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What Does An Orgasm Feel Like – One Word…Incredible

by Adriana

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what is an orgasm and how does it feelThere’s no mistaking when a guy has an orgasm. But women generally don’t have that telltale ejaculation sign (although some do — more on that later). So some women don’t know whether they’ve had an orgasm or not or even what an orgasm feels like. If you want the question of what does an orgasm feel like finally answered for good, read on.

Although orgasms for both men and women signal the peak of the sexual experience, whether it’s sex with a partner or alone, many women are still left wondering whether they reached that peak. The old adage about what an orgasm feels like, which is that you’ll know it when you have one, is not always necessarily true, although many times it is! This is why some women experience accidental orgasms.

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There are many types of orgasms, some mind-blowing and some a little underwhelming, and there are different ways of achieving one. We’ll explore all of this to help you know whether you’re experiencing all you can and to help you understand what an orgasm feels like.

How the Big O Feels

what does the female orgasm feel like

When you are experiencing pleasure during sex and the pleasure keeps intensifying, you are on your way to orgasm. The pleasure keeps building and building, you notice that your breathing is getting heavier, and then you have no more control over your body as the pleasure reaches its peak.

When you orgasm, your body takes over, and you are just along for the ride. You are doing nothing at this point but letting go and feeling pleasure. This pleasure could be intense, or it could be subtle. It could be quick, or it could be drawn out. You sometimes want to buck, writhe your hips and cry out during an orgasm, and other times you feel slow waves of gentle pleasure that leave you feeling at peace.

Whatever type of orgasm you have, whether you are climaxing simultaneously during sex or having a G Spot orgasm while masturbating you’ll know for sure whether you’ve had one if you feel your vagina rhythmically contracting several times after you climax.

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Clitoral Orgasms

Your clitoris is where about 8,000 nerve endings are, and stimulating this sex organ is what brings women to the edge. When you are excited, your clitoris swells, which is the equivalent of a man’s penis becoming hard. You can stimulate the clitoris by rubbing it with a finger or a vibrator, by your partner licking or sucking it or by stimulating it through sexual intercourse by rubbing it against your partner. You can also use your fingers to stimulate the clitoris during intercourse to help you reach orgasm.

Vaginal Orgasms

Having a purely vaginal orgasm is difficult to achieve, and most women cannot achieve an orgasm without clitoral stimulation as well. But women who do experience vaginal orgasms need their G-spot stimulated.

Find your G-spot by inserting your middle finger into your vagina, palm of your hand facing up, and make a “come here” motion. You should feel some soft tissue and a pleasurable feeling. That’s your G-spot.

If both the clitoris and the G-spot are being stimulated at the same time during intercourse to the point of climax, it feels as if you are having a vaginal orgasm. Women rarely have an orgasm from thrusting and G-spot stimulation alone without combining it with clitoral stimulation, but the vaginal orgasm can feel different from clitoral stimulation only.

Multiple Orgasms

what does an orgasm feel like

After you’ve achieved orgasm, the tendency is typically to languish in the good feelings, and call it a night — you’ve reached the finale. But most women can cum more than once. Don’t leave before the encore! If you are open to further orgasms, you can have them. Immediately after your orgasm, your clitoris is probably too sensitive for more stimulation, so give it a rest for a minute. Engage in caressing, kissing or other activities that feel good. You’ll soon be ready for another orgasm.

A good way to have multiples is to first have a clitoral orgasm and then to get in a position with your partner, such as doggy style or reverse cowgirl, which can stimulate your G-spot. Check out this article to master the art of multiple orgasms.

Full-Body Orgasms

The goal of a full-body orgasm is not to have only the ordinary orgasm felt in the genitals. It happens when you can move your sexual energy from your genitals through your entire body. This method is part of tantric sex.

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You have a full-body orgasm using your mind, not just focusing on your genitals. You would connect your physical, spiritual and mental energies using your mind to have a full-body orgasm that you feel starting from your genitals. You direct this feeling up and down your spine from the top of your head down to the tips of your toes. When you feel yourself beginning to climax, think about directing the energy to your stomach, chest, neck, fingers and up to your head.

Female Ejaculation

what does an orgasm feel like for a woman

Here’s what we were talking about earlier. Female ejaculation occurs when a fluid releases from the vagina during orgasm. Some people think this is urine, but it isn’t (although some women do release some urine during sex). The amount of female ejaculate could be a teaspoon or more. Women who ejaculate generally do so when their G-spot is stimulated.

If you want to try to ejaculate, when you G-spot is being stimulated and you feel an orgasm coming on, push out with your pelvic-floor muscles. Most women naturally do the opposite. More tips for squirting here.

The Person You are With

You need to relax and feel comfortable with the person you’re with to have an orgasm. If you have an unresolved problem or if you are bothered about something, you typically need to resolve whatever’s wrong to have an orgasm with your partner. We have more tips to help you cum every time here.

About Fetishes

Some people have an obsessive fascination with a certain object and cannot become aroused without it. When they do, it’s called a fetish. Some men have a foot fetish, for example, and some women need to be spanked. You might have a dominant-submissive fetish you like to act out (it’s incredibly common and fun!), or you might be an exhibitionist. Although you can have sex without combining your fetish, if you have a fetish, sex and having an orgasm is best and most fulfilling when you combine it with your fetish.

Importance of Foreplay

what does a female orgasm feel like

If you will take anything away from learning about what orgasms feel like, remember this: have foreplay. Your orgasm will be better if you have foreplay first.

  • But foreplay is not just something he does to you; you both can engage in foreplay together.
  • Foreplay can start hours before the main event. You can text your guy that you can’t wait for him to get home. If he responds with a sexy message, you now are thinking about what will occur.
  • Lots of touching and caressing your neck, back, thighs and breasts is important before your partner just dives right in. Kissing these places is good too. If you and your partner tell each other what you want to do to each other, you’ll both start to get turned on.
  • When you’re turned on from foreplay, your clitoris becomes enlarged, and you’re on the road to having an orgasm.

Although the orgasm experience is different for everybody and can vary depending on the sexual experience, orgasms represent the peak of sexual arousal. During orgasm, you’ll experience strong pleasure of the oh-my-gosh-this-is-so-good-don’t-stop variety with the telltale sign of vaginal contractions.

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Comments

  1. Lore'al Jackson says

    March 18, 2015 at 8:29 am

    I still can’t orgasam ive tried toys , fingers , sex and still can’t feel the big o … I can have sex and it wil feel like I have to pee then it starts to hurt like cramping pains or like he’s to deep and he’s hitting something

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      March 22, 2015 at 4:56 pm

      I always recommend that you first try to orgasm on your own through masturbation, then once you can easily and reliably orgasm through masturbation, start focusing about orgasming during sex by replicating what you did to orgasm during masturbation. This article and this other one will help!

      Reply
  2. Jane says

    February 12, 2016 at 10:03 pm

    When I first started the orgasm through masturbate the feeling only come on one of my hips, and I was able to pick which side of my hip it wants to come. I wanted to make it come on both side at the same time, but I never succeed. Now I’m only be able to have it on left side, and it gets sore afterwards. Therefore, I want to switch sides. Any help?

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      February 15, 2016 at 11:28 am

      Hi Jane, I’m not sure I follow you entirely here. Could you elaborate what you mean?

      Reply
      • Nadine says

        November 12, 2018 at 6:24 pm

        I know what she means. I have the same thing. I am extreme multi orgasmic and discovered that at a young age and now only vaginal orgasms. Over the years things have changed or maybe I didn’t notice as much, but my orgasms now originate from the right side of the vagina. I have some hard ridges on either side of the vagina – left and right sides – but they seem more prominent and more of them on the right side when I am aroused. I can only get the orgasm to originate on either left or right and not bilaterally. It is very specific on which side it starts and feels amazing and powerful, but maybe she means that? I have to hold the vibrator on the left side on purpose to get it to originate from that side or it defaults to the right. It seems odd, but that is how it works for me. I have been told by lovers I have had that they noticed the spiny ridges and they also have noted I tend to hold the vibrators towards the right side. I play around with this now that I have realized it was happening this way. But maybe some of us have that happen. I am left handed – interestingly enough.

        Reply
  3. faith says

    May 23, 2016 at 6:28 am

    They never say that it’s scary to orgasm. You lose control over your body and emotions!

    Reply
  4. Camila says

    September 1, 2016 at 9:28 am

    When I was young I had an aunt who use to work and come home late evening. If I massage her aching feet I was payed. So I was a young girl of 14, that money really helped me to buy what I want. So I began to massage her feet. And she told me if I worshipped her feet I would be payed more.and I really enjoyed it. I began to feel an orgasm. Now I feel twice a day. I am 26 working lady now. No more aunt but I feel it. Is it a serious problem?

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      September 2, 2016 at 1:26 pm

      Camila, this sounds like potentially inappropriate behavior from your aunt

      Reply
  5. Becky says

    October 13, 2016 at 3:04 am

    Hi, thanks so much for this website! I have two questions. 1. Most of the time when I am fingering myself, I am able to get very close to orgasm. It feels good to rub my clit faster and faster as I get closer and closer. The problem is that it feels so good that I lose control of my hands just before my body actually takes over. Any tips on how I can get all the way there? 2. Your description and instructions for finding your g-spot kinda describes the entire top side of my vagina – the soft ridges, swelling when aroused. How big can a g-spot be?

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      October 14, 2016 at 8:45 am

      1. Try rubbing you clit against something like a pillow instead of using your hands
      2. The answer is “it depends.” The key is experimenting and discovering the part that gives you the most pleasure.

      Reply
  6. Natalia says

    March 31, 2020 at 3:53 pm

    Hey. I have a problem. I do not feel any sort of pleasure during sex, no pleasurable feeling or anything. However i do orgasm via my clitoris but I want to feel pleasure via vagina and penile penetration and the only thing I feel Is pressure on my bladder which leads to me wanting to pee. Please help I really want to experience pleasure with my partner via penetrative sex

    Reply
    • Sean Jameson says

      April 3, 2020 at 9:47 am

      2 things:

      1) Pee before sex

      2) Read the Orgasm Guide

      Reply

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