The Sandwich sex position is a bit like a combination of both the Drill position and the Viennese Oyster position. It requires a little bit of strength and flexibility on your part, but it’s not nearly as difficult as some of the options in our list of good sex positions (where you’ll find over 100 more positions to try with your man).
To perform the Sandwich, just lie down on your back and let your man penetrate while he’s on top as he normally would when doing the Missionary. But instead of just resting your legs on the bed like in the Missionary position bring them towards yourself while keeping them open. Your man’s arms should usually be around your shoulders on the bed, but he is now going to lower them so that he can put one under each of your knees and help you to lift them upwards to change the angle that he’s penetrating you at.
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What The Girl Does In The Sandwich Position
Firstly you need to make sure that you are fairly flexible before you try the Sandwich position with your man.
If you have a weak lower back, then you should avoid it.
Once you are happy to do the Sandwich with your man, then all you have to worry about is keeping your legs raised without it being too painful. If it is, make sure to tell your man. The Sandwich is a very dominant position for your man, so there is not a lot you can do. But you can use your hands to rub his back and shoulders. You can also kiss him with passion.
What The Guy Does In The Sandwich Position
Your man will have almost complete control in the Sandwich position, so he needs to make sure that you are enjoying it as much as he is. He will be keeping your legs held upwards towards your chest using his arms behind your knees which can feel exposing and be a real turn on for some. He could bind your hands to the headboard or tie them together in front of your body if you like light bondage. Your breasts will also be free for clamps. More on nipple play.
Besides this, he will be thrusting in and out of you and grinding up and down on you as well. While doing this, he is also in the perfect position to kiss you on the neck, cheeks and mouth.
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Things To Consider When Performing The Sandwich Position
The Sandwich position doesn’t look particularly hard to do, but for some, it’s too sore. Those that have tried it out have provided me with excellent feedback on it:
- The Sandwich is great for those of you who enjoy clitoral stimulation from your man. Due to lifting your legs with his arms during sex, he will be able to provide significant stimulation to your clit with his pubic bone.
- A few have said that they only enjoy the Sandwich for a few minutes before it’s too uncomfortable on the backs of their legs.
Similar Positions
Viennese Oyster
Bend your legs as far back as possible.
Launch Pad
Bend your legs at the knees and rest your feet against your man’s chest in this position.
Anvil
Your man rests his body against the back of your legs.
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Sean’s Thoughts On The Sandwich Sex Position
The Sandwich sex position is one of those positions that I’m not crazy about as it’s a little awkward, but it’s still great to use from time to time to spice things up.
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Great for deep penetration! My husband loves this position and it makes him feel dominant.
This position and other positions that are similar are my absolute favorite. In this position I am able to give my Woman a true climax, that will make her squirt all over me and really fuck up a set of sheets! The dominance really turns her on, she also enjoys that I can shift my internal angle so rapidly. Take care not to pound too aggressively. You don’t want to make it painful to her. You’ll want to focus on grinding and pushing deep into her at a firm and easy pace. Wait for her to start to tremble a bit. That will be your signal to get a little more aggressive. But keep it intimate. The more she is into you the more pleasure you are gonna give her.