter, more passionate and intense sex, then try saying some of these dirty talking examples to him.

If you want to give your man back-arching, toe-curling, screaming orgasms that will keep him sexually addicted to you, then you'll find them in my private and discreet newsletter. You'll also learn the 5 dangerous & "dumb" sex mistakes that turn him off and how to avoid them. Get it here.

One quick word of warning: If you suddenly start talking super dirty after two years of not doing it once, your man may get a little freaked out. It’s much better to start off with slightly tamer phrases and build up to the filthy stuff over time.

Now here’s some nasty, dirty things to say to him:

  1. I need your cock!
  2. Fuck me hard.
  3. Deeper, Deeper, DEEPER! – Say it like your are commanding him.
  4. Just like that.
  5. Don’t stop.
  6. I love being your fuck slut. – Use these 9 kinky sex ideas.
  7. I think I’m in love with your dick.
  8. Holy shit, I’m cumming.
  9. I want to taste myself on your cock.
  10. Make me cum baby.
  11. I’m dripping wet.
  12. I’m about to explode.
  13. Oh-my-fucking-god!
  14. I’ve never been fucked like this before.
  15. You’re going to make me pass out with pleasure.
  16. I just wanna be your sex slut.
  17. Grab my hair and fuck me like a dog. – More rough sex ideas here.
  18. I want to feel your cum all over my face.
  19. I want to feel you shoot your load in my mouth. – These tips on swallowing his cum will help.
  20. I’m going to jerk you off until I get every last drop out of you.
  21. Let’s spend the entire weekend together completely naked!
  22. Fuck me, fuck me!
  23. Pound me harder!

Dirty Things To Say In Bed – Sensual

Talking dirty is not all about saying filthy sexy things to your man. Being more sensual and sexy also works well. In fact, it’s the perfect way to spice things up during sex if you have usually been very filthy and intense.

  1. I love you.
  2. You make me feel amazing baby.
  3. I feel tiny in your arms.
  4. That feels so good.
  5. I can’t believe I met you.
  6. Please, please, Please, PLEEAAAASSSSEEEEE… – Say it like you are almost begging him.
  7. Tonight is all about you.
  8. You like that baby? – Here are over 50 more dirty questions to ask him.
  9. Mmmmmm, you taste so good.
  10. Yes!
  11. I want you so bad.
  12. I love your body – Say this as you are running your hands over his body.

Sexy Things To Say At A Party/Event/Public Place

When you’re out in public, you won’t be having sex, but it’s still a very good time to talk dirty to your man as you can build massive amounts of sexual tension with him…perfect for when you get home! You will most likely need to whisper these dirty ideas and lines in your man’s ears. But if you like you can also type them on your phone and then show them to him.

  1. I wish we were at home, so I could do some terrible things to you.
  2. Why am I always so horny when there are other people around.
  3. I just want to rip your clothes off right now.
  4. If we weren’t at your friend’s house, I’d be on my knees with you in my mouth. – These blow job tips from Chapter 2 of the Blow Job Guide should help!
  5. I can’t believe we decided to go shopping when we could be at home fucking.
  6. I think going to the gym together was a bad idea, all I want to do is fuck you when I see you sweating like that.
  7. If you don’t stop looking at me like that, we’re going to to have to go somewhere private.
  8. You know I’m not wearing panties? Read: 206 fun, flirty & revealing questions to ask your partner.
  9. I just want you to know I’m dripping wet.
  10. I need you to walk in front of me so I can see your ass.
  11. Don’t look at me like that when we’re here; it’s making me so fucking horny.
  12. You look really sexy when you wear that shirt/jeans/top.
  13. It’s so hot when you grab me in public.
  14. I can’t wait to get you home.
  15. I wore this skirt just for you.

Dirty Freaky Things To Tell Him In Private

If you’re both sitting on your sofa or just getting ready for bed or even walking through the woods alone, and you want to make your husband horny, then you should try some of these dirty talking lines on him.

  1. I’m so glad we’re alone because I’ve been having filthy thoughts all day.
  2. Do you know how wet I am right now?
  3. Would it be rude of me to start sucking your dick right now?
  4. I’m just going to rub your leg, let’s see how long it takes you to get hard. Then I’m going to do some freaky things to you.
  5. I’m thinking of a number between one and ten. If you can guess it, I’ll give you a blow job. – Discover how to give your man the ultimate blow job here.
  6. Do you want to lie down for a bit?
  7. Can you help me with something in the bedroom. – Try sending this as a message when he’s downstairs and you’re already in bed.
  8. Now that we’re alone, I need to feel you inside me.

Dirty Messages To Send Him

Sending your man dirty sexy messages when you’re not together is a great way to keep him thinking about you and to build sexual tension with him. You can send these any way you like (Facebook, text, email, Snapchat, etc.). Check out the chapter dedicated to sending your man sexy dirty text messages here if you want an in-depth guide on this. These dirty messages will get you started.

  1. I need you so bad right now.
  2. Why aren’t you here right now, I’m so fucking horny.
  3. I can’t concentrate at work. All I can think about is sucking your dick.
  4. My panties are soaked, get home quick.
  5. Last night was incredible. I can’t stop thinking about it.
  6. What do you want me to wear in bed tonight?
  7. I keep fantasizing about what I’m going to do to you later.
  8. I was thinking about you today.
  9. I’m going to give you the wettest blowjob tonight.
  10. Do you want to try anal with me? Our in-depth Anal Sex Guide will teach you how to have deeply satisfying and orgasmic anal sex, even if it’s your first time.

Dirty Things To Say Over The Phone

If you’re currently in a long distance relationship, it doesn’t mean that you can’t have a lot of fun with your man. Phone sex can make for an excellent replacement, and these dirty talking examples work great. Chapter 6 of the Dirty Talking Guide is all about phone sex, and it will teach you exactly how to be the queen of driving your man wild over the phone. Check it out here. In the meantime, here are some lines that work great over the phone.

  1. I love masturbating while talking to you, but what I really need is you, here, fucking me. – Use these 10 intense masturbation techniques for full-body orgasms.
  2. I’m blushing just saying this, but I miss your dick so much.
  3. I wish I could just clone your dick, so I have something to remind me of you.
  4. Why can’t we just quit our jobs, live together and fuck all day, every day.
  5. I dreamt about you last night, and it was fantastic, but I woke up, and you weren’t here.
  6. I keep thinking about just quitting school/my job and coming to see you tonight.

Dominant Dirty Talk

Talking dirty to your man also works fantastically when you are dominating him, it can lend itself to creating an intense atmosphere if you do it right. You can add in some dirty talk while physically dominating him, but it’s even better for mentally dominating your man and reinforcing his submissive role. Learn more on how to dominate your man here.

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  1. Lie down and shut up.
  2. Tonight is all about me.
  3. Take your clothes off and get into bed.
  4. On your knees, bitch.
  5. Tonight, I’m going to be inside YOU.
  6. I want to hear you say my name, say it bitch.
  7. Beg me.
  8. You’re going to get spanked until you cry (reasons why people cry after orgasm and sex).

Here are 162 dominant things to say to your sub. Also, if you’re new to BDSM, then this guide will get you up to speed fast.

Submissive Dirty Talk

The flipside is talking dirty when you are in a submissive role. Depending on your role, there are multiple different themes your dirty talk can take as you may be engaging in CNC kink play or playing his sex slave or his secretary. If you want to learn more on how to be submissive to your man, then you should read this. Here are some examples:

  1. Your wish is my command.
  2. I just want to make you happy.
  3. I’ve been very bold and need to be punished.
  4. Pleasing you is my only purpose in life.
  5. Please fuck me, daddy.
  6. Can I give you a blow job, master?
  7. Please.
  8. Thank you for fucking me.
  9. If I offered to cook for you in lingerie and heels what would you say? Or would you rather I wear something else? 107 filthy would you rather questions.

As you can see, there are so many different situations where you can use dirty talk to amp up the sexual tension and turn your man on. In fact, using dirty talk is one of my favorite sexting tips.

The key is figuring out the kinds of dirty things to say to your man at the right time. Obviously, loudly telling him β€œI want to fuck your brains out” at a dinner party is going to be weird. However, at the same dinner party, it’s going to much more effective to lean across the table and softly whisper in his ear, β€œI just want you to know I’m not wearing panties.”

These are just a small sample of dirty things that you can say to your guy to turn him and make sex a lot hotter for the both of you. If you are interested in learning more, then I strongly suggest you use the techniques I teach in this dirty talking instructional video.

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About Sean Jameson

Sean is the editor of Bad Girls Bible and responsible for recruiting our team of sex and relationship experts. When he's not fastidiously checking for proper syntax or fixing bugs on the site, he's working with illustrators to make the Bad Girls Bible more beautiful and ensuring that our weekly email newsletter goes out on time.

Comments

  1. MIRIAM says

    These tips have really been helpful.Ever since I subscribed,my partner has always been looking foward to spending the time with me…ALONE
    THANKS SEAN

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  2. sammy says

    These dirty tips are out of this world sean you need medals! Ive just met sum1 who am getting close to and i cant wait to use some of these a BIG THANKS SEAN!

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  3. manda says

    When I was reading everything and following mm all your advice religiously.. I definitely noticed a difference in the way my fiance was towards me. Luv your tips

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        • Kalemy says

          man
          noun, plural men.
          1. an adult male person, as distinguished from a boy or a woman.
          2. a member of the species Homo sapiens or all the members of this species collectively, without regard to sex: prehistoric man.
          3. the human individual as representing the species, without reference to sex; the human race; humankind: Man hopes for peace, but prepares for war.

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  4. Devon says

    Sean,

    I just have to say thank you and please keep it coming!!! Last year I got out of a long term relationship with a man that did not enjoy dirty talk or anything too wild in the sex department. I know weird and very boring. Our ultimate doom. A few months ago I met a new man and he is very much into the dirty talk and kinkier things with sex. I love it, but I felt like I was completely overwhelmed and very out of practice with these things that I enjoyed. Your tips have given me the renewed confidence to try new things and make sure that things don’t get boring in my new relationship. The best part is that I have the confidence to be me. My new boyfriend says that I’m a “goddess” and a “bad girl” that he can’t get enough of. I just smile and say “Thank you Sean” in my head when he calls me those things, especially a bad girl! That one gives me a wicked smile!

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  7. belinda says

    Thank you so much Sean ….have been married for a year now n I will say my husband n I sex relationship was so boring until I joined the BGB ever since almost six months now my husband always close from work early n he doesn’t spend time with his frds anymore our marriage is so full of happiness n on now de best in everything u know what I’m trying to say right …n he lovely every bit of it.thank u n pls I wanna know do u have any sex tips for pregnant women …Cos I’m three month pregnant n I’m scared to have any sex for now….

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  8. Siza says

    Hi Sean,

    Thank you for being a wonderful Master, I am a better student now. When I met my partner, he was a very shy man who was quiet during lovemaking but now he is a very changed man, gone is that “reverend” in the bedroom, he screams his lungs out now. Lol
    He told me that blowjob has never been his “thing”, but now he is always looking forward to getting one.
    I somehow have suspicions that he is also one of your students, he is always ON FIRE these days.

    Thanks once more.
    Love,
    Siza.

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  9. Mary says

    I’ll tell my husband while I’m giving him a blow job my mouth is so dirty you have to wash out my mouth with your sex juices

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  10. Angie says

    Dear Sean,
    First of all, I’d like to thank you for your help and advice on how to improve your sex life. I’m 36 year old and I have to say that when it comes to sex, I never got the opportunity to explore my sexuality very much.
    . For the past 3 years I’ve been seeing my boyfriend and he is very much into blowjobs. This is something I could not do very well. So it was very frustrating to learn how to do it properly without causing him any pain. 3 years later, I got really good at it, one thing I did learn about myself is that I love pleasuring my boyfriend. Now I can give him up to 5 to 6 bjs a day. Problem is relationship wise it’s not going good. We’re always arguing we still can define what our relationship is. I felt like this whole time I was just a girl who gives him blowjobs than his girlfriend. Is it bad to say now I hate giving blowjobs because I was with someone who treats me bad?

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  11. Nicole says

    Sean
    Thank you!! I was married for several years and was always kinda a prude when it came to sex. I am now separated from my husband and signing up for the BGB has taught me a few things about myself that I never knew. I enjoy reading the tips and learning new things. Can’t wait to find a new man to be happy with and try some them out on. Thanks again for everything. Please keep the tips coming.

    Nicole

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  13. M.S. says

    Thanks for the dirty talk tips!! My husband’s work keeps him away for weeks at a time. I started using these tips. At first he just sent emojis back. So I let a week pass & sent a couple more. He started messaging back & joining in! Now he says he can’t stop thinking about me!! The interaction with the messages has built up so much tension and anticipation for both of us!! We communicate our feelings more now than we did before he left!!

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    • Aiyana says

      I’m so happy my boyfriend is do happy πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’– and lovely ❣️ right now I really love what you wrote up here

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  14. Ellie says

    Thanks for the advice! My boyfriend mentioned how he “envisions” me talking dirty to him during sex so I thought I’d like to try it. I’m definitely going to start off with some of the less explicit ones but I’m excited to see what he’ll like and how he’ll react! Any more advice for me?

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  15. Dreamgirl9 says

    Ur tips are so on point n not a bunch of fluff like other websites. I tell my girls all the time about signing up for ur fabulous newsletters. So many great tips n tricks. Thank u so much!!

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  16. denise says

    Great site! I came here because I was looking for ideas on writing “naughty” text messages to the guy I’m crazy about.. You help empower women and give us a voice when exploring our sexuality in a thoughtful but reflective way. And that’s awesome!

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  18. Emma says

    Made it so much easier to talk to my boyfriend over the phone as well. And while him and I talk dirty over text, I just know what to say to him. Thank you!

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  19. Shanny says

    Hi sean this is shanny. Thanks for those tutorials which im trying on with my boyfriend. Its not been a long time since we started dating which is a long distance relationship. Can i use those sexts rather than the skype sex which i dont feel so comfortable with or both have to go together to keep it moving and thinking of only me.

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  20. Jenny says

    My boyfriend and I do most of the things listed from tame to extreme…but he is needing more extreme talk. I’m at a loss. How much more extreme can I talk? Any advice? I’m open and willing to anything. I just need to Have the door cracked a bit for me to peek in and learn more.

    Thanks!

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  22. Samantha says

    Thank you so much keep it coming please
    Me and my ex from years ago like from high school hooked up on And it’s like we never left one another and we love talking dirty to each other wickets out one another anything and everything. Kinky kinky ! Yes sir !

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  23. Kim says

    I had this problem. We just met in a dating app and everytime he comes up dirty convo I usually cut it off bacause i was so dumb. We haven’t met in person. We chtted for about 3 days and today he haven’t replied to any of my massages. I’m already into him, maybe.
    What im gonna supposed to do?

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  24. Mzzlyz says

    You’re such an amazing person, Sean. these tips are incredible. my man is going to get crazy from now. thanks

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  25. Louise says

    My boyfriend loves really dirty talk which I struggled with as I’ve not had much experience in the past. I’m starting to get into it & have to say I absolutely love dirty talk – quiet sex is so lame & boring lol. Your tips have certainly helped me but now I just need to learn to sound sexy with it. My bf also likes me to describe what I’m doing to him and how his cock looks/feels which I find so much harder than talking dirty to him. Any tips from other readers would be greatly appreciated xx

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  27. Diksh says

    Hello. I’m new to this. Trying this to my boyfriend since I don’t really know how to express my feelings. It’s going prettt well though. Thanks for the tips.
    Diksha xo

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  28. Susan says

    If you have been talking to a guy for months.always said I will talk to you later baby but now saids i will chat with you later baby.what does it mean.is he looking else where.

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  29. David says

    Thank you so much…what I am happy about is my love n I do many of the things you talk about… thank you fr sending these cool notes on what more to do. I love it!
    More new keep em cumming…
    Oh maybe more tantra type of stuff?!
    Fondly David

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  30. John says

    Great … 91 different ways to be a slut. I only want you to do one thing – go to hell and leave me alone. There’s nothing more disgusting than a dirty slut, and that’s all women are these days. No thank you.

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  33. Opal says

    I bought your Blowjob Bible and used some of the tips described. Now, my guy begs for them every time I see him. Thanks, Sean! ?

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  35. Averianna says

    oOoOo ya! This made me so wet reading this. Now I gotta charge my vibrator again. I’m 28, boyfriend is 48. He is so so good at going down on me and suck fucking my pu33y I need more. What do you recommend on the above options to say when he goes down on my purr kitty?

    Thanks big Sean ! Ps you know how many orgasms you probably created out of this thread ? Miracle man!

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  36. SHARON SCOTT says

    I have always been shy when it comes to dirty my husband wants me to talk more but it is like when we are on the phone i say stuff in my head but it dont seem like it wants to come out and i get stuck….

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  37. Caitlin says

    How do I dirty talk to my boyfriend but making it sexy and cute but saying something hardcore sexual??? Help please!!

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  38. Ann says

    Hey I’m new to dirty talk but always fantasised about been my husband’s sex slave wanting some ideas if anyone has any

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  40. Michele says

    These are fantastic but I really need an article to teach my husband how to talk to me. His skill level in that department is about a 1. Any suggestions?

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  41. Victor says

    Well, I think maybe this is out of context, but I was going to have my way with this woman I met recently and she said she needed to go freshen up in my bathroom, while I waited for her I got completely naked and started stroking my penis on my couch. When she walked out of the bathroom and came in the living room, she stayed there staring at me, and I smiled at her. What she said is probably the hottest thing, and best complement I will ever get. she said “I don’t know what’s better, your cock, or your smile”. Than she said ” you are a gorgeous man”, I could feel my skin blushing. I will always remember that.

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  42. Donna Shalala says

    Dear Master,

    If I could, I would devote myself to pleasing you. Oh, how you wish your vine was entangled between my legs right now. I will bear your fruit if you let me. What I would give to serve you: my independence, my freedom, and my xxxxxxx

    My pussy is forever yours,
    Donna Shalala

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  43. John B says

    Last fuck this morning at age 78. The two sexiest things My Lady says to turn me on are ‘take off my panties’ & ‘I want you in me’. Panty removal is highly symbolic, the latter speaks for itself.

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  45. John B says

    In my opinion the two sexiest remarks a woman can make to her man are :

    Take my panties off (powerfully symbolic)

    and

    I want you in me (denoting urgency of need).

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  46. Steph says

    Can’t believe at 34yrs old and an ex working girl, iv only just discovered ‘bad girl bible’. My weakness WAS dirty talk, not anymore! Iv now got my favourite dirty talk seductive whispers, god it works, thanku πŸ˜‰.
    Although all the women round hear now seem to have there fellas under lock n key, Love it! πŸ˜‚

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  48. Sammi says

    Thank you so much Sean you are a huge help Sean I love you Sean everytime I orgasm I think “f**k yes Sean, f**k yes”. My aunty and I are looking forward to your newer articles sean. Thank you again sean

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  49. Nicaea says

    The best dirty talk for me imp is euphemism .

    Hint at things dirty and swirl around the curve. Do not be explicit in your topics and always have the partner second guess and be ambiguous.

    The more they feel you are hiding it, the more excited they get and crave their animalistic instincts

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  50. π™»πš„π™²π™Έπ™΅π™΄πš πŸŒ™ says

    U guys should also make a dirty talking guide for men!!!!!

    With hot phrases and examples

    Reply

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