82 Freaky Sex Questions To Ask Your Partner

Below you’ll find 82 sexual questions to ask your partner. I’ve broken them up into 3 sections: 23 intimate sex questions, 33 dirtier sex questions, and the last section contains 26 really kinky and freaky sex questions in case you want to take it up a notch. These questions can help you get to know each other better and explore more in the bedroom, no matter how long you’ve been together. Some tips…

Timing – To get the most out of these sex questions, pick your timing wisely. The better you know your partner and can read the room, the more likely you’ll be able to pick a time and way to ask them that will go over well…instead of blindsiding him with it.

For example, you might want to hold off on asking him a really deep sexual question on your first date…unless it’s just a hook-up.

While asking a few questions as you bask in the afterglow of sex is appropriate, you’ll want to avoid anything that sounds like you were disappointed or you’re criticizing your partner.

When to go deep – Don’t start in the deep end. Start with the tamer questions first. As you get to know him better, then you can ask deeper or kinkier sex questions…unless your partner has hangups about sex.

Be prepared (and excited!) to answer in return. It’s only fair after your partner opens up to you.

Don’t go overboard – Of course, unless you’re literally playing 20 questions, don’t barrage someone with sex questions. Ask a couple at a time, especially those that are related or naturally lead to another. But…

Don’t make it feel like they’re being interrogated! And if the conversation naturally flows, that’s great.

Finally, not all sex questions work for every person or couple. Feel free to skip any spicy questions that you don’t like and if necessary…

Change and adapt any question to better suit you.

23 Intimate and Erotic Sex Questions To Ask Your Guy

The following sex questions should all be easy to ask your man as long as he’s okay talking about sex. Get tips for sexual communication to make these tricky questions easier.

1. What kind of sex acts do you enjoy? Next: Sex bucket list with 243 sex acts!
2. Do you like morning sex?
3. Would you like to role play during sex?
4. Do you enjoy kissing during sex?
5. What’s your favorite sex position?
6. What makes you feel sexy?
7. How often do you like to initiate versus having someone else start sex?
8. How often would you ideally have sex?
9. What’s a surefire way to get you in the mood? How do you know when I’m horny? Learn: How to get horny for women.
10. What’s your strength in the bedroom?
11. When do you feel comfortable moving from using condoms to other birth control?
12. What do you consider to be cheating? Discover: Why women cheat.
13. What’s one body part you’d like to be touched more during sex?
14. What are your erogenous zones?
15. What kind of lingerie do you like your partners to wear?
16. What kind of sex education did you get? Do you have any unanswered questions?
17. How do you feel about planning sex?
18. What do you think about sex in the shower?
19. Do you prefer the lights on or off during sex?
20. Would you visit a sex toy store with me?
21. What type of physical affection do you like in public?
22. What’s the sexiest on-screen romance you can think of?
23. If I could do one thing to get you off right now, what would it be?

33 Dirty and Juicy Sex Questions to Ask Your Guy

Once you know your partner a little bit, you can move on to these dirty questions to ask your man. The sex questions to ask your man below are a little bolder without being too wild.

1. Would it turn you on to give me a facial? 740 woman study: What women really think about facials.
2. Do you want to try anal with me?
3. Have you ever had sex with a stranger?
4. Would you ever consider a threesome? Bonus: 18 threesome sex positions.
5. What’s something that you were surprised to find sexy?
6. Where’s the wildest place you’ve ever had sex?
7. Is there any sexual desire you’ve never told anyone else?
8. Have you ever used sex toys?
9. Have you ever had cyber, cam or phone sex?
10. Are there any nonsexual things that turn you on?
11. Have you ever gotten caught having sex?
12. How would previous partners describe you in bed?
13. Have you ever had any difficulties in the bedroom?
14. Do you like to have your balls played with? How to massage his testicles – 9 tips and techniques.
15. Do you have sensitive nipples? 21 nipple orgasm techniques.
16. How do you touch yourself when you masturbate? Better orgasms: 14 powerful masturbation techniques for incredible orgasms.
17. What’s your style of dirty talk?
18. What’s the longest and shortest amount of time it’s ever taken you to get off?
19. Did you know guys can have multiple orgasms? Have you ever experienced that?
20. Would you play with sex dice or other sex games?
21. What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve ever done?
22. When was the last time you masturbated?
23. Do you like pulling my hair during sex or having your hair pulled by me?
24. How do you feel about nails scratching your back?
25. What was your worst and best sexual experience like?
26. What’s one thing you won’t try in the bedroom.. and why?
27. Do you ever think about me when masturbating?
28. How can I get you to make more noise in bed?
29. Would you have sex in front of a mirror?
30. What’s the strangest thing you’ve ever masturbated to?
31. Would you ever be in an open relationship?
32. What do you think about bringing ice cubes or food into the bedroom?
33. Would you like to see my squirt? Learn: How to squirt.

26 Kinky and Freaky Questions to Ask Your Guy

Now it’s time for the crazy sex questions! Some of these kinky questions may be too extreme for your liking, and that’s okay! Just skip to the next one.

1. Would you like to watch me with someone else?
2. What’s your biggest fantasy involving BDSM? Start: BDSM for beginners.
3. Have you ever been pegged? Want to try? See demonstrations: 17 pleasurable pegging positions.
4. Do you want to make a sex tape?
5. What do you think about being blindfolded the next time we have sex?
6. Do you know what golden showers are?
7. How do you feel about spitting during sex?
8. Would you ever have sex in front of other people?
9. What do you think about BDSM dungeons or other public sex?
10. Have you ever thought about swinging?
11. What do you think about cuckolding?
12. What are your thoughts on rimjobs?
13. Do you prefer to be submissive or be dominant in the bedroom?
14. Would you wear women’s clothes if I want you to?
15. Do you like it when someone emasculates you?
16. Do you think blood is sexy?
17. Have you ever been grossed out and turned on by something at the same time?
18. Would you ever try suspension bondage?
19. How do you feel about the idea of wearing a cock cage?
20. Have you ever had someone snowball you? If not, would you try it?
21. Have you ever been turned on by someone crying?
22. Would you try out consensual nonconsent?
23. Can I put a gag on you?
24. How would you feel if I called you Daddy or wanted to be called Mommy?
25. Do you have any fetishes?
26. Would you spank me with a paddle or slap my pussy?

Now you’ve got plenty of naughty questions to ask your partner and are probably inspired to make up some of your own hot questions! So what are you waiting for? Now’s the time to strike up a conversation.

Are there any spicy questions that work well for you? Let us know in the comments!