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The Drill sex position almost seems to be a combination of both Missionary position and the Coital Alignment Technique. This means that it feels great, and it’s pretty easy to perform too! Add it to your repertoire along with any of the other enjoyable sex positions!
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The best way to start performing the Drill is to already be in the Missionary position, which means that you should be lying on your back with your legs open. Your man should be on top of you, facing you. When performing normal Missionary or the CAT sex position with your man, you will have your legs on the bed, but this is where the Drill is different. Instead of having your legs rest on the bed, you need to raise them and wrap them around your man’s waist. To keep them wrapped around his waist, cross your ankles behind his back. This will help you to grip him and pull yourself into him.
What The Girl Does In The Drill Position
You’ll find that the Drill position feels a lot better than normal Missionary as your clitoris gets stimulated more along with the penetration being deeper. The first time you try it, you might find it a little awkward to wrap your legs around your man. Don’t worry about this at all. Just try it and you’ll see that your man won’t mind having your legs around him. Most like it a lot!
You can use your legs to gently pull your man in with each stroke. You’ll find it easier to pull him in towards you if you wrap them around his butt instead of his waist. To make the Drill more intimate and close feeling, make sure to wrap your arms around your man’s neck/back as well.
You can also incorporate elements of BDSM, such as scratching or biting his chest, and you’re free to talk dirty. More on how to talk dirty.
What The Guy Does In The Drill Position
Your man doesn’t need a whole bunch of technical ability in the Drill position. It’s just like regular Missionary. He can thrust in and out as normal. Or he can try getting closer and grinding up and down on you to give you more clitoral pleasure. While on top of you, your guy has the choice of either supporting himself on his hands above you or getting closer to you by resting on his elbows. He can even wrap his arms around your back and over your shoulders for even more intimacy.
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Things To Consider When Performing The Drill Sex Position
The Drill is a really popular and pleasurable position that many students use regularly. They have provided me with some insightful feedback on it:
- A number of students mentioned that they were hesitant to squeeze with their legs tightly together in case they hurt their man. The truth is you won’t (unless he has some rare kidney disease). Unless you are a bodybuilder, you won’t ever hurt him. It will feel nice for him as if you are holding him closer. Squeezing your thighs together is known as syntribation and can be a great way to orgasm hands free!
- If your man is well hung and has a long penis, then you might find the penetration to be too deep and painful. If this is the case, then try putting a pillow between your and his legs to stop him from going so deep. You can also read our tips about big penis sex.
Similar Positions
Missionary
Missionary – Drill position is just an update of the classic sex position.
Lotus
Lotus – If you wrap your legs around your man while sitting in his lap, you’re doing the Lotus.
Big Dipper
Big Dipper – In this position, your man supports himself on two pieces of furniture while your legs are slightly wrapped around him.
There are plenty more positions where you wrap your legs around your man or where you’re on your back here.
Sean’s Thoughts On The Drill Position
The Drill is a great position for all couples to use as it automatically makes sex more intimate and it’s so simple to do. It’s also one of those positions that your man doesn’t need to know much about. So you can surprise him with it the next time your are both having sex in the Missionary position.
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Hopelessshipper says
It’s me again.
I wonder if this can work out between two people with about a head’s length of height difference. Basically, what I want is both the intimacy of facing eachother (missionary) and that of hugging/kissing, and I don’t know if it’s possible with our difference in height He is 6’1″ and I am 5’3″.)
I globally want to know if missionary—sans leg-wrapping can work for us, and if it does, if we can do drilling.
I can’t actually try it out (yet!) for reasons, so I’m sorry if I’m persisting.
Thank to you guys for being so helpful.
Sean Jameson says
The only way to answer this is by trying it out.
LoverDucky says
I am 4’11 and my man is 6’1 it totally works is my fave position! I like that he can easily kiss my neck, such my ear lobes he even sucks my nipples in this position, and I love him whispering Yea, and you want that and does that feel good,take it baby! 😀 What he likes is me rubbing his butt and pulling him closer by wrapping my feet around his butt! This also helps him hit the right spot for me it changes my position slightly much like having a pillow under you. He also loves being scratched in his lower back while we grind and me nibbling on his shoulder and arm and we can kiss pretty easily this way which is totally hot. Take into consideration this- you might be shorter but when you are in bed y’all are pretty much aligned inky your feet with be even with his feet! He just has few inches more of chest or leg than you do! Weight can actually be a bigger issue and his length for some sex positions! Don’t be afraid to keep trying something when its new it can take a few times to get everything just right and Yes communication is key to a good sex life and happy, healthy marriage both in and out of bed! BTW he is tall and skin and bones while I’m short and chunky! 🙂
Dave D'atilla says
You can try standing in the shower, put your arms around his neck and he picks you up by your thighs.
Sam says
And then u both slip and hit ur head on the tub and die
Ed says
At least you die happy
Jenny says
My partner and I are the same heights as you guys. No problems at all.
Topfpflanze says
Hi!
Just wanted to say this is very nicely written I love your whole page – this position is one of my favourites
,because in my opinion, it is very intimate I’d say. I think even my bf likes it, since he comes fast / everytime – I think men also like this position? I mean I cannot imagine a better “wrapping” …;)
Ro says
Yes I love this position and cum fast when my wife does that. But if your man usually cum fast in any position, this may make him cum super fast. LOL.
Antoinette says
I want to learn how to make my man happy in bed
Sean Jameson says
This guide on how to satisfy your man sexually should help
Jacklyn says
This is the position I do if i want my man to cum fast! 😜
Ro says
That is so true. My wife just has to wrap her legs around and squeeze. You just have to experience it to know how good it is. I submit and explode every time.