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Learning how to swallow cum at the end of a blow job is an interesting topic. For some women, the thought is terrifying, while others find the idea both erotic and fun.
By the way, if you are looking for tips and techniques on how to give mind-altering oral sex, my advice is to start at Chapter 1 of in-depth Blow Job Guide here. There are ten chapters in total.
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One of the main psychological reasons why your man may want you to put your lips on his penis and swallow his load after cumming is that it’s both an erotic and submissive gesture. And let’s be honest here, a lot of guys like to take the dominant role when having sex with you. Another reason may be that he has seen it in a porno and wanted to try it out himself.
Maybe you like the idea of swallowing his load too; many women do. In fact, a study found that 72.1% of women fantasized about giving their man fellatio and 41.3% of women fantasized about a man ejaculating on them. Based on this, you can probably see how swallowing his load is an entirely normal fantasy to have. And in case you are wondering if eating his cum is safe, you’ll be glad to know that as long as you and your man are healthy and disease free, then it is perfectly safe. In fact, it’s not only safe, it even has health benefits that I discuss here.
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Before we dive into the fundamental and advanced techniques for swallowing your man’s sperm, let’s start with something that is essential to ensuring YOU have a great time doing it.
1. What Does Cum Taste Like & How Can I Improve Its Taste?
Your man’s cum will usually taste a little bitter and salty, but it doesn’t have to taste awful. The taste of your man’s cum depends a lot on what he has just eaten. Many women have found that if their man has been eating something like asparagus, artichokes or anything greasy it will taste a lot nastier than usual.
However, if your boyfriend has been drinking a lot of fruit juice or eating a lot of sweet fruit a few hours before you go down on him, it will taste quite sweet and will make it much easier to swallow. Learn more on what cum tastes like here. You’ll also learn lots of tricks and tips to deal with the taste.
2. How To Swallow His Load – The Basics
Swallowing your man’s load is relatively easy. All you need to do is just allow him to ejaculate in your mouth. Then when he is finished orgasming, just swallow it. More tips of finishing off a blow job for maximum pleasure in Chapter 4 here.
Of course, this is much easier if you wash it down with a glass of water or something like fruit juice/soda to mask its taste.
As his sperm and semen are quite sticky in texture, you’ll find that allowing him to ejaculate into the back of your throat is best as it lets you more easily swallow it. It also means you don’t have to worry about it hitting your taste buds.
Warning – I only advise swallowing your man’s load if he is entirely free of STIs as his semen can transport infections like Hepatitis and HIV.
3. Advanced Techniques For Swallowing His Cum
Now that we’ve covered the easy, basic technique to swallowing his semen when giving him head, let’s move on to the more advanced techniques.
Play Around With It – After he ejaculates in your mouth, instead of immediately swallowing it, keep it in your mouth. You can then open your mouth to show him his load before swallowing it. Or you can swirl it around your mouth, so it looks like you are savoring the taste before gulping it down.
If you want to be even kinkier, you can open your mouth and use your fingers to play with it. As it’s so sticky, you can easily grab it with your fingers and then let it slowly drip back into your mouth. Another kinky way to play with it is by blowing bubbles with his cum.
I Love It! – If you aren’t too keen to play with his cum before swallowing it, but you do want to make eating his cum hotter than usual, then just make some satisfying sounds after swallowing it. Gently humming, “Mmmmmmmmmmm” or “Yummmmmm” after swallowing it is an excellent way to make it more erotic for both of you.
You can even go a little further by telling him how it tasted, “I love swallowing your cum” or “I adore feeling your cum trickle down my throat” or “Swallowing your cum makes me so wet.” You can learn more sexy and hot phrases to use on him in the Dirty Talking Guide here.
Lick It Up – Letting him finish in your mouth during fellatio is not the only way that you can swallow his cum. If he finishes somewhere on himself, you can still swallow it! It’s a simple case of licking it up after he cums, which can look crazy intense and hot for your man.
Facial Swallow – This last cum swallowing technique is going to be a bit out there for most. Allow your husband to finish by giving you a facial. Holding his dick while he does it will help you to direct where he cums on your face and prevent him from hitting you in the eye. After he blows his load over your face, use your fingers to scoop up all his cum from your face and then drop it into your mouth. Once you have all his cum in your mouth, swallow it and let out a satisfied sigh.
4. Help, I Don’t Want To Swallow His Cum!
You may be in a relationship with a guy who wants you to swallow his load while you may not want to do it at all. That’s perfectly fine. The important thing is to talk to him about it. Great relationships are based on mutual understanding and respect and great communication. I talk about the importance of great communication in Chapter 1 of the Blow Job Guide as well as in this article on sexual communication. You should never allow a guy to do something to you that you don’t want. Make sure that he knows this.
As with almost all safe sexual practices, my advice is to try it at least once with a guy that you know and trust, before deciding if swallowing his load is something you do or don’t enjoy. However, if you want to avoid risks during oral sex, then it’s advisable to keep semen out of your mouth completely, especially if you do not know your man’s recent sexual history and want to make sure you are as safe as possible.
Some women can also have an allergy to seminal fluid, in which case swallowing his cum should be avoided altogether.
If you plan on finishing off a blow job by swallowing your man’s cum, then make sure that you give him a great BJ. The rest of the Blow Job Guide including Chapters 2, 3 & 4 have great tips on how to give your man the most intense and satisfying blow job of his life.
5. The Health Benefits Of Swallowing His Cum
As I mentioned earlier in this guide, swallowing your man’s cum is perfectly safe if both you and your guy are healthy and disease free. In fact, it’s not only safe, but it also has a bunch of health benefits too.
You Should Swallow When Pregnant – Studies have found that swallowing his load after oral sex correlates with a diminished occurrence of preeclampsia, a nasty condition that pregnant women sometimes get that raises your blood pressure and can affect other organs like the kidneys. So yes, swallowing cum is a healthy thing to do even for pregnant women!
Oxytocin aka The Bonding Hormone – Semen contains oxytocin, a hormone that helps you to increase trust, reduces your fear and is also known as the bonding hormone (or cuddle hormone) which is great if you want to feel closer to your man.
Brain Booster – You man’s seminal fluid aka his cum contains a lot of nerve growth factor, a compound responsible for the growth of neurons in your brain and boosting your brain health.
Staying Healthy With Antioxidants – Semen also contains some beneficial antioxidants like superoxide dismutase, glutathione, catalase, vitamin C, vitamin E, pyruvate, and carnitine and citric acid, which all protect against damaging free radicals.
Live Longer – Your man’s load contains a compound known as spermidine which has been proven to have anti-aging properties.
Electrolytes – A guy’s semen contains numerous electrolytes including calcium, magnesium, potassium, sodium, zinc and chloride, which are vital for staying healthy, especially if you are an athlete and want to function at the highest level…Although rehydrating with a bottle of semen instead of your usual isotonic drink is going to be pretty awkward. By the way, these electrolytes are one of the reasons why your man’s cum tastes salty.
Sugar for Energy – Semen contains small amounts of both fructose, and glucose perfect if you want to enjoy an energy boost. However, the amount of glucose and fructose in the typical guys load is minuscule, less than 20mg per load, so you’re going to have to drink a lot to feel any sugar rush.
Protein for Bodybuilders – You will also find protein in your man’s semen, which is vital for building a repairing your muscles.
Hopefully from all this research, you can see just how safe and healthy swallowing your man’s load is.
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Always Learning says
I have always had a great, fulfilling sex life with my partner with wonderful communication. I am always looking for ways to improve, enhance, or spice up things. My question would be this. Would it be easier to swallow if he ejaculates further back or does the location of his release have no effect on making it easier for me to swallow at all? Thank you so much for your time and most of all for your wonderful information!
Hi, thanks for your question! To be honest, if he ejaculates further back, then he’s more likely to hit the back of your throat, triggering your gag reflex (not something you want when your man is having an orgasm!). It may taste worse when he ejaculates into the front areas of your mouth, but importantly you have more control over where it all goes.
hi! I’ve been swallowing since my first bf, 11 years ago, I use that saliva+cum technique 🙂 when he cums in my mouth (and just before when I feel he’s gonna cum) I produce more saliva and mix it to the cum so it doesn’t taste bitter and it’s easier to swallow (especially with thick cum).
Very efficient 🙂
Alice, wonderful that you have always accepted semen from your men ! You are an awesome woman !
i would enjoy meeting a woman that loves to swallow. my wife doesn t MISSING OUT.
I love swallowing cum!! I love to suck dick and feel it shoot off in my mouth. It has become my favorite flavor in life. Women that don’t allow their guys to cum in their mouths just don’t know what they are missing. I love to go through the day with the sticky dry feeling of his cum around my lips and face.
Good for you KT! It is comforting to know there are more that love it as much as I do. I think of fresh man-cum as a liquid vitamin! That’s the best part of giving head! LOL The world need more of us!
Hi Bill. If you crave a swallower, then too bad we aren’t neighbors. Because we would become very good friends very quickly! Swallowing a mans hot fresh load is the best part of giving blowjobs. You would be surprised at how many men actually prefer BJ’s from other men (once they have experienced it from another man that absolutely LOVES giving them). Most women give BJ’s as a favor to their man or because they feel obligated to. Men give them because they love it!…and they know what excites themselves the most. So it’s natural that a man would be better at giving head. Me…I love swallowing cum so much that you will find me craving ‘seconds’ before we’re done with the first one. I am not into romancing another man like kissing or fucking, but there is something about giving head that makes my mouth water. I hope you find someone to grant your wish! MMMMMMMMM!!!
I find it easier to swallow my boyfriend siemen while basically deepthroating. and i can swallow it quickly. And contine (not long as he cant take it haha ) ????????
My husband came while I was blowing him for the first time last night and because his cock was closer to the back of my throat it was easier for me to swallow. I mean honestly I didn’t even know I had done it until after the fact.
Mario Fellini says
As I gay man who has a lot of experience with swallowing come I can tell you that it is tricky. You have to know his cock before opening your mouth for him to deposit his load. Some men come in squirts, others let the come out like a slow flowing river.
First you should let him handle his own cock just a moment before he comes. Most men like that. Point his cock to the side of your mouth otherwise there may be some gagging involved.
I always let him handle his cock while coming and after he is done I slowly close my mouth around his dick and with my hand at the lower part of his shaft I squeeze as much come as I can out of it. I keep the cock in my mouth for as long as he will let me while I slowly swallow it. Men love it.
Bliksem! Wish some girls can take note of your tips!!
Actually- this was such helpful advice
Thanks so much!!!!
I LOVED YOUR ANSWER…
If this was facebook, I would click like!
I am a straight guy who loves it when his gay and straight friends swallow….
One day, I hope to try it… thanks to you…. I will be ready
Hi Mario I’m a gay man and it’s my first blowjob and he said he will let me swallow his cum I feel I really want to how long should I have his dick I’m my mouth after he cums and when should I swallow his cum
Sean Jameson says
It’s all up to you!
Thank you for your experience that really helps a lot. ❤
Hi Sean, i just have one curious question, after my guy cums into my mouth,how long should i massage his cock with my tongue? i’m afraid i’ll ‘over-do it’ and make him feel sore or something.
Sean Jameson says
The best answer I can give you is…ask him! He will have the best answer for you as all guys are different and have different preferences.
I love when a guy shoots a huge thick load all over my tongue, then I love to play with it for awhile , like blow cum bubbles or swirl it around my tongue then swallow every drop……. I do prefer a black mans cum over a white mans tho, Idk why I just think that black guys have a much thicker cum load and it tastes much much stronger wich I just love, If Im gonna swallow anothers mans load then I want it to taste like a REAL man !!!
John U. says
Y ou’re like me Lee! I LOVE playing with cum and eating it all up but I like black and white (LOVE Latinos too) guys!! Yummy!
can i ask as a guy cums, what is best todo, as shoots out fast, how deep in mouth, swallow in one etc x
Sean Jameson says
Honestly, it’s up to you and what you are most comfortable doing.
I really want to do this to my partner, but I have really bad gag reflexes, and to me, his cum tastes disgusting.
Right now, I can’t keep it my mouth for a second, without gagging.. 🙁
So my question: any tips on how to get used to the taste, and maybe eventually like it?
Sean Jameson says
There are a few things you can do. The first is making sure that your man avoids eating any fatty foods in the hours before sex and instead tries to drink a lot of pineapple juice (up to 2 liters). That’s my advice for him. If you want it to taste better, then you may find that having a drink or 2 before going down on him helps you to avoid being able to properly taste it.
Thanks for tips!
The only problem might be that I’m allergic to pineapples…
Snickers is supposed to work also.
Rhonda GoForth says
I have just recently started swallowing my man. I won’t get into it, but had to work through some demons before I could. It really does taste awful to me so I started using numbing spray and it works wonders! It only lasts about 5 minutes so you have to time it just right but with the spray, I can’t taste or feel a thing so no gagging or any other unpleasantness. It also makes your mouth water so it’s not thick when you swallow it. It has become quite enjoyable for me and I have been doing it every day for the past 7 months. YES, EVERY DAY!
What kind of numbing spray and where can I get it. I want to go deep and hold it there but gag reflexes stops that and I have to pull out. Thanks
Tell your man to drink juice a few hours before it makes his cum taste sweeter. When he cums take in the side of your mouth not straight down your throat. I have a very strong gag reflex but he will love it when you take him in your mouth he will be like putty in your hand. Lol
To drink or not to drink huh? I will try that next time. I don’t know why the idea just doesn’t appeal to me. Who wants to gag huh. Guess that’s it.
Breathe through your nose while you suck his dick. And you can also practice with a toy or cucumber. That way you can practice swirling your tongue, licking, deep throating it and seeing how comfortable you are and what you can handle. You can even send your partner videos of you doing it too. They’ll love it! It turns my man on when I send him videos of me deep throating my toy.
And for the taste maybe you can ask your partner about changing what they eat and explain to them why. But if you don’t want to As soon as they cum just swallow it right away and blow out. I do that when I take tequila shots and I can’t taste it lol
I have discovered that when he’s ready to cum, get his dick as far back as you can and you’ll feel it trickle down your throat and don’t taste nothing but a bit if the after effects when licking the rest of it off his dick. He jerks back a bit cause he gets sensitive which he never did before but then I never use to deep throat in the past. Now I love to cause I see how much it turns him on and or loves to watch me do it and I get into it better seeing how he enjoys it. What I need to learn is to get him all the way back in my throat and keep it there with out gagging or starting to throw up. If anyone has any tips on that let me know. Thanks
Have a shot of sweet liquor (such as blackberry brandy) nearby and gulp down the shot mixed up with the semen right after the guy ejaculates in your mouth. Double-plus good!
Is is healthy to swallow cum or not ?
Sean Jameson says
It’s completely healthy, provided it’s in small amounts from a healthy, disease free man.
How much is just a little? I am a straight happily married man and have just recently enjoyed tasting a mouth full of semen from my wife after an amazing blow job. Since then I have masturbated multiple times into a container and froze at this point up to 30 loads and then I slowly reheated up the entire batch and enjoyed ingesting every last drop off her body, from inside her body, and from AMAZING kisses shares between the two of us! We were totally fine sharing all that semen. I was never aware of this pleasure she and I now share together. So again how much is a little semen? I have not had any problems afterwards from that experience. I am planning on trying even more semen in the future. What is O.K.?
freeze my own cum and when I feel horney I take them out of the freezer and suck them until they melt in my mouth,they taste great
Hello there. I am a happily married straight man who enjoys reading and experimenting many of these suggestions. I believe this to be a wonderful site and honest responses.
My questions here is ingesting semen in small amount. What is a small amount? I experience an amazing blow job from my wife and she proceeded to kiss me with a mouthful of my own cum and I thought this was incredible! Since then I have masturbated multiple time and froze my loads in the freezer and slowly thawed the collection and warmed it up and we began cum play. I licked it up, licked it out of her, kissed her and I rubbed it all over her cleaning up every last drop and WOW! I got so turned on from these experiences and I am planning on continuing to do even more loads. I enjoy having her help me fill the containers. So am I drinking to much? I have never felt any adverse affects or feeling strange afterwards. Your statement has me a little concerned.
Again amazing site! Thank you and everyone being honest to us and yourselves!
You also don’t need to swallow at all. Most guys are thrilled that you just let them cum in your mouth. Keep the blowjob going and it will dribble out. Its hot and a tactful way of not swallowing…
Most guys pretend to be thrilled because they are conditioned to have low sexual expectations. Swallowing is a lovely demonstration of your partner’s pleasure and desire for you. A good blow job is nice (and sadly rare because we’re taught men are just happy to be in there!) finishing in the mouth is better, and having your cum swallowed is the best! I’m glad this site, at least, recognises male sexual experience is as drawn-out, complex and nuanced as it is for females. It’s true, nobody should do anything they don’t want to, but sexual pleasure is (or should be) mutual – don’t expect a giving partner if you aren’t one yourself. Imagine the condemnation for a man who objected to tasting a woman’s fluids down below!
I’m beginning to realize the truth of your last statement. I hope I’m not being selfish not wanting to swallow cum.. Mostly I think it is fear. Not easy to overcome I might add. Not easy at all. Any suggestions?
The funny thing is when a woman cums she doesn’t shoot her shit in her man’s mouth, most women don’t so when my man licks me down there he never tastes my fluids ever, he doesn’t have to deal with tasting a fluid he may not like or causes him to gag, men are conditioned to love blow jobs because of what they see in porn, so don’t tell women if they aren’t giving men won’t be giving. A man going down on a women is totally different than women going down on a man, and if men could taste their own semen y’all would gag to! It’s basically warm ass snot that tastes gross
Whatever I eat my wife’s pussy and I swallowed dudes cum
If a man doesn’t taste your sweet nectar then he needs some lessons in giving oral!!! Sure when it’s “that time” I limit where my tongue goes…. but other than that I LOVE to taste my partner, and women who have never had a man explore every millimeter of their pussy or had their labia massages softly in a mouth say it’s nearly orgasmic just to see how much effort is being given to her!!! Yes I LOVED to be swallowed, ESPECIALLY when done what I call “the right way” (for me that is…. I like to be swallowed as I am cumming…. I’m Told it shoots it down quick with minimal tasting it, and I get SUUUPER sensitive from orgasm but the slight movement of the tongue as she swallows is just enough to make me see stars many times!!!), but I think being swallowed should be reserved for lovers who show a woman just as much attention to her pleasure!!!! Teach your man to get his pleasure FROM yours and you will want to swallow him daily because of the effort he gives you!!! They say 30% of women cum from intercourse regularly…. but my personally experience is is about 83% do. (Yes I keep track lol). But almost EVERYONE thinks 100+ orgasms for a woman in a single session is bullshit, faked, or made up porn…. but it’s not, you just have to be willing to do the work and put in the time!!! Should you have to “reward” a man by swallowing, HELL NO!!! But if you are in love and he needs just a little motivation, swallowing for him and the whispering in his ear “that was for all the effort you put into pleasing me last night” can create a positive feedback loop that you both benefit from!!!
Oh, PS… if a woman is willing to swallow for you, don’t be an ass and avoid her face!!! Pull her to you and kiss her passionately!!! I have no sexual interest in men, tasting your own cum doesn’t make you gay (I only say that for those who are still stuck in that mindset)…. TRUST ME, if she is willing to swallow you, she will find it hot AF that you will kiss her afterwards!!! Almost every partner I have done that to or cum inside of and then went down on them to continue her back to back orgasms while she was hyper stimulated has seemed in awe and said they have NEVER experienced or even heard of friends who had before!!! I promise, even if your woman is only swallowing for your pleasure… she will enjoy it more knowing you respect her enough to kiss her afterwards!!!
I love slurping up female ejaculate. The more the better. I have also tasted my own cum out of curiosity. It doesn’t taste good. But it’s not that bad. But my wife says it’s mostly the consistency gags her.
RIC C says
I’ve had a couple girlfriends who were gushers, so I did indeed get a lot of fluid from them. I quickly learned to love it, and always swallowed as much as possible.
I like to suck on a breathmint, spearmint is my favorite, and drink lemon water before I give head. After he cums I can swirl it around in my mouth before I swallow and then drink more lemon water before I go back down to milk every last drop. I have only gagged and spit twice because his their load was just too much to handle,
Solly Sol says
My wife swallows cum very often. She loves the taste and finds much enjoyment in it. If for some reason she doesn’t want to swallow , and want only a mouth full, she tells me beforehand and I oblige by giving her the signal when I am ready to ejaculate. Holding her breath she blows out her cheeks, letting my semen fill the side of her mouth, and when I’m done, she disposes of it in the bathroom or in a face cloth or tissue she keeps on hand.
I stumbled upon this page but want to thank you all for your honest candor.
I am a woman who loves to give her man a great blow job, but have always had trouble swallowing. Even after trying sweet juices to reduce the bitterness. It’s more of a texture thing for me.
I’ve talked with my partners about this problem (to me it’s a problem). They tell me they think it’s just as hot to let them cum in my mouth and let it dribble down. Or to cum on my chest instead.
I do whatever I can to please him but feel bad that I can’t swallow for him.
Any other suggestions?
Sean Jameson says
Try having a glass or two or wine the next time you plan on giving him a blow job and see if this helps you to relax and makes it easier to swallow.
I’m in the same boat as you. I’m about ready to stop having sex because I feel so bad about it (I’m not married)
zeluxolo nkosi says
You’re all disgusting and will burn in hell only vaginal-penile sex is allowed nothing more nothing less
Sean Jameson says
You only go to hell for rejecting Jesus Christ
Don’t be such a prude. You’d enjoy getting your cock blown, any man would love seeing his cock getting swallowed by his woman….
My man likes to cum on my face and my boob’s but I don’t mind it at all because I know that I’m getting my mouth full of it too and I love to swallow my man’s cum it makes me feel like I did my job right and as a woman I love men and what they have in there pants is very appealing to me because it always makes it in my mouth.
Sarah, your attitude is beautiful. I love it — and now truly expect my girl greedily suck me dry. I guess I have been fortunate in that my GFs have always wanted to swallow, and she is sure to let me know that she likes my large loads. I get a kick out of that :).
But it surely helps that I love eating her until she cums, often twice. She tastes delicious. I also drink pineapple juice for her savoring
Do you think that women would be open to regularly seeking men in order to give them blow jobs? Maybe a craigslist type of forum?
Anyway, thanks for posting.
I’ve been never ever swallow cum but after reading podcasts from here I did try that and I love it yummmm…
Why are you even reading this then if you “don’t allow” blow jobs? why are you reading “techniques for swallowing his cum”? just another ignorant mother fucker. Do you even realize how stupid you sound ? Your just mad because your girl won’t do it for you … I feel sorry for you .
Someone sounds mighty tidilated and frustrated
Sarah Smith says
I’m an atheist witch that believes in reincarnation so I don’t really care
Hey, I’m going to try and swallow cum for the first time and I’m really excited for that… so is my partner.
I was wondering, what do men feel about playing with cum in the mouth, as a woman in a previous comment said she likes to ” blow cum bubbles or swirl it around my tongue then swallow every drop” do guys like this? do they find it hot?
Sean Jameson says
The answer is, it depends. It depends on his preferences and desires. He may love it or hate it. They only way you’ll find out though is by talking to him about it.
John U. says
I enjoy playing with cum, picking it out of my mouth and letting it slowly drop back in. Love to thoroughly enjoy the taste, especially if it’s sweet-tasting!
oh fuck ya thats hot and i know i would make sure and give u the dick like u deserved after u sucked me off like that;-)youre awesome
gregg m. says
great site have a new girl friend that’s still a virgin and she has to learn . this is the place for her !
Is it safe to have him deepthroat me and cum?
Sean Jameson says
Provided he doesn’t cause any internal damage and you swallow his cum instead of inhaling it, then it’s perfectly safe.
My fiance has begged me to swallow his cum for three years it tastes horrible and it gags me I really want to please him but don’t know how he drinks a lot of pop and eats a lot of candy maybe if he ate better it would taste better? Or maybe chewing gum while giving head would help me with the taste?
Sean Jameson says
Try having a drink or 2 beforehand or using a flavored lube or both to help change the taste in your mouth.
So I was giving my boyfriend a bj last night and he reached climax and ejaculated in my mouth (I think) I didn’t taste anything but he says he did for sure cum. But I’m so confused as to why I don’t know if I swallowed since I didn’t taste it.
Cum in her mouth… My wife won’t even allow it anywhere close to he mouth…After 66 years of marriage.
What a drag! I would never marry a woman that won’t swallow. It’s a deal breaker for me.
I’m selfish and serious, my partner now my wife rarely blows me. The ironic and sad thing is her mother propositioned me for sex….dead serious. I was once told by a friends wife, the secret to their happy marriage is her credo “never let him leave the house horny or hungry” so she blows and offers sex daily.
Donna 47,and still more than every I love loads of hot cum ,I swollow my sexy hairy hubby a least 4times a day,my favourite he shoots deep down my throat,mmmmm its so yummy pre cum still my favourite lately I blo him will he asleep he blows more
Sure wish I could find a woman like you Donna!
Me too !! You are a keeper that’s for sure Donna . I dated a girl named Donna and she loved swallowing my cum. In fact she would ask me if I had anymore right after I just came because it tasted so yummy she wanted more. I miss her she loved sex Donna Z. I’m sorry for letting you go but I didn’t want anymore children 4 is more than we could of handled. Having more would of broke us. Hope you’re doing well Lv J.
Your a good woman Donna! Sure hope he appreciates it!
Hi Donna, I am 100% straight, and to you’re what straight men dream of when they are burning for a woman. Just tell your man that you love it when he fills your mouth with his large loads and then advise him on how he can make his loads even larger (Maca, Korean Ginseng, L-Arginine, Acetyl-L, Tribulus). You’ll be very glad, and make sure you tell him too. 🙂
I’ve been seeing a guy noncomittay for almost half a year and he really likes me to swallow (usually he just surprises me with it without a warning) but it seriously tastes like bleach. He can be sensitive and testy about things like this, how can I bring it up to him gently but more importantly effectively?
Sean Jameson says
This guide on sexual communication should help.
I’m 62, bi male. I’ve been sucking cocks since I was fifty, and have sucked close to a hundred men. I find I have no problem swallowing the cum if the guy has his pubes shaved. If not, I’m not letting him cum in my mouth. I must relate the hair to being dirty. I don’t mind the taste, but do tend to take the cock as deep into my mouth as possible, on recommendation of my doctor. He told me it reduces any small chance of transmitting any STD’s.
I believe I developed a taste for semen when I was a teenager, and would perform oral sex on women after cumming in them, or on their belly, and licking up my cum. I would do this until hard again, and ready to re-insert my cock. I’ve also always loved kissing a woman who has cum in their mouth, whether it is mine or someone else’s. When my wife has sex with other men, I generally lick her clean of the man’s cum, and sometimes suck them off to get the sperm directly from the source.
its gd to see that finaly there is some one who can gudie about sex.
its a v gd effort from u for the youth.
nw i wana move towards my questions.
1). What is prefect length of pinus by which a girl/wife can easily satisfied??
2)how i can dense my liquid/Cum???
3)how i can increase my fucking time???
4) how one can know that which kind of fore.play usualy like by a lady?
5) is there any side effect of hand job/masturbeating??
6)is there any side effect of vegiana licking???
7 is there any benefit of licking veg??for male’s health???
8) if a male want to suck/lick veg of his partner bt his partnr is not ready then how one can convince her to let him do so??
9)is there any side effect of sucking cumshoot of a lady for males??
…i will b greatful to u for these answers plz reply me in email…
thanking u in anticipation
I recently tried this for the first time. For some reason in the moment it seemed so sexy. I had a little bit of a hard time because it was an infamiliar texture and for some reason the warmth of it bothered me. Needless to say, I gagged. Little bit, but he was very understanding and appreciated the effort. When I asked him to cum in my mouth he kept saying, “are you sure? Are you sure?” It was sweet. Also, we had just eaten spicy buffalo wings ? So maybe I’ll feed him some fruit or make him a smoothie next time.
For me it’s more of a texture thing. I don’t drink so having some wine prior to is out of the option. What would you all suggest? I really want to do this for him but my gag reflexes won’t let me 🙁
Practice your gag reflexes daily by cleaning the back of your tongue while brushing your teeth with time you’ll be like what gag reflexes
I LOVE TO TASTE A WOMANS PUSS JUST AS SHE ‘S GETTING WARMED UP. I LOVE TO TEASE, AND SLOWLY, SLOWLY PLEASE HER TO THE POINT OF DROWNING ON HER FLOW! I WORSHIP THAT MECCA IN THE VALLEY OFKISSABLE, LICKABLE TREMBLING THIGHS! I JUST GOT MYSELF WORKED UP. AND I’M BREATHING HARD ALSO!
Hi everyone? Tonight when my man and I had sex at the end he pulled out and wanted to come all over my mouth……usually I can swallow it but sometimes when it’s a lot I just open my mouth and stick my toung out and when he’s done I try to spit it out without him seeing, because it’s too much…….And tonight it happened where it was so much come I gagged horribly and killed the mood, I feel so bad, it’s just I cannot swallow when it’s in my mouth but when I’m giving him a blow job and he comes when he’s in my throat there is no problem at all…..Any tips on how to swallow a huge load and I mean HUGE? And is it really bad when I don’t swallow, is that a turn off? We always have great sex life slways very i’m fordable with each other and I do wish he likes and he does what I like and we both enjoy every single moment but when stuff like that happens I feel like if it’s a huge gap in between us and I want to know is it really that big of a deal as I’m making it out to be ????
OMG. Your a dream wife. No, your fine.
Swallow consistently when it’s at the back of your throat. Prepare your mind for a huge load all the time and even when you gag still swallow
My wife hates cum, but loves to suck my dick. She is outstanding, one evening I begged to cum in her mouth. She said, only if you eat it. I jokingly accepted. I thought she wouldn’t go through with it. Well she did and now I am hooked, can’t get enough. I beg her to feed me cum this way, or after sex, I make her cum with my tongue. It is great
All of you are sick bastards and will suffer eternal damnation. This is against gods will. If I had my way, I’d make all of you suck my dick and swallow me as punishment for your sins. REPENT you freaks.
actually, if you read the book of Solomon, it says to know and love the flavor of your partner, so….
José Louro says
Only in my dreams. I had only one girlfriend in my life that swallowed. i was in heaven. My wife of nearly 20 years has *never* let me cum in her mouth. She’s only in the last 3 years taken any interest in giving oral, but never an oral finish. Needless to say I watch plenty of porn. We’ve had more conversations *about* sex than we’ve actually had sex. I feel so tricked. She used her eros power to attract me then turned them off once we were married. I’d say this: only swallow for a man you would want to keep for a lifetime because once you do he’s never going to want to let you go.
So I’ve let my hubby cum in my mouth many times. I’ve tried to swallow or spit when he cums anywhere in my mouth but I always throw up!! I used to throw up when he’d try to deep throat but we’ve gotten past that 🙁 I have an issue with texture…you wouldn’t happen to have any tips for that???
Sean Jameson says
Try having something in your mouth at the same time to either help you swallow it or to help you wash it out.
A technique that I have self taught is to deep throaty when he’s about to cum leave it at the back of my throats then swallow every drop as he cums it helps take away the taste. This is to NO GAG REFLEX ladies and gents. I swallow and keep swallow until my mouth is dry, then hulk it up and play with it in my mouth just to see what it taste like.I hate surprises
I love to suck and swallow cum too, when I’m sucking cock I tell them to cum in my mouth and when he cums I just keep sucking his cock while he cums, I’ve never tasted it doing that. I do want someone to cum on my tongue for me to taste it, play with it, show him and then swallow
I like to swallow my boyfriends load. He treats me well and I kind of learned to like it. Well as soon as he cums I swallow so it reduces the taste.
Karen, WONDERFUL for you !!! Most women perfect these skills over time and perfect what works best for them. women should realize how important oral is in a relationship. Swallowing quickly and drinking a little juice after seems to work great most of the time. Of all sexual acts, this is the favorite for almost all men. Keep up your wonderful work !!!
Bubba Gumps says
Hey Karen if you want to taste better you should feed him more celery celery is what makes the come taste absolutely delicious it’s sweetened the flavor of the juices I don’t know how but it does I do it all the time I ate a lot of celery and my come taste so sweet I swallow all my own cum
I’m a guy I love eating a sweet shaved pussy,, when she starts Cummings and flooding is the most delicious. However don’t know if it’s real or mental but a hairy pussy stinks. As I said I love bald pussy and eating it till I get lock k jaw
I used to love swallowing, but have since gained an aversion to the texture of cum, i find it phlegm like and as a lot of guys in my area use the street as a phlegm storage facility, it puts me off….i can’t even think about cum before I’m already gagging and ready to vomit.
Where do i go from here?
Well my gf sucks dick super well. In fact she is known a bit for it, apparently in HS she didn’t sleep w many guys, but started giving head early in. We compared numbers of people we had sex with..Blah blah..She was almost embarrassed to tell me bout how many she blew. She said 50 or so, which is prob like 70. It’s a bit, but I found it a turn on, and she is great..Like when we started dating if I pulled it out, even changing clothes, she D say she wanted to suck it. I also know some crazy shit she did after her divorce, like she wanted to see if she could handle it, like in porn, where like 5 guys cum in her mouth. Like I said, she went a bit wild. But she was surprised I had a count also. I had 6..I dated a transgirl, who she has met, and a few guys. She likes when I sometimes cum on her back and lick it off. I don’t mind the taste. Recently she hinted she D like to do something, if I was okay with, but she wants us to both suck off the same guy..Like a double team. I’m very open with what I enjoy, and I’ll try something that intrigues me. I said as long as she loves me and is going home w me..Our plan is to prob scope out one of hanging places, let her go up, make small talk, then..I know it shouldn’t be to hard, as I used to like watching my ex in GA flirt and then bring them into the car for head, while I watched. Esp if it’s a “bigger” man..Not to say I’m not, but I like mouth barely fits type..I had to read and watch to refresh myself. I told her this may make me want to start doing this again..Which she said do it, and I’ll reward you!
Hey ahmmm its kinda off the topic but I really want to give my bf a hot and mind blowing bj.the thing is we knew each other online( dating site) and never meet.so I’m looking forward on the time we will meet and have sex.but what is the best or nice way to ask him if he’s healthy and had no any std or something…I’m too shy to ask thinking he might get mad
mama mia says
see a doctor together.
Women could rule the world and get anything they want by using sex but so many do not realize it.
First of all a big THANK YOU for the blow job tips on Bad Girls Bible! I’ve never been good at giving blowjobs but after reading the tips on here there has definitely been an improvement.
I need some help though…I love swallowing but my new man has got a HUGE load…so while swallowing this past weekend I swallowed the first bit but then when it just kept on coming and coming I started gagging. I felt so bad…now I almost feel apprehensive and nervous to give him another blow job. My question is how can I get over the fear of swallowing?? I’ve never been scared or put of by swallowing!
Sean Jameson says
Firstly, you shouldn’t feel that you “have” to swallow his load. If you want to get over the taste, then you can try getting him to drink pineapple juice beforehand. As for reducing your gag reflex, this takes time and comes from slowly desensitizing yourself. There is no magic trick that will fix it instantly. Check out the deep throating guide for advice on this.
It’s also totally hot for him to watch you let it drip/drool out of your mouth and slide down his cock. You can swirl it around in his or your bodies and (if you want to) lick up and swallow however much you like.
Or give him a snowball for that matter…. But maybe give a little warning.
Stay away from foods that are preserved by putrefaction. Cheese and Ham are cured or preserved by putrefaction and the decomposition flavor remains in semen. Remember no ham or cheese.
Sean Jameson says
Are you sure? Aren’t preservation and putrefaction polar opposites?
I read that in the end of the article you mentioned many health benefits and I’m curious as to where you obtained your information from.
Sean Jameson says
Check the references throughout the article, there’s links to 17 different medical journals!
Great article on dealing with the aftermath….
One of the options that I did not see is the drooling snowball/cumkissing. I think it is totally hot for both of us to enjoy both of our flavors.
Also makes sure I am fully aware of any “flavor issues”. I also think it a bit hypocritical to be unwilling to share.
I have always wanted to pleasure my boyfriend by swallowing his cum when giving him a blowjob but I have a very sensitive gag reflex. I have read up on articles on tips on how to make it easier. Do you have any tips on how to control my gag reflex? I would really like to satisfy him like this. Thank you!
Sean Jameson says
Check out what I wrote on suppressing your gag reflex in this guide on deep throating.
By your help it was easy ro swallo his semen
Okay so I love to suck my mans dick, but him cumming in my mouth is not something that happens. I want to let him do it but it makes me throw up. I know, the pineapple juice or wine and stuff but i cant drink and he won’t drink or eat healthy. I hate that i cant do it and i want to do it for him birthday. HELPPP
Sean Jameson says
You may find it easier to swallow his load if you have a few drinks beforehand.
A Real God And Jesus Hater says
Even God and Jesus suck each other’s cock and swallow as well. Go figure that one out.
Recently out of curiosity I have started swallowing my boyfriends semen from our condom after sex. He’d gone out the first time I tried it and I’ve done this several times now.
My boyfriend doesn’t know though. I want to tell him butI want to find out if there are any issues first. I’ve done this up to an hour after we’ve had sex. The semen seems different too and a bit more watery. I like it but is this safe?
You will not inherit the Kingdom of God and will be thrown in the lake of fire! I keep on asking why are you even here!?
On the field, let the tart and corn grow together and on the day of harvest, tart will be burnt to ashes and corns will go straight to the Barn
Pleeeaaase repent and belive the Gospel! Worship God alone and not those things and set aside your bodily desires and the desires of your flesh. Have mercy on your self! Praised be Jesus and Mary, Now and Forever! Amen.
Stephen John Barnett says
I’m a gay guy when i suck another men’s dick and after he’s cum into my mouth / throat i open my mouth to show him he’s cum plus i am tasting it altogether then i swallow it all down after i swallow it down i open my mouth to show him i love drinking & swallowing his cum but then a few mins days my throat mouth feel dry and weird what do i do to get rid of the feeling i have in my throat / mouth ? Sorry as you can tell i’m a cum guzzling whore lol.
Sean Jameson says
I love my husband’s dick deep down the back of my throat. I suck on it every day before work and every night. I love sucking every last drop of cum out of him too. I love this site to give me new techniques, positions and even more sexting ideas. I love building that tension all day to make that evening incredible. We’ve been married 12 years and it only gets better. Ladies, just keep practicing.
thank god i can easily scroll pass the idiot blog about god.. lol
if i decided to try to swallow and i hag will.i.bite down an hurt him?
I Agree Too says
Said the moron which i agree as well.
There is no orgasm better than the one that comes from having your penis sucked to completion where every lady drop is coaxed out by the tongue.
My husband dont fun but a little how can I make him have a bigger load?
I have a question. My ultimate mind bending fantasy is to come in a girls mouth. But I rarely get to do this, due to a lack of interest from many of the girls I’ve been with. Problem is I have a hard time asking for it. I feel badly about it, like I’m asking her to do something she can’t possibly want to do. It’s difficult for me to bring it up, it’s so direct. I feel self conscious asking for it. Any tips?
Sean Jameson says
Plenty of girls like this and plenty don’t. The key is finding the girl(s) who enjoy it and respecting the ones who don’t
Carla Bieito says
I think “to swallow” is love.
Yes, only love, just love.
I am a girl that in the days that menstruation comes to me I feel super excited. My sexuality is put to the maximum. Especially when we go to bed to sleep. And I love to kiss my boy passionately and to fondle my breasts. And of course, when we get so excited, I just drop my pajamas and I love to masturbate while he squeezes my nipples and we keep kissing.
And come a moment I’m dying to put his hard cock in my mouth and start to give him a blowjob. And I love how he squeezes my chest with one hand while caressing my head with the other. I continue to suck and I also jerk him with my free hand, and I know when he is going to run because he arches his back and moans: “suck love, suck sweetie, suck little girl !!! And then I get very excited and sometimes we get the orgasm at the same time, while I play, he runs, and I do not have any problem with his milk, with his yogurt, it is the most intimate thing he can give me, and for me it is very exciting. I continue to suck gently until his penis becomes tiny in my mouth and we fall asleep.It is very exciting this week of the blowjobs, as we say the girls, hihihihi…
Sam Wilson says
i swallow or lick my wife’s cum, so is it safe?
Hi Sean. I been trying lots of new things lately and have successfully deepthroated someone. I was wondering if you had any advice including the guy cumming while you are deepthroating etc.
Sean Jameson says
There’s a few things you can do…
1) Swallow it while you’re deep throating him.
2) Pull him out slightly and let him ejaculate in your mouth.
3) Let him ejaculate on your face/body.
It’s up to you and him as to what is most satisfying.
Afraid but determined says
I was wondering if you might have any advice for a previous abuse victim. Won’t get into details on it but has had the effect that anytime seminal fluid is in my mouth I end up throwing up. Doesn’t matter where. The smell, taste, texture all seem to trigger my gag reflex. Used to simply avoid the act altogether but now thanks to a special man in my life I have a great desire to overcome this problem, but I’m not sure exactly how without either causing me to be ill or bringing back very bad memories. Is there any advice you can give me?
Sean Jameson says
Talk to your doctor and remember that there are so many enjoyable things you can engage in, that it’s perfectly fine to avoid the ones that bring back bad memories.
I love fucking my wife in her asshole, i also love to cum inside her mouth and while the cum is in her mouth i will kiss her, now i dont know if she likes it or doing it cos i want it, what do you think about this Mr Sean
Maybe I’m lucky but my wife will swallow everytime and has no aversion to it. In college I experimented with guys and swallowed a fair share of times and it’s really not that bad, people. It’s not what it tastes like; it what it represents. You just brought a guy to cum and you should feel good about that. When it’s time to cum, my wife knows I like it visual and messy and she’s down with that. I think it helps that I prioritize her cumming, too. We practice equity in our sex life. The only thing she’s not crazy about is my cock going from inside her vagina to inside her mouth. She’ll do it, and she has, but it’s not her favorite thing. Swallow, ladies!
I’m dating this guy and I really like him, we’ve been dating for a while and he loves when I give him head and would like me to have him cum in my mouth. This would be my first time and I’m nervous that I’d gag ? or something else could happen. I really enjoy giving him head. I just don’t want this to be a big turn off. Please help!!!!
Sean Jameson says
Try tasting a tiny bit of his cum, the next time he ejaculates as a test. If you’re ok with this, then you’ll probably be ok with swallowing more 😉
I have such a hard time swallowing. I hate the taste and the texture and it makes my eyes water. I know I give good head but not swallowing makes me feel guilty even though my bf says he doesn’t mind. I know he wishes I did. How can I get past this?
Sean Jameson says
You really shouldn’t feel bad for not enjoying it. One workaround is to give him a “champagne bj” and to swallow his load with a gulp of champagne to help wash it down.
Lise laverock says
The deepthroat method has worked for me for 20 years.
All of my men over the years have loved it
BI MWM says
BI MWM Ilove to do oral sex on my man for the day just take him deep and work him to the point where you get your reward a big load of hot cum to swallow. Then just keep working on that cock till it goes limp in your mouth and you have gotten all his nut juice down my throat.
When we were dating, my girlfriend swallowed me all the time with no issues and I loved it. After we were married, she no longer swallows, goes to the sink to spit me out and it bothers me. I’ve discussed it with her and she doesn’t understand why I feel I was duped. I sometimes feel like I want a girlfriend that will swallow me again. I hate this thought but she is pushing me away and I feel rejected by her choice.
It doesn’t matter to me if the load wasn’t swallowed. I enjoy pumping semen into those crevices in her body, that is my loving connection to that person. If the oral route is followed, it’s best not to break the connection during the ejaculation; at least not unreasonably. I am not disappointed by her gagging, it doesn’t ruin any mood?? I will always understand imperfection because every single instance is totally unique, everytime.
What she decides to do with the ooze after is really a choice for her, not you nor I.
Giving head is one of the most amazing thing a woman can do for a man who loves to receive it and who responds with those loud explosive groans. Yes! Women can rule the world with indeed. More sex equals more calm and happy people!
Is it OK to suck my partner’s cock after he barebacks my asshole. He wants me too but I have been reluctant to do that. He likes to pull out of my butt right before cumming so he can cum on my face and mouth.
Sean Jameson says
It really depends. The key is making sure you are both clean enough to prevent passing any infections to each other.
I love when a woman does ass to mouth, especially taking my hot load right after pulling out of her back door. So fucking hot
Got that right! My girl also loves the groans and the look of pleasure on my face as she drains me in her mouth. Yee haw.
I married with my wife for over 25 years. We have two kids. Out of all these 25 year she maximum give me a BJ for only 3 minutes or less. May be even 2 minutes. The idea of swallowing cum is not even crossing her mind. She likes to have sex once every 2-3 month and she does not give shit what I want.
I swallow all the time Im going to do something different l want my husband to cum in my pussy let it drip into my hand an eat it
Nearly every man who has sucked me has swallowed my cum. Much higher percentage than women. When I suck a man, it just depends on my mood. I’ve sucked over 400 cocks, and have probably swallowed half of those.
I’m a trans woman who swallowed her first load yesterday after a long time not daring to try it. I have to say I wish I had done it years ago. My boyfriend was gentle and kept asking if I was sure as he knew how I felt but this made me want him even more! He told me he was about to cum and so I took him as deep as I could and he basically shot it straight down my throat. I did gag once but that was more on his cock than his cum. I have to say I didn’t get to taste a lot of him but I could still smell it which felt weird! I loved the intimacy of it and I am sure I’ll do it regularly from now on. I feel like I have him inside me now which is a lovely feeling and I love him more for how gentle and considerate he was.
My advice to anyone who wants to try it but is too nervous, go for it, make sure it’s deep and savour the intimacy x
A woman swallowing is pretty much a must for me, and a lot of other men. I strongly suggest to all the first timers out there to acquire the taste. It is such a turn off to see your own partner spit out or not even take it in the mouth at all. I’ve even met women who avoid giving BJs at all costs. No man wants ‘that woman’ unless he’s desperate, and that just means he’ll take her but he’ll still be wishing she didn’t disrespect his love seed.
I will never understand the women who make a big deal out of it. I’ve tasted my own (and I’m not gay, or effeminate) but it was an experiment to see what the big deal was. The stickiness seems to vary for me, sometimes it’s a little more liquidy sometimes more thick, but the few times I’ve tried it, it barely has a taste. It’s just the texture that’s a little awkward. It’s (not to gross anyone out) but it has the texture of nose snot typically. It’s liquid but it also has some elasticity and stickiness to it. But if you discount the texture it tastes like slightly salted water. I don’t see why any woman would freak out over the taste. It’s bland. The texture is what I imagine women are afraid of. Well, don’t be… Hundreds of millions, likely billions of women swallow cum. It’s good for your body, and your man needs to see it in order to fulfill his orgasm.
Think of it like this, “His orgasm isn’t finished until the cum is running down your throat.” And that’s the truth. Anything else is a ruined or deflated orgasm. It’s your duty as a woman to swallow. If you want to go all ‘neo-feminist’ and tell me it isn’t and you won’t. Then congrats you’ve dramatically lowered the chances that he will “keep you.”
God is a cum eater.
David G says
I’m a bi guy who loves to swallow cum (including my own) Whenever I fuck a girl, I enjoy going down on her after I’ve shot my load in her and suck it all out. It gets me so horny I am ready for round two of fucking in short order. I also love the feeling of having a nice hard cock in my mouth and I absolutely relish the feeling of a nice thick load shooting into my mouth. I am especially turned on by guys who can deliver multiple spurts whenever they cum. I actually love the taste of most cum (occasionally I run into someone with bitter tasting cum, but not very often). I also love the texture of cum as well. I find it to be a turn-on, not a turn-off as others have suggested. The thicker the better since it is easier to keep in my mouth so that I can savor it longer.Sucking a cock to completion and eating out a cum-filled pussy are two of my favorite things.
I got married at 19. My husband was my first experience with a BJ. I guess he was being respectful at a young age and never had cumm in my both but once and I gagged. He didn’t do it again. I would have tried again I loved giving him BJs and loved sex, but he didn’t like to try new things with me? We were married 20 years. Now we are divorced, and I’m 40 and want to try fun new tricks. But also embarrassed because at my age I should be a pro. Advice?
Sean Jameson says
Take it slow, and remember that some guys are in the same situation.
Narendra Meena says
Why you foreigners (peoples of western countries) divorce so much……did marriage institution works in your countries…..divorce rate is very high in yours countries….you people divorce only for small reasons..
In india , marriage is holy and godly relation….divorce rate is less than 0.5% ……….
i rarely heard about divorces near my village or locality…….
In india,,, even GF and BF breakups are less than divorces in your countries……..
95% wives are generally submissive and obedient to their husband and her father-in-law,,and mother-in-law……So very less chance of fighting ,ego ….so no divorce happens….
99% people not do any sex before marriage…….and rare extra marital relations….
premarital sex is taboo
divorce is Taboo
GF-BF relatioin is taboo.
even love marriage are taboo
99.5% arrange marriage happens by their parents…..
RIC CARTER says
I’m a senior citizen male, and suck a lot of cocks. I don’t really enjoy men cumming in my mouth, but if I don’t let them finish there, I am not doing my job. I’ll keep sucking men for about a minute after the big cum shot, as there is more semen that needs drained out yet. I ask them to hold my head in place so I do finish them all the way, and can’t pull away when they are cumming. Sometimes I get choked by the cock, or the semen squirting in my throat. That doesn’t bother me, as it is all part of my job to give them the best mouth fuck they can get.
I hated it but now love to swallow. What helped me was
1) I asked my husband to shoot video of mixing his semen with food and feed me unknowingly. Then show me the video.
2) Play with his semen.
3) Kiss his penis after sex. You will get some tolerable taste of semen.
4) Give him blow job if possible 7 to 10 days in row . Let him ejaculate in mouth but don’t swallow. after 7 to 10 days you will start liking the taste and you will overcome swallowing inhibition.
5) Swallow fast when you are swallowing first few times.
6) Key is swallowing/playing with semen on daily basis when new at it. i used to throw-up in beginning now started liking the feeling of swallowing. so sexy. to me its worth it just to seeing his expressions.
7) His love and caring for me has increased after I mastered .
8) Has opened up many more sexual possibilities. I am more open to try anything now.
9) Just thought of swallowing is now arousing
I love it when my boyfriend masturbates directly into my mouth, it really turns me on! I’ve swallowed guys cum in the past which I didn’t like (including an old guy whose cum tasted so gross ewwww!) but my boyfriends cum is yummy!!!
Maybe it’s just me but I also like being told to swallow! I had a one night stand when a guy kept telling me “swallow my cum, gulp it down!” It was such a turn on!!
My female domestic partner does not swallow my cum and I’m ok with that. She does love to suck my cock, which is the most important thing for me. I do eat healthy and have tasted my cum many times and it tastes good. I find it erotic to taste my own cum. I’m also orally bi and have traded bjs with other safe married guys. While most offer to swallow me, I usually pull out and stroke myself to the finish. I’ve also never let a guy finish in my mouth. However, I really want to. Any advice to getting over that mental “hump”?
Sean Jameson says
Sometimes it’s a mental hump for a reason. Maybe you just don’t want to?
Great advice that will help many people. Just proves, one is never too old to learn new tricks.
If you don’t want to swallow, what’s the best way to finish your man off?
Sean Jameson says
It depends on what you and your guy want. Talk to him and find out!
My only problem is that my husband can take up to 30 mins or longer to cum. It does not matter what hole he is in but that makes giving him a BJ to completion really tough. He has incredible stamina. Any suggestions?
Sean Jameson says
Get him to stop masturbating for a few months, he’ll become a lot more sensitive 😉
What about if your partner swallows daily the female squirt?
Sean Jameson says
Do they have any adverse reactions from it?
I am in a strong relationship and we cum kiss a lot. Question, I want to ask my Husband to swallow own cum from my vagina. Any issue with it? My husband loves to cum kiss with me. We Just never tried it with him going down on me with his cum inside me.
Sean Jameson says
“Any issue with it?”
That’s a question that you need to ask him.