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You can still give your girl the strongest orgasms of her life even if you aren’t “packin heat” down there. Just use these 15 small penis sex positions. I also cover 22 additional sex techniques (not positions) you must use to compensate for your small penis size, along with how to psychologically deal with a small penis (8 tactics)
15 Best Sex Positions for a Small Penis.
Below are 15 small penis sex positions that will fully satisfy your girl. You’ll notice that they fulfill one or both of the following things:
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- Clitoral stimulation – Women are more likely to orgasm during intercourse when you incorporate clitoral stimulation [1].
- Deeper – The angle helps you to penetrate her deeper.
1. Cowgirl
Cowgirl is the best position to make her orgasm if she likes being on top. It gives her tons of clitoral stimulation and allows her to control the rhythm and speed of penetration to help her get off.
Use the Vulcan – One way to increase the intensity of the clitoral stimulation during Cowgirl is to use the Vulcan.
Start by making the following shape with your hand:
Next, slide it down your stomach to your penis, so that two fingers are on either side of it, like in the demonstration below:
Your knuckles will now be in direct contact with her clit. If needed, use lube so she can slide and glide more easily against your knuckles.
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Why this works – Your knuckles are much firmer against her clitoris, which will massively increase the amount of clitoral stimulation you can give her.
2. Coital Alignment Technique
If she prefers you to be on top during sex, then use the Coital Alignment Technique. It’s almost identical to the Missionary position, with one major difference:
You won’t be thrusting.
Instead…
Hold yourself as deep as possible inside her at all times, while grinding upward and downward. This does two important things:
1. Constant clitoral contact and stimulation. Your pubic bone should be pressed against her clitoris the whole time. One study discovered that 36.6% of women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm during sex, and an additional 36% of women in the study said their orgasms feel better if their clitoris is stimulated during sex [1].
2. Internal stimulation of her vagina (multiple spots). As you move up and down, the head of your penis will rub and press against multiple areas inside her vagina.
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3. Turtle
If you have a small penis, then the Turtle position is better than regular DoggyStyle.
Why?
Because of her angle. She will be exposing her vagina more, allowing for deeper penetration.
You can also explore fingering her anally in this position or reaching around her waist to rub her clit with your fingers in doggystyle.
4. Launch Pad
In the Launch Pad position, your girl will be curling her hips upward. This shortens her vaginal canal, allowing you to hit deeper.
By placing her feet on your chest, she can also control the depth, making sure she gets exactly what she needs.
5. Standing
The Butterfly position has you standing at the edge of the bed, with her lying on her back. This position works great if you have a small penis, as you can move her body in multiple ways and change the angle:
- Grab her butt and lift her up (or even try out a little anal fingering)
- Lean backward to target her G Spot
- Lean forward, pressing her legs to her chest for deeper penetration, like in the Anvil position…
6. Anvil
The Anvil position is great for dominating your partner during sex if you have a small penis.
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One caveat:
It can put a lot of strain on her lower back. Avoid it if she suffers from back pain.
7. Standing From Behind
A position like the Washing Machine or Burning Man is really good if either of you likes aggressive, hard, rough sex.
You are also in the perfect position to reach around and rub her clit or finger her if you are having anal sex in this position.
8. Leapfrog
The Leapfrog position requires some flexibility from your partner. By deeply arching her lower back, she will expose her vulva/vagina more, allowing for deeper penetration.
9. Sandwich
The Sandwich is another great position for dominating your partner while opening her up.
Side note: She may want to read the guide on how to be more submissive during sex if she enjoys it.
10. Jockey
If you’re not well endowed, then the Jockey position can be one of the best sex positions for a small penis. It works for regular sex or anal. Also…
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Try using a wedge pillow under your girl’s hips to push her butt upward and make deeper penetration easier.
11. Spread Legs
The Spread Legs sex position is another one that requires some flexibility on her part.
12. Praying Mantis
The Praying Mantis sex position is all about manipulating her legs to find the right angle for you and her. So…
Don’t worry about copying the exact form you see in the demonstration above.
Feel free to move her legs upward, downward, and to the side until you hit the right spot and find the best position for a small penis.
13. Piledriver
The Piledriver looks ridiculous, but it’s an incredible position if you have a small penis.
Bending her legs back towards her head dramatically shortens her vaginal canal, allowing for deeper penetration.
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Modification: Don’t be afraid to lean forward, even resting your hands on the bed, to go deeper.
Of course, not everyone can get into this position or likes it. Partners should make sure to speak up if they’re not comfortable or listen to a partner who speaks up.
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14. Lunge
Depending on your body sizes and fitness, the Lunge sex position works well for her to feel you deeper.
Your partner can also get tips for riding you to make this position easier and teach them how to ride a small penis.
15. Sea Shell
Before getting to the 22 techniques to make her orgasm with a small penis, I wanted to include the Sea Shell sex position.
It’s hard to pull off so it might not be the best position for a small penis, but…
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- It demonstrates how she can “expose” herself more for you, AND…
- How she can curl her hips towards her face to shorten her vaginal canal, allowing for deeper penetration.
22 Techniques To Make Her Orgasm With A Small Penis
Each of these 22 techniques will level up your sex skills and make your small penis size a non-issue. Keep reading if you wanna know how to have good sex with a small penis.
1. Eat Pussy Like A God
For many women, the right kind of cunnilingus can be more pleasurable than sex.
It’s similar for guys…
A great blow job can feel better than sex.
If you’re not already incredible at giving her oral, you need to learn the Pancake and Vortex techniques from my in-depth guide on how to eat pussy like a god.
2. Use Other Powerful Sex Techniques
There’s a lot more to sex than penetration. You can more than compensate for your size by learning how to:
- Make her squirt
- Give her the best head of her life
- Make her orgasm every time
- Fuck her properly with these 31 insane sex tips
3. Understand Her Anatomy
You need to know her two most sensitive and pleasurable spots (clit & G Spot) if you want to be good in bed.
Seems obvious, right?
You can see where her clitoris is, in the below image of her vulva (outside of her vagina):
And you can see where her G Spot is in the side-view image below, about 2-3 inches inside her vagina on the side closest to her bladder.
The great thing about her clit and G Spot is that they are still easily accessible even if you have a micropenis because they are so shallow in her vagina.
4. Get Her Aroused, Properly
If you want sex to go well, you need to get her aroused beforehand. Getting her turned on and wet before sex will make it much more pleasurable for her.
There are two steps to this:
- Start by removing the “brakes” to her sex drive (stress, anxiety, boredom, relationship issues, etc) so she can easily get turned on. I show you all the brakes you need to remove in this guide to turning her on.
- Amplify the “accelerators” to her sex drive (flirting, making her feel desired, touching her the right way, etc), so she wants to rip your clothes off. You’ll find examples of how to amplify her accelerators in the guide to making her horny.
These two steps are almost entirely psychological. Once she’s turned on, it’s time to use physical foreplay…
5. Intense Physical Foreplay
Every woman has a blueprint:
- Some women like being kissed above all else (seriously, just kissing does it for them!)
- Some women adore having their hair lightly pulled (more about hair pulling)
- Some go crazy when you rub, graze, and tease around their inner thighs.
- Others get insanely aroused simply by being led to the bedroom
The key is learning what type of foreplay turns your girl on. Hopefully, she will just tell you, but…
Hope is not a good strategy.
You should also ask her what types of foreplay she likes.
You may also want to check out these 22 erotic foreplay tips (start at tip #5; that’s when things get interesting).
6. Use Your Hands During Sex For More Stimulation
Sex is more than just your penis in her vagina.
You can provide extra stimulation with your hands by:
- Stimulating her nipples and breasts
- Pulling her hair during sex
- Rubbing her clit
- Choking her (if she’s into it and consents)
- Even holding hands during sex can be incredibly intimate
7. Don’t Be Afraid To Use Sex Toys
Sex toys can dramatically boost her sexual pleasure. You can use:
- Butt plugs for anal stimulation
- Cock rings to stay hard
- Vibrators for many types of pleasurable activities
- Dildos for different penetration sensations or even double penetration
- There are plenty more ways to use sex toys 😉
The important thing when using a vibrator or dildo is to understand that:
It’s not there to replace you,
It’s there to assist you. Just like pillows…
8. Pillows Are Your Friends
Using pillows or even specially designed sex wedges under her hips during certain sex positions can:
- Lift her hips to make it easier to penetrate her
- Change the angle of the vaginal canal, making deeper penetration possible
Regular pillows can compress, so look for firmer pillows to help with your sex positions for smaller penises.
What are some sex positions where pillows/sex wedges can be used?
Missionary – Place a pillow (or two) under her hips/bum area.
Jockey – Place a firm pillow/wedge under either her upper legs or her lower stomach. Play around with exactly where you place the pillow/wedge until you find what works best.
Butterfly – Similar to Missionary, place a pillow under her butt/hips.
Anvil – Place a wedge/pillows under her lower back. During the Anvil position, a lot of strain will be placed on this area, and the pillows/wedge will help to support it.
Go deeper: 9 sex wedge positions with demonstrations.
Basically, adding a pillow to any sex position for smaller penises can be a big win.
9. Try This For Incredible Clitoral Stimulation
It’s from your pubic bone during Missionary sex.
Your pubic bone is located directly above the base of your penis. Reach down and you can feel it.
During Missionary sex, it will naturally be on top of your girl’s clit if…
You remain fully deep inside her.
Really try to focus on grinding your pubic bone against her clit.
As always, get feedback on what feels best for her.
If you are carrying more weight, you may have a pad of fat covering your pubic bone, making it softer. In most cases, this will provide less intense clitoral stimulation.
Speaking of weight…
10. Losing Body Fat Makes Your Penis Look Bigger
As you gain weight, fat accumulates around the base of your penis in an area known as the suprapubic fat pad, which can make your penis appear smaller [2].
The bad news…
You may not be able to penetrate your partner as deeply because this fat around the base of your penis will be in the way.
The solution?
Lose body fat.
11. Body Fat Quick Fix
If you find that excessive body fat is getting in the way, you can try this quick fix:
- Suck in your lower stomach or hold it out of the way with your hands
- Stretch and arch your back to flatten your stomach area.
This will help to get the fatty areas around the base of your penis out of the way, but…
It’s completely unsustainable.
In the long term, losing weight will make your penis look better and be better for your sexual performance.
12. Use A Strap On/Penis Extender Sleeve
Using a strap on or a penis extender sleeve that fits over your penis to make you feel bigger is worth considering if you’ve got a small penis but your partner wants something bigger.
Complete guide: How to use a strap on.
Similar to using other sex toys to give your partner pleasure, you need to remember that a strap on or prosthetic penis is not there to replace you; it’s to help you.
13. Consistency Is Vital
Whether you are well endowed or have a small penis, it’s vital to remember that:
Consistency of stimulation is vital to make your girl orgasm.
As your girl gets closer to coming, you must maintain your rhythm and level of stimulation.
Changing things up is likely to throw her off course and mess up her orgasm.
Some caveats:
- She may ask you to speed up/slow down/go harder/etc as she gets closer to climaxing. Obviously follow her instructions!
- If she isn’t close to orgasm, don’t be afraid to switch things up and try a different rhythm/position.
14. Avoid Slipping Out
If you have a smaller penis, you can be more likely to slip out in certain positions. This leads some people to wonder how to have sex with a small penis because if consistent penetration is difficult, pleasure is out of the question.
If this happens regularly, you’ll need to focus hard on staying inside her when she’s about to orgasm so you can…
Maintain your rhythm.
15. Smaller Is Better For Anal…Usually
Most women enjoy anal sex. However, there’s one issue that many women face when trying anal…
Pain.
If you are too big, anal becomes…
Painal.
If you have a smaller penis, then pain is less likely for her, and anal sex can be more enjoyable.
The phrase, “Every cloud has a silver lining,” comes to mind.
16. A Note On Aggression, Rough & Hard Sex
Some men who are not well-endowed try to compensate with…
“Manliness,” aggression, or roughness during sex.
This is great if your girl is into rough, hard, aggressive sex.
It’s disastrous if she isn’t.
17. Carry The Right Condoms
If you suspect that you are on the smaller size, try buying condoms that are more snug and test one.
The last thing you want to happen during sex is for your condom to fall off!
And if condoms never work, you might want to consider other forms of protection, such as the internal condom for STI and pregnancy prevention or birth control to prevent pregnancy.
18. Get Feedback, But…
I’ve already mentioned the importance of getting feedback from her on:
- What she liked and wants more of.
- What she didn’t like and doesn’t want to try again.
These two things are important if you are serious about giving her the best sex of her life.
However…
If you are constantly asking her:
- “Was it okay?”
- “Did I satisfy you?”
- “Am I big enough?”
You will come across as super needy.
You need to balance getting her feedback so you can improve without sounding desperate.
19. Deeper Does Not Mean Better Penetration
Deeper penetration is not always better or more pleasurable for her.
It can be, but…
It depends on your partner’s personal preferences.
And even where she’s at in her cycle.
So, don’t just presume she wants, needs or even likes deep penetration. Instead…
Ask her what she wants.
20. Women Care (Slightly) More About Girth Than Length
According to one study, “Length was less important than girth” [3] for women. So…
Having a short penis that is thick is less likely to be an issue for her.
21. Her Bodyshape Can Make You Feel Small
Why?
If she is carrying excess bodyfat, then…
It will be harder to get as deep because her body fat will be in the way.
Check out these positions for big girls, which might help.
22. Avoid Sex Positions That Make You Feel Small To Her
Some sex positions can make you feel much smaller to her. Naturally, you should avoid these. Positions to avoid include:
Also be careful with Spooning. You can feel bigger in this position because her thighs are closer together. But if she has a big booty, it can get in the way, especially if you only have a 3 inch penis.
How To Psychologically Deal With A Small Penis – 8 Tactics
Let’s start with an important fact by answering “What is a small penis?”…
1. Under 5.1 Inches (Erect) Is Small.
The “average length of an erect penis is between 5.1 and 5.5 inches (12.95-13.97 cm)” [4]. This figure is from a meta-analysis of 31 scientific studies, involving over 10,000 participants who were measured by researchers (not self-measurement).
If you have a 5 inch penis, you are slightly smaller than average.
But it’s not a micropenis unless you’re talking about less than 1 inch in length, and sex with a micropenis can be harder than sex with a small penis.
If you are 5.1 inches or bigger:
Get over yourself.
Stop worrying about being small because you are not.
For those guys below 5.1 inches, there are a few things you should know that will help you psychologically deal with having a small penis.
2. She Is Still Probably Satisfied With Your Size
In fact, a huge survey of 52,031 men and women found that while “85% of women were satisfied with their partner’s penis size, only 55% of men were satisfied with their penis size” [5].
In other words, men are more worried about penis size than women!
It’s like having abs. Most women don’t particularly care if you are shredded with a six-pack, but…
A lot of guys want a six-pack and are insecure about their belly.
If you have a 4 inch penis, you probably spend more time thinking about it than your partner does.
3. 83% of Men Are Under 6.3 Inches
“Fewer than 12–17% of men have a penis that measures greater than 6.3 (16.0 cm) inches when erect” [5].
Most “well-hung” guys are only slightly bigger than average.
4. Your Insecurities Turn Her Off More Than Your Penis Size
Your insecurities about your penis are more unattractive than your small penis. If..
- You’re apologizing repeatedly for your size
- You’re making too many self-deprecating jokes about your size
- You’re constantly overcompensating in awkward, obvious ways (flashy car, too much muscle, etc)
- You avoid sex entirely
- You try to hard to make her come from penetration but ignore other types of stimulation
You are losing.
You need to understand that these behaviors are far more unattractive than a small penis.
This may sound harsh, but…
You need to get over yourself.
Accept the fact that you’re small. And understand that…
There are multiple ways to be the best lover she’s ever had that have nothing to do with your penis size:
- Oral sex
- Fingering her
- Intensely stimulating her clit during sex
- Focusing on her G Spot
- Dominating her
- Using sex toys
- Anal sex
- Rough sex
- etc
5. Some Women Have Deal-Breaking Preferences & That’s Ok
Not all, but some.
For example, women often have deal-breaking preferences around a man’s:
- Height
- Weight
- Social skills
- Level of ambition/job prospects
- Family background
- Sense of style
- Social group
- Religion (or lack of one)
- Interest in sports
- Penis size
- etc
And…
That’s ok because men have preferences too. I’m talking about things like her:
- Weight
- Beauty
- Breast size
- Level of fitness
- Personality
- Social skills
- Dress sense
- Age
- etc
It’s ok if a man is not attracted to a woman because she has small breasts.
And…
It’s ok if a woman is not attracted to a man because he has a small penis.
With this in mind, the big question I have for you is:
Why bother trying to date the minority of women who find small penises to be a deal breaker?
6. Stop Confusing Size With Skill
A big mistake well-endowed guys make is believing that:
Size = skill in the bedroom
Ha!
If you’re big and don’t know how to use it, you’re at a major disadvantage compared to a guy who has a below-average-sized penis and knows how to please his girl.
After all, her G Spot is only 2-3 inches deep in her vagina, and her clit is outside it, meaning…
You can easily stimulate both with a small penis.
Try these: 8 G Spot sex positions for the most intense sex.
In fact, there are two common problems well-endowed guys repeatedly make:
- Painful sex. They stretch her beyond the point of pleasure, or they go too deep, causing pain.
- They are overconfident due to their size and believe they don’t need to do anything else except be “big”
7. There Is No Reliable Way To Make Yourself Bigger
You can get a slightly bigger penis, but it’s not easy:
Lose weight – As I mentioned before, losing weight can make you appear longer and allow you to penetrate her more deeply.
Injecting fillers/fat for girth – Injecting fillers or fat has been used by folks to increase girth, but many significant complications have been reported [6].
Traction devices – Wearing a traction device for multiple hours per day has been found to increase flaccid penis length by about 1cm [7]. Note: this study was performed exclusively on men with Peyronie’s Disease.
Ligament release surgery – Studies have found this can gain you 1-2 cm in length, but there are lots of complications associated with this surgery [6].
Jelquing (manual massage) – I could not find a single reliable study showing this increases size.
I discovered the same results when I analyzed 28 scientific studies and papers in my guide on how to get a bigger penis…
It’s basically impossible to increase your penis size.
8. Do Not Forget Clitoral Stimulation
According to one study, only “18.4% of women reported that intercourse alone was sufficient for orgasm” [1].
That’s not a lot.
The same study found that “36.6% reported clitoral stimulation was necessary for orgasm during intercourse” [1].
The bottom line:
Penetration alone is usually not enough to make her orgasm. You need to use clitoral stimulation if you want to please a woman with a small penis.
Thankfully, there are a lot of ways to stimulate her clit:
- Oral sex
- Fingering
- Longer foreplay
- Grinding against her during sex
- Using a position that naturally gives her lots of clitoral stimulation
That will make up the bulk of your small penis sex toolkit.
Now that you know the 15 best sex positions for a small penis, 22 additional techniques you can use to compensate for your size, and how to psychologically deal with a small penis, it’s time to get out there and start giving your girl the best sex of her life.
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Hi Brenda, Check out the sex positions section and do some experimentation. There are tons of different positions that will help make him penetrate you deeper and positions where he will feel bigger inside you.
Sorry, but that isn’t true. If the bigger man has technique he will be better than a small one with technique.
You’re an idiot, Joann. The author didn’t say anything along those lines. S/He brought up hypotheticals.
No need to talk like you know everything, we already know you’re a slut.
That’s too funny
Way to go, Sun. Hilarious!
True
This is utterly depressing.
I have to say though, the common advice to be honest & not tell the guy that he is big yet avoid telling him that its small is very contradictory. I told my boyfriend, with tact & he handled it pretty well (since he’s the 2nd guy I’ve slept with, my first partner was significantly larger & naturally, our sexual chemistry- well to me was good.) I’m not sexually attracted to my boyfriend at all. I really like him as a person & more importantly, he adores me. (When you’ve been in a relationship where your worth had been compromised, it’s only natural to seek a good man, not just someone who can make you laugh and reach peak orgasms yet treats you likes doormat)
Not really sure what to do….& it sucks that I’m a gym rat- really curvy but at 50%+ muscle compared to a guy that doesn’t work out at all & I can’t tell him to pick up weights or something…that would be so rude & not right….I don’t want him to be insecure about his body because of me….but I can’t lie….all together, sex right now…is such an unappealing activity & ive gotten to the point where it’s so technical- I’m constantly trying to figure out postions that dot not involve my butt being in his face or, where I might as well be a sex doll because I can’t feel anything.
Girlie don’t know how you do it, it is not fair that your bringing such a great package, a healthy fit body to him while he doesn’t work out at all! I suggest you encourage him!! Say it /ask nicely if he wants to accompany you to the gym! Or if he can help you eat healthy by him eating healthy with you to keep you accountable! Be indirect as well as direct you know ! I am a gym rat also and can’t date anyone who is not about that health and fitness lifestyle! Good luck Hun!
I’m going though the same thing with not being sexually attracted to my new boyfriend. It would so hard with him being overweight which we both are but I’m pretty curvy and still sexy and he is such a large man and can only do one position. I’m bored out of mind and decided that tonight I will let him know that. I have been trying to motivate him to lose weight but I know he is eating and drinking things he shouldn’t behind my back. I hope my frustrations with him doesn’t get the best of me and my words will come out right when we have this conversation because he is truly a wonderful man but we have NO chemistry whatsoever.
You are using him because his kindmess and attention makes you feel better about yourself emotionally. Its pretty uncool…? Its just as bad as if he was saying and doing all those nice things just so he can get laid and really had no other intetest in you. Its a sad situation. .
Wow Lilly, thats brutally honest and i think you addressed, and answered your own questions. If you indeed are not sexually attracted to your man in anyway then you need to get out of the relationship before you hurt him anymore that you possibly already have done. If you werent attracted to him when you got together, but liked him because he had a great personality your sexual attraction should have developed with him as your relationship grew. Sounds to me like you guys were friends before you got together and now you dont want to break up because your afraid to hurt him. Sounds like he is lacking endowment from what your saying. You sound disgusted at the thought of having sex with him, when it should be an exciting enticing thought. You need to leave him. Leave him but leave him with his dignity. get out of the relationship
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I have a small penis, about 4.5 inches erect max! Spooning doesn’t seem to work though! It’s too short to be honest! Don’t you think so?
That’s ok, there are plenty more positions to try.
My new guy comes up short, literally. Riding doesn’t work as it constantly slips out at any movement. Doggy style is the only position that it feels like I can get there, but of course he is done before I even start. He is not even giving me head to distract from his short comings. No foreplay. I, also don’t wanna hurt his feelings as I do like him, but how can I deprive myself of satisfaction?
Honestly, it sounds like he doesn’t care if you’re pleased at all. My guy is pretty tiny. However, he eats me like none other. I had never been able to even kind of get close to orgasming with someone going down on me, but he gets me off pretty constantly just by doing it. Needless to say, its just penetration that is a little lackluster.
If you’re wanting to add more foreplay, just do it. Guide his hand if telling him is awkward. Or, if you’re feeling adventurous, say something like, “You can’t fuck me until you’ve eaten my pussy.” How anyone can settle for “meh” sex is beyond me. You deserve to be pleasured. You deserve someone that sparks that little part of your mind. Don’t be afraid to ask for more, because if he can’t or, god forbid, won’t, trust in that there is a guy with a similar personality and a bigger dick out there who would give you more.
If he not giving you no head you better make him get on his face and just take control he will get some act right then
I have the small size about 5inch tall and 5inch circumference, But I don’t know why my girl friend keep on complain that I haven’t given her sexual satisfaction. We have been making love for 4 months now. She keep on complaining, What should I do
Sounds like you should talk to her to figure out what she needs so that she can feel sexually satisfied.
If her part is tight, then all you can do is work on the clitoris.. but if shes not then u can do cervical stimulation.. just fix two fingers in, lay one on the g-spot and use the next one to just play around her cervix… they dont care… as long as they reach topx
If she love you she will accept that you have that size just give ha head be selfish with it she will want it than don’t give it to her when she wants it
I have a small penis, 5.5″ long and 4.75″ in girth and my girl just keeps saying it’s fine, but the only way I can make her cum is by oral, but she does sy I’m by far the best at oral than she has ever had. she doesnt seem to care if we hAve sex or not and if I want it it’s just like ok hit it. she used to talk about how she was multi orgasmic but not with me. She just turned 50 and I’m 46, she dated a 27yr old for 1.5 yrs and a 30 yr old for 2 yrs before me. When I ask why she is with me, she says I’m good to her. I don’t want to be with someone who is settling for someone who treats them good. I want someone who is into me totally. She swears she is, but it doesn’t feel like it and I am more self-conscious about my penis than i have ever been. I asked her what average is and she basically said about an inch longer and a little wider. I read a lot, too much actually about this and I know my girth is quite a bit smaller than what women want. She also don’t ever want to talk about it and I think she wouldn’t mind if my size wasn’t truly a problem. Am I being over self-conscious or what? Please let me know what yall think. It’s driving me crazy.
5.5″ inches is the statistical average and not “small”. It sounds like your relationship has a lot more problems than your penis size.
I have a small penis but my girl friend ask why am not long as my handsomeness
I really want to cry but am a man
What can I do
I have a very small penis. About 4″ in length and about 2 inches in diameter.
I had a girlfriend about 10 years ago and our sex life was ok. She however was very in experienced. I’m in my early thirties now and have had very few sexual encounters, and when I do I can’t even get erect because of my anxiety.
I don’t really know how to get over it, and am in constant fear of even going on a date. i live in a small city so I can easily run into former sexual partners, who generally treat me like a leper.
Don’t really know what to do.
The issue is not with your penis but in your head. Being self conscious about your penis size is not just a turnoff for you but also for any potential lovers. Try mindfulness to relax To be grounded and present to the women you date as opposed to just being in your head..
I’ve never had a complaint until I got with her. She’s the love of my life but our sex is so ultra bland & boring. She doesn’t even come on to me, we wouldn’t even have sex if I didn’t pursue her. So I sat her down to ask her what the issue was & she replied that my dick is to skinny. She needs more girth. What do I do? Her comment killed me & my ego. I just wanted to dump her & go back to all my past women but I know that, that wouldn’t be any good. What can I do?
Do you have any tips for the women to be able to climax. My boyfriend has a small penis and I feel we have tried everything and nothing seems to get me to climax. It’s almost to the point were sex isn’t enjoyable for me because I rarely(almost never) have an orgasm. We’ve tried some of the different positions still no orgasm for me. It had hurt my sex drive to the point were I don’t care if we have sex at all. Please help.
Try checking out the Orgasm Guide here.
Hi I’m Will and I have been blessed with a small penis… 2inches limp 5inches errect…I used to be insecure about my size in my teens but I realised I was so self conciens about my penis that i only realised in my early 20 that between the ages of 19 and 23, I was natural experimenting with positions, manual and oral. (I had four relationships in that time and have had 5 partners in that inline) through technique I never had complaints or seen my wife of 7 years now disappointed. I love the hard work? and concentrating on giving her pleasure extends the time of my climax. Lots of ejaculations but climaxing is put on hold. Basically what my point is.., having a small penis has made me a better, more passionate and thorough love… Clvxxxii
I met a guy who in time got very (and stil is) attracted to me on all levels (mentaly, emontionally and physically). In short he’s falling for me big time. He’s smart, very manly, emotinally stable, secure, sweet, caring, honest. He’s got a great job, hobbies, he’s a passionate person, active and belives in self development, learning. He has in my mind enormous potential to be an amazing partner. And I do feel a great deal for him, what he does for me, how he is…I could see him as someone I could have an amazing life with.
There is just one “small” thing…(small being the operative word) – him. He is small, as a person (he’s my height, honestly we can almost wear eachothers’ clothes o_O) and down there…I can’t say but it might be around 4-5″ hard, maybe..
He’s soooo not my type – I hate short guys with small hands and small feet. I can’t even wear shoes that are not flats, cause then the height difference becomes obvious and I feel so akward…And his penis…I’m sorry all you guys with small penises – I’m like Samantha Jones: “What can I say, I need a big dick”. I love it, Oraly pleasuring a man is one of my favourites. And that small thing is just not doing it for me. What’s worse, he himself is so not attractive, so not my type, my style, couldn’t be further, so i’m not sexually attracted at all. And that does not make me want to be active in bed (yes, we did move onto ‘sort-of’ relationship thing), I don’t want to kiss him (and that’s a third dealbreaker, horrible kisser), touch him with passion, I just become this receptive thing that just lies there and moan occasionally…
But I adore him, he’s such an amazing guy. There are moments when I feel I could get over all this stuff, we get together and then I catch myself again at the same spot – thinking about someone else, my dream man.
It will never work, will it? :((
This is disgusting, you suggest anal sex! That’s not only dirty but an abomination. Only one of these seemed like a good position.
I’m older and dating a guy who is a little older than I, we have great chemistry together, he has a small penis and can’t always get hard. I can do oral sex on him and he cums, he is great at oral on me, I cum every time. He has mentioned getting a strap on that he inserts his penis into and use on me, sounds okay to me, he worries far more about intercourse than I do. Don’t get me wrong I enjoy intercourse, I just enjoy the oral much better and can get there faster.
Ladies – If you are not happy with your guys because the penis dissatisfaction is a deal-breaker, you are only going to be hurting him in the long run by staying with him.
As one of the posters above said, as men we want to be with someone who really wants to be with us. Someone who is present in the relationship. We want a deep connection, an intimate bonding that is based on mutual respect, love and acceptance of each other. It is just a media-driven stereotype that men are just there for the sex. Many of us want much more than that. We want to be able to express love as well as receive love.
As I have gotten older, a lot of the superficial, perfect-body stuff does not matter so much anymore, because I have realized that the real blessing is finding someone I can deeply connect with. Someone who can be passionate about me and who will love me for who I am as a person. Yes, it is important to be have some physical attraction. But if an otherwise great / right person comes along who does not have everything you might think you want, those who are wise and experienced will not just focus on the flaws, but will see the total person for the gift he or she is. At that point, you learn to work with what they have. None of us is going to be perfect in all ways, it is not possible to be.
If you are not at that place yet where you can accept a person flaws and all, it is best to not get involved with that person if you don’t have the capacity to be content with him or her at this time. Maybe your perspective will change in the future. But for now, that person you are unhappy with really should be with someone who can bring them the kind of respect, devotion, and fulfillment they are seeking. At the end of the day, don’t we all want those things?
Wow Chris… That comment was truly amazing… Ive got noth8ng else, just WOW and i bet you have a happy Woman ????
I guess if your in love…..look I’m a4’11” Asian woman and a 4 inch penis just don’t cut it. I won’t make excuses or try things to make it work. I find a good guy to take care of it. My partner now an average 7 inches and I don’t have to try to find ways to be satisfied. He takes care of that. Isn’t that what real men do?
I am beyond depressed over my small penis and am seeing a therapist who specializes in sacred sexual as a means of finding a way to not be so down on it.
Worst problem is I am having zero sex and hook up sites the women always want to see what you are working with and even if they were into me before, those pictures turn them into “umm, your’re sweet, hey gotta go”.
Yes, love would be ideal and all that but I kinda need to have sex to explore and feel better of myself and also to get the nerves out of the way but have zero options.
I could find someone who will date me and be into a LTR and do the long process of courting and dating and so on but for my mind and body I just kind of need to be having some sex right now to get better at it and get over my hangups.
Very frustrating. Worse still is now many women have zero interest in even looking twice at a short white guy so I have so many strikes against me it is not even funny.
Maybe I wanted to talk to someone, sorry I am rambling. Success breeds confidence so I need to get some action so I can gain that and I have nowhere to look and I would maybe hire prostitute but I see now Craig’s List and Backpage don’t have those ads anymore so I do not know where else you find such women.
Sigh,
As for size, my erection is about as long as my iPhone. So if I lay my iPhone on my erection it’s just about the same length so I am pretty sure that is under 5 which means I do not have enough size to thrust.
With short ones like that do you just leave it in and wiggle? Since to thrust would mean falling out or doing super shallow thrusts which nobody likes.
As a woman I honestly prefer a man with a smaller dick. I think you should try rolling your hips in a circle. I had a guy do that to me and it was probably the quickest time I came.
My penis is 5” and not very thick. I can satisfy my wife fairly well. Also great with my tongue and make her have multiple orgasms. It’s all in technique and positions! She loves my size because it doesn’t hurt her!
Wow if you have hip rhythm I’m ok with whatever size you have, to be honest dick isn’t the issue for me, it’s the mental chemistry.Once I fall in love mentally the sex will be just as great no matter how big or how small u are.My kids dad had a nice size penis but didn’t know what to do with it, my only downfall with my man now is riding him, I have to just figure another technique out and we are good to go. I don’t want no huge penis to mess up my vagina, nice and slow stop do a lil fourplay and get back to it and boom he has bust and I’m ok with it,it only takes patience in the bedroom bcuz woman with small breast and a small butt may have a complex as well but our job is to make the person feel big or small that your pleasurable to have with no judgment
This is so redpill it’s hilarious, great work. honestly it’s mostly renamed old techniques but if your as clueless as the girl in the video then it’s something to consider, but nothing you can’t find on YouTube on some adult channels.
For men who are not well endowed, the solution is simply to get a smaller (petite-sized) woman who you’d be sexually compatible with.
That’s one option that sounds great in theory
So I’m right at average — almost 6″ and don’t know my girth, but it seems a tad thin, except for the head. I don’t know how many girls I’ve been with, but no one has ever made negative comments. And still, I feel insecure even when she’s cumming — thanks internet porn. So my current girl, or should I say my pregnant soon to be trophy wife, is really open trying whatever. 50 sex shop visits later, I decide to get a penis extender sleeve –Perect Fit Fat Boy Sport. It scared her it was so girthy. But with tons of Uber Lube and her submissive nature, I entered, and she came hard and fast as did I. The next day, she hurt, and so we only use it occasionally. Then she got pregnant, which makes sex weird. Spooning positions suck unless the girl is a foot or more shorter than me: I’m 6’3, My fiance is 5’8″. SO, I bought a length and girth extender. I loved it as it gave me more thrust range. She doesn’t like it.
Big dicks are cool — congrats to those who won the lottery. But a dick is just a dick. V-Jays can be big or small, but no one cares. Back doors are tight, and the average couple should be having anal sex these days because its awesome and average fits quite nicely.
Here are some tips that I have not heard that will get a girl off: Clean your house and bathrooms; always have clean sheets. Massage her body and scalp — enjoy yourself. The when you are ready, take control and tell her get in whatever position you want, but always offer for her to get on top before you cum. After sex, immediately drop the controlling thing and truly be a gentleman. Get up and get her some water of some ice cream. Do things for her, say nice things, and be kind. Showing a woman that you are a real man goes further than the length of your pecker.
My name is Ed and I have been very unhappy with my sex life. I have been experiencing E.D. ( erectile disfunction ) for several years. And on top of this problem, I’m have a micro penis. So if I’m able to have my penis rug across her vagina, its a miracle.
My loving wife has Serious back pain. And says she is happy with her sex lift. She says she can go without sex. So we have sex once every other month, But never refuses.
Is there anything I can do? Please respond back to me, through my personal email
Thank you
Ed
all i learned is size matters and i am doomed thanks i guess
Women not attracted to your man … leave (unless you’re married or you’ve agreed to a non passionate relationship.)
We all need to be with someone that craves us sexually and emotionally. It’s not fair to hang onto someone because they make you feel good about yourself or treats you well. That’s a friend, not a lover.
I was born with a tiny micro penis that is always retracted inside my abdomen. While growing up I was constantly made fun of especially in the shower after gym class. Girls dated me in High school but became disinterested in me when they discovered my size. I was so depressed and self conscious about this and the whole school knowing about my tiny cock that I considered suicide. A few years later I got married to a woman that accepted all of me. I became a self acclaimed expert at giving her oral sex and gave her good orgasms. I later introduced her to a lifelike dildo copy of porn star Jeremy
Bilding to her and she had multiple crazy toe curling O’s that probably woke the neighbors up .I realized then that my wife desired deep penetration . I was jealous about this dildo at first but I accepted myself as I was and gained confidence that this was another way to please her. we started buying larger and larger dildos to the current Vixen Creations Gambler and Jeff Stryker models which she is currently addicted to. I. started roleplaying our mutual friends having sex with her. Eventually after time and a few drinks he was in our bedroom giving her a real flesh experience. Watching his big cock pump her and open her up was so much of a turn on to us both. At first I wanted to stop him when I heard her moans,I regretted seeing him inside her but when he came in her it was so hot I couldn’t stop them. I have totally accepted the fact that Although I can never satisfy my wife by penetrating her there are other things we can do to give her what she needs.I know having other men copulating your wife isn’t for everyone but seeing another guys cum in my wife is intoxicating and very addictive and so fun to us.Im actually glad I have a tiny cock now, as we wouldn’t have ever experienced these things.Guys get your girl a dildo! Swallow your pride. No matter how big you are you won’t last long enough to work her g spot or deeper A&I spots to give her mind blowing off the chart orgasms.
Mmm but i love small penis
Acertain my boyfriend have small dick and i need it to be bigger so how can you help me
I never had sex before. And I’m 22 years old. I measured my penis to be 5.5 inches soft and 7.25 inches when hard. I still feel my penis is too small compared to the porn stars I have seen. I get nervous when my pants show my size when the wind blows against it or pants are too tight. I’m scared that my first gf will laugh at my size the first time she will see it.
I sincerely doubt anyone would laugh at that… unless they’re mean girls already deciding to laugh “no matter what “ they see…
You’re more then 2 inches longer then what I consider perfect or even doable. x.x for me going too deep just feels like being stabbed with a freaking spear, not FUN! Total turn off, but yh different girls are different flexible I guess? Most of my friends would think your size is difficultly big tho.
I’m wondering something about Vjays tho! What is tight even? What is that supposed to feel like? Is it supposed to be like a constant really strong pressure for the penis? Is it supposed to be a struggle for the guy to get inside? What is it really??
As a girl, I’ve only been in one relationship, I thought his size was completely perfect 4.2 inch and 4 circumference. But he ended up cheating on me with one of his girl fans, which he then wanted to be his new gf..
To be perfectly honest, I was a freaking amazing gf! Every way possible. So when this happened I couldn’t and still can’t think that there was any other reason than something sexually lacking in me.
Guys can compare their size to any other guys so easily.. but girls… we have no idea?
What if I’m not even normal? This has damaged my self esteem so much I’m terrified to even be with anyone new.
Sex used to be my favourite hobby or even an important as breathing I would say…
It literally feels like I’m suffocating without it.
I have read things like “ if vaginal walls aren’t TIGHTLY gripping one finger then you’re loose!..
I would say I’m more like 2? 🙁 I have petite fingers tho but still…
But at the same time… I doesn’t make sense to me that “normal average” would be one finger!
How do they ever fit a penis then?? Especially when then also say most women prefer average or bigger then average penis sizes?? All the information is so contradictory I’m feel like I’m gonna end up living as a nun forever just to not have to go through possibly disappointing some guy and embarrassing myself. I want real stone cold facts!
Sorry to hear this Aurora. You may want to learn about the large variety of different vaginas (which are all normal). “Gripping a single finger” sounds unrealistic.
Oh, Aurora. You sound very young or just inexperienced. I would like to tell you, as an older woman (42yrs old/someone who loves fucking/older sister of 2/mother of 2/ soon to be ex-wife (he cheated)…if someone cheats it’s due to a lack of integrity. Nothing to do with you or anything else. It doesn’t matter what you did/didn’t do. He was already that type of person. A coward cheats hoping to get away with it. A real man says, “This isn’t working out anymore.” At the end of the day, the meanest thing you can do to someone is waste their time. Do you want to waste your time over someone who is mean? The small dick argument is the same as the loose vagina debate. Fuck one guy 100 times or 100 different men once; is there really any difference? Nope. How would anyone tell? They wouldn’t. And anyone caught up in those old wives tales is someone too uptight to have fun. Really and truly, there’s no such thing. All vaginas/dicks are different. Who’s to say what is normal? You’ve either found someone that likes the same things as you or you have not. If not, press on. No one should feel bad because of someone else’s unrealistic expectations. Sex is so much more than the final act… things like the initial anticipation, chemistry, foreplay. If you don’t experience those things, you won’t get to the climax or have any fun anyways. Have long vagina lips? Find someone who loves Arby’s. “Small” dick? Find someone who loves oral sex. Problem solved. Both women and men have unrealistic “norms”. If you’re busy trying to fit into them you’ll miss out on life.
A big dick doesn’t mean shit, when it’s attached to a bigger dick.
A truer word has never been spoken!
I enjoy my bf’s small penis because he knows how to use it and I’ve always loved the feeling of sucking smaller dick because the bigger ones hurt. My bf is about 1-2 inches and I like to ride him, his size has never been an issue for me because I enjoy dirty talk and intimacy a lot more than penetrating vaginal sex. Also he’s an ass lover so I want to get into anal sex with him too. One tip I would give is, always be honest and upfront about how you feel. Size doesn’t matter as much as technique. I am very grateful to have a partner who loves and fulfills my sexual needs perfectly. As a woman, I enjoy intimacy and emotional loving sex more than the action of sex itself. I suggest being more open minded for fulfilling and fun sex. Thanks for reading!