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The Stand & Carry position is unlike virtually every other sex position. You don’t need a bed or a sofa to perform it. Instead, your man is going to be standing up for it, and he will be holding you off the ground. This won’t work for every couple, however, but we have plenty of other sex positions in our sex positions guide that will work for you.
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Lifting you up is the hardest part of the Stand & Carry. It’s easiest is if you start off in a position like the Butterfly with you lying down on your back on a bed or a table while your man is standing. Your man can then lean over you, and you can put your arms around the back of his neck and wrap your legs around his waist. Your man can put his arms around your waist or butt before standing up straight while holding you.
Alternatively, you can both start off standing and facing each other like in the Slow Dance position. While inside you, your man can put his hands around your butt/waist and pick you up. When your man picks you up you can then wrap your legs around him.
What The Girl Does In The Stand & Carry Position
When your man is holding you in the air, you need to carry some of your weight using your arms around the back of his neck. Your legs wrapped around his waist can also carry some of your weight.
Even though your man will be doing a lot of the thrusting, you can still pull yourself up and down on him. You can pull yourself up with your arms, and you can squeeze your legs against his waist to grip it so that you can move upwards. When in the Stand & Carry position, you can lean backwards quite a bit or hold yourself close to your man to change the angle he enters you at.
You want to be careful not to do anything to upset the balance of your bodies, which can cause you to fail.
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Because you’re facing each other, you can kiss passionately to make it more intense.
What The Guy Does In The Stand & Carry Position
Your man has two jobs in the Stand & Carry position. The first is holding on to you and supporting most of your weight. The second is thrusting into you. He will be holding onto you by wrapping his hands around your waist. He can thrust into you by bending and straightening his legs. Or he can use his hips while keeping his legs fairly straight.
Things To Consider When Performing The Stand & Carry Position
Quite a few students of the Bad Girls Bible have tried out the Stand & Carry with their man. Here is some of the feedback they have given on it:
- The Stand & Carry is tiring: performing it for more than 2-3 minutes is exhausting for both of you.
- Try performing the Stand & Carry while having sex against a wall, so that your back is up against it. This will help take some of your weight meaning you and your man can last longer in it. He will also be able to fuck you with more force when you are against a wall.
- This sex position might not provide the best G-spot stimulation because you’re concerned about standing.
Variations of Stand & Carry And Similar Positions
The Stand & Carry position is going to get tiring for both of you very quickly. Fortunately, there are a bunch of very enjoyable alternatives:
Ballerina
If you can extend your leg straight up, you’re perfect for this position. Learn more about the Ballerina position here.
Dancer
Standing on one leg means that your man doesn’t have to worry about carrying you. Click here to discover how to perform the Dancer position.
Slow Dance
Face each other in this sensual, standing position. You can learn more about the Slow Dance position here.
Mastery
If he sits and you’re in his lap, it’s easier on both of you. Click here to learn more about the Mastery position.
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Sean’s Thoughts On The Stand & Carry Sex Position
The Stand & Carry is not that difficult to perform. The only thing that it requires is that both of you have a considerable amount of strength. If your man has a bad back, then I highly recommend that he avoids the Stand & Carry as it will put a lot of strain on it.
Alternatively, you can use a sex swing to perform the Stand & Carry position, so that the sex swing is carrying most of the weight and not putting a strain on your back.
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My girl came in this position in 2 minutes, she never came so fast before in any other position, good stuff indeed 🙂
Which position is that??
This is the first time we had sex, and we went straight to this pose. She loved it, I loved it and it’s not that hard to do.
Same here. But tiring.
almost never came back to life cause i just wanted to sank in heaven in this position. this is my most wanted position but i want to have no strength at all in this position and my man would have to be 100 strong and do ALL of the work while i enjoy being slammed into the cock and have the bouncy-ness of his body when i get slammed pushes me back away and using his arm and strength to slam me hard against him again.
why do people expect so much of sex;
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My girl comes so quick in the stand and carry position luckily I go to the gym so I’m able to carry her comfortably. We both absolutely love it.
Well, me and my wife love this position, but i am leaving a comment to share the experience we had with this position, my wife is not to tall, so i recommend to try this position with her legs up man’s shoulders, so with the penetration, she will swing on cock. The best part, man don’t need to be to “strong” to carry her weight. Only need to penetrate her with her lie down but already with her legs up man’s shoulders. Man only need to carry her to stand on feet, after that, the positin will be like a “child’s swing”. We just wanted to share, once we learn a lot with this website.
(Sorry for my bad wrote english, we are portuguese and english is a bit hard for us)
Now i want say thank to this website, it set fire on our marriage, that we missed so much ?