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8 Explosive Techniques: How To Finger Yourself To Orgasm

by Sean Jameson

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In this guide, I’m going to show you some powerful techniques you can use to learn how to finger yourself and have incredible orgasms. (While guys will also learn a lot from this article too on how to please women, there’s an entire post with advice for guys who finger women!)

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Side note: If you currently struggle to orgasm, then you may want to learn about the Easy Orgasm Solution. It will teach you how to orgasm easily and reliably. It works even if you find it challenging to orgasm during sex or when masturbating. You can find out more here.

Podcast: 20 Intense Fingering Techniques For Powerful Orgasms

In addition to the guide below, I put together a detailed podcast featuring the 20 most enjoyable and powerful fingering techniques you can use on yourself (or your man can use on you!). Listen to learn how to have a tidal wave of orgasms through masturbation.

Listen to more Bad Girls Bible podcast episodes here

I’ve structured the article very carefully so that you get maximum benefit from it. First, I’m going to show you how to get yourself aroused and turned on. Getting aroused is super important if you want to get the most out of these fingering techniques. Then I’m going to show you the techniques themselves. By the way, these are just a few of the fingering techniques I teach. You can learn even more in the article on squirting, this guide on masturbation techniques and this guide on exploring masturbation.

Ok, let’s jump in…

Getting Aroused, Turned On & In The Mood

I want to cut to the chase and give you the most important things you can do to get in the mood. Please don’t skip this part. Without getting aroused and turned on first, your orgasms will likely not be as intense, and I’m guessing you want some intense orgasms when figuring out how to finger yourself, right?

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Relaxed & Stress-Free – Getting relaxed and being as stress-free as possible is vital. Have you ever noticed that when you’re stressed out and fatigued, it can be hard to get aroused and feel sexy? Scientific research even backs this up[1].

Privacy – Having some place quiet that you can go to and not be disturbed is key. For most people this will be your bedroom. But if you share your room with someone else, then you may have to use the bathroom or shower as your private place to try these fingering techniques.

Atmosphere – Getting aroused has both a psychological and a physical component. I know that sounded a little ‘scientific’ and not so fun, but it’s true. You need to get your brain turned on as well as your body. To get yourself physically aroused (your body), you’re going to need to touch and caress yourself, specifically your erogenous zones. Even using a vibrator can help.

To get psychologically turned on, there are a lot of things you can do:

  • Burn incense
  • Light candles
  • Watch some porn
  • Listen to music
  • Read some romance/erotica

Your Heroin – The last and most important thing to consider for getting yourself aroused is what I like to call “your heroin”, and I’m not talking about the hard drug! I’m referring to the one thing that always works for you to get yourself worked up. It could be reading a favorite piece of erotica. It could be thinking of a certain guy or fantasizing about a particular situation that gets you going or it could be something else entirely.

The important thing is discovering it and then using it to help get yourself aroused.

Once you are aroused and turned on, it’s time to begin.

1. How To Finger Yourself – Basic Technique

Quick Note: Make sure to trim and file your fingernails beforehand to prevent any accidents.

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Start by lowering your hand from your breasts, down to over your stomach until you can feel your clitoris which is located outside your vaginal opening and just above it [2] as you can see in the diagram below.

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Below your clit, using just one finger, you will be able to feel fleshy folds of skin on either side of your vagina. These are your labia.

To be scientific about it, the outer fold on each side is called the labia majora [3] which is much bigger, while the inner fold of skin is called the labia minora and is much thinner. Start by lightly trailing a finger or 2 over your labia. Most women will find that as they rub their labia, they naturally start to get wet if they are already turned on. This wetness will act as a lubricant on your finger.

As your finger gets covered in your natural lube, slowly start to press the tip of it in and out of your vagina to check how it feels. As you push your finger in and out, it will get covered in more and more of this lubrication, allowing you to slide your finger deeper and deeper into your vagina. Slowly run the tip of your finger along the walls of your vagina paying attention to what feels most pleasurable.

There’s no single ‘right way’ to finger yourself. What you find most pleasurable will be different to what other people enjoy. So focus on the movements that you find most satisfying and don’t worry too much about being ‘right’.

Many people default to the in-and-out motion because it mimics sex, but this can be irritating rather than pleasurable.

Additionally, it’s not a case of going as deep as possible. Fingering yourself should be about getting as much pleasure as possible. But if you have never fingered yourself before, then it’s a good idea to experiment with how deep you like it.

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Now lets learn some more really fun fingering techniques

Quick Note: If you find that you don’t naturally produce much lubrication, then make sure to use a good lubricant like coconut oil.

2. Fingering Your G-Spot

As you push your finger in and out or your vagina, you’ll notice that pressing up against certain parts of your vagina feels really good. If you have slid your hand down your stomach and then started to finger yourself, try curling your finger(s) backwards so that you are pressing against the upper wall of your vagina just like in the diagram below. This is where your G-Spot is located [4].

You’ll know it when you press and rub it because it feels like the back of your palate in your mouth. Some even describe it as feeling like a wet raspberry. In other words, it feels soft with tiny ridges. Try concentrating on the G-Spot for some really intense orgasms.

G spot cross section masturating

There are a number of different G Spot massage techniques to use to make yourself squirt that I cover in the squirting article. Before continuing on to the more advanced techniques, there are just 2 quick, but important points I need to cover:

1. The G Spot will be impossible to find if you are not turned on. If you’re having trouble finding your G Spot, then learn how to find your G Spot.

2. You can see from the diagram how the G-Spot is right beside the bladder. A problem this often causes is the feeling that you need to pee when you stimulate it. So if you feel the need to pee every time you finger yourself and stimulate your G-Spot, then don’t worry, it’s perfectly normal. A great tip that will minimize this ‘needing to pee’ feeling is peeing right before you masturbate. Simple 🙂

Quick Note: You may also get this “I need to pee” feeling during sex if your man is putting a lot of pressure on your G Spot. Also, many women referred to the “I need to pee” feeling when describing what squirting feels like.

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Now that we’ve covered the basics, here are 4 specific fingering techniques that you can use to make yourself cum and have a lot of fun.

3. Pressure Pressing Technique

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The pressure pressing fingering technique works especially well if you find it difficult to have vaginal & G Spot orgasms. The problem many women face is that they just can’t put enough pressure on their G Spot during sex or when they’re fingering themselves. The solution is simple…you just need to squeeze your G Spot from the other side.

In the illustration above, you can clearly see that it’s a man’s penis inside the vagina instead of your hand. I have done this as it’s a technique you can also use during sex if you have trouble reaching orgasm.

So just finger your G Spot as you normally would and then place your other hand atop your mons pubis, which is just above your pubic bone [5], as in the illustration above. Then softly push down so that you can feel your G Spot protruding into your vagina more than normal. You’ll notice that this makes it easier to provide yourself with more G Spot stimulation than normal.

4. Fingering From Behind

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Another way to finger yourself is from behind. Put your hand down your lower back, over your anus and then into your vagina. Once you enter your vagina, if you curl your finger backwards, this time you will be stimulating the opposite side (posterior wall) of your vagina to your G Spot.

While this technique will give you a different sensation, most women find that it’s nowhere near as satisfying as having your G Spot and A Spot stimulated.

5. Double Your Fun

This last fingering technique is the best if you are someone who normally struggles to reach orgasm when masturbating. It requires the use of both hands.

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Your first hand will be fingering your G Spot in the same way as I described earlier while your other hand will be rubbing, massaging & caressing your clit. It’s super simple and makes reaching orgasm inevitable. You can find even more clitoral stimulation techniques in the masturbation techniques chapter and in this chapter on clitoral stimulation.

6. Anal Fingering

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If you like anal sex or want to experiment with the pleasures of anal stimulation, then you absolutely need to try anal fingering. This can be so pleasurable because of all the nerve endings in the area [6] [7].

A little preparation is needed: So you need to trim and file your nails to prevent any nicks and lubricate your finger(s). You can buy some lube for this or use some saliva instead. Regardless, you’ll want to use something because the anal canal doesn’t self-lubricate [8].

Once your finger is lubricated, reach behind your back and slowly start to insert your finger. Take it slow at first as your sphincter muscle takes a while to fully relax and allow you to comfortably penetrate yourself. Once inside, you can simply leave your finger inserted or you can thrust it in and out. Try both and see what you prefer.

If you want to add to your pleasure, then try rubbing your clit (learn some great clit techniques) or fingering your vagina at the same time like in the illustration above. You’ll find that doing this is a little awkward, but it’s easiest to rub your clit and anally finger yourself while lying on your side.

The Tips Of Your Fingers Is Where The Magic Happens

The five previous fingering techniques were all about where to place your hand and fingers when fingering yourself. But for maximum pleasure, you need to think about what the tips of your fingers are doing when you’re fingering yourself. There are three specific movements you can make with the tips of your finger(s) to give yourself different types of sensations when performing any fingering technique. Experiment with each to figure out what you prefer.

Stroke, Stroke, Stroke

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Stroking your finger along the wall of your vagina is easy. Start in one spot and then simply drag your finger in a stroking motion. Then bring your finger back to the starting point and repeat. Make sure to experiment with the speed and length of your strokes along with the amount of pressure you apply for maximum satisfaction.

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Press The Magic Button

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Pressing and holding pressure with your finger on a specific spot can be very enjoyable. This is especially true for areas like your G Spot and A Spot (see it’s location here in the first diagram), while pressing other areas may not provide any pleasure at all. Once you find an area that responds well to prolonged pressing, try experimenting by holding the same amount of pressure with the tips of your fingers for a number of seconds. Also, try repeatedly pressing the area like you repeatedly pressing a button.

Give It A Rub

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This technique is similar to Stroke, Stroke, Stroke but this time, you will be moving your finger back and forth or in a circular motion, while keeping lots of pressure around that area. Again, the G Spot and A Spot are two very pleasurable areas to focus on, but as I am constantly repeating, experiment and find what is best for you.

Final Thoughts On Fingering Yourself

As you can see from the article, fingering yourself is pretty easy and straightforward. For many women, it’s also a great way to lower your constant sexual arousal. While I have gotten great feedback from those who have tried my eight techniques above, I strongly encourage you to explore and try to find your own favorite techniques for pleasuring yourself with your fingers. After all, everyone is built slightly differently and responds differently to these methods. So have fun and enjoy your orgasms!

February 16, 2018

About Sean Jameson

Sean is the editor of Bad Girls Bible and responsible for recruiting our team of sex and relationship experts. When he's not fastidiously checking for proper syntax or fixing bugs on the site, he's working with illustrators to make the Bad Girls Bible more beautiful and ensuring that our weekly email newsletter goes out on time.

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Comments

  1. Brittany says

    October 23, 2012 at 2:43 am

    Thank you so! This helped me a lot!!:)

    Reply
    • Sean says

      October 31, 2012 at 10:43 am

      Glad I could be of help!

      Reply
      • Alexiaaaaa says

        July 5, 2014 at 5:05 pm

        I reached a double orgasm and I squirted everywhere.
        Great instructions helped me reach my goal 😉

        -Lexi<3

        Reply
        • Lily~ says

          May 24, 2018 at 2:30 am

          Omg Really Same!

          Reply
          • Marcy says

            March 23, 2021 at 1:35 am

            Sean
            The first time didn’t work but the second time OMG what an orgasm!!!

        • amanda says

          July 31, 2018 at 10:05 am

          i got soo many orgasms and it was soo fun even i squirted allover my bed and it was fun
          but most of the time i use vibrators and they are awesome
          these tips are great but if you make someone lick and suck your pussy harder and faster then you can have organisms that last for a really long time believe me it works for me all the time when my boyfriend do that

          Reply
          • Nakawooya says

            October 13, 2018 at 6:45 am

            It’s true because when I use my fingers I come like 3times

          • Rachel says

            December 8, 2018 at 6:52 pm

            I squirted everywhere! it was soooooooooooooooooooooo amazing!!!!!!

          • Olivia says

            July 29, 2023 at 8:00 pm

            Oh my God, the other day I was fingering myself and I was like moaning and stuff and like I had three fingers inside me and I was rubbing them around my pussy felt so good but then I got scared because I felt an orgasm coming so I pulled out last minute, but now I really regret it because it felt so fucking good 😋

        • Izzy says

          September 8, 2018 at 8:45 am

          Me too I’m cumming

          Reply
        • Mami says

          October 15, 2018 at 3:36 am

          I can never orgasm and I don’t know why. I just get bored after a bit. Someone help a girl out ?

          Reply
          • alyssa says

            December 6, 2018 at 2:08 am

            me too??

          • Faith says

            January 2, 2019 at 4:21 am

            To be honest same

          • A goddess says

            January 11, 2019 at 6:40 am

            Try using a thick crayola marker and pretending its a dick and rubbing your clit. It was the same for me and i tried it and i cummed and it was rlly fun!

          • Brianna says

            February 8, 2019 at 4:53 am

            Omg frr like I’m just reading theses cmts to try to help me but like it isn’t helping ?

          • Yahaira says

            February 12, 2019 at 7:04 am

            Same here ?

          • Lilliana says

            May 3, 2019 at 4:11 am

            Try differnt techniques.Ill list a few.
            -use nondominante hand
            -ice play
            -toys/vibrators
            -anal/multipenetration
            -direct clitoral stimulation

            Hope I helped a little!

          • Andrea says

            June 24, 2019 at 6:32 pm

            Same here

          • Sean Jameson says

            June 30, 2019 at 4:45 pm

            The guide on how to orgasm will help.

          • Kipo says

            January 8, 2020 at 2:53 am

            Yes!! I really want to squirt!!

          • Cliterena says

            January 14, 2020 at 6:37 am

            Ehh me too?

          • Angel Sachdeva says

            July 3, 2020 at 11:07 am

            Me too…

          • Yaasss gurll says

            September 29, 2020 at 6:36 am

            The G spot! My man was the 1st person to ever make me squirt. Just put your hands down ur tummy& into yourself& then curl your fingers like “come here” typa curls& keep going until you squirt💕 feels amazing. Vibrators on the clit are a big help as well.

        • Jay says

          April 3, 2019 at 10:33 pm

          Same i’am squirting so much and cumming only if my crush was here plz tell me that i’am not the only one who uses there hairbrush as a dick

          Reply
          • sashanatasha says

            April 26, 2019 at 10:02 pm

            I think you have to simply feel aroused and enthusiastic

          • Mia says

            May 25, 2019 at 12:54 am

            U are not sometimes I have to use the top part of a toilet plunger with a towel it does work though I’ve cumed
            with it before

          • Rhonda says

            August 4, 2019 at 3:52 am

            Hairbushes make a good dick!

          • New to this says

            October 19, 2019 at 6:10 pm

            I never did until I read your comments. Totally did and came hard.

          • Charlotte says

            October 31, 2019 at 9:48 am

            I use my hairbrush handle as a dick too. ;p

          • Allen says

            November 8, 2019 at 7:00 am

            Not at all I do the same ?

          • hannah says

            January 7, 2020 at 6:40 am

            you are not alone sister!

          • Horny girl says

            February 2, 2020 at 8:23 pm

            I use side of my phone it’s amazing, obvs u have to wash it after or it stinks, or I rub. I get pleasure from humping objects and stopping so I tease my self. Teasing ur self is amazing too! My boyfriend does his stuff next to me and he licks me out, best thing to do is to do what feels comfy, I start off by rubbing my self(best feeling) then humping side of bed or boyfriends pillow so he has the scent later and then he licks me out? and then I finger my self then I get so aroused I end up humping everything in site.

          • Nila says

            February 9, 2020 at 11:33 pm

            i never can squirt but i want too how can i squirt

          • Sean Jameson says

            February 10, 2020 at 9:09 am

            Check out the Squirting Guide for women.

          • Me says

            August 20, 2023 at 11:55 am

            Mmmmm jay squirting… Just playing with ya. No harm attended.

        • Mimi shocker says

          August 14, 2020 at 7:34 pm

          Am still finding it difficult to reach orgasm but I will keep trying

          Reply
      • Lili says

        September 7, 2016 at 8:43 am

        Hi Sean,
        I want to cum tonight but I can’t seem to.
        I’ve tried other sites and they are no where near as good as your I can get my finger so much deeper.
        Please answer asap

        Reply
        • Sean Jameson says

          September 9, 2016 at 9:01 am

          The Orgasm Guide should help.

          Reply
          • Alondra says

            March 1, 2020 at 3:29 am

            Okay so, I was Fingering myself for the..third try, on my First time. And i felt good for a little I was trying to cum but the pleasure went away and I didn’t feel it anymore..is that an orgasm? I don’t understand. I want to squirt

          • Sean Jameson says

            April 3, 2020 at 11:14 am

            To Orgasm, read the guide on how to orgasm.

            To Squirt, read the Squirting Guide

        • Ace says

          January 15, 2017 at 1:20 am

          The thing that makes me cum is using a vibrating toothbrush on my clit and inside if me. I cum every time.

          Reply
          • Lulu says

            May 15, 2017 at 12:58 am

            Works on me two omg!

          • Ella says

            June 26, 2017 at 8:51 am

            me too but it makes my labia big.. so i need to stop using the toothbrush and come using my hands

          • Experiment 626 says

            February 12, 2018 at 12:54 am

            Same!

          • Lily~ says

            May 24, 2018 at 2:27 am

            Omg I Read This Inside The Shower And I’m FingeringMyself Right Now My Pussy Feels So Good Right Now Thanks!

          • Jamie says

            June 12, 2018 at 10:53 pm

            Having a lustful desire for the isn’t a sin but merely a temptation. It’s how you react that makes it a sin or not. If you give in to the lustful temptations by masturbating,having sex with multiple people, having sex with someone you’re not married to, then that’s when you’re sinning. But when you overcome it by prayer and such, then it’s not sinning just temptation. Jesus lived a perfect sinless and holy life for YOU. He suffered, bled ,and died so we wouldn’t spend eternity separated from God. He payed for our sins on Earth so we wouldn’t have to pay for them in Heaven. How could anyone, afte knowing the price Jesus paid for us, take that unconditional love ,of both God and Jesus, and just throw that love back in their face. Jesus took on all the sins of every person in the whole entire world, and suffered for them. He was brought back to life by the Holy Spirit proving that he reigns over sin and death and is the King of both the living and the dead. The sins He suffered for includes sexual immorality (masturbation)! All you have to do is believe in Jesus in what he did and repent and you WILL go to Heaven. God gave His ONLY son so that humanity wouldn’t go to Hell and perish. He did it because He loves us. Because He loves YOU. The Bible says “Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.”(1 Peter 5:7). Jesus told a parable about how not one thing happens to a sparrow (a really small and cheap bird that was sold for less than a penny back in Bible times) that God doesn’t know about. Then he says that we are worth more than many sparrows. Jesus also said that God knows the exact number of hairs on our head and not a single thing happens in our lives that God doesn’t know about. He just simply cares that much. Don’t take that love and throw it back in His face. Flee from your sexually immoral lifestyle! The Bible says that when you confess your sins to Him, He is faithful to forgive you and He will give you the Holy Spirit who will make you a new loving person and Completely stop your habit. I LOVE U GUYS(even tho idk u) AND I DONT WANT U TO GO TO HELL PLZ CONFESS AND REPENT OF ALL SINS!

          • Jay^ says

            June 26, 2018 at 9:55 pm

            Omg I read this in my room all alone and started to rub my pussy and started to finger myself,now I’m wet and cumming. Thanks so much this helped me relax and have fun.

          • Mary Fox says

            October 13, 2019 at 12:52 am

            yep me too intense orgasm n hella squirting.

          • Sandy says

            May 3, 2020 at 10:42 pm

            What I do is take my underwear give myself a real
            Tight wedge like real tight so I feel tight in the front and my anal while I pull it up real
            Tight then I take a pillow or a towel rolled up i law on it and hump it I move my pelvis and I gen on to the bed pressing two hard and I shake like there is no tomorrow so pleased and feel like like I was fucked

          • Vennela Chittineni says

            May 26, 2020 at 3:27 pm

            Same!!

      • Rose says

        November 19, 2016 at 3:32 am

        I can’t seem to fit anything in my pussy and I get to the point where I here it getting all wet in there when I masturbate but I won’t ever have a orgasm

        Reply
        • Georgio says

          December 4, 2016 at 6:35 am

          Some women need simultaneous stmulation of vagina (G and/or A) and clit, A good man would love to give a good clit licking andn fingering – as well as read this material prior to intimate exchange.

          Reply
          • Candacd says

            December 21, 2016 at 12:31 am

            When I finger myself my orgasm doesn’t last long… What can I do for my orgasm to last longer?

        • Lucy says

          February 26, 2017 at 9:53 am

          Me too I tried every thing and it won’t get to a point when I get an orgasm

          Reply
          • hayden says

            May 29, 2018 at 6:08 pm

            same

          • HI says

            November 1, 2018 at 7:02 am

            OMG I keep just rubbing my clit and my legs shake so bad but i can’t seem to cum. IDK why…. :<

          • Casey says

            December 31, 2019 at 8:13 am

            Im most likely to get around 5 hard core orgasm
            when I’m blindfolded, tied up to the bed (lightly not tight) and my boyfriend and his friend fucks me plus uses a vibrate on me at different times. I luv the mystery of trying to guess who’s in you or who your licking, kissing and when there both in you. Anyway I think you guys should really try it

        • Yulissah Dominguez says

          June 3, 2017 at 4:03 am

          You could use like the top of the nail polish thing in stick it up there and move it

          Reply
        • Karlie says

          April 23, 2019 at 4:20 pm

          Try jumping a pillow I orgasm every time.

          Reply
        • Brett says

          June 29, 2019 at 2:40 am

          Get a Hitachi Wand vibrating massager.
          The wand!
          It gives me the most intense and insane orgasms imaginable. Better than anything else! ANYTHING.
          Penis, finger, or other toys.
          I never had orgasms til I got this.
          Friends who have problems getting orgasms try one , and they are now able to have orgasms all the time now , by all methods.
          Every girl single or not, needs one NOW.
          Please.
          I know it will help all of you who have problems.
          Makes a vibrator feel like nothing.
          Play with the speeds and intensity. Use it on the clit, and other parts.
          Orgasms on a whole different level.!

          Reply
          • Elizabeth says

            November 3, 2024 at 8:42 pm

            OMG I had one in my house ran to try. Holy grail. My body throbbing of horniness, so good I had to stop , I was like charlotte in sex in city wanting to be home just to play w my wand. Soooooo fkn good . I keep undies on. Blanket in between no pants, dimmed lights n wow my head tilts back and I can’t stop feeling so good . Then I touch the come. Nothing but slimy goodness. Have my bf go hard and lord is that heaven

        • Jay says

          December 27, 2019 at 12:44 am

          Orgasms are my favorite.
          Especially when you have a dildo and your rubbing your clit at the same time. It ends up feeling amazing.

          Reply
        • K.m says

          March 10, 2024 at 1:09 pm

          Ok I’m gonna be real, seriously open your lips and very gently flick your clit for a few minutes, or until you feel that you are wet (if your like me that shouldn’t take long at all) then rub on part of the clit, next slide a finger or 2 or how ever many you prefer and use the come here motion gradually speed up your process try to make sure tho that while fingering self, be sure to touch the clit every time you push fingers inside make sure the palm barely touches your clit…. Works every single time for me but I also watch lesbian porn while doing so that really does it for me!!! Hope this advice helps

          Reply
      • Doll face says

        October 13, 2017 at 3:11 am

        Sean, I am 27 and I literally have never been able to masterbate. I don’t know if I just can’t get into it mentally or what. Somehow it seems my brain can’t move past the idea that it’s just me touching myself. My husband wants me to do it in front of him and I really really want to do that for him but I’m not the type to fake anything.my husband turns me on like no other and there are plenty of times where schedules have been pinched and we couldn’t knock one out and it’s left me super ready but with no out. Any tips?

        Reply
        • Adriana says

          October 13, 2017 at 8:38 pm

          You can ease into it by placing your hand over his as he rubs your clit so it feels like something you’re doing together. He can remove his hand so you’re the only one touching yourself and he can watch.

          Reply
          • Dotty says

            August 22, 2020 at 9:21 pm

            Learning to enjoy your own body and how it responds to stimulus is really good. And if you have a husband that wants to watch, that’s hot. Give him a good show, babe.

        • Aaron says

          October 14, 2017 at 5:12 am

          Yeah try to relax tilt your head back and slide ur hands down ur body and stroke yourself until u get to your clit

          Reply
        • Terri says

          September 14, 2018 at 10:57 am

          Use his penis to masterbate with. Rubbing his penis on your clit and Then when you are about to cum let him slide it in as you finish off with your fingers.

          Reply
      • Issy says

        February 4, 2018 at 4:12 am

        I can’t seem to get turned on. Any tips for me because I don’t want to watch porn. My friend has never watched porn and she can orgasm in like a minute.

        Reply
        • Banana says

          June 27, 2024 at 5:33 am

          Try reading porn. like I really like really smutty fan fiction. or if that doesn’t work try thinking of different things that might or do turn you on. I can get turned on easy it’s just cumming for me.

          Reply
      • Amanda says

        April 26, 2018 at 4:48 am

        Sean,
        Your techniques work so well I can orgasm multiple times in one session. Tonight it was 9 times and it felt so amazing. Relaxation is the key.

        Reply
        • Katy says

          January 2, 2020 at 5:21 pm

          Same! I always manage to cum and nearly even squirted!

          Reply
          • herbitchiness says

            April 20, 2020 at 12:07 am

            I squirted while reading the instructions lol!

      • Paul says

        February 14, 2024 at 5:02 pm

        Hi Sean . I have had a lot of great tips from you and just wanted to thank you personally.with your help .I now can please .tease .n satisfy my girl every time now .I have had tips on oral .fingering . eating pussy and sex .I know her anatomy.inside out now thanks to you and our sex life and our love life has been spiced up 100fold .

        Reply
        • Sean Jameson says

          February 26, 2024 at 7:37 am

          Glad I could help!

          Reply
    • Miss hoe says

      April 5, 2017 at 10:00 pm

      Even me

      Reply
    • Claire says

      March 14, 2018 at 5:11 am

      I couldn’t reach an orgasm. ???? I tried slit of the wats but I couldn’t.

      Reply
    • Matilda Buckley says

      December 11, 2018 at 2:36 pm

      i agree
      i made myself orgasm every night after reading this

      any other tips email me heheh

      Reply
      • Sandy says

        May 3, 2020 at 10:49 pm

        Yeah when I read this it makes me horny and I imagine it I lay side ways cross my thighs as if I had to pee and I happen to come right on the couch without having to even run or touch anything just moving my pelvis slowly makes me come … since people are around they don t even notice

        Reply
        • Kayla says

          May 13, 2020 at 4:33 am

          I come the same way. It’s almost like you have to put pressure all along the top to bottom of outside of vagina. I can’t come with penetration, or at least never have before. I try fingering myself but it doesn’t work. Fingering and penetration from Penis feels great, but it doesn’t lead me to an orgasm. This makes it difficult to figure out how best he can please me

          Reply
    • Camilla says

      February 3, 2019 at 6:06 am

      I had so much orgasm i squirted everywhere and i felt so good

      Reply
    • cummingqueen says

      December 1, 2019 at 1:19 am

      I wish I could eat my own pussy, it would help a lot!

      Reply
      • Jane says

        September 19, 2020 at 9:24 pm

        Lmao, I could eat it tho

        Reply
    • Emily Wix says

      April 26, 2020 at 8:03 am

      Tbh I never felt so good in my life!!!

      Reply
  2. abbie says

    December 17, 2012 at 11:10 am

    ThankyouThankyouThankyou!! This helped so much! I tried these out on my friend (we’re both girls, not lesbians just curious and horny at the time) and it was FANTASTIC. It made us both so wet and horny, she even asked me to do it again sometime! THANKS!! Very satisfied customers. 😉

    Reply
    • Talla says

      November 7, 2015 at 7:08 am

      Awesome friend. My friends won’t do this lol.

      Reply
    • Alan says

      January 11, 2016 at 8:39 am

      Not lesbians, lol! Yeah, ok

      Reply
      • Mara says

        February 23, 2017 at 3:07 pm

        Alan,
        This may not be the case above, but I think that we girls are much more comfortable experiencing our sexuallity than most of the guys are with theirs, because female-female sex is much more sexually objetified than man-man sex (even in a way that is made for men to enjoy, not women). Even so, this contributes for us to be much more open for the idea of experimenting with other women. Also, it’s much times “safer” and much more comfortable. You don’t have to worry about “being the best”, about “being unforgettable”. Many women feel insecure about letting a guy know that we are not absolutely secure about our own bodies and sexuallities. And many guys also feel insecure about knowing that their partners are interested in learning to get more pleasure (which in guys’ minds many times implies that they aren’t getting “the job done”). It is also very common that guys will accept that we are interested in learning, but just won’t be open to accepting the many real possibilities of one’s sexuality and one’s experimentation, as your own response to the above comment seemed to point out…

        Just some things I think are worth the thought.
        Love,
        Mara

        Reply
        • Thequestionmarkgirl says

          June 8, 2017 at 12:31 pm

          I totally get u like I would love to masturbate or have sex with my girl friends because who doesn’t want a naked chick on top of u and they don’t know that I’m gay yet???????? ????

          Reply
          • Julie says

            June 23, 2017 at 4:50 pm

            I’m bisexual and This helped me to orgasm with and with out my girlfriend

      • Taylor the slut Hamilton says

        December 31, 2019 at 8:22 am

        My friend came up with an idea close to that once when we were both drunk in college and we did it but later I found out she had just had sex with my bf right before me. Not that anyone cared

        Reply
    • mini says

      March 14, 2016 at 12:24 pm

      Thanks helped me a lot now

      Reply
    • claire says

      January 31, 2019 at 9:17 am

      ugh this made me so wet. all my friends are so straight (i’m a lesbian) and i just wanna kiss them and finger them until they’re wet. i wish i had a friend who was at least just curious hehe.

      Reply
      • TheGayUnicorn LOL says

        April 2, 2019 at 3:28 am

        OMG SAME!!! Nome of my friends are gay, and they all hate porn!! I have no one to do this with!!!

        Reply
      • mika says

        May 25, 2019 at 2:55 pm

        i wish i had friends like you lollll

        Reply
        • Ashley says

          June 29, 2019 at 7:45 pm

          Sameee

          Reply
  3. Lozy says

    December 22, 2012 at 3:04 pm

    thnx it felt really nice ahha i want to do it with someone now

    :'(

    Reply
    • Shiloh says

      November 27, 2014 at 11:16 pm

      It’s so much better with someone else. I need more tips if you have any ideas message me.

      Reply
    • Jobamma says

      December 30, 2015 at 4:49 am

      Omfg I know how you feel!!??? it sucks because I have REALLY DIRTY THOUGHTS and I’m getting horny af EVERYDAY. And every time I bring it up to one of my friends that say that it’s weird and gross….I HAVE NO ONE TO RELATE TO!!!??.

      And thank you to the author of this article!! I literally got really wet by just reading this article lol! Now j can try more ways to satisfy myself☺

      Reply
      • Indie says

        July 4, 2016 at 2:43 pm

        OMG ME TOO! I got wet just by reading this article!

        Reply
        • Jess says

          August 11, 2016 at 9:44 am

          Same tho

          Reply
        • Rayne says

          October 6, 2018 at 9:03 pm

          Same it made my pussy throb and made me want to do it so I did and it felt so good as I ran my fingers around the outer part of my clit and then put one finger then I pushed on my g spot and then put two fingers on and went faster and faster and faster until I orgasmed like 5 times

          Reply
      • Kayla says

        December 17, 2016 at 12:32 am

        Ugh it doesn’t really work I try it out then my vagina starts to hurt????

        Reply
        • Lol says

          February 19, 2017 at 10:02 pm

          Same here!!

          Reply
        • Lente says

          December 29, 2017 at 8:50 pm

          Same, I try but I’m left frustrated..

          Reply
      • hornybigirl says

        June 28, 2017 at 6:39 am

        lol same

        Reply
      • Courtney gott says

        May 11, 2018 at 6:09 am

        Same!!!

        Reply
      • Ivy says

        August 21, 2020 at 7:23 pm

        same………..Even I asked my female friend onces and she replied the same

        Reply
    • Bbygirl says

      August 27, 2016 at 6:57 pm

      Same :,(

      Reply
      • Katie says

        October 16, 2017 at 2:50 am

        It was alright it’s just like Everytime I go deeper it just gives me a little pinh lol????????

        Reply
    • Bii says

      January 3, 2017 at 4:45 am

      You can do it to me 😉 .

      Reply
  4. Alina says

    January 21, 2013 at 5:01 am

    Pls help ive been fingering myself in the shower but i can seem 2 squrit!

    Reply
    • Sean says

      January 24, 2013 at 11:31 am

      Hi Alina,

      The truth is that some people find it easier than others to squirt. The key is not to be focused on squirting. Instead you should just focus on enjoying yourself and doing what feels best for you. This will help to take pressure off.

      Sean

      Reply
      • Dee says

        November 15, 2014 at 7:47 am

        Sean, I’ve been masturbating for so long but I don’t cum.help pls.

        Reply
        • Sean Jameson says

          November 17, 2014 at 11:10 am

          It can take longer for some people to reach orgasm. This is often caused by desensitization from too frequent masturbation. My advice is to hold off on masturbating for a good while and then try again, focusing only on what feels pleasurable…not on having an orgasm.

          Reply
        • andrea says

          October 13, 2015 at 3:35 am

          I cant cum neither i try but it just wont come out 🙁

          Reply
          • Freyja Easley says

            April 2, 2023 at 10:45 pm

            I need help because I have tried to squirt and I just can’t seem to do it I have gaven a lot of orgys but no squirting someone help me please

          • Sean Jameson says

            April 21, 2023 at 8:49 am

            Check out our guide to making yourself squirt.

      • Jason says

        January 14, 2017 at 3:05 am

        Very well said, Sean.

        Ladies, enjoy your anatomy, it’s yours!! Relax and know; a reciprocal sex partner will take time and pride to ensure you are fully comfortable, thus communicate with your partner, let them know what feels good and doesn’t.

        Most importantly, relax your body with deep breathing (yoga breath). As you start to relax through breathing, sensory receptors will produce higher levels of pleasure/intensity, resulting in:
        neurotransmitters “dumping your love chemicals”.

        Each and everyone of us is different. Don’t worry how “others” perceive your sexual, personal and intimate life choices. Judging is the opposite of loving!!

        Love yourself first, you are perfect!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

        Reply
        • Georgia says

          November 10, 2018 at 1:53 am

          I love that! Its soo true and loving yourself is important no matter what you’re doing!

          Reply
    • Dee says

      November 15, 2014 at 7:44 am

      That’s sexxy

      Reply
    • ya mum says

      December 15, 2015 at 9:59 am

      lol you need jesus

      Reply
      • FuckIt says

        November 27, 2016 at 2:19 am

        Lol I will continue masterbating. Maybe even in front of a picture of your story book character Jesus Christ.

        Reply
    • Fukushima says

      February 11, 2018 at 3:39 am

      Put your pussy up to the water flow or if you have a shower house put it away from the clit but like make sure the water hits the clit I do it everytime I shower

      Reply
      • No name says

        April 3, 2018 at 6:30 pm

        Same here tho

        Reply
      • Ivy says

        June 19, 2018 at 11:14 pm

        I know, right? It feels absolutely amazing!

        Reply
      • K. K says

        July 19, 2018 at 4:50 am

        It feels sooo good. It makes me feel so good that it hurts. But I’ve never been able to cum. What does cumming feel like? I wish someone could pin me down and force the water on my pussy so I could actually finish.

        Reply
        • Ella lee says

          August 16, 2018 at 2:50 am

          I would ?

          Reply
      • Nacia;3 says

        May 2, 2019 at 2:56 am

        Just be sure not to let it get into your vagina, as it can cause damage due to the powerful flow

        Reply
  5. Kathy says

    January 25, 2013 at 8:28 am

    Wov, Thank you. It makes me wet and horny. It was really fantastic.

    Reply
  6. Melinda says

    January 28, 2013 at 5:11 am

    I finally was able to get my hand inside. It took approx 2 hours of kegals and pushing technique but was well worth the work. Tonight i am going to try a 1 liter plastic bottle with the same method. Tnx.

    Reply
    • Alan says

      January 11, 2016 at 8:43 am

      Wtf!

      Reply
      • jaja says

        February 23, 2016 at 7:17 pm

        your probably just jealous that she can fit a 1 liter bottle up her pussy

        Reply
        • Skyler says

          January 13, 2017 at 3:05 am

          is anyone else horny asf right now? I’m doing it as I’m typing and it’s not working. Plz help

          Reply
          • Jaz says

            May 23, 2018 at 3:56 am

            Sameeee

      • rin kagamine says

        March 24, 2016 at 6:32 am

        Get off here if u hate it

        Reply
  7. Ally says

    January 28, 2013 at 10:17 pm

    OH MY GOD!!!!!!!:) I WISH MY BF WOULD FINGER ME…..THAT FELT AMAZING!!!!!! I WAS LIKE….AHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!

    Reply
    • Maddie says

      December 22, 2019 at 5:41 pm

      I’ll do it for you baby

      Reply
  8. Emily says

    February 11, 2013 at 9:24 pm

    oh god… I CUMMED =O Yaaaaay!! imma try this again! cya good person that helped me cum =D

    Reply
    • mellisa says

      September 28, 2023 at 7:27 pm

      WHAT HELPED YOU CUM DROP TIPS!

      Reply
  9. Servelan says

    February 17, 2013 at 6:11 am

    It would be nice to have a graphic of a woman’s hand doing this instead of a man’s hand; it’s obvious that a woman couldn’t have her hand in that position and do that.

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      February 19, 2013 at 12:40 pm

      You’re right! If I can find a graphic with a woman’s hand instead of a man’s, I will update it. Thanks,
      Sean

      Reply
      • Shelby says

        May 2, 2017 at 11:59 pm

        Sean, I’ve been fingering myself tons of times and whenever I stop, I get headaches, is that bad? Also, I share a room with my twin so I have to hide in my small bathroom to masturbate ????. And my twin knows how to pick lock so I’m very embarrassed. Just reading this article made me cum. Thanks for your help!

        Reply
        • Alexa says

          February 13, 2018 at 2:37 am

          Do you smoke weed? Trust me I would smoke everyday and I would rub my clit and it gave me bad hear aches I hated to take pills so it can go away

          Reply
      • Great G-Ma says

        May 12, 2025 at 10:41 pm

        I wondered the same thing…how in heck do I reach the g spot with my short arms and small hands?

        Reply
        • Sean Jameson says

          May 22, 2025 at 11:10 am

          There are special G Spot dildos for this 😉

          Reply
  10. Ashlee says

    March 11, 2013 at 10:33 pm

    Sean,
    It’s seems like you know all the tricks. You must be quite the ladies man.
    What should I do if I’ve never had an orgasm? I’ve been with my fiancé for 3 years now and still nothing.

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      March 26, 2013 at 9:28 am

      Hi Ashlee,
      It’s much easier to first have an orgasm by yourself, while exploring your own body and what turns you on without the pressure of your man being there. Then when you can comfortably and easily give yourself an orgasm without much effort, then it’s time to start trying to have one with your man or by his hand.

      The key is enjoying the process, not focusing on orgasming.

      Sean

      Reply
    • Carrie says

      May 24, 2013 at 8:06 pm

      Girlfriend….get a vibrator pronto!

      Reply
  11. KY says

    March 29, 2013 at 1:37 am

    hi Sean,

    These tips are really amazing!!! Just from reading and imagining the sensation made me wet wet wet 🙂 thank you soo much! (im going to give it a go and feel in real the experience fom your advise)
    i was wondering, its a little stupid though.. Whats the difference between feeling wet, cum and orgasm??
    You’re like the sex master, so i hope i, the dummy have asked the right person c:

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      April 9, 2013 at 11:53 am

      Hi KY,
      Thanks for your praise & question!
      Becoming wet is the self-lubrication process that occurs when many women become aroused.
      Cumming doesn’t always accompany orgasm (but often it does), when you rapidly self-lubricate a lot and can even ejaculate (from your Skene’s gland).
      Orgasm is a peak moment of pleasure that occurs during sex, foreplay or other stimulation. You don’t necessarily have to cum when you orgasm or even be that wet.
      Sean

      Reply
      • KY says

        April 19, 2013 at 7:25 pm

        ohh thank you sean,
        I finally understand the difference ^^
        I hope you dont mind me asking another question.. But is it normal to be wet for no reason, like after a long day out.. You come home and somehow find yourself wet? I mean i am not in an ‘aroused mood when this happens.’
        Well thank you again for the clear explanation

        Reply
        • Sean Jameson says

          April 22, 2013 at 9:29 am

          Hi KY,

          Yes it’s perfectly normal and nothing to be worried about.

          Sean

          Reply
      • Lilly says

        March 12, 2016 at 2:12 am

        Hey the orgasm is just so intense I can’t keep fingering myself long enough to squirt

        Reply
      • PJ says

        December 8, 2016 at 2:14 am

        I squirt 2-4 times for 1 man I see, he gets so excited and It’s amazing. it is a feeling of mind and body coming together, pure bliss. Every woman should cum (squirt) to feel it. It’s amazingly hot and it took me years to get there, but worth the wait, it’s amazing. Toys help,learn how to do it to yourself first and then you will know how and with which type of toy first then show your guy.. Sean, you are amazing and I hope all women can feel this type of physical connection and vibe when a certain man touches you in just the right spot its simply amazing to cum for each other (sometimes multiple times) watching each other and desiring it all day!

        Reply
    • Krista says

      July 28, 2017 at 12:32 am

      Omg Sean I squirted so big than just layed there and relaxed for a while thank you Krista

      K

      Reply
  12. Jasmine says

    March 31, 2013 at 2:11 am

    I tried it but, i don’t seem to be cumming. Any Tips??

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      April 9, 2013 at 11:44 am

      Hi Jasmine,
      The key is not to ‘force it’. In other words, don’t put pressure on yourself to have an orgasm and cum. Instead, just focus on enjoying the process and discovering what sorts of things you enjoy.

      Sean

      Reply
      • CuriousAv says

        May 27, 2017 at 7:24 pm

        I tried but nothing happened only my vagina hurt. I tried rybbing my clit and after sometime i started to shake and i couldn’t rub more. How can i have an orgasm by rubbing mt clit if i can’t keep rubbing it for long and after the shaking process i feel realky weightless.

        Reply
        • cutwpieabby says

          November 24, 2017 at 4:43 am

          Same here. I masturbate, but when i do it for a while i feel like im getting closes to organism but then i stop because i can’t stop shaking. i really want to organism but i cant seem to. Help ASAP please

          Reply
          • NoOneNeeds2No says

            May 18, 2018 at 3:59 am

            ik. i never stop shaking, either. Ify

  13. Frida says

    April 16, 2013 at 3:29 pm

    Hii, I was fingering the clit and I got reallt wet and such, but I came to a point where I couldn’t keep on rubbing the clit because it was to sensitiv… Hard to explain, it felt like I came, but it happened to fast… I am confused

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      April 19, 2013 at 8:42 am

      Hi Frida,
      This is completely normal. After you orgasm, your clit can become very sensitive, usually too sensitive to keep on rubbing. All you need to do is just wait until this super-sensitivity subsides and then you can go back to rubbing it again.

      Sean

      Reply
      • Lilly says

        March 12, 2016 at 2:15 am

        Thx that advice really helped me too

        Reply
  14. ka3L9T15R9S says

    April 24, 2013 at 4:43 pm

    Thanx, i really appreciate the help/advice

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      April 29, 2013 at 10:02 am

      Glad you enjoy the advice!

      Reply
      • Ava says

        December 29, 2016 at 11:48 pm

        i cant cum but i wish i could and i wish my boyfriend would fuck me ====3

        Reply
        • Fuckmeim16 says

          May 25, 2019 at 12:57 am

          Wish I had a boyfriend to fuck me or anybody for that matter

          Reply
  15. Paige says

    April 26, 2013 at 11:33 pm

    Hello,
    I’m very new at this and I don’t know what it feels like to achieve a orgasm so I don’t know if I’m doing it right. I rubbed my clitoris until it became so sensitive I couldn’t take it anymore. As for the G-Spot I can’t seem to find it, any tips?

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      April 29, 2013 at 9:56 am

      Hi Paige,

      There is no right way or wrong way to rub your clitoris as different people enjoy different things. The important thing is to keep experimenting to see what is the most enjoyable thing for you. So experiment with all different kinds of touch, from feather light to soft to quite hard touching.

      Your G-Spot is much easier to find when you are very aroused, so my advice would be to only try to find it when you are super aroused.

      Sean

      Reply
      • Katie says

        March 19, 2014 at 10:13 pm

        Hi ummm I had a good feeling and it was unbelievable I was wet wet and even more wet than I can imagine after I cum I used a viberator I squirted so much I screamed. But I fuck with most of the things in my house I fuck with everything I have I did it with my phone once.

        Reply
        • Talla says

          November 7, 2015 at 7:07 am

          That’s hot

          Reply
        • sexy says

          January 29, 2016 at 3:49 pm

          I become so wet and started fingering myself my god i squirted so much feeling horny

          Reply
          • Scarlett says

            July 22, 2018 at 9:38 pm

            Same im so fucking horny rn i need to get it outtttt

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  17. Sierra says

    May 23, 2013 at 5:28 am

    Thank you so much. But I have a question, I have only had sex once (not because i’m scared, because of pain yada yada yada) and it was over a year ago. I have fingered myself once from it, that’s it. And I can’t use tamps, so I’m pretty tight. Do you have any tips for this? For me to get comfortable fingering myself better? Thanks.

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      May 27, 2013 at 9:57 am

      Hi Sierra,
      The first thing you should do is use lots of lube. This will help everything to slide in and out much more easily. The next thing you need to understand is that the more your stretch it, the looser it will get. Just make sure that you don’t hurt yourself when doing it.
      Sean

      Reply
  18. CM says

    July 10, 2013 at 9:11 pm

    Sean,

    thank you so much for this site… I’ve never really got anything from masturbating, so just never bothered… then I discovered your site, read your tips…

    i tried and for the first time, managed to make myself cum

    thank you… now I just need to try those bj skills 😉

    xx

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      July 16, 2013 at 7:31 am

      Great to hear!
      Sean

      Reply
      • tami says

        February 19, 2015 at 3:21 pm

        sean
        I tried the it but I always seem to cum but wit no orgasm wat am I doin wrong ?

        Reply
        • Sean Jameson says

          February 23, 2015 at 9:08 am

          Hi Tami, it sounds like you need to only focus on the techniques and motions that you find pleasurable. Don’t worry about cumming, just focus on the most pleasurable stimulation.

          Sean

          Reply
          • Dani says

            October 12, 2016 at 9:57 pm

            Hi Sean should I lick my boyfriends fingers clean after he has rubbed me?? xxxx

          • Sean Jameson says

            October 14, 2016 at 8:45 am

            If you want

  19. Cassie says

    July 15, 2013 at 5:48 am

    I’ve been fingering myself for awhile now and I get close to orgasming. I never seem to be able to do it though. Why? My boyfriend tells me to relax and I try to but I seem to have a natural tension from the pleasure, if that makes sense. Please help??

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      July 16, 2013 at 7:08 am

      Hi Cassie,
      That natural tension is a good thing. You’ll find that if you keep going (while focusing on what is pleasurable), then the tension will build and build until it reaches a peak and then quickly dissipates. This peak is orgasm!

      Sean

      Reply
  20. lisa says

    August 6, 2013 at 4:52 pm

    What if our arms are too short to reach your gspot?

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      August 12, 2013 at 8:46 am

      Hi Lisa,
      If this is the case, then you may want to try using a toy like a dildo.

      Sean

      Reply
  21. linzie says

    September 5, 2013 at 9:37 pm

    Hi sean, I used to cum really easily but now I get to the point where I’m about to then it just disappears, what’s the best thing to do

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      September 8, 2013 at 7:04 pm

      Hi Linzie,

      I’m not sure. Have you started/stopped any medications recently. This is often the cause.

      Reply
      • sasha says

        June 27, 2015 at 7:02 pm

        What if u rub ur clit and finger yourself and am horny but still don’t orgasm or get wet or cum and use lube

        Reply
  22. Aria says

    September 12, 2013 at 11:17 am

    I’m sorry I ment does your hem have to be broken to hit your g-spot

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      September 16, 2013 at 7:56 am

      Hi Aria,
      No the hymen doesn’t necessarily have to be broken in order to hit your G Spot.
      Sean

      Reply
  23. Eddie says

    September 27, 2013 at 6:54 am

    Im a 25 yr old male.
    I love n prefer to eat pussy cant get enough of the scent n wetness!
    Im an oral addict!
    Is this normal?

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      September 30, 2013 at 4:28 pm

      Hi Eddie,
      Sounds pretty normal to me.
      Sean

      Reply
  24. emraan says

    September 29, 2013 at 10:02 am

    i tried fingured to my girlfriend. but she said she get very pain. so i i cant fucked her

    Reply
  25. laurenj says

    October 13, 2013 at 7:52 am

    Hi sean,
    ive had many clitoral orgasms before but when I finger myself I get no pleasure from it…is this normal and what can I do to sort it?
    Thanks.

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      November 11, 2013 at 8:24 pm

      Hi Lauren,

      I always advise students to keep trying, without putting any emphasis on having an orgasm. A much better strategy is to take your time, try different things and only focus on what feels good.

      Sean

      Reply
  26. MelissaM says

    December 24, 2013 at 9:24 pm

    My boyfriend has tried fingering me, and I didn’t find hardly any pleasure. It just hurt. A lot! A lot a lot. I wanted him to and I was wet?? I thought maybe it was just him…so I tried fingering myself and didn’t get anything from it. It didn’t feel that great. Any advise? I’m going to try stuff of this page too, thanks xoxo (:

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      January 9, 2014 at 11:53 am

      Hi Melissa,
      The goal isn’t just to ‘finger yourself’. It’s to rub yourself in a way that’s pleasurable. The main thing to focus on is doing what you find most pleasurable.

      Sean

      Reply
  27. benu says

    January 2, 2014 at 6:11 am

    Can u tell me the side effects of self fingering & if I will enter two fingers at a time will it harm my hymen.

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      January 9, 2014 at 11:42 am

      Hi Benu,

      It potentially can harm your hymen, but it all depends on how much pressure your use. I wish I could be more detailed, but the truth is that it really depends.

      Sean

      Reply
  28. Anonymous says

    January 7, 2014 at 7:18 am

    Hi Sean….well I’ve fingered myself for a while now. I did it tonight and I still haven’t cummed. It felt really close tho my legs were shaky. But nothing came out I did this for a good half hour still nothing but I really want to…any advice/help????

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      January 9, 2014 at 11:30 am

      Don’t focus on the outcome (making yourself orgasm). Just focus on enjoying yourself.

      Sean

      Reply
  29. Nicole says

    January 8, 2014 at 6:19 am

    Hi Sean,

    So, I’m pretty sure I found my G-spot, but every time I try to stimulate it, my bladder engorges and eventually I pee. Is there any way to avoid this?

    Thanks,
    Nicole

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      January 9, 2014 at 11:30 am

      Hi Nicole,

      You may find that you are actually squirting like I explain in the squirting tutorial.

      Sean

      Reply
  30. Shannon says

    January 22, 2014 at 9:32 am

    Hey Sean
    Great site!
    I was thinking of trying this, i have tried to finger myself before but i get no please if not stinging. I dont use tampons i feel im too tight to fit them and it hurts and feels dry although i have tried. I also dont get very wet if at all so fingering is dry and hurts. And even if i do get wet when i try to finger myself i simply get bored and ‘dry up’ and im so worried that because i cant use tampons cause im tight i wont be able to ‘fit’ a penis.. i dont know what im doing wrong!!
    Please help me! 🙁

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      January 27, 2014 at 7:54 am

      Hi Shannon,

      This doesn’t sound like a massive problem. You can cure the dryness issue by using a bit of lube. You may want to talk to your doctor about the excessive tightness however, it could potentially be something like vaginismus.

      Sean

      Reply
  31. emma says

    March 7, 2014 at 6:59 pm

    Omg it was amazing wish someone would do it to me in stead of me doing myself

    Reply
  32. sexy says

    March 27, 2014 at 3:16 am

    Thank you so much I fucked my gf the other day and she fuckin cummed so hard im gonna fuck her every night

    Reply
  33. rolop says

    March 31, 2014 at 5:59 am

    hi sean,
    so im in love with my gf and i want to give to her. how do i kno shes ready?

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      April 2, 2014 at 9:14 am

      talk to her!

      Reply
      • Dez says

        August 22, 2016 at 8:00 pm

        Hey Sean,
        I was wondering if you have some tips for girls on girls or a section for lesbian sex tips.
        Thanx

        Reply
        • Sean Jameson says

          September 2, 2016 at 1:57 pm

          I’m looking into it!

          Reply
  34. elly says

    March 31, 2014 at 7:55 am

    AHHHHHH! your advice give me some pleasure!

    Reply
  35. lady says

    April 2, 2014 at 8:10 am

    sean please give me some insight if you can! I can’t even get myself to finger myself it’s a really terrible issue and I understand the reason is me and only me but why do I feel this way?

    I’m not the biggest fan of the vagina though I appreciate my own. however, there is nothing that gets me to touch myself down there (and I’ve even considered wearing a surgical glove before trying to do so) to me that’s just wrong and I’d love to form a personal connection with my vagina but I just can’t bring myself to do it…

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      April 2, 2014 at 9:13 am

      Hi,

      Sounds like a tough situation to be in and there could be many potential causes for you feeling this way: past experiences, repression, shame, etc. It may be best to talk to a doctor or therapist about this.

      Sean

      Reply
  36. Emma says

    April 17, 2014 at 11:58 pm

    I was fingering myself last night, but got no pleasure at all. I really want an amazing orgasm, but I don’t seem to enjoy fingering

    Reply
  37. Shaunine says

    April 21, 2014 at 5:45 am

    Ok I try to masterbate but I cant can you give steps for say like ok now once you’ve rubbed there for 2mis than start fingering your self plz plz it would help

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      April 21, 2014 at 12:15 pm

      Hi Shaunine,

      The truth is that different people enjoy and get off to different sensations, so you’re going to need to do a lot of experimentation to discover what you enjoy the most.

      Have fun!

      Sean

      Reply
  38. Jane says

    May 5, 2014 at 12:06 am

    This totally helped me I finger myself so much now and I organism like crazy thank you
    I always wear thongs before, to get myself feeling sexy

    Reply
  39. Christina says

    May 14, 2014 at 5:05 am

    I cannot fit more than 1 of my fingers in my vagina. I tried to put 2 but it hurt. Any help

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      May 18, 2014 at 9:08 pm

      Make sure to use lots of lube!

      Reply
  40. courtney says

    May 31, 2014 at 2:01 pm

    Can you get pregnant from this

    Reply
    • ya gallll :) says

      April 16, 2019 at 7:09 pm

      No.

      Reply
  41. Alice says

    June 13, 2014 at 3:16 am

    Hi so I use a vibrator often and I have it on my favorite setting but I never have an orgasam so why is this am I using it the wrong way?8

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      June 16, 2014 at 6:17 am

      Hi Alice,

      It’s hard for me to tell as different people have different levels of sensitivities. The main thing is to keep focusing on what feels pleasurable and not worrying about the outcome. If using your vibrator isn’t that pleasurable, then just switch back to using your hand or whatever technique you usually use when masturbating.

      Sean

      Reply
  42. CassieK says

    July 9, 2014 at 11:59 am

    Hi Sean,
    I’ve tried to use to fingers before and it hurts but when I use one it feels like nothing is in there any ideas on what might help me? Xx

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      July 13, 2014 at 4:19 pm

      Hi Cassie,

      You might find that you need to use a bit of lube to make it easier for yourself.

      Reply
  43. Shayla says

    July 11, 2014 at 3:34 am

    Should it feel like gushing water? I dunnnnooo

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      July 13, 2014 at 4:17 pm

      Hi Shayla,

      Yes, it can feel like that

      Reply
  44. Audrey. says

    July 21, 2014 at 6:00 pm

    Hello, Sean! 🙂
    Actually, I have tried fingering lots of times and have always tried finding the G-Spot. I have tried searching in the internet for how the G-Spot actually felt like. Everytime I feel like I have found it, I certainly feel unsure about it. I just don’t think it is the right one. That is the reason why I came to this website though. I wanted my fingering session to be pleasurable for me. Also, I have never squirted before! Regarding of this, I just feel insecure about myself. I don’t know whether it is that I can’t squirt or am I doing the wrong thing. So, please help me amd give me suggestions about this. 🙂 Thankyou!

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      July 28, 2014 at 7:23 am

      Hi Audrey,

      You may want to read the article on finding your G Spot and this one on squirting.

      Enjoy!

      Sean

      Reply
  45. cindy says

    August 11, 2014 at 10:56 pm

    omg I cummed s000 much when I read this and you helped me so much im so horny right now thank you

    Reply
    • Jay says

      August 31, 2014 at 5:58 am

      How do you cum?

      Reply
  46. Katie says

    August 25, 2014 at 3:47 am

    Hi Sean!
    I’m very new to this and very unsure on how the whole ‘fingering thing’ works. I’m am so terrified that I might do something wrong. I’ve done this before but was just to scared to continue. Is this normal? Thanks. 🙂

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      September 3, 2014 at 6:51 pm

      Hi Katie,

      If you are scared or unsure of anything, then don’t feel like you need to keep doing it. Don’t worry about whether you do it ‘right’ or ‘wrong’, just focus on what feels good.

      Sean

      Reply
  47. Grace says

    October 14, 2014 at 5:14 am

    I’m so thankfully sean you really helped me bus it seems that I can’t feel in the mood now matter what I do any tips?

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      October 15, 2014 at 1:36 pm

      Hi Grace,

      This can be a tricky situation. You may need to do some things with you man to build sexual tension so that you are more eager to make something happen. This article will help you build sexual tension with him.

      Reply
  48. Mary says

    November 7, 2014 at 3:59 pm

    I cant orgasm. My bf used to fuck me 2-3 times a day and its been three years since I’ve had proper sex. I’ve been really horny for the past 5 days to the point its making me sick. I have tried fingering..I have tried bottles of all shapes and sizes… I gave tried the shower head..I’ve even sleptwith a mascarra bottle in between my legs. I’m extremely wet but no orgasm. Help!

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      November 10, 2014 at 6:37 pm

      Hi Mary, try some of the tips in the squirting article and orgasm article.

      Reply
  49. Jessie says

    November 13, 2014 at 4:45 am

    Luv this wanted to try to see if it works and it’s great agian luv the site also good step by step instruction

    Reply
  50. jasmine says

    November 16, 2014 at 9:38 pm

    OMG Sean this is amazing ive been doing this all day and each time is better! Thank you so much!!

    Reply
  51. Claire says

    December 2, 2014 at 3:45 am

    I’ve tried these, they really work. It depends on you body though. I wish I could right now, but I’m not alone… Could get awkward…

    Reply
  52. holly says

    December 28, 2014 at 11:03 pm

    Hi sean…
    I have had an orgasim before many of times from fingering but it just all stopped happening now when o do masterbate i do find my clit and my g spot i get wet then i rub but i dont get orgasims from it i have tried all diffrent ways but i dont get pleasure from it

    Reply
  53. sluttyme08 says

    January 21, 2015 at 11:23 am

    This helped me feel how it feels to be you know..it is pleasurable

    Reply
  54. sweetie says

    February 12, 2015 at 12:45 pm

    wow I really enjoyed it is so sweet I fell like doing it again and again

    Reply
  55. lisa says

    February 16, 2015 at 1:10 am

    Thank you so much I love these techniques

    Reply
  56. craig donnin says

    February 20, 2015 at 10:57 pm

    the least best known arouser your plain old fingers oh and the tongue

    Reply
  57. josie says

    March 4, 2015 at 1:31 am

    My boyfriend and I fuck all the time. But its not that pleasurable. But when he fingers me its great and I squirt a lot. Is it normal ? To like rather be fingered by him.

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      March 9, 2015 at 9:37 am

      Hi Josie, squirting is completely normal. If you prefer to be fingered by your man, then make sure to let him know. Great sex is all about communication after all.

      Reply
  58. Alison says

    March 19, 2015 at 7:11 pm

    Omg I tried double the fun and in 3mins I was in a puddle of my own fluids. You are a life saver 😉

    Reply
  59. Lucy says

    April 5, 2015 at 9:21 am

    Thank you so much…this was my first orgasm and it felt great! Your techniques for this are amazing! And once again, Thanks for helping me acheive this goal

    Reply
  60. sam says

    April 5, 2015 at 10:29 pm

    i’ve done everything and i haven’t cummed. it’s so frustrating

    Reply
  61. makenzie says

    April 16, 2015 at 4:00 am

    So this is basically practicing sex before you really have it? It feels wonderful to do though is there anything i can use a replacement for a guys penis?

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      April 20, 2015 at 6:07 am

      A dildo is the obvious choice here. But anything penis shaped will do, provided it’s safe and won’t irritate your vagina.

      Reply
  62. Psyche says

    May 1, 2015 at 9:36 am

    I’m a guy and I find your article very descriptive , the diagrams make it even better! I really think this will help me pleasure my girl.

    Reply
  63. Charla says

    May 3, 2015 at 12:28 am

    Hi, I tried fingering myself, I tried finding the g-spot, but, when I finger myself it feels good until my arms get numb and I still haven’t came.. Why cant I cum?

    Reply
    • Jenny Fox says

      May 4, 2015 at 7:14 am

      Hi Charla, Just focus on what feels good and don’t worry about the orgasm. It will come as long as you only focus on what feels good.

      Reply
  64. munks says

    May 3, 2015 at 10:16 am

    Omg thank you so so much… That was so great!!

    Reply
  65. Victoria says

    July 30, 2015 at 7:30 am

    Omg this was great. I cummed everywhere, but i cant seem to squirt help please!!!

    Reply
  66. vicky says

    August 31, 2015 at 12:49 pm

    I know had one ever before iam 29
    how sad is that

    Reply
  67. kk says

    November 22, 2015 at 8:45 pm

    Hey Sean

    So I don’t know if I’m just not doing it long enough or what but each time I finger my clitoris it feels amazing and it feels so good I can’t take it, but I keep going any way and I get to this point when it feels so good I tense up, but then nothing, what am I doing wrong? Any tips

    Reply
  68. nothasha says

    December 12, 2015 at 12:12 am

    I just can’t stop fingering myself ,other tyms I can’t even sleep without doing it,when I’m with my man I let him do it

    Reply
  69. chacha says

    December 15, 2015 at 7:23 am

    hi?is finggering ok for a pregnant woman?

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      December 21, 2015 at 12:39 pm

      It’s best to talk to your doctor about this.

      Reply
  70. she.needs.some.milk says

    January 6, 2016 at 4:17 am

    i cant orgasm!! and i have a hard time getting wet. my heart races and i get weak but i dont get very wet or orgasm. please help. xoxoxo <3 m

    Reply
    • rin kagamine says

      March 24, 2016 at 6:31 am

      Bruh when i do it it hurts

      Reply
  71. Susan says

    January 26, 2016 at 7:03 am

    Thank goodness for this article. it was greatly helpful.

    Reply
  72. Valentine says

    March 12, 2016 at 5:52 am

    Oh thank you Sean! I didn’t quite cum but I loved the orgasm. I was previously talking to my boyfriend so I had been turned on already. I even made him aroused earlier. We are both virgins so we have no experience with sex but this was very helpful for me for my first orgasm. Thanks! When I did though I kept calling his name and it helped to think of him. Your now my saviour!!

    Reply
  73. rin kagamine says

    March 24, 2016 at 6:29 am

    Everytime i do it it hurts what am i doing wrong.

    Reply
  74. Sydney says

    April 5, 2016 at 4:59 pm

    Omg!!!! I keep getting wet and having Orgasm’s and I love it me and my bf can have sex everyday now that I’m getting wet!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Reply
  75. Jayd says

    April 23, 2016 at 12:22 am

    Dear Sean,
    No matter what I do I can’t seem to orgasm squirting or cum. I’ve looked at other articles but nothing seems to help. What do I do?

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      April 28, 2016 at 3:34 pm

      Try to not focus on the orgasm and try some of these techniques.

      Reply
  76. katherine says

    April 26, 2016 at 3:05 am

    I still don’t understand!!! BTW I never fingered myself, please help!

    Reply
  77. kendra says

    May 1, 2016 at 11:52 pm

    I read this article and by the way love the website and i first started fingering my self i looked for tht flesgt spot and found it i begin ti apply pressure and it felt good but it seem like i had been doing it forever so i applies force on my stomach and within 10 min i squirted omg !! Now i dont even need to applu pressure from my stomach thank you soo much

    Reply
  78. Bree says

    May 2, 2016 at 6:34 pm

    Thankyou so much ! I never came on my own via g spot massaging ☺️ And thinking of my bf really does help , this is great ! Thankyou Sean

    Reply
  79. Hannah says

    May 11, 2016 at 4:46 pm

    My legs are also numb and shaky

    Reply
  80. PRIMROSE says

    May 22, 2016 at 6:17 am

    Wow this is amazing I tried it m……..it really gave me a morning glory will teach my man how to really get it right also when fingering me #thanks sean#

    Reply
  81. I came says

    June 10, 2016 at 7:33 am

    thank you so much it feells so nice and great…
    ‹3

    Reply
  82. Sarah Fultz says

    June 13, 2016 at 6:58 am

    OMG! Great advice! I tried it and got SO fucking wet! Thanks!

    Reply
  83. Georgia says

    June 29, 2016 at 1:13 pm

    So I did finger myself and found much pleasure but I just can’t seem to orgasm I am really in lots of pleasure but I have tried what you have said to others and not focus on orgasm but still I can’t reach orgasm. Also I really want to finger my gf but I’m too afraid to talk any advice? (Btw I’m lesbian and this site helped quite a bit thank you!)

    Reply
  84. Udhi says

    July 14, 2016 at 8:34 am

    I’ve been masturbating madcore with a brush, but I never seem to orgasm.. A couple of minutes before I read this I got extremely close, my legs started to shake and everything! But I got too sensitive and I couldn’t go any further…

    Reply
  85. Lucy says

    July 24, 2016 at 2:24 am

    I squirted all over myself ? But it was great because my girlfriend walked in and then we had a huge fucking session… Really happy with this thank you???

    Reply
    • Dez says

      August 22, 2016 at 8:05 pm

      LOL!! That is so awesome!!! I’m jealous?

      Reply
      • Kayla says

        November 21, 2016 at 3:28 am

        Same tho ???

        Reply
  86. Haley says

    August 2, 2016 at 2:16 am

    what exactly does an orgasm feel like ? because I feel as if I have had one but I’m not sure if it really is an orgasm . if you get what I’m saying .

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      August 5, 2016 at 10:44 am

      This should answer your question.

      Reply
  87. Lorelei says

    August 7, 2016 at 1:59 am

    Oh my gosh! Thanks so much! I’m lesbian, so I’m always finding new ways to finger myself. I haven’t tried your tips yet, but I plan to tonight. Again, THANK YOU!

    Reply
  88. Christina says

    November 8, 2016 at 12:32 pm

    This was the best advice ever! I’ve never had such an intense pleasure before. Thanks Sean!

    Reply
  89. Alice says

    November 30, 2016 at 9:54 pm

    I had my first orgasm thanks alo Sean x

    Reply
  90. Desii says

    December 3, 2016 at 5:38 pm

    This is literally the first time ive ever been able to squirt using only my hands. Thank youuu ?

    Reply
  91. Jasynta says

    December 6, 2016 at 3:45 am

    I find that when I hump or start grinding a pillow I hit a massive climax & I get an orgasm. I wish i had a bf but i don’t. I’m also kind of bi sexual/lesbian. Also is it normal for me to be doing this every day?

    Reply
  92. George Smith says

    December 8, 2016 at 5:16 am

    Thank you so much i am a man and I’ve wanted to try anal masteubation for a while and this guide on fingering your self and your guide on preparing for anal sex were so helpful and I just mastrubated anally and it was so amazing

    Reply
  93. viii says

    January 12, 2017 at 8:27 pm

    My boyfriend masterbates me but i ‘m not able to tell him what exactly to do as he hasn’t done it before! Please relme what exactly should i tell him to do?
    Ps-fyi, i love the G- part xD thing v much

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      January 13, 2017 at 10:57 am

      Talk to him and give him feedback!

      Reply
  94. Charles says

    February 8, 2017 at 12:43 am

    Nice site Thanks!!!Im ready to finger my girlfriend and give her a great day!!!

    Reply
  95. Katie says

    February 14, 2017 at 7:34 pm

    Thanks this helped ALOT! I had an AMAZING orgasm! But I have a question for u Sean is it bad to masterbate often?

    Reply
  96. Lol says

    February 19, 2017 at 10:38 pm

    Hi, you explained in another article that putting pressure should make you FEEL like you have to pee but I’m actually peeing minorly. Why? Is there anyway to prevent it?

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      February 23, 2017 at 3:48 pm

      You may actually be squirting/gushing. This article explains it in more detail.

      Reply
  97. Lol says

    February 19, 2017 at 10:52 pm

    I having a problem with these techniques. Every time I try them, about 5 minutes later the inside of my vagina feels like it does after I pee when I have a urinary tract infection(UTI) Why? What should I do?

    Reply
  98. karrie says

    March 13, 2017 at 11:36 pm

    Thank you for the tips

    Reply
  99. zoe says

    March 31, 2017 at 1:52 pm

    ive been rubbing myself for a while and decided to finger myself but when i try to it hurts, also i never get wet or cum after rubbing but i do reach climax feeling. is there something wrong with me not getting wet? i really dont want to use lubricant.

    Reply
  100. Mimi says

    April 1, 2017 at 8:21 pm

    OMG this was the best feeling ever. I done it to myself​ then a few weeks later my boyfriend did it to me and i cummed all over his hand! I loved your tips and you really helped my sex life thank you very much

    Reply
    • Brooklyn paige says

      July 3, 2017 at 6:25 am

      My boyfriend experiments on my pussy all the time during sex or just when we are cuddling he likes me to be naked when we cuddle so he can feel around but anyway ya best feeling EVER!!!! REALLY GETS ME MOANING AND GROANING!!!!

      Reply
  101. Abi says

    April 18, 2017 at 9:30 pm

    OMG!! The pleasure is so good. I love it. I always cum and it feels amazing. THANKS!!

    Reply
  102. Selena Duprie says

    April 30, 2017 at 8:37 am

    OMG it worked for me I did have my droughts but it really worked I got so wet and then all of a sudden I exploded thank u so much

    Reply
  103. Phoebe says

    May 24, 2017 at 3:16 pm

    Thank you so much for the advice! This really helped.

    Reply
  104. Anonymous says

    June 27, 2017 at 2:35 am

    I have lube but it doesn’t work for making me not hurt when I finger myself. Plz help asap!

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      July 3, 2017 at 11:07 am

      talk to your doctor

      Reply
  105. Brooklyn paige says

    July 3, 2017 at 6:22 am

    I get wet by rubbing my clit then I start my sticking my finger in there then deeper until I can’t fit my finger in anymore then when I’m horny enough I’ll stick a pen up there then markers or anything long and thick I’ve actually tried sticking my tampons up there to get satisfaction and vibrating Toothbrush’s my boyfriend likes to experiment things in my pussy during sex and if u need something to get u horny try watching hard rough sex, it gets me and my boyfriend everytime

    Reply
  106. Orly says

    November 23, 2017 at 2:24 pm

    Hi Sean

    I still have very hard time relaxing and masturbating. I’ve never had an orgasm with my boyfriend of 2 years and I’ve only cam once. I am starting to get dry during sex and tend to zone out and I can’t help it. When I masturbate I feel like I’m doing it wrong and then i easily become bored and stop.

    I don’t know what to do anymore and this is really affecting my sex life and the way i view sex :(.

    Please help.

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      November 27, 2017 at 11:17 am

      Talk to your man and try to figure out what YOU need to get turned on and enjoy sex. Longer foreplay? Specific things like kissing, breast massage, etc?

      Reply
  107. Audrey says

    November 24, 2017 at 5:13 am

    Every time I try to put a finger in and go in and out it doesn’t feel good, is that normal?

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      November 27, 2017 at 11:15 am

      If you are not turned on, then that’s totally normal.

      Reply
  108. Sam says

    December 3, 2017 at 5:56 am

    This works great!! but i have 1 question. i never moan even though im enjoying myself. it makes my bf think im not interested or im bored. is there something wrong with me??

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      December 4, 2017 at 2:57 pm

      Sounds like everything is normal 🙂 Some moan, while others don’t

      Reply
  109. Nikki says

    December 4, 2017 at 12:56 pm

    Wwawww. I squirted everywhere. Thank you.????

    Reply
  110. Maria says

    January 6, 2018 at 8:08 am

    So I retried this and I just never squirt ever I don’t know why pls help

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      January 8, 2018 at 9:50 am

      This guide on how to squirt should help 🙂

      Reply
  111. diamond says

    January 28, 2018 at 12:30 pm

    i have never came before. unless there is a away you can come and not feel that big feeling that i hear people discribe. i always think there is something wrong with me. i just tried rubbing my clit for a while and then going in to my gspot and nothing i just get very wet. but i want the feeling everyone else describe when they come.. 🙁

    Reply
  112. maisy says

    February 10, 2018 at 10:07 am

    it did not work for me i cant seem to find it or cum it just hurts

    Reply
  113. Lilly says

    February 12, 2018 at 2:08 am

    I cheated on my boyfriend with his bestfriend and he made me squirt not my boyfriend

    Reply
  114. SomeGirl says

    April 3, 2018 at 8:48 am

    I’ve never orgasmed before. I’ve been with man, woman and masturbated, but still nothing.
    I tried your tips and it unfortunately didn’t help.
    I’m hoping things will change when I get a toy? The idea of using a vibrator is very erotic.

    My problem is that I’m too sensetive to pain. I stopped masturbating, because it became painful. I don’t know if it’s because my vagina is too tight (because it does get extremely tight), but the opening to the vagina hurts easily when I’m pentrated and the inside of my vagina is way too sensetive to pain. One wrong move and it’s agony. I love fingering, but I’m so scared I’ll hurt myself or my boyfriend will hurt me. I used to really love having rough sex so now I don’t know what to do about this.
    I don’t mind not orgasming, but it seems to really get to my boyfriend so I want to help fix myself..

    Reply
  115. Keli says

    May 2, 2018 at 10:31 am

    I’ve read these comments the past few nights while masturbating and they just help me get off so much… haven’t had sex since January I’m in need but i masturbate every night is that good?

    Reply
  116. Chula says

    May 15, 2018 at 6:22 am

    Lately I just haven’t been cumming when I masturbate… I don’t know why. The last time I actually cummed was like 4 months ago, why is that?

    Reply
  117. Jayla says

    May 20, 2018 at 8:30 am

    Mkay so this is probably my second or third real time pleasing myself. Never had an orgasm until probably tonight. I say probably because I’m not sure if it was or not. It was mind-numbing pleasure once I got to the very last tip of holding my finger in the area that feels best. Amazing. Standing ovation to you. I’m so tired now lol

    Reply
  118. Gabby says

    June 20, 2018 at 12:13 am

    Judging by the comments, this seems to be working very well. However, hhh I feel ready to give up? I tried all of these and I really just don’t feel anything? It’s such a bummer because people seem to really really enjoy it and it sounds so amazing, I just don’t know what to do…

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      July 1, 2018 at 1:25 pm

      Hi Gabby,

      Sorry to hear this. The overarching principle is that you should be focusing on what feels pleasurable. So you need to some experimentation to find what feels pleasurable for you using these techniques as a guide (not strict laws).

      Reply
  119. Brittney says

    August 12, 2018 at 8:44 am

    Omg! I fingered myself so many times last
    Night I might be out of cum! My boyfriend even tried it on my and I came on his face! I’ve been trying to cum so much! It feels so good! And my girlfriend did it to herself and ended up cumming in my mouth! Thanks so
    Much!

    Reply
  120. georgia says

    September 28, 2018 at 4:06 pm

    help i’ve been sexually active for a while now and i can only cum by rubbing my clit! i’ve tried everything

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      October 1, 2018 at 11:53 am

      Check out the guide on reaching orgasm for help.

      Reply
  121. Grace says

    October 3, 2018 at 2:49 pm

    Hey Sean,
    So I’m about to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time next week and I’m new to all this and I’m really not sure what I’m really doing?
    I was wondering if you had any tips for first timers?

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      October 8, 2018 at 8:34 am

      These first time sex tips should help

      Reply
  122. Alizz says

    November 20, 2018 at 12:07 pm

    I use a 200w moter and a battery (9w) and put it on my vorgina

    Reply
  123. Bethany says

    December 8, 2018 at 6:51 pm

    I tried this, and it worked so well. I had a big orgasm, and it kinda tickled. It felt super amazing. I also made myself cum a lot during the process. It was an amazing experience!

    Reply
  124. Varlike says

    December 17, 2018 at 10:45 pm

    I think this will be my bedtime reading in order to cum!

    Reply
  125. Evelyn says

    January 10, 2019 at 7:46 am

    I only listened the the pod cast because because your voice is soooooooo amazing

    Reply
  126. elissa says

    January 12, 2019 at 5:05 pm

    Hi, I think I’m a lost case because even the double fun one didn’t work for orgasming ):

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      January 14, 2019 at 10:53 am

      The guide on how to orgasm should help.

      Reply
  127. Saun says

    February 13, 2019 at 3:22 pm

    Hey asuin, i cant seem to cum, beasue i dont find the vagina opening. Instead theres a weird sausage looking thingy there.

    Thanks for the help saudnf!

    Reply
  128. Emily says

    February 19, 2019 at 2:23 pm

    I tried to finger myself but I don’t feel any pleasure from it, is that weird?

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      February 25, 2019 at 8:57 am

      The key is focusing on what you find pleasurable.

      Reply
  129. Debra Bridwell says

    March 7, 2019 at 3:04 am

    I have only been fingering myself for a couple of days now, but have not really cum yet.
    What am I doing wrong?

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      March 11, 2019 at 10:10 am

      Are you focusing on finding what is most pleasurable?

      Reply
  130. Makenna says

    May 30, 2019 at 2:37 am

    I Have uterus didelphys and have trouble masturbating do you have any tips for me?

    Reply
  131. S says

    June 22, 2019 at 9:58 am

    Am I doing something wrong because my g-spot doesn’t feel very pleasurable and I’ve tried different spots around I feel the ridges but it just feels like the rest of the vagina.

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      June 24, 2019 at 3:22 pm

      2 things:

      1) Are you very aroused when you start playing with your G Spot?

      2) Can you already reliably orgasm from clitoral stimulation?

      Reply
  132. ~Casey~ says

    June 24, 2019 at 2:43 pm

    ok so i cant seem to squirt while i finger myself. i’ve tried all the fingering tips above, even read some other stuff, and yeah. btw i guess my fingers are just short or somthing cause they wont go very deep TwT
    any tips from anyone? ~<3

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      June 24, 2019 at 3:20 pm

      Can you feel yourself getting close?

      Reply
  133. Tim says

    July 9, 2019 at 6:29 am

    What happens when a girl pees right before and then she feels like peeing during getting fingered like in this tutorial and I feel her pulse and get right on my fingers?

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      July 16, 2019 at 10:55 am

      She could be squirting

      Reply
  134. Alias says

    September 11, 2019 at 5:33 am

    She didn’t know what hit her when I did this ?

    Reply
  135. Noluthando Ngwenya says

    September 22, 2019 at 9:35 pm

    arghhh,thank you so Mich for helping me learn how to finger fuck myself,at least I’m a bit experienced now

    Reply
  136. Jasmine says

    October 12, 2019 at 8:26 pm

    The best one to use is a cucumber that help alot?

    Reply
  137. Kat says

    November 16, 2019 at 6:22 am

    I tried this but nothing works! I don’t know what to do. Anyone help?

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      November 22, 2019 at 3:27 pm

      Check out the guide on how to orgasm, it should help give you a foundation to this.

      Reply
  138. Kayla says

    November 30, 2019 at 9:38 am

    Hi Sean, My name is Kayla I live in California and I just want to say thank you for helping me. Masturbating has became my stress reliever but I never knew how to do it well enough for me to cum hard but you did. So thanks and if your ever in California…?

    Reply
  139. nicole says

    December 21, 2019 at 2:53 pm

    hey sean, your news letter are the best and i always look forward to more content.
    i remember reading an article on fetishes but i have lost track on were exactly i saw it. can you please send it

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      December 30, 2019 at 6:36 pm

      Here is the Fetish list

      Reply
  140. The problem says

    January 16, 2020 at 6:22 pm

    I can’t get a dildo into my pussy like it’s so hard and like even if I’m wet it still doesn’t go in. It’s normal-sized cause i sized it to my boyfriend……hes 7.5 so i got a 5.6 just to try it and it’s really difficult.likt the tip my go in but it hurts and i might feel like peeing…. it’s just unenjoyable and it’s making me not look forward to sex.

    Reply
    • HornyQueen says

      May 24, 2020 at 6:22 am

      Lube or spit ALOT!

      Reply
  141. Victoria says

    February 13, 2020 at 7:27 pm

    Hi
    I was wondering I have read through your article and tried everything out however I seem to only be able to become wet i never actually orgasm.
    I was wondering if you could give me any tips, as also with a partner I struggle to orgasm
    Thank you

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      February 24, 2020 at 9:19 am

      Check out my Orgasm Guide.

      Reply
  142. Sandra says

    February 18, 2020 at 12:44 am

    I’ve gotten rather good at clitoral stimulation but for some reason i “freeze” and get extremely tense when on the verge of climaxing and therefore don’t manage to reach an orgasm. Is there something that can be done?

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      February 24, 2020 at 9:05 am

      Check out the Orgasm Guide

      Reply
  143. Vicky says

    April 8, 2020 at 9:16 am

    Omg this was amazing thank you for this ♡~♡

    ~Vicky

    Reply
  144. horny girl says

    May 11, 2020 at 10:13 pm

    This helped me cum SOO much, and my BF said it tasted so good, thanks??

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      May 25, 2020 at 8:40 am

      Glad I could help!

      Reply
  145. Riley says

    May 21, 2020 at 3:21 am

    I have been having trouble having pleasure with a hairbrush or even my boyfriends dick the best pleasure I feel is when humping my blanket watching porn and trick to help me feel more pleasure with my boyfriend

    Reply
  146. HornyQueen says

    May 24, 2020 at 6:19 am

    I love reading these articles they help so much! Mostly to see the comments that I’m not alone! Shout out to the girls who “tried” with each other that sounds so amazing my pussy was throbbing. I have a bf but I wish I had a friend who would de stress me . Or try with me . I love pillows or watching porn in bed and pulling my comforters bunch up to my pussy and rub hard against my pussy tha gets me each time … great way to start the day. Or tab it hard a few times then rub it , close your eyes lick your fingers . Rub yo it tit hard ooooohhh

    Reply
  147. Katie says

    November 19, 2020 at 3:25 am

    This helped so much if I could send pics I totes would and I did it with someone and my pussy was filled with cum and had three orgasms in that time spans of out sex session

    Reply
  148. Jane says

    June 6, 2021 at 3:44 am

    Hi Sean, I’ve just recently started fingering myself and when I do it feels really good and then eventually my stomach will drop and sorry if this is weird but the muscle in my butt will start to like twitch but I don’t cum so idk what happened? What just happened???

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      June 7, 2021 at 6:28 am

      Kinda sounds like you had an orgasm. Was it a pleasurable feeling, like a peak in pleasure?

      Reply
  149. Joyce says

    December 7, 2021 at 12:52 pm

    Thanks it really help alot

    Reply
  150. D&D says

    April 30, 2022 at 7:46 am

    I’ve loved this website since day one! Me and Diane had relationship issues and the day we had sex she had come to my place to tell me it’s over.We had not seen each other for 8 months and we’d not talked much.When she knocked I opened almost immediately and stood behind her…I spoke to her about “being ourselves” and “loving someone with all their faults” and she understood me well.I held her in my arms and when it was Time for her to go home,she still wanted more.We had sex then.I used Sean’s techniques and believe me or not…I penetrated her to 3 powerful orgasms in under 10 minutes!The sex was good and she liked it.She said sorry for all she’d done those days and told me I’m hers.She’s mine forever and really love her so very much.Thanks to Sean…I saved our relationship.I suggest when you read these articles,talk to your lover about it and how they feel when u tell them what to do to have better sex.It comes with practice.

    Reply
  151. Christopher says

    November 29, 2022 at 11:45 am

    Literally on here help me with my fwbs and I’m only 23 and one female I’m seeing is 34 and the other is 31 both know because honestly and communication is key but thank you I have busted a few nuts to these comments

    Reply
  152. Bb says

    July 12, 2023 at 6:44 am

    What should I do if my arm gets tired before I get to the good part?

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      July 24, 2023 at 10:55 am

      Use your other hand or take a break

      Reply
  153. Julie says

    August 27, 2024 at 3:18 pm

    Hi Sean, I keep trying to squirt but I can’t I just feel if I let go that I am going to pee or something and I try and try. My man says it would turn him on to see me squirt. I feel so bad cuz I can’t. I read your articles all the time. I love the tips but hey at least I am a blow job queen thanks to you..

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      September 23, 2024 at 9:18 am

      Have you used my tips on how to make yourself squirt?

      Reply
  154. asexymommy says

    November 27, 2024 at 6:06 am

    felt so good thanks for good tips

    Reply

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