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Making sure anal sex is always a fun and pleasurable experience with your man is important if you want to keep your sex life hot. In fact, that’s the whole point of the Bad Girls Bible, hot, fun & exciting sex!
Side note: If you are currently struggling to orgasm during sex or masturbation, then you may want to learn about the Easy Orgasm Solution. It will teach you how to have multiple vaginal and full body orgasms during sex and masturbation. It works even if you currently struggle to orgasm during sex or when masturbating. You can find out more here.
So today I’m going to show you 28 great anal sex positions to try with your man so that you’ll never get bored of anal sex, ever! For some reason, the only position that many people ever use for anal sex is Doggy Style. Thankfully it’s time for a change. Just like there are a ton of different ways to give your man a good blow job, there are also a lot of fun and pleasurable anal sex positions to try with your man! So if you are looking for a new one, try these…
Additionally, you will find another 119 sex positions here. Also, if you’re new to anal sex, you may want to first check out our guide on how to have pain-free anal sex.
1. Piledriver
Do you enjoy it when your man is firmly in control? If you do, then you are going to love the Piledriver position, although it does require at least a little bit of flexibility and lower back strength.
To set up in the Piledriver position, first, lie on your back and then allow your man to grab your legs and push them right back so that your ankles are literally by your head. When you are in this very vulnerable position, your man will squat over you and enter you anally.
To thrust in and out, he just needs to squat up and down. You’ll find that you can’t do much but lie back and take it from your man in the Piledriver position.
Click Here to learn more about the Piledriver position.
2. Rear Entry
Having anal sex in the Rear Entry position is very much like Spooning but on your belly. Like in the Jockey position, you need to lie down on your stomach. It’s up to you whether you keep your legs together or spread apart. Your man will then lie right on top of you, facing in the same direction and enter you.
You’ll find that if your man has a large belly, there may be quite a lot of weight and pressure on you when having anal sex in the Rear Entry position. So make sure that your man knows to be cautious if this is the case.
Click Here to find out more about the Rear Entry sex position.
Psst, did you know that you can use positions like Rear Entry if you’re pegging your man?
Learn how to peg your man enjoyably and don’t forget to try these pleasurable pegging positions.
More Intensity: Try the Prone Bone sex position (similar to Rear Entry) while the receiving partner is in bondage during sex.
3. Turtle
The Turtle is an excellent anal sex position for those who like to feel small and submissive during sex. But it can be quite tricky to do if you are not particularly flexible.
To get into the Turtle position, you need to start on your knees and upright. Next, you need to lean right over and pull yourself towards your thighs like in the demonstration. Meanwhile, your man will be behind you on his knees. As you can see this position is easy for your man, but can get uncomfortable for you quite quickly.
Click Here to learn more about the Turtle sex position.
4. High Chair Position
The High Chair is a great anal sex position that most have never even imagined before. To perform the High Chair with your man, you just need to sit down on a seat with your butt sticking out. Meanwhile, your guy will either be standing, squatting or kneeling depending on the height of the chair.
He then enters you and can grab onto either your waist or shoulders to help him thrust in and out. Three quick notes on the High Chair position:
- You’ll find it much easier to perform the High Chair when you are on a high stool/chair as it means that your man can stand.
- Performing the High Chair position is best when you are in front of a wall/kitchen counter, so that you can push back against your man while steadying yourself at the same time.
- Your partner can also reach around and apply pressure to your lower stomach from the outside, which many women find enjoyable.
Click Here to find out more about the High Chair position.
5. Teaspooning
Teaspooning with your man is like an easier and less vigorous version of the Bodyguard position. To perform it, you’ll be doing everything that you would do in the Bodyguard position, except you will be kneeling instead of standing.
Moving from Doggy Style to Teaspooning and back again is very easy. You’ll find that reaching backwards and holding onto your man is a good idea to help keep your balance. If you’re someone who enjoys rougher sex, then you should try out Teaspooning in front of a wall so that you can push back against your man.
Read: Sex against a wall, positions & tips.
Click Here to find out more about the Teaspooning position.
6. Leap Frog
The Leap Frog is another anal sex position that is a variation of regular Doggy style. It’s perfect for making your man cry in bed with sexual pleasure. When performing the Leap Frog with your man, you will be doing everything that you were doing in the regular Doggy style position, except you will be keeping your chest on the bed while arching your back. It’s simple to transition from Doggy style to the Leap Frog or even the Bulldog position.
Click Here to learn more about the Leap Frog position.
If your man kneels behind you in this position, he can eat your ass. Get tips for eating ass.
7. Bodyguard Position
The Bodyguard is an amazing anal sex position for feeling close to your man. You will both be standing upright & facing in the same direction. Your husband enters you from behind, and you can lean right back into him.
In many ways, the Bodyguard position is quite like Spooning with your man while you are standing upright. It can feel super intimate when he wraps his arms around you when you are having anal sex in the Bodyguard position, but if you want more vigorous sex with your man, then try performing it in front of a wall so that you can push back against him.
Click here to find out more about the body guard position.
8. Burning Man Position
If you enjoy your man being firmly in control, then you are going to love the Burning Man position. You’ll especially love it if you enjoy your man pounding you during anal sex.
The most important thing you need to perform the Burning Man is a table or sofa to lean on top of while your man remains upright behind you. While you are leaning on top of the table, he will enter your ass and start thrusting.
When you are leaning on top of the table, you have nowhere to go. This means that if you enjoy rough sex, then you are going to love this anal sex position.
Just remember to find something comfortable to lean on top of so that you don’t accidentally hurt yourself when performing the Burning Man, like a pillow or even a blanket.
Note that this position isn’t great for sex during pregnancy. Learn tricks for making anal sex during pregnancy more comfortable.
Click here for more information on the Burning Man anal sex position.
9. Cross
To be perfectly honest with you, then the Cross is quite an awkward anal sex position to perform with your man. You are going to get into position first by lying on your stomach on the bed. Your man is then going to lie over you so that both of your bodies form a (sort of) Cross shape like in the demonstration. He can support himself with his hands, or if he likes, he can just rest his stomach on the bed
I’ve included the Cross position in this anal sex positions guide to keep things interesting. However, one of the main drawbacks to it is the fact that it’s not really that intimate at all when compared to something like Spooning as you are barely touching each other.
Click Here to find out more about the Cross sex position.
10. Pump Position
The Pump sex position is a little different from most sex positions you’ll know and to be perfectly honest; you’ll need to a good deal of strength to have anal sex in it for a long time. Ideally, you should perform it on a sofa/couch or even on a bed.
Go deeper: 14 sofa sex positions & illustrations.
You’ll start by standing on the edge of the sofa and then crouching down so that your butt is hanging over the edge. Your man will be standing behind you and will enter you from this position. He can then wrap his hands around either your waist or under your thighs to help support you.
Then it’s just a case of him thrusting in and out or you pushing back against him.
Click Here to find out more about the Pump position.
11. Bulldog
The Bulldog is an anal sex position that is a lot more dominant than almost any other you can try. Your man can really pound you in the Bulldog position, and you can push back onto your man if you want.
To get into the Bulldog, you simply need to get down on your hands and knees while keeping your legs close together. Your man will then squat right above you and put his hands on your hips/waist/shoulders/holding your hair. From here he just needs to start thrusting into you and you can thrust back against him.
Click Here to find out more about the Bulldog position.
12. See Saw Position
Most couples find it difficult trying to discover an anal sex position where they are actually facing each other. This is where the See Saw comes in. To perform the See Saw, your man first needs to sit down on the bed using his hands behind him to keep himself sort of upright. Optionally he can just lie down.
You then need to sit down onto his lap while facing him so that he can enter you anally. Your boyfriend is going to find it difficult to thrust into you in this position, so you are going to have to do most of the work. Make sure to put your hands behind you to help keep yourself in position when performing the See Saw.
Click Here to find out more about the See Saw sex position.
13. Doggy Style
This list of anal sex positions just wouldn’t be complete without the original Doggy Style sex position. It’s super easy to perform, all you need to do is get down onto your hands and knees with your legs spread out. Your man then enters you anally from behind while on his knees.
Your man can be really dominant in the Doggy Style position by grabbing your hips/waist/shoulders/hair to thrust into you with more power and force. You’re also in the perfect position to push back against him, especially if you are in front of a wall.
Click Here to find out more about the Doggy Style sex position.
14. Pearly Gates
The Pearly Gates is an anal sex position that is perfect for more intimate anal sex with your man.
Couples love the Pearly Gates position as it’s great not only for anal sex but for regular vaginal sex too as it’s easy to hit the G-Spot thanks to the angles you are creating.
To get set up in the Pearly Gates position, your man first needs to lie down on his back, with his legs spread apart only slightly with his feet planted to steady himself. You then need to sit down on top of him, while keeping your back to him, like you would when getting into the Full Nelson sex position. This way he can enter you and as you lie backwards like in the photo demonstration.
You can then spread your arms out to steady yourself while your man can wrap his arms around you.
Click Here to learn more about the Pearly Gates anal sex position.
15. Lap Dance Position
The Lap Dance position is one in which you will be doing most of the work. While performing the Lap Dance position for your man, he just needs to sit down on a sofa or chair with his legs spread open. You then need to reverse up on him, sit down on him and let him enter you.
As you can see from the picture, the Lap Dance position looks very much like you are giving your man a Lap Dance. If you find yourself getting tired from leaning forward then just lean backward onto your man and rest your weight on his lap.
Click Here to learn more about the Lap Dance sex position.
16. Speed Bump
The Speed Bump is an anal sex position that I can almost guarantee that you’ve never tried before. To perform it, you are going to need an exercise ball to lie on top of with your stomach.
While you are lying on top of the exercise ball on your stomach, with your legs quite close together, your man will enter you with his legs outside yours and start thrusting. He can grab your waist/hips/shoulders to help himself to stay balanced. It’s not a great idea for him to grab your hair as it’s much more likely for him to lose his balance in the Speed Bump position (which means he can really hurt you!).
Psst, does any sex hurt? Learn how to get rid of pain during anal.
Click Here to learn more about the Speed Bump anal sex position.
17. Spooning
Spooning is the classic ‘intimate’ sex position. But it’s also ideal for those that enjoy anal sex with their partner. To ‘spoon’ with your man, you need to both lie on your sides. Your man will be behind you, facing the same direction and will enter you from behind.
Spooning is wonderful for that first time you try anal sex with your man as you are already in a naturally comfortable position and have a decent amount of control over how deep he penetrates you. You’ll also find that bringing your knees up towards your chest makes it far easier for you to take your man the first few times you have anal sex together.
Click Here to find out more about the Spooning sex position.
18. Poles Apart
Think of the Poles Apart sex position as the opposite to Spooning. This is because your man’s head will be by your feet and your head will be in front of his feet like in the picture. This anal sex position is particularly good if you have a foot fetish as it means that your man can pay a lot of attention to your feet with both his hands and mouth.
In the Poles Apart position, you’ll find it easier for your man to enter you comfortably by bringing your knees close towards your chest and then straightening them back out once you are both comfortable.
Click Here to find out more about the Poles Apart sex position.
19. Jockey
If you like your man on top and in control when having anal sex, then you are going to adore the Jockey sex position. To get set up in this position, you just need to lie down on your stomach, keep your legs together and relax. If you like, feel free to put a pillow directly under your crotch to raise your bum slightly into the air and change the angle of entry.
Syntribaiton: Squeeze your legs tightly together to syntribate and reach orgasm more easily in the Jockey position.
Your man is then going to straddle you on his knees while leaning right over your back and enter you like in the demonstration.
In the Jockey position, your man is going to have all the control and can pound you quite hard (or softly, depending on what you enjoy the most). He’s also in the perfect position to grab your hair or shoulders.
Click Here to find out more about the Jockey sex position.
20. Missionary
You might be surprised to learn that the traditional vaginal sex position works just as well for anal sex, but it’s true! Because the anus and vagina are fairly close together, your man can simply aim a little lower for anal sex. Try fitting a pillow beneath your butt to lift your hips closer to his pelvis.
The benefits of Missionary during anal sex are clear: you can make eye contact, kiss, and talk. It feels more like lovemaking!
Click Here to learn more about Missionary position.
21. Cowgirl
You can take control during anal sex with Cowgirl. All you need to do is straddle your man and lower yourself onto his penis. This position offers the same perks for anal as vaginal sex, including the ability to control the depth and pace and leaving your clitoris open for either of you to stimulate it. Depending on your bodies, you might even be able to use certain vibrators or finger your G-spot while riding your man.
If you prefer, you can straddle him while facing away and switch to Reverse Cowgirl.
Click Here to learn more about the Cowgirl position.
22. Lotus
In this classic lap-sitting sex position, you’ll feel incredibly close to your partner (this is one of several reasons why guys like anal). And why can’t you have that for anal sex, too? Your man starts by sitting and crossing his legs. Then, you get on his lap and wrap your legs around his hips.
Side note: Women like anal sex too.
You might need to adjust the lotus. Your man can hold your body up slightly to make penetration easier. Instead of wrapping your legs around him, you can keep your knees bent with your feet on the bed behind him, which gives you more traction for moving your hips.
Lotus may not work well if one or both of you have big tummies.
Learn more about the Lotus sex position.
23. Viennese Oyster
When you lie on your back and your man pins your ankles back near your head, it lifts your butt. It only makes sense to try anal sex in this position!
This anal sex position doesn’t give you the opportunity to do much. You can make eye contact and keep in mind that tummies can also make this sex position a little less than comfortable.
Learn more about the Viennese Oyster position.
24. Anvil
In the Anvil position, you lie on your back and keep your legs between you and your man who is penetrating you from above and leaning over your body. Depending upon the length of your legs, your ankles might rest by his chest, shoulders, or head. If he leans back a bit and you plant your feet against his chest, you’ll be in Launch Pad position.
Anvil works well as an anal sex position because your man can lean over you, causing your hips to rise and provide more access to your butthole. It also provides intense eye contact!
Discover more about the Anvil sex position.
25. Sandwich
A similar sex position for anal sex starts with you on your back and your partner kneeling or lying like he would in Missionary position. Instead of leaning his hands on the bed to either side of you, he pushes your thighs back toward your stomach. Keep your knees bent so that your calves rest on your thighs/his hands.
The position of your thighs raises your butt for him to penetrate and can also make him feel especially large. You can adjust by spreading your knees (this makes more room for tummies and gives you access to your clitoris) or pushing them closer together.
Learn more about the Sandwich sex position.
26. Butterfly Sex Position
If you’re having a difficult time lining up your anus with your partner’s penis, the Butterfly position might help if your man’s penis is at or just above the height of your mattress. Instead of being on the bed with you, your partner stands next to it, and you scoot toward the edge. Your man grabs your butt from below and enters you while you rest your ankles on his shoulders.
In the Butterfly sex position, your man can lift your butt higher for a better angle. Plus, there’s plenty of clitoris access!
Learn more about the Butterfly sex position.
27. Deep Impact
Deep Impact is a classic legs-on-shoulders sex position that allows either of you to rub your clit or even use a sex toy during anal sex. Start on your back on the bed with your legs lifted. You man slides into places so that your ankles rest on his shoulders or chest depending on your heights. If your man kneels and slides his thighs beneath your butt, he’ll be closer to your anus for penetration.
A similar sex position is Legs on Shoulders, where you place both ankles to one side of your man’s head.
Find out more about the Deep Impact sex position.
28. Right Angle
Many anal sex positions require your man to lean over you or kneel, but Right Angle is an anal sex position that switches things up. Instead of having his legs behind him, your man sits and keeps his legs spread in a V in front of him. You then lie down on your back between his legs with your legs on either of his shoulders.
You can place a small pillow beneath your butt to lift it for anal sex. Alternatively, you can wrap your legs around his waist like you would in the Drill sex position if it’s comfortable for you.
Your arms have the full range of motion. You can rest them under his legs, on top of his legs, play with your clit, or massage your breasts.
Learn more about the Right Angle sex position.
Preparing For Anal Sex
Before you can get into these anal sex positions, you should prepare. This might mean warming up with anal fingering or using a butt plug. Anal training (read more about anal training) can take some time, but it can help you work up to the size of a penis in your butt.
Do you have any more questions about sex? Find answers to questions such as ‘Can you get pregnant from anal sex?‘ and ‘Is anal sex safe?‘
When Sex Positions Don’t Work
I’ve listed over a dozen sex positions for anal sex so that readers of the Bad Girls Bible can try a few of them and see what works.
Additionally, you will find another 119 other sex positions here.
You might not like every anal sex position on this list. Some positions may be lackluster, or you may have difficulty getting into and maintaining positions depending on your body shape, height differences, flexibility, injuries or any disabilities.
That’s why I want to provide some tips to help you make the most out of these positions.
- For those of you with a big booty, try positions that spread your legs and cheeks rather than those that press them together. You can even spread your cheeks with your hands (or have your partner do the same) to help. Spreading can help if your partner has a shorter penis. This advice applies if you’re using a strap-on, too. Read more about strap-on sex.
- For a more filling sensation, keep your butt and legs pressed firmer together. Spooning is an example of an anal (and regular) sex position that makes your guy feel larger.
- Add pillows under your butt, hips, or stomach (or your man’s body if you’re on top) to adjust the angle of entry and make your anus more accessible to your partner. A regular pillow works in a pinch, but one made of firmer memory foam won’t compress as much as you’re enjoying anal sex.
- Try to get as much leverage as possible when you’re on top. Your feet or knees should be able to rest on the floor or furniture beneath you. Grab onto the headboard, back of your couch, or arm of a chair so you can really get going.
- The sphincter is more resistant to penetration than the vagina, and some positions require more coaxing than others. Use your and/or his hands to guide his penis into your anus.
- It’ll be easier to get into many anal sex positions if your man is fully erect. A partial erection may not make it past the sphincter muscles.
- If he has trouble penetrating, it’s important to use lube. You’ll get a little wet from a rim job (discover why rim jobs are awesome and get tips on performing them) but it’s not enough for sex!
- You may have already experimented with anal masturbation (get tips for anal masturbation). A similar position for anal sex might be more familiar and comfortable to you.
Just because an anal position doesn’t work right away doesn’t mean you can’t get the hang of it and eventually have an anal orgasm. Don’t be afraid to try different things to make it work — and to communicate what feels good or what you need changed!
Related: Anal Orgasms: How To Have Them
Similarly, if you’re using any of these positions while giving a prostate massage (ri), it’s up to your man to speak up if he doesn’t like it.
Anal Sex Podcast
Of course, positions are just one aspect to having great anal sex, there’s a lot more to it. That’s why I recorded this podcast: To teach everything from what lube you should use to preparation tips to making it pain free and most importantly, how to ensure you have wildly satisfying, body shaking orgasms from anal sex.
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I hope that you’ve enjoyed learning about these 28 anal sex positions. If you are interested in learning over 100 more sex positions, then make sure to take a look at the sex positions guide here.
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I am young 24 yr unmarried and not virgin university going girl. I generally like side by side sex positions and my boyfriend like dogy style. I also ride on his errect circumised penis and know how is remaing his tool for entery into my rest room. When he wants my ass , i go in doggy style and he try to insert his cock with the help of oil as his circumised penis head is big and always heart me.I saw so many new position which i have know knolegde about it, be sure next time on my date which is fixed last weeked of this month, Istly I will tryPITEDRIVE SEx position which i think is pain full for me and if it is hurt me too, then I will surely enjoy with JOCKEY positions which i love and like. Pray with god helpme in new sex positions and keep my ass happy when his boneless love sick goes in my ass or cunt. Thaks for nice clips of sex positions.
Never use oil as a lubricant you always want a water based lubricant the oil throws off the ph balance of a woman’s body
Oil for the anus is ok oil for the vagina is NOT. It is also best to not use a desensitization gel on the anus either because with continued use your rectum will loose sensation making it harder to go #2 or worse you could go too easily without having control of doing so.
Hi Stacy, do you have any references on this?
Coconut oil is actually the best lube out there, for anal and vaginal and anything else that needs lubing. its great for your skin and has tons of health benefits. only down side is that it IS NOT safe to use with latex condoms….
Apparently it’s a little sensative on the some vagina’s…So look out.
It gave me problems…
“Anal Full Nelson” is my absolute favorite
Try inserting ur finger inside slowly then moving it side to side back to front the in a circular motion with lots of lube then he can insert his penis slowly a little bit then stop a little more then stop until he is fully inside you then he can slowly start to go in and out make sure there is still plenty of lube inside you
Is ass sex better than vg sex or dos ass sex turn u on more
The Bum Hole is BEST, a slightly aroused Hole is a beautiful round shape , The aroma of a slightly pungent sweaty hole is beyond compare of sexual smells, the soft skin is so pleasing to lick, kiss and suck on… the differing shapes, sizes and colours of the anus as it gets aroused is visually amazing….then inserting the penis head in a variety of different ways gives completely different pleasure for each party …anal all in all BUM HOLES are the tightest, smoothest, most interesting, Anal has a life of its own between the parties,…unlike Pussy which has the 7 day issue and that’s it. Plus a man and woman have one…so all foreplay can be shared too…
Anal is awesome I love it
A circumcised penis will be less naturally lubricated than one with an intact foreskin. Try lots of lube, relaxing, “pushing out” while he penetrates, and knowing when to say STOP if it becomes painful or uncomfortable.
Do try n share your experience .
Are you sure you’re getting it lubed up real good? It may help..to work your way up in size.. and how much experience do you have, prior to your present lover?
Words of advice, don’t quit college, it’s clear by your grammar and spelling that you are way too young and immature to even be having sex because next thing you know you’ll be a 24 unmarried pregnant girl who quits school and ends up on welfare. Also I don’t think God cares about finding you new sex positions, do you hear how dumb and stupid that sounds.
That’s really hypocritical of you to say such things, as your another person obviously reading the post. So why say god doesn’t care about finding new sex positions???
Just go and get the lube called fisting lube, it will numb you extremely well for anal penetration.
Just to chip in here. I never advise using a numbing lube. Pain is your body’s way of telling you that there is a problem.
Sean
Well, her grammar and spelling levels might be low, but on the other hand it’s clear by her user handle that she’s indian, so english is clearly her second (maybe third) language. Don’t be so harsh on her.
OR English may not be her first language. Try not to be so ethnocentric…judgmental…and masochistic. Everyone has a right to try and find pleasure, even those without perfect spelling. Even you, with your run-on sentences and horrible punctuation.
I’m sure God delights in her sex life and all things sexual, considering those who believe in such a being also believe that he created sex, right..?
Believers and nonbelievers alike certainly do praise him enough during orgasm.
Amen Amen and Amen plus lets be honest we call God’s name when we having sex more than any other time in our daily life’s, and i think he gives us sex position idea’s as well you know so man you don’t have to be this harsh on the sister now
Hahah I was just going to say the same , she goes to University and can’t even spell word Hurt lol wow eh? Haha
You didn’t even have proper grammar in your sentence, so stop judging.
Well it’s pretty clear she doesn’t speak English as a first language.
U read my mind Jeremy.
That saved me facepalm on my own, thanks 😀
This is too funny not to laugh. But it seems like English is not her first language lol
Hahaha!
She may be from another country and not speak/write English very well. Just sayin’.
Haha that’s funny. I was going to say something about the Grammer and spelling….and the whole god thing. His priorities certainly don’t contain finding someone new sex positions.
Jeremy,
While your comment was appreciated, I don’t it was a wise idea. I’m sure your intent was to educate not insult right?
Amen to that! I was thinking the same thing, or maybe she is frm another country.
Come on man!!!!! This is 2015, you should be a little more educated than this. It is pretty obvious english is not her first language. Don’t be such a jackass and stick to the topic. Else go get an education. Jeeeeez. One born everyday. Smh!!
This is exactly what I was thinking!
There should be no worries at all, what matters is whether you people understood her. On my side, I really got what she implied. So please that wasn’t the topic, in lieu, we were on our prior subject. Therefore, coconut oil is best.
It ever crossed your mind the person posting might be from a non English speaking country? Typical American, thinking nothing exists outside their borders.
And who died and made you a professor? As this was an honest question from someone you know absolutely nothing about. You decided to be a douche and run your ignorant mouth about something totally irrelevant to the conversation at hand. In fact with an attitude like that, I’d be willing to bet your the most sexually under educated individual on here. So before you go opening that trap you call a mouth again, have a little consideration for those your speaking with or JUST SHUT THE FK UP.
Awesome ????????????
There is nothing that prohibits anyone to have sexual enjoyment in different ways and styles with there partner !!!! What you doing on this page if you want to bring the name of God !!! Into conversation here ….stay of pages as this !!! If this offends you !!!!
This, coming from someone who lacks the ability to properly use commas. Don’t be a grammar nazi, unless you are spot on with your own.
Instructions unclear. Couldn’t have sex with underwear on. Will try again later and report back.
Lol!
Don’t listen to the folks that have something mean to say. They should worry about themselves. I do t understand anyone getting anything out of s nasty reply. Good luck and God certainly does want you to have pleasurable sex and I don’t think any holy text specifies more than man & woman, not which hole?! And God is relative anyway, my conception may not be yours and vice versa. Bottom line, God is faith, but faith is sort of a fancy word for opinion. But an opinion you yourself don’t see different as fact. But to others its firmly your opinion.
Anyone having spelling and other errors in their posts, yes, likely can be from another country or culture and we need to give them some slack and appreciate that they made the effort. For myself, I am fairly highly educated in the English language (retired court reporter) and you would not believe the mistakes that I get in texting where this automatic correction dingbat screws up many words on me!!! Some of that very likely happened in that 24 yr old student’s brave effort. You know, life is short, and it really doesn’t cost you much, if anything at all, to be kind to other people. And re mistakes in texts, you just skip over the mistakes and figure out the bad word by context — so, fairly easy, and fast. Okay? Don’t be silly and get frustrated by it.
So true thank you
You should go to class more and have sex less you sounds dumb as hell
You sound alot dumber than someone that has trouble spelling why u on this site if that’s all you can do is put people down oh my bad I see ur on her trying to get yourself information on treating girls so you get layed yourself huh cause with that ignorance girls don’t put out for u or your dick is too small for them so ur mean to other people to make up for what u can’t get stop hating its ur fault u can’t get pussy not hers so go to a site to help u grow ur dick and leave this site fore people that wants to have fun with there partner pal ur a bigger loser than neone here goodbye hater
Buy an anal plug if it hurts… If you stretch the muscle enough, it will be used to stretching without pain.
Take it from someone who has enjoyed the pleasures of anal sex with his wife for years.
1.) ALWAYS use a water based lubricant. “Slippery Stuff” is the best we’ve found, you can get it on Amazon
2.) Lube, Lube, and More Lube…..when you think you’ve put on too much, add some more. Nothing is more painful for your sexy woman than a dry anus. She’ll love you for the extra attention to detail.
3.) Penetrate with a finger very slowly, then add a second. You will be able to feel her relax…..only then do you SLOWLY enter her with your lubed up penis. In minutes you’l be banging away….enjoy!
It hurts when me and my boyfriend do anal too but what I recently discovered is using a little bit of coconut oil and putting that on/around my butthole and his dick and very very slowly pushing his dick in my asshole then once he’s all the way in it doesn’t hurt so he can go as fast as he wants.
Okay, these are, by large a variation of doggy. Some of them are doggy.
Lol yes they are that’s legit all I thought about while reading it
Indeed. That’s what I thought. Where is missionary? There is nothing like taking anal sex (which is usually “fucking”) and turning it into a loving passionate thing 🙂 I get get hugely turned on making love to my girls Ass in missionary, whilst kissing. Mmmm mmmm
I was thinking the same thing…
Ahh my cass was the one that got away. Just what I woulda wanted her to say mhmm. Love that chick
Me three
Super fine stillinger – jeg er inspireret!
Nice I see a few things me and my man will be trying tonite lol yes we sum freaks….
you missed a few great positions
her laying back with her legs over his shoulders and him giving it hard and drive deep
reverse lap dance self explanatory
her on her side with one leg between his and her other over his shoulder or over his opposite hip and him sliding in and out
her leg doing the splits on her back and him on top pushing her legs apart see saw, it can change the tightness and shape of the anal access.
many more
almost any position you can do virginally can be done anally.
her facing him riding him like a pile driver similar to
Great point Blaine. If you are looking for more positions to try out, check out the sex positions section.
Straight people don’t know how to have anal if this is all they can come up with…
Hi Anne (and others with similar comments),
I just wanted to say, keep in mind this guide is only a guide. There are all kinds of variations out there. It is up to the individual to discover what feels best to them. For many people, anal is all new territory. For others, these positions are ways to spice things up- for fun or to save a relationship or whatever the case may be. So while for many homosexuals anal is the norm and the only option besides oral, there are many other people in the world that aren’t comfortable with anal or are at different levels of expirementation with it. Either way, this is a simple guide to encourage exploration. Its not a karma sutra. Thanks Sean for the advice. I will be trying some of these out in the near future.
: )
I like the fact that she actually has a real body yea shes skinny but shes realistically skinny now a damn twig. Awesome ideas for new positions tho even for normal sex.
Thats exactly what I thought of when I saw her. Shes a normal beautiful woman
What the hell constitutes a “normal” beautiful woman, anyway??
Well, the quick explanation would be to simply look at the picture of this girl, wouldn’t it, at least from the point of view of the original poster?
Some like it and if right she will have a orgasm
Love this!
MY ASS IS STAYING A VIRGIN! you can keep your sex life hot and envy without anal!
False!!!! U must do it!!!
Well, it is a choice open to each person. Eventually you may look for new pleasures to share with your partner, and change your mind. But it is purely the decision of each individual.
Hi. Great tips! But I find that no matter what me and my boyfriend try it always hurts…. But I know that every once in a while he wants to do anal…. I’m not sure if there is a technique or something that would help it hurt less… Help??
Hi Sarah, this article will help make it easier.
I think this is important to include in the procedure of entering. I see it mentioned that the penis enters and its going to hurt. There are several things to do about this. When it hurts, immediately pull out! When warming up for anal sex, it helps to use foreplay, like squeezing nipples, deep kissing, rubbing the vulva, whatever turns the woman on. Having vaginal sex for a warmup is a great way to get the anal area relaxed and ready. Pour on plenty of lube, and enter slowly. The woman should say “Pull out!” and the man should right away. Give a moment for the body to recover and try again, pushing the penis slowly in and back. Say if you want it in more, or out again. Generally the second try will go with comfort and no pain. And then it will be easy for the penis to move back and forth, and it will be pleasurable. In fact, it will start to be an incredible turn on . If the woman keeps rubbing her vulva it will help to keep the feeling building to a rocking orgasm, one that’s way beyond a vaginal orgasm alone.
I’m really scared to perform this my man is huge. What if he gets carried away/excited and doesn’t hear “pull out”?
Talk to him about your fears beforehand and make sure that you’re both on the same page about it.
Pure romance carries a product specifically for that that kind of numb s the area..to make it easier
My husband also loves anal. I am not a huge fan but on occassion I have actually enjoyed it. When I let him do it, it’s always at the end of our sex session. By then, I have came numerous times and I’m pretty wide open (literally) for anything. It also helps to have him play with my ass, either with his finger, or a vibrator, while we are having sex.kinda warms it up and gets it ready. I find that I can actually cum from him doing that. As far as lube, I know nothing about it. We have never needed it. I produce plenty of my own lube. I am also a squirter so there is never a dry spot anywhere.
I invented a position that should be included. I call it the zap dog! Zzzzzap
Piledriver for the win!!
I want to do all of these tonight!!!Are you GAME?
nice and tempting
I prefer cybersex!
I’ve got 3 fav positions that aren’t even on here and they hit it just right haha :’) gutted amateurs !
Would love to know them! Please share with the rest of the community!
I am so glad I happened upon this…..now to just find a willing participant 😉
Pile driver. Get it?
Just tried See-Saw for the first time. I loved it 😉 so tender…facial expressions speak volumes. Thanks for posting.
These looks awesome! I’ll try this with my BF!
Awesome girls n guys your all gonna be trying some of these moves with me!! Hehe. So get your lube ready and bring it on HOT
why is the woman the one always receiving? Men have anuses too and can get pleasure from recieving. If we are gonna talk about anal sex lets at least be open minded about it.
Great point Tony!
Yes please! I want more about positions for a person to peg with a strap-on, or for for prostate pleasuring.
Exactly! I love a beautiful woman with a strap on loving me every way we both can imagine!
Km.Reshma Singh(student)
Are you kidding me?
I think his circumsized penis should shut your mouth.
What’s this comment actually about?
You complaining to not get enough in your ass?
Give me a break…
Oil the dick get it in and stop wining…
Giggity.
I’m Ainol & i like turtle! I’m a turtle… where is Splinter?
Seriously? No missionary style? I mean I seriously can’t imagine. Bizarre!!!
Good point Taffy. For those interested in missionary, check out this article and demonstration.
so…. you managed to find 19 different ways for a man to “pound” is girlfriend’s ass.. great… what i want to know is how come said girlfriend doesn’t get to pound anything into his?
Great point…I feel a new post coming on….
If you say you want your girlfriend to pound you it means you have no problem with her using the dildo on you and pound that ass of yours?
Anal sex is the best. I love being banged anally
What’s the best postion and does it feel good
Your models are truly professionals! All these pictures and takes!? Did they ever have to take a break and just get it over with and go back to the photos? I dont mean to be crude or crass! But goodness! Justug watching made me want to find my gal!? If they weren’t a couple I bet they are now!
When me and my bofriend got together 5 yrs ago the first time we ever had sex was anal sex because I was scared of loosing my virginity. but through out the years a lot of things have changed! I enjoy anal sex it hurts at first but it makes me orgasm a lot harder than just vaginal sex! And i havent found out why that happens… And my favorite anal position is either Doggy or missionary
I hope that male model got the job done ‘Analwise’… Can’t do that photo shoot and walk away as if it was just some job duh! 🙂
looking forward for those prostate massage positions, sean 😉
My partner would like me to do anal on him. I have no idea what I’m doing & nervous about hurting him or simply doing it wrong. Do you have any advise?
Hi Rebecca, you might want to check out the advice I’ve written here, here and here on having great anal sex.
I would so love to try anal! But reconsider when the time comes. I guess I’m afraid it’ll hurt too much. I’ve done vaginal fisting before and use “toys” but am yet to try anal. Advice please!
This guide and will help get you up to speed.
Lots of booze first and lots of lube… Also go to the restroom first and know it’ll hurt the next day
YOUTUBE has great anal sex tutorials for women, just do a search…Anal tissue can tear very easy, SO Anal is an incremental love act, slowly go in increments of an inch at a time, session by session until U enjoy it…empty urself out at least 2 hrs b/4 anal…use a good anal lube & lots of it, then start with finger and massage anal area / lots of nerves there, then enter finger in to 1st knuckle while fingering in front at same time going gently in / out, while ur mate is going down on U. Gently advance to next knuckle until U can take it all the way in. Do same with the cock, get worked up, lubed & fingered first, and go just head first gently in / out while U massage ur clit / use a small vibe in front at same time, & go session by session until U can take him in completely, making U cum very hard. U may like ur mate to cum in back of U, or on U, on slip in front & finish U off there…
the best two positions are 17 and 18 when the anus is in the usual place, but most of the women that I did anal with usually have their anus in place of their vagina which makes doggy style the best for these types, but I do recommend plenty of Astroglide X. By the way, don’t do a woman in the butt soon after a dinner date, she has to blow it out first, then take a quick shower or bath then you can do her.
Hello SEAN
my name is GBENGA i just join your sex article, but the thing here is that i have a problem and i dont know the course, i am very good in bed with my ex we do so many crazy things on bed and i can go 4 – 5 rounds anytime we are having sex but we broke up december 2013 and since then i have another girlfriend but she is not really good on bed and can only go one round, but now i can’t really go even three round of sex and i come so fast when having sex and that is too fast for me as a sport preson and this is really giving me a big worry… please how can you help please because now me and this same lady are about to break up because her family don’t want me in her life just because she have two kids and i have non…..please i need your help so when i find another woman i will not have a problem with sex….
thank you
Hi Gbenga, in future I may create a section for sex tips for men. I’ll let you know if I do.
I’m obsessed with anal gaping… Please am I a freak?
As long as it’s done in a healthy and safe way there’s nothing wrong with it
Me and boyfriend absolutely love this advice. We have to say it has really helped with our anal sex life. I have found that my favorites are the high chair, pearly gates , body guard and the lap dance . I’m so sore right now but love it. Thank you Sean.
So my man has been wanting to try anal and I personally find it uncomfortable. I want to please him and we have tried a few things. Doggy style makes it hurt too much. I want to learn to like it and make him happy. Any suggestions?
Hi Chey, this guide should help make it easier, less painful and more enjoyable for you.
I love anal. It feels amazing and In past relationships i have gotten off alot in wildly numerous positions. However my new boyfriend didn’t want to try it because he thought it would make him gay for trying anal. Well one night we had a few drinks and i climbed on top of him and inserted him into my vagina, after I cummed a few times i turned into the reverse cowgirl position and slowly inserted him in and out into my ass until i could take it all the way in. Omg he went crazy but in a amazingly great way. He took my hips and began thrusting me into to air. Lol i had to hold onto him for dear life lol. He flipped me over and finished off in doggie style, well one leg up on his shoulder and other leg down in doggie style position. Im very flexible. Needless to say he loves it now. And it seems to be his favorite part of the bedroom rewards. Patience, trust, listening to each other, ready to try new things and LOTS of lube. Ir you will tear and that hurts bad.
Why were the models not shown naked? That way you get a much better idea about the desirability of various positions and have something good to look at.
Hi, my man like sex. Especially, doggy. He’s good kisser. His wife doesn’t give him a blow job. So, I use to did that by following your some tips. it’s worked. How to make him more crazy on me? I want to make him happy when he’s with me. Any suggestions?
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wow nice tips i hope i wll make use of them whn i visit my bf nxt tym. am a gay and i love those styls
It’s been like 15th years we have been married, and have blessed with three childrens.
Our sex life is somehow not bad at all. But confused with the term anal sex alma matter and regarding her sexual orgasm. If i’am not mistaken my wife haven’t got a single straight (veginal and penis) orgasm so far, though we love and respect each other. When I go down on her she loves and enjoy moreover, she always crave for fingering in her vegina and ass at the same time with my tongue stimulating her…and i love doing that expecting to have the favour in return but all in vain. but i never force her. She allows me to fuck in ass once in a blue moon, and generally after her orgasm she’s never in a mood for ass fucking…neither she gives me a nice mouth fucking. She hardly suck my penis for a while and ask me to fuck in the vegina the moment she had all the pleasures and orgasm. That’s what makes me worrying…is she selfish or do i have the problems…she never allows me to cum inside the ass either in mouth…i think i should have the right to get the favours from her too though she never force me to leaking the vegina and fingering in ass…i love doing that. I just want to have the pleasure without forcing her. What should i do in this regard…should i go to a prostitute for blow job and ass fucking factors. Please limelight.
hope that my mail ID will be kept secret, eagerly waiting your mail in return.
You may find that the best thing is to talk to your wife about your needs and wants.
Well, I am a male 40 years old, I had anal sex with several female partners as well as setup, directed and videocaptured a lot of anal (and DP) initiations at private amateur level. So my experience taught me a few things that I like to share with you… There is a certain ritual you have to follow as a man, in order to have a successful anal encounter
Flirt and Seduction. (Even if she is your multi-year mate this always help to warm up the mood).
Relaxation and Trust, (Anxiety and Insecurity is the ultimate enemy of good sex in all its forms. Especially in anal attempt tension is translated in pain. The more lose she is the less pain she feels. Also mind that many women will try anal not because they are curious but because they love you and they want to please you. They trust though that you will not harm them, so it is important this first time to be good otherwise you might not be given a second chance).
Liberate her prejudices. (That is a big issue when it comes to anal sex for women. Many girls don’t try it not only because they are afraid to get hurt but also because they consider it dirty and immoral. How you liberate it? Hmmm that is not easy. It certainly needs time and persuasion skills )
Extensive Foreplay. (A must! Kisses, pets and playful attitude. A little bit of controlled roughness can also work but dont exceed the limits and be violent. Anyway, This differs from woman to woman and from time to time, Some women prefer macho some gentle, sometimes they have mood for games some other times not. This is not general and cannot be taught. Every woman is different. You have to learn her “language” to communicate with her sexually. In my personal opinion, most women prefer men that show determination, that demonstrate their desire and passion for them).
Anal ring Stimulation and Anal rimming. (They adore this part. Lick the area around the anal orifice and make them want to put something inside).
Tons of lube at all stages even during penetration. (coconut- butter is the best choice. You might even use liquid injections to lube the inner anal walls)
Finger Insertion. (It is important to get her anus walls adjusted around invading items and especially fleshy ones, yours. Make sure you cut your nails otherwise you might cause her serious problems. Insert one finger first which is not your thumb. You can do that more easily when you do muff dive or when you have sex, if the positions permits. Then use your thumb. Most girls, if they dont have prejudices will like it. Then two fingers. Usually two are enough. It is risky to use more. Twist the fingers around with caution to accommodate and dont forget the lube. Be patient, it takes time).
You can use anal toys too. (soft anal plugs preferable. In fact it will help a lot if after insertion you let the plug inside for several minutes)
Now I learned that there are a few position that “facilitate” anal sex more than others. (I am afraid that many of the anal positions suggestions which are presented above are more pornographic than actually practical, at least for the female side and when initiation is concerned ).
We might like it very much, because of the view, and many women might like the vaginal version too because of the penetration depth, but when anal is in your mind, doggy is NOT the preferable first position you should try. If you want the anal initiation to start good do NOT use anal doggy in virgin asses. It will hurt her like hell. Well, actually you could use that lie on belly doggy edition but generally I would advise you to use different positions. The most convenient for her initial anal pose that comes to my mind is the ANAL MISSIONARY, she lies flat on her back with her legs wide open and you enter her rear orifice from front. This will work just fine. There are a number of anatomical and psychological reasons for that. You or she can stimulate her clit at the same time. Another position that could work for anal is the spoon, but she needs to keep her legs open, her muscle thighs makes penetration more difficult. I would also advise you to try a woman on top edition for a second variation. Being in control makes her feel more secure. Believe it or not there is a specific pose which might even cause her orgasm. That is cowgirl squatting anal, with her leaning backwards. I dunno what is really happening down there but it darn works! You can also try the reverse version but you lose eye contact. After her anus is trained you can use whichever position you want, but with care and caution.
Careful stroking. (Half of the job is to manage to insert your cockhead inside. If it goes inside, STOP. Dont go further. Come out and do it again. head out, head in. After several times you can attempt to insert more of your penis a little bit inside (just a little) and then cock in cock out, slowly, very slowly. At some time when you are enough inside, freeze. Then start to … stir your stick making careful circle moves.
Repetition. (If you want her to include anal into your regular sexual menu, you have to repeat the above procedure many times until she gets used to it. Then it will be much easier to have a more intense intercourse. How you know her ass is ready or when a woman is not anally virgin. Well, in the majority of the cases there is a slight dilation of her anal ring, which the experienced eye can detect. If you omit anal for a long time, you have to do the process again.)
The most comfortable position for anal penetration I discovered is like sitting cross-legged, lying on my back with my partner’s torso in place of the floor. He is kneeling, an excellent position to see and touch my body. Crossing my legs (American Indian style) opens the area for rear entry, and seems more ergonomic.
Following recommendations for adequate lubrication and relaxing the anal sphincter with manual stimulation is important. Bearing down, or pushing (as if expelling feces) against the penis, greatly facilitates penetration.
After a few seconds of slow motion penetration, the man should stop entering further and rest in place for a minute or two (or longer), before forging a little deeper. Resting and repeating is better than him pulling out and starting over for two reasons: (1) Everything closes up and has to be forced open again, (2) Repeated entry can make a virgin anus sore, even with adequate lubrication.
With a partner sensitive to your needs and wants, anal sex can be incredibly pleasurable for women. Take it from one who knows!
Last weekend was another sex marathon of epic proportions with my long-distance lover, and spooning/anal spooning positions were in the mix, but ouch – it felt so amazing during that I realized I was unconsciously arching my yoga-freak flexible back (and keeping it arched) to hit all the best spots, but lesson learned.
I’ve been Recovering from a back muscle pull, but arching your back to almost a bridge position, while being jackhammered from behind probably not advisable for most. Funny not funny. Oops… Chiropractor time…
Why my girlfriend Always Fear Facking Anal, Is it awful to fuck Anal or pretty, Is it has pleasure.
me and my wife love having anal sex every night is that a bad thing.
If you aren’t in pain and are safe and clean, then everything should be A-OK 🙂
Some people’s comments seem like these are real models? All I have are drawn illustrations of people. Am I missing something?
I replaced the original photos of real models with these illustrations 😉
Bon à savoir….
Wow, so many variations. Will try number 10 with my girlfriend next time:)
Hi
I have been having sex with this guy who is pretty well endowed. Getting him inside is not a problem as I am used to having anal sex, but when he thrusts all the way in he hits something deep inside that hurts. Unfortunately he really likes it….so I was hoping that someone could tell me how the pornstars take those huge cocks all the way in….is there a technique to be learned for that as well?
Great question. I’m not entirely sure to be honest. My guess is that we are all built slightly differently, making deep anal easy for some, but hard for others.
I am not a porn actress. I am just a petite 19-year-old woman who is a sophomore in college. My boyfriend introduced me to bondage and anal sex. He uses his saliva to lube my anus, and that allows him to insert, little by little, the full length of his 11-inch erect penis into my asshole when we have anal sex. It is so intense, and the girth of his shaft stretches my sphincter muscles painfully wide. But I cope with the agony by simply synchronizing my moans of pain with his moans of pleasure — so we moan in unison with every anal thrust. That’s more than 5,000 thrusts in a typical 90-minute session of anal sex. I get satisfaction from listening to each of his moans — to the point that all I am focused on is his pleasure. It’s as if my discomfort and pain don’t exist. They are temporary any way. So, my focus is on maximizing his pleasure — so that he will carry memories of our shared experiences forever.
Nice girl. I have my first anal sex with my girlfriend 4 days and it was so intense. I was giving her good pleasure, and I feel too to the point that I need to ejaculate on her. The only thing that I regret forever and I can not stand to see her due to embarrassment for me is that when I orgasm on her, I could not control my anal sphincter contractions and I farted while I was ejaculating on her butt. In that moment my face turn red of embarrassment and stop having sex with mygirlfriend and I runner away. Since then I’m hesitant to talk to my girlfriend for what just happened to me.
You shouldn’t feel embarrassed about normal bodily functions. It’s really no big deal UNLESS you make it into a big deal 😉
Is normal to fart after anal sex or it should never happen?
Sounds pretty normal and isn’t something you should be worried about.
My husband & I have had anal sex from the beginning. We discovered it dating and decided it would be a natural part of our sex life. Of course we learned how to clean well, prepare well, and the orgasms have been well worth any effort. There are many positions that we each prefer but as a pair we agree missionary with a twist is as amazing as vaginal with an entirely different feel and orgasm. Our other favs involve positions that allow us to be able to touch and feel my body all over. Anything that allows multiple pleasures at once time have always been the best! I encourage others to explore it all, find what works the best for the two of you. We have discovered mountains of fun!