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The Jockey sex position gets its name from the simple fact that your man is going to look like a jockey riding a horse when you are having sex in this position. It’s one of many fun sex positions.
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To perform the Jockey with your man, you just need to lie face down on your bed with your legs straight and together. Your man then needs to straddle you with his knees on either side of your waist. He can then enter your either vaginally or anally and start thrusting. While he can lean forward like a jockey would when riding a racehorse, he doesn’t have to. He can even lean backwards slightly in the Jockey position. He can also lean right on top of you so that it feels more like you are spooning with him.
What The Girl Does In The Jockey Position
If you enjoy being totally passive during sex, then you’ll love the Jockey. It’s the ultimate position for remaining passive. All you have to do is just lie there and let your man penetrate you. But you can be a little active if you want. You can put your arms behind you and rub your man’s legs. You can also bend your knees back so that your feet are gently pushing your man’s butt and helping him thrust into you. If you like, you can also raise your butt slightly with each thrust for harder sex.
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What The Guy Does In The Jockey Position
Your man will be doing most of the work in the Jockey position. He will be thrusting in and out. He will also be able to change his angle of entry easily by leaning forward or backwards as well as moving his entire body either forwards or backwards so that he can hit many different areas inside you. The key to finding a great angle is giving him some feedback and letting him know what you are enjoying and what you’d prefer him to do. If you have a hard time speaking up, read through our tips on communicating about sex.
In the Jockey position, your man is also in the perfect position to massage your back and neck while he is upright or kiss you on your shoulders and neck when his is leaning on top of you. The two of you can read through our sensual massage guide to get ideas.
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Things To Consider When Performing The Jockey Position
Many students of the Bad Girls Bible have tried the Jockey with their man or, at least, some variation of it. I have been able to get some feedback from them:
- You can use the Jockey to great effect for both slow and romantic sex as well faster, more passionate sex.
- This is a great position for anal sex. Trying for the first time? How to have great anal sex.
- If you are performing the Jockey in front of a wall or something solid, then you can put your hands against the wall and raise your body slightly so you can push back against your man with each thrust.
- The Jockey is an excellent position for guys who like to take control during sex or for women who like their man to be on top and in control.
Similar Positions
Spooning
Spooning – Move to your sides in this relaxed position that’s perfect for morning sex. More on morning sex.
Rear Enty
Rear Entry – Your man rests more of his weight on you in this sex position because his legs stretch out behind him.
Leapfrog
Leapfrog – Lift your butt up even more for excellent G-spot stimulation in this position.
Prone Bone
Prone Bone – Your partner is on top of you, resting all their weight on you, pinning you down.
Check out similar sex positions where you’re on your stomach.
Sean’s Thoughts On The Jockey Sex Position
I enjoy the Jockey position a lot. It’s great for both slow and faster, more passionate sex. It can feel intimate as well when I am leaning right over my girl.
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If you you have “no ass disease” AND your man is short, or you like it deeper than he can normally give you… try this. it makes for GREAT penetration!!!
If not going for deep thrusting… have him lay all the way down on you kissing your neck and back while he rocks slowly in and out of you. Keep your legs tightly together. This will make you feel tighter for him and increase the clitoral stimulation for you. If you require manual stimulation to orgasm, it is very easy to reach down and do so.
While I am TOTALLY AGAINST hiding anything like this from your partner and overall I think it is bad for your sex life… if you must have manual stimulation to orgasm, and your partner is intimidated by this it is very easy in this position to reach down and help out without it being obvious.
Most guys want to feel like they can do it all for you and some get their egos bruised badly (and stupidly, some take it out on the woman). 🙁 If you have to “help out”… in this position you can do so without it being so obvious. Maybe he will notice, maybe he won’t… but in this position it is “hidden” enough he will not feel it being “thrown in his face that he isn’t good enough/big enough to get you off” or {insert your specific issue here}, and he may not even mind so much because he can pretend he didn’t notice.
Again I DO NOT CONDONE NOR RECOMMEND SECRECY IN ANY WAY ABOUT ORGASM WITH YOUR PARTNER… But, I know some partners are not willing to communicate, learning, trying, etc… and helping yourself is better than not cumming, or worse, FAKING it!!!
thanks a lot for your very helpful information.we are learning a lot.
Best Regards
Melo
I’m hearing a lot lately about “side jockey”. Could you please explain what this is? Thanks
So you mean this position, the side ride?
No, I’ve had one person describe it as her lying on her back, legs closed and to the side. Was just wondering if it was a more common term than I thought (but maybe not).
This position ends up making me squirt