Inside this bondage guide, you’ll learn all you need to know to start exploring it safely. We cover everything from safety concerns to the best bondage materials to safety before wrapping up with some inspiration for your very first bondage scene as a beginner. So strap on for a ride, whether you prefer tying your partner up or… want to be tied up by them. What Bondage Is–and Isn’t Bondage is … [Read more...]
SSC, RACK, PRICK & CCCC: Safety In BDSM Guide
It seems like BDSM is full of acronyms–including its own name! If you’ve ever heard of SSC, RACK, or PRICK, you might be confused about their meaning and use. Fortunately, we’re here to clear that up and introduce you to one more ethical framework for BDSM that you might find helpful…CCCC! What Are SSC, RACK, PRICK, and CCCC? These acronyms are all different BDSM philosophies that promote … [Read more...]
The Complete Guide To Negotiating BDSM Scenes
Negotiating in BDSM is vital. This complete guide will teach you why you should always negotiate before a BDSM scene and more importantly…how to do it! Why Negotiation in BDSM is Important Because BDSM often means greater physical or emotional risk than vanilla sex, kinksters have developed a few tools to promote safety and pleasure as much as possible. Negotiation is one of those tools. Think … [Read more...]
BDSM Limits: Learn What Are They. Discover Hard v Soft Limits
In the following article, you’ll learn what limits are in BDSM and why they’re important. By the time you finish reading, you’ll also understand how to communicate and respect limits–and what to do if yours aren’t respected. Plus, we’ve included a BDSM limits list to help you figure out your own! What Are BDSM Limits? In BDSM, a limit refers to an activity a person doesn’t want to do. For … [Read more...]
51 Effective Safe Words To Use During Your Next BDSM Scene
Safe words–you’ve heard of them, but are they really necessary? And does it make a difference which safe word(s) you use? By the time you finish this article, you’ll understand why we recommend safe words, how to pick a good one, and what to do when someone uses one to minimize any harm. If you'd prefer, you can skip straight to the end if you just want safe word examples. What Is a Safe Word? A … [Read more...]
What Is Sexual Consent? Everything You Need To Know
At its most basic, consent is the agreement to engage in sexual activity. However… There’s a lot more to it. In the following in-depth article, you’ll learn what consent to sex is, why it’s essential, and how to give and accept consent in a way that should set you and any partners up to have enjoyable sexual encounters that are wanted. You might be surprised to understand how nuanced the … [Read more...]
17 Intensly Pleasurable Pegging Positions (Beginner to Expert)
In this post, you’ll get a brief rundown of what pegging is, who does it, and why. But you can skip down the page if you’re just looking for a new sex position to try the next time you peg your partner. The best pegging positions (with pictures!) are toward the end of the article, and that information is the real gem of this post! Pegging: What, Why, and How? What is pegging - Pegging is an … [Read more...]
48 Best, Crazy, Kinky & Romantic Places To Have Sex & Give Oral
Below are the 48 best places to have sex with your boo. If you’ve already tried the bed, couch and floor, get ready to have your mind blown! A Quick Warning About Sex in Public Places While this guide includes some suggestions of where you can have sex in public, be smart about it. Getting caught might mean you’re arrested and fined for indecent exposure. The laws and punishments vary, so find … [Read more...]
19 Powerful Ways To Get In The Mood For Sex If You’re Struggling
If you’ve ever asked, “Why am I not in the mood for sex?”, this guide will help. A lot. Not only will you learn about things that will help increase desire, you will also discover intensely-powerful tips for getting in the mood for sex and dealing with those libido killers, some of which you may not even be aware of! The Dual-Control Model of Sexual Desire If you’ve tried every tip you could … [Read more...]
What Is Pegging? Complete Pegging Guide For Maximum Enjoyment
Welcome to pegging 101. This guide will teach you what pegging means and how to peg someone successfully (or get pegged). But, most importantly, you will learn the tips, tricks and positions you can use to make pegging a deeply satisfying experience every time. What Is Pegging? The textbook definition of pegging is when a woman wears a strap-on dildo and uses it to penetrate her man anally. This … [Read more...]
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