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The Mastery position is one of those sex positions that is fun and satisfying, but not that many people know about it. Thankfully the Bad Girls Bible will show you exactly how to do it and how to get the most out of it. We offer similar advice for over 100 of the best sex positions.
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To get into the Mastery position, your man needs to sit on the side of the bed (or on a sofa), with his feet on the floor. He should have both his thighs and butt on the bed. You then need to either kneel down onto your man’s lap or squat down like in the Asian Cowgirl position. You can then wrap your arms around your man’s neck. Your man can try thrusting into you when you are on top of him, and you can try lifting yourself up and down on him, but you’ll find that it’s far easier to rock and grind on him.
What The Girl Does In The Mastery Position
In the Mastery position, you will find it easy to raise yourself up and down on him. The Mastery position is intimate for both of you as you are facing your man, so you can kiss him and maintain eye contact.
Don’t forget that you can also put your hands around his neck and lean right back to change the angle.
You can also use your hands to pinch, scratch or do other things that make you feel more dominant when you’re on top in this female dominant sex position. Consult our article about rough sex for ideas.
What The Guy Does In The Mastery Position
Your man has a choice of what he does in the Mastery position:
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1) If he puts his arms around you (when you are sitting or kneeling on him) then it will feel more intimate. But when he does this, he won’t be able to thrust that much. Instead, he will just be able to grind up against you.
2) He can instead put his arms behind his back and on the bed/sofa to support himself and give him leverage to thrust into you.
Both choices are great and slightly different. When combined with you either kneeling or sitting on him as well as leaning right back, you have a lot of different variations of the Mastery position.
Things To Consider When Performing The Mastery Position
Although the Mastery feels exquisite, not that many people have actually tried it with their man. Those that have had some interesting and helpful things to say about it.
- As there are so many different variations of Mastery, you need to do a little experimentation to find what you like best.
- Maintaining eye contact with your man during Mastery can make it super intimate.
- Don’t forget about kissing your man in the Mastery position.
Similar Positions
Lap Dance
Give him the VIP treatment when you’re grinding against him!
Sofa Surprise
Your sofa is a more comfortable place to ride your man.
Stand & Carry
If he’s strong enough, he can hold you in this position.
This is just one of several positions where you sit in his lap.
Sean’s Thoughts On The Mastery Sex Position
The Mastery position has a lot of different variations and combinations for you to try which makes it very versatile. You’ll find that it is quite an intimate position, and you can have great sex in it, without tiring out too quickly.
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Kathleen says
I didn’t even know this was a position. I sit like that to make out and put my boobs in his face so I can breast feed him.
Susan says
Tried this with my boyfriend yesterday on the couch and it was great. I was able to use the back of the couch to help me bounce. I’m not that athletic and I was able to do it for several minutes. I had an awesome orgasm and we both really enjoyed it. Recommended.
Kitty says
This is also amazing for sex in cars. My boyfriend and i really like this.
Niki says
I love this position because of the intense sensation of my lover’s thick cock pressing against my clit. I found this position works best on a sofa. And for added options, my man will often toss me onto my knees and slam me hard from behind!
bj says
Niki – I’ve gotten a few girls off in strip clubs when they were giving me lap dances in this position. I’d wear the absolute thinnest shorts I could find and they’d have on a little thong so there wasn’t much in between us. And yes when they felt a big fat cock for them to rub their clitty on, it definitely turned them on.
Jane says
This position is also great for the back seat in a truck??
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Sexually Frustrated says
Sadly, my wife passed away last September 09/05/2021.
She would’ve absolutely loved it, assertive playing while on top was her fave.
I’m having trouble dating. I never thought I would have to.
Sammy Jo says
I’m so sorry for your loss