The Asian Cowgirl sex position is very similar to regular the regular Cowgirl position. You are on top while your man is lying down on his back. However, there are still some major differences that you need to consider when performing it. By the way, you can also find over 100 more sex position in our sex positions guide.
In the regular Cowgirl position, you will have your knees either side of your man, resting on the bed. When you are doing the Asian Cowgirl with your man, you will be squatting, which means that most of your weight will be supported by your feet while you are squatting. You can use your hands to take some of your weight by putting them on either your man’s chest or on either side of him on the bed. If you are not very strong or flexible, you will find the Asian Cowgirl position to be quickly tiring.
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What The Girl Does In The Asian Cowgirl Position
When you are in the Asian Cowgirl position, you will be squatting over your man. I find that it’s best to start from the regular Cowgirl position and then transition into Asian Cowgirl. To move into Asian Cowgirl from regular Cowgirl, first lean forwards and put your hands on the bed to steady yourself. Next rock back onto your toes and raise your body just off your man to get into the squatting position.
Now put your hands on your man’s chest and together using both your arms and legs, slowly rise and down. If you find that your arms are getting tired from doing most of the work, then switch to using your legs and vice-versa. Obviously, you can change the angle of entry by either leaning forwards or backward. However if you lean backward too much, your may find that it’s harder to balance, and your legs get tired even faster.
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What The Guy Does In The Asian Cowgirl Position
Your guy will have much less work to do when you are in the Asian Cowgirl position. If he wants, he can just lie there and do nothing at all. But that’s not what great sex is all about.
What’s best is if he helps you to bounce up and down. In other words, he can put his hands under your legs/bum and help to lift you up and down so that you are not doing all of the work. Alternatively, he can put a hand on either side of your waist to help you to maintain your balance.
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If you find that you tire quickly in the Asian Cowgirl position, then a great way to last much longer is to try and stay steady in one position, while your man does all the thrusting. However, if you like the burn, then check our more sexercise tips here.
Things To Consider When Performing The Asian Cowgirl Sex Position
Having gotten some feedback from students who have tried or regularly use the Asian Cowgirl position with their man, here is what I have learned:
- It gets tiring quickly. I know I have already said this. But from talking to students, most have lasted less than 2 minutes in the Asian Cowgirl position before their legs become too weak to keep supporting themselves. Try slower sex, which allows you to take a break and switch positions.
- The best way to last longer is to use the Top Tip above, where you hold still while your man does all the thrusting.
- You need a good degree of flexibility and strength to do the Asian Cowgirl.
- You can use a firm cushion or two under your bum so that your legs are no longer taking all the weight. Make sure to get your man to keep his legs together if you do this. Otherwise, the cushions will not be of much use.
- Try this as an anal sex position.
Corner Cowgirl – Try riding him from the corner of your bed.
Sofa Surprise – When you can’t wait to get into the bedroom!
Mastery – Similar to the above but on a chair.
Fast Fuck – Squat over him on the bed.
A lot of women love how powerful it feels when they’re on top, and men love these girl on top positions, too!
Sean’s Thoughts On The Asian Cowgirl Position
Personally, I am not the biggest fan out there of the Asian Cowgirl position. Although, one thing I have learned from it is that if your man can thrust very rapidly, girls can get a lot of pleasure from it when they stay steady in one position.
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Fran Resler says
Tried the swiss miss. The exercise ball was a lot of fun. so much so that we are trying more positions on it. oh, good exercise too.
My college friends and I have been referring to “Asian Cowgirl” as “Froggy Style” for many many years now. Bonus points for being able to arouse your partner by winking at him and saying “ribbit!”
Sean Jameson says
This is a really good position when there is a height/weight difference between you and your partner where he is bigger than you (unlike the models in the picture who seem to be of similar size). Mine is considerably taller and bigger than me and the only way I can get leverage while riding is to plant my feet on either side of him and using my hands to lean forward onto his chest. However it is quickly tiring so I’m usually in this position to finish him off!
I love this position because I can admire my Chinese girlfriend’s athletic body. She likes this position because she gets to work out and make me cum.
June faber says
I have a bad hip and vwry bad arthritis I can’t open my legs very much. What is the easiest position for a disabled woman. I am 61 but very open minded and pretty and young at heart
Sean Jameson says
My advice is to talk to your doctor and experiment. There are over 100 different options to get you started here.
Randi Szekula says
Try enjoying anal pleasure and sex. Just spread your bum and enjoy it all
I find that this is the most electric position. He has a rather large stomach, so in this position I can work around that. My preference is for me to squat over him and for him to bend his knees. I lean/hold his knees for better leverage for me. It is so enjoyable, I’m squirting everywhere. However it does bring him to orgasm quicker/quickly.
This position works best for me and i can go 20 min in this position… my man has the opportunity to push up and give me deeper penetration. I dont bounce but I love grinding and rocking in this position I get less tired than bouncing. For a big girl I am very flexible and have very strong legs. My man loves this position and we both come harder in this position.
My exgf did a cow girl position until I came but refused penetration. She would mustarbate my dick and swallow my cums but refused sexual intercourse.
Based on my experience, this position is enjoyed by guys who are on the smaller side. Before anyone gets up in arms, it’s just that it accommodates a smaller guys dick more to move up and down, and if you “grind”, their penises are too short to enjoy it. Guys whose penises are average or above average usually stop me from doing the “frog”, and move my hips to grind and we both explode. I prefer grinding, twerking on a guys dick and moving my hips in Shakira motions rather then squatting and looking I’m in the position that’s supposedly the ideal position to take better shits.