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Turning your man on with dirty talk is surprisingly easy and a lot of fun. The 64 dirty talk examples below are going to do just that, get him completely aroused and make for some really intense sex. You can jump straight to the 64 dirty talking examples by clicking here.
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- Build sexual tension.
- Make sex more intense and satisfying.
- Keep him thinking about you.
You’ll also find 73 other dirty talking phrases in Chapter 1 along with the 64 examples on this page.
So you now know WHY you should talk dirty and how it’s going to benefit your relationship. Before giving you the 64 examples of dirty talk lower down this page, I first want to teach how to talk dirty so that you do it confidently, AND it makes your man crazy for you.
To talk dirty in a way that’s both confident and effective, there are four factors that you need to consider…
- The Context
- The Tone Of Your Voice
- The Speed Of Your Voice
- What You Do While Talking Dirty To Your Man
The Context When Talking Dirty
Without a doubt, the context is the most important factor to consider when learning how to talk dirty. What I mean by context is WHERE YOU DO IT and WHAT THE MOOD IS.
Imagine the following situation as an example: You are both lying in bed together, cuddling, looking into each others eyes…Your man then tells you, “I love you” for the first time. Now is absolutely the worst time to talk dirty to him. Imagine how disappointed he would be if your response was, “I can’t stop thinking about your cock.”
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The context in the example above is a serious and vulnerable and special moment for both of you. Talking dirty is going to ruin the moment. I hope this is obvious.
Here’s a much better example: It’s a Saturday evening, and you’re both at home, fooling around on the sofa. While playing around, you look at your man with a cheeky grin and say, “If you don’t stop messing around, I’m going to grab my whip and teach you a lesson.”
The context is a fun and flirty one (Read: The Flirting Guide). Talking dirty here is only going to add to the fun.
Here’s another great example: You and your husband are both on vacation and have had a few drinks. You get back to your hotel or apartment, and you are both feeling super horny and totally uninhibited. Now is the perfect time to push him onto the bed and have your way with him. Telling him to, “keeping fucking me like that” or “I want to feel you orgasm inside me” or “you’re going to make me cum so hard.” Use these clitoral stimulation techniques to have powerful orgasms during sex.
The point I’m trying to make with these examples is that YOU NEED TO TAILOR YOUR DIRTY TALK TO THE CONTEXT OR SITUATION for it to have maximum effect.
The Tone Of Your Voice
Next is getting your voice tone right. Many students are surprised that a large percentage of communication is non-verbal. In other words, only a small percentage of the power of talking dirty is the actual line itself. The rest is your voice tone and a few other factors that I’ll explain in a minute
Getting your voice tone right will dramatically increase the power of your dirty talk to the point where you are literally hypnotizing your man with your voice.
Imagine using the following naughty dirty talk example on your man in a high pitched, excited-like-a-school-girl-at-a-pop-concert voice that, “I can’t wait to get you home.” Not only will your man be turned off, but he may also be a bit weirded out.
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Now imagine telling him the same thing, “I can’t wait to get you home.” In a sultry, breathy voice that you whisper in his ear. Don’t be surprised if he demands to get you alone immediately!
The same applies when you’re in bed together and talking dirty. You could scream, “Fuck me harder” at him like your life depended on it. This is definitely going to turn him on AND make him pound you harder. But what if you said it with a flat, disinterested tone like you had mentally checked out of the situation? It would be a total turn off.
My point here is that some women think that all they need is the line, but smart women like you now know that your voice tone plays a vital role when talking dirty.
The Speed Of Your Voice
The speed of your voice also plays an important role when it comes to the non-verbal aspect of talking dirty.
So in bed, you’re naturally going to be talking quite fast if you are really enjoying yourself and are having some sweaty, steamy sex. You can find some really good dirty talking examples of what to say when you’re having intense, filthy sex with your boyfriend here.
But if you’re having slow, passionate, loving sex, then it’s more natural to talk more slowly and lovingly. You’ll find some great dirty talk examples for slow, passionate sex here.
If you are both out in public together, and you need to be discreet, the slower you whisper into your man’s ear, the better. Drawing it out over 10 seconds will blow your man away…here’s an example,
“I’m…so…dam…horny right now…I…wish…I…had…you…inside…me.”
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There are two rules you should follow for your voice speed when talking dirty.
- Only talk fast when you’re having really sweaty, filthy, nasty sex. The rest of the time speak very slowly.
- When I say slowly, I mean really slowly.
What Are You Doing When You’re Talking Dirty
Most women get this wrong. When you use any dirty talk example, whether it’s tame or super-freaky, your body needs to be in “alignment” with the words you’re saying to him.
If you are sitting beside him on a plane and randomly whisper in his ear, “I’m so bummed that we’re on a plane, I really want to feel your lips on my pussy right now,” WITHOUT even touching him, it’s NOT going to be particularly effective.
Now imagine saying the same thing, “I’m so bummed that we’re on a plane, I really want to feel your lips on my pussy right now,” while slowly running your fingers up his inside leg. Then after saying it, you slowly pull back and make eye contact with him while smirking at him. It’s going to drive him haywire.
The point I’m trying to make here is that it’s not just the lines that will make you the queen of talking dirty. If you want to truly master talking dirty with your man, you also need to:
- Understand the context.
- Get your voice tone right.
- In most cases, slow the speed of your voice right down.
- Make sure to pay attention to what you’re doing while talking dirty.
Now that we’ve covered how to talk dirty for maximum impact let’s learn some dirty talking examples that will blow your man away.
- There is something so damn hot when you pin me down by my wrists.
- Hearing you groan, moan and shout when you cum is so fucking satisfying.
- Make me cum with your tongue.
- Tonight is all about me, so get down on your knees and put that tongue of yours to work.
- Feeling your seed drip down my leg was the perfect reminder of this morning.
- I’m going to need your services tonight, boy.
- Fuck me harder. – Get 7 intensely rough sex ideas here.
- I’ve never been fucked like that before.
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- Tonight is all about making you cry with pleasure.
- I dreamt about you last night and woke up dripping wet, which was nice.
- I love when you’re rough with me.
- I’ve been a bad girl and deserve a spanking. – Learn how to get your man to spank you here.
- Take your clothes off and get on your hands and knees. Right now!
- I wore this for you.
- Making you hard is my number one priority. – More tips on make your man horny.
- I love seeing your bulge in your pants.
- I absolutely adore feeling you on top of me.
- I love holding your cock and feeling it get hard in my hands. – Learn how to give your man an incredible hand job here.
- I want you to handcuff me and fuck me any way you’d like.
- Do you like the fact that I think about you when I’m masturbating.
- Tonight I want to watch you jerk yourself off.
- I keep fantasizing about you grabbing me and having your way with me.
- I don’t want to be forward, but I need you now.
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- Just feeling your eyes on me makes me so wet.
- Take me right here.
- The plan for tonight is to be your personal sex doll.
- You bring out this animal in me, I love it!
- I want you to scream my name when you cum.
- Give me every last drop.
- Hearing you moan with pleasure turns me on so much.
- Make me your bitch!
- Punish me!
- Your cock belongs to me.
- Fuck my cunt!
- Suck my breasts. – Get more nipple play ideas here.
- Tell me when you’re close.
- Slap my ass.
- Make me feel helpless.
- This pussy is yours, whenever you want it.
- You’re going to pass out with pleasure.
- Shut the fuck up and take your clothes off. – If you want to further dominate your man, then check out this domination guide and these 162 dominant phrases you can say to your partner.
- I don’t normally do this, but you bring out this craziness in me.
- Bite me and mark me as yours.
- I want to feel your hands all over my body.
- Bend me over and spank me, I’ve been a really naughty girl.
- Pull my hair and treat me like an animal.
- I keep thinking about the first time you fucked me; it makes me so insanely horny.
- I want to feel you kiss my entire body.
- Is it weird that I just want you to use me tonight?
- Sex with you is like a drug, and I think I may be addicted.
- I want to feel your cock twitch inside me.
- Make me your bitch.
- Don’t ever stop fucking me.
- I want you to tie me up and have your way with me. – More BDSM tips here.
- Jesus-fucking-Christ you’re going to make me cum.
- I feel so small in your arms.
- I don’t think I could ever get bored of having sex with you. – Also works great as a sext. Read: Advice for sexting.
- I love how your dick feels in my hands!
- There’s a few things that I really like about you; I hope you never stop doing them. – Perfect for keeping him thinking about you.
- I’ve got something I want to try on you later….I think you’ll like it!
- I wish we could just fuck forever.
- I want you to watch me with another man. Get: Cuckolding tips.
- Dominate me like the slut I am!
These dirty talking examples will massively spice up your sex life and relationship. If you are looking for specific examples to use on your man, then my advice is to check out Chapter 3 of the Dirty Talking Guide here where you’ll learn what to say when you’re…
- Out in public or at an event where you need to be discreet.
- In bed have filthy, nasty sex.
- In bed having sensual, loving sex.
- Messaging your man.
- Having phone sex.
- Acting submissive for your man.
- Being dominant over your man.
Click here to read Chapter 3 now.
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men NEVER need help ‘staying up’ or ever need any form of ‘encouragement’ at least not the ones I have ever come across. not that I am a ‘sexual goddess’ or anything, but normally men are so overwhelmingly satisfied by the whole experience of sex that in fact, I am always the one that wants more…
surely there should be more sites dedicated to making men less shit in bed then suggesting that women should try and ‘dirty talk’ to pleasure… seriously, ‘Dominate me like slut!’ is never a word I will ever utter… and as for ‘I love feeling your big, hard cock inside me.’ I’ve used this about 4 times simply to fill the awkward-sex-gap between foreplay and thrusting… it’s not dirty talk it’s more like filler conversation just so that he doesn’t feel awkward trying to find the right hole!
Just a thought…. surely we should have a site called ‘try not to be so shit in bed men’ or something like that…? just a thought…
You raise a good point! I was so busy concentrating on giving tips to women, that I completely forgot about the other half of the population.
Thank you for your response to this. As a guy, I’ve never had any woman day things quite that. ..raunchy? I have dated some rather wild girls in the past & they would ever imply or say they were a slut! All of the girls I’ve dated or just hooked up with all wanted the same thing. Tenderness, compassion, non confrontational sex. Of course when things get heated, we may be much more vigorous physically but, still, love making & pleasurable.
People should go on line & read the confessions of a porn preforner. It will open your eyes to the reality of porn & real life sex.
Speak up girls so we, men know the real truth.
I love this website! I wasn’t well versed with different positions or techniques before I started looking at this site because I had a sheltered life. But now I can say, my sex life has significantly improved. I have done most everything on this site and my man feels great. Need to through in some, “yeah, hit that pussy harder baby!” I have way more confidence and I am going to keep coming back to this site to refresh my memory on anything I might have forgotten about.
It’s not for everyone, but my boyfriend calls me a “little slut” or something of the sort all the time. It’s more of a bdsm thing and I totally get why someone might not be into it. But there are those of us who like being used as a fuck doll.
100% agree. I loved being called all sorts of names. Its all personal preference.
That’s so nice.as long as your 🥰 loved
I dunno, when me and my man fuck I say some pretty filthy things to him. I tell him I want him to fuck my little pussy and I call him daddy, I want your cum all over me, I’ve been a bad girl, I’m your little slut, etc etc. Depends what you like, we like lots of dirty talk so that’s what works for us
You are awesome. Lol
I agree with your other reader who stated “we need more sites that teach MEN not to be shit in bed”. Nothing is more aggravating and disappointing than a man who talks up his love game then ends up being shit in realty. We women are taught from a very young age “to be all things to all men”. I am 54 and very sexual. What I like most about our current women’s awakening is that we are freer to demand men be more than shit in every aspect of life. It’s way past time men be more open and responsible for who they are and realize that we want our pleasure to be over the top too.
Yes say it louder for the men in the back!! Maybe we could start putting our own advice in the relies on bad boys club
Have you checked out the Bad Boys Bible. You’ll find everything you need to please your girl.
My fiance hardly ever do any of this.. reading this breaks my heart!!
Totally agreed! I’d rather be reading a site that’s describing to men all the things that they should be doing to worship my body! Men are easy.
Let me know if you ever run across one.
Hmmmm…you may want to check out the Bad Boys Bible section then.
Sounds like you’ve had a lot of shit guys in bed, the fact your using fillers to break the awkwardness does sound horrible. But it sounds to that the common is you, so maybe put in some extra effort, it’s quite a turn off using corny lines like the 64 (if you include the almost identical ones) above. If someone told me that my cum dribbling down there leg in the morning reminded them of the good time they had, I’d be thinking go take a bath you dirty cow. If you want to drive a man crazy, just get naked and walk him to the bedroom, we’re simple creatures. If you want to get us really hard, give a blow job like your a porn star, want us to fuck with enthusiasm, give out a moan or 2, we’ll think we’re getting you going. But if you just lay back like a sack of potatoes, dam we just want to get it over with. The more we think your getting satisfied the more confident a guy becomes and then you’ll notice the difference. You want to suggest a new topic or blog, how about one where women are honest about what gets them turned on and what they need to be satisfied because your the difficult species.
Hahahahaha. Valid
I have definitely uttered “Dominate / Fuck me like a slut”. Sent my other half absolutely wild
I love this article… finally, someone who doesn’t think it’s odd that girls can talk dirty to their man…. i love telling him to fuck me like a slut or talking about his dick. I never thought of teasing him though, telling him that I want to fuck him at a time when we are around a bunch of people and we can’t just go have sex right then and there. LOVE IT!!!
Yes! Some men really love it when you’re prim and proper in public but you’ll play dirty little slut just for him! It’s kink and it’s a turn on! Better than him turning to porn for his excitement! I’ll take being the one my man ogles any day!!!
thank you
I find dirty talk in bed very exciting both when a man speaks up about his wants and needs, or a woman’s. However, just my personal preference, anything demeaning would shut me down completely to the point where either I would leave or I’d show him the door. Words like “slut” or “bitch” do exactly the opposite for me. So, I guess it’s a matter of openly talking with the partner about wants and needs, desires and fantasies, and then, slowly, try to achieve them If uncomfortable at that time, say it out loudly or it will wrongfully become an unwanted precedent.
I fondly remember about my boyfriend when I told him at the second intimate act that I didn’t appreciate the fact that he left me unsatisfied last time. Well, poor him, he did his best to recover that and never left me “hanging” afterwards LOL
What do you do when your man doesn’t like the dirty talk or favors more a woman being more discreet than talking filthy or dirty or sexy, what do you do then ? How can you keep that flame ?
Talk to him if you really want to know.
It’s saddening you think self-demeaning words from a woman are hot.
You’re disgusting. People like you get so caught up in hurting others for your own sexual pleasure you lose touch with the human you are connecting with.
Thankfully not all guys are like you.
I love dirty talk. Being called a dirty slut/ cum slut turns me on absolute crazy. It all depends on the person!
Dirty Talk shouldn’t even be the word. I’d rather refer to it as “Sweet Talk”…
Maybe the ” dirty talk ” name increases the superstition that it is taboo which also prevents normal people from interrogating their sex life in a meaningful way!
And by the way, who knows why my female friend who’s getting married, thinks this site is immoral or a taboo?
Sadly, more women than men are suffering from sexual stereotypes that perpetuate the understanding that what this site is about is equal to discussing taboo topics.
Shame on them, I have to say!
Hi all! So I was looking for something particular but couldn’t come across it.
My current dude loves to ask me “How does that feel” when fucking me.
My response is usually pretty tame, but I would love some examples of other sexy, dirty ways to respond. Thanks!
Incredilbe!
Amazing!
Deeply intense.
It makes me so horny and aroused.
Thank you. As a female, I always like to start with heat, compassion, tenderness as a foul play, but then it’s on!! I love hardcore. Mainly lots of dirty talking on my end. I love it when the man talks dirty back to me omg such a turn-on… With me, he never gets bored because I always create something new so when we have sex, he doesn’t know what to expect & that keeps his focused on me.
My guy is a narcissist. He has blamed me for messing around and cheating several times. Has even said he has it on video. Which is completely false! He has called me a Hoe, rather than my name on several occasions. How would I be able to use this to help in our relationship without him thinking the worst?? The way he has become has taught me to be more stand-off-ish and shy, or timid around him. I love that I need to be submissive to him, but I’m not sure how to use this advice to help, rather than hurt our already complicated relationship. 🤷🏼♀️
Definitely talk to him! Because he should never speaks to you like thy unless it’s completely mutual sexy time conversation.
Perhaps you could ask him if he wishes you where a how so he could fuck you properly so you know your his?
I am in a fairly new relationship (5 months ) with a man who is the very first man I’ve ever been with that cares more about my wants, my needs, my pleasure than his own.He is also the only man I’ve been with that has made me orgasm during sex, and I mean not just once but over and over and over every single time, I didn’t know I could and absolutely did not know I could more than once. When we first met, I thought he had a giant ego because he told me that he could make me orgasm over and over and over and I didn’t believe him. He also has trouble understanding why no other man ever made that happen for me. I have only ever slept with five other men, three of those were my husband, in my whole life. it was after my last husband passed away that I met this man and our sex life is absolutely one of the most amazing things I’ve ever experienced. And he shows me how much he cares at least 3 to 4 times a week. It is an amazing experience every single time . I try very hard to look good, feel good, wear make up, and look sexy for him. He tells me I’m beautiful all the time and that I’m sexy all the time. I’ve never had that before. From any of my three husbands, or boyfriends. Not that there’s been many there’s only been five before this man that I’m seeing. But I’ve never had anyone do the things that he does, and make me feel what he does. I never knew orgasms were possible with a man. I know by myself it was possible once in a while, but I always thought it was me. I never once thought that it was the men that I was with, or their fault always that it was mine. This man makes love, have sex with me and it can last two sometimes three hours 3 to 4 times a week. Sex previously was five maybe 10 minutes tops , and there was no caring in it about me or my feelings. I always thought that was normal, and that’s the way it was. The sweet man has taught me that I matter, my feelings matter, what happens in the bedroom matters to me, and he’s amazing. Our sex life is absolutely unbelievable, and I am learning how to open up and ask for what I want And not be made to feel like I don’t matter or my feelings don’t matter or what I want doesn’t matter or that it’s silly. Our sex life is absolutely wonderful and now I know that I can have one too or 10 orgasms one right after the other, and that my feelings matter, and what I want matters .
What are the qualities of your man? Is there something in him that was so specific or spotted when you met him?
Haha I love being my Master’s filthy whore. And I love how He uses my c*#@. (Oops, Im also a highly educated woman)
In porn how its called when a woman rides man and the same time ask him things ? I mean its called dirty talk interrogation.