89 Men On Why They Like Eating Pussy

Below, 89 guys explain why they like eating pussy, then 24 guys explain why they don’t like eating pussy. Finally, I’ll explain the 13 signs a guy enjoys going down on you.

89 Guys Explain Why They Like Eating Pussy

Based on our oral sex survey, the answer to the question “Do guys actually like eating pussy?” is a resounding…

YES! Guys adore eating pussy.

89 men who took the survey also explained in their own words why they like pussy so much:

1. Looking my woman in the eyes while I indulge my face in her sweet and warm clitoris and juice, honestly on its own is the best part. But the way that she watches me and gasps for air in silence before she melts, thats what I work for the most.

2. I am very blessed being the bottom on facesitting sessions. Can’t get enough.

3. I love eating pussy (how to eat pussy like a god) and when she grabs the back of your head and [pushes] your face into her pussy, screaming for more.

4. It gives me pleasure when I can give the lady pleasure and kind of control her excitement.

5. I absolutely love the taste and feeling a pussy in my mouth. And giving her an intense orgasm while eating her.

6. I enjoy the build up and feeling her getting wet while I do it. I get turned on listening to her breathing increase and the moaning followed by the uncontrolled seizing of her body when she cums.

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7. Great watching them receive it and feeling how their body responds.

8. I love feeling my wife cum, but she never really goes the whole way. She tells me: “That will do, get up here and in me.”

9. I want to give the woman the best experience she wants. I am there to pleasure her, and as a result I receive pleasure from her. Both of our satisfactions rise. I find it more pleasurable when I take direction from her. I want her to enjoy more than me.

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10. Oral sex on my wife is my favorite thing to do with her. I love how it makes her feel. She has taught me where to focus and pace. Feeling her orgasm makes my heart full.

11. The taste and smell are amazing, and her moans were incredible.

12. I enjoy giving her as many [orgasms] as she can tolerate. I will edge her endlessly and suck her clit, finger her G spot, and her ass. I start by kissing her body from the neck to her thighs, have her lie on her tummy and start again. Avoiding her vulva until I can smell her wetness.

The more I can tease her to the edge, the more it gets me off. I end her by sucking her clit as I apply pressure to her nipples and put a little pressure on her throat with my hand. She hangs on as I control her already swirling mind.

13. [The] Most enjoyable oral sex is licking her Pussy after She’s been fucking her bull and she’s well used after multiple orgasms and being filled with Her Bull’s Cum.

14. Eating her while she grinds on my face while she is sitting on my face. The best.

15. Once I figured that my submissive side enjoys it when I do not have enough breath it started to get fantastic (get tips for being dominant in the bedroom if this describes your man).

16. Great mentally and physically.

17. Pillow underneath them, legs spread wide, I had total control and took my time going slow and exploring.

18. I gently apply gentle suction to the labia and then to the clitoris. At the same time, I briskly move my tongue across the clit in up-and-down-and-across movements. Always applying gentle suction to the clit. Did this to [a woman] who was virtually a stranger, and she came so hard. It was beautiful. Almost [suffocated] me in her vulva though.

19. Took my time and adjusted my approach to what gave her maximum pleasure. It felt great because I gave my wife multiple orgasms.

20. I have always enjoyed my wife sitting on my face. She said that I was the first one to make her squirt. Which I totally enjoyed eating. Gave me the feeling she was totally in charge.

21. Turned on while they yell more and feel them squirm and squirt.

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22. I love love love going down on my wife. And she loves it also.

23. When I realized I could suck a whole pussy into my mouth. I thought I’d done it all, but this was an awesome surprise.

24. I like licking my wife’s [clit] and when she starts breathing fast when she really starts enjoying it.

25. Love to make her feel amazing, love hearing her moan and the sounds she makes during orgasm.

26. It makes me feel like I’m in control, and when she asks me to stop, I keep going 😈

27. I want to own my girl in every aspect in bed and taste her juices. I enjoy putting my tongue in her pussy and finger her ass at the same time.

28. I enjoy feeling submissive to her and tasting her.

29. I get off on her getting off.

30. Making them feel like they are the centre of attention, as they are the only one receiving pleasure. I enjoy the taste and the feeling of a vagina on my tongue and their body’s reaction to the pleasure.

31. I guess it’s just the act of giving pleasure to someone I’m in love with that gets me off mentally.

32. Making her climax and listening to her groans of ecstasy and making her shake uncontrollably, knowing I have performed to her satisfaction, which brings us closer together as we are content with each other. I think we could write a book on this on how to be in a great happy loving relationship.

33. Taste, smell, wetness, intimacy, giving her pleasure and, if I’m lucky, eating my own cum out of her. That’s what I like about eating pussy.

34. Love the taste of her and making her come. It makes my erection harder.

35. Giving her pleasure with her legs spread open wide, feeling your tongue on her clit…. sliding up and down and tasting her sweet juices absolutely make me feel so much in control of her orgasm.

Reading her body, feeling her squirm, and her hands on my head tightening as I lick her drives me crazy to make her cum… sliding in one finger then two whilst tasting her and feeling how wet and warm she is for me drives me crazy….. self-control not to give up until she begs to feel you glide into her.

36. I love giving my partner pleasure. Experiencing her getting wetter and wetter. Playing with her lips, clit and ass. Bringing her to a loud and body-spasming orgasm.

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37. I feel powerful.

38. I like to 69, and it’s good for both parties at the same time. For me, I often like being on my knees worshipping the sex organ of my partner, female or male. It makes them in charge. I also like them on top and sitting on my face.

39. I love making her wet and tasting her cum.

40. Giving my partner such joy and happiness while performing oral is such a powerful emotion.

41. Making her feel how she makes me feel is incredible, and I love when she grabs my head and grinds her hips into me.

42. Seeing my girlfriend’s reactions and pleasure while performing on her 🙂

43. I love having control of when they get to cum.

44. It is fun to feel her giving in to her feelings and urges.

45. I love it! The control, the pleasure given, changing up from the clit to the labia to the vagina, using my tongue as a weapon of love. Giving her a powerful and long orgasm.

46. Its how I best learn how to play her [instrument]. I like watching her wiggle around while she rubs my face in it. It makes me feel like pounding her after I’m done.

47. Love eating ass and pussy.

48. Everything about it. The smells, the touch, sensual and slow pleasure giving.

49. Luv 2 swallow her nectar.

50. Looking at their eyes and pleasuring them while feeling submissive and in control at the same time is a great experience.

51. Making her squirm, be loud. Just getting her crazy. Looking up at her as well. Great.

52. The lack of air.

53. Watching them squirm and arch the body and [lose] control. It makes me climax when they do.

54. Sucking creampie and swallow[ing] and rimming.

55. I enjoy it like crazy when I provoke the orgasm on my girl. It makes me feel like the best lover on earth.

56. I just love how wet and juicy her pussy is. Her lips are so soft and beautiful. I just want to kiss and lick every inch of her sweet pussy!

57. Going down on her….after I cum inside of her. Like a sexy freak.

58. I love the taste, I love the smell and textures of the labia and vagina. I love feeling her clit swell and then eventually her G Spot. I have read a lot of the clit and given a lot of oral sex. I have learned my wife’s body so well I can get her off faster with my mouth and her clit than she can with her favorite vibrator and some alone time.

We recorded it, and the quickest she can cum is just under 3 minutes herself. Or if I’m going down on her, it’s just over a minute. I also love the control of letting her reset and giving her another orgasm with minimal effort. I find that’s an advantage a woman will never have over my own body.

59. I love eating pussy, when she starts moaning and grabbing me by my ears and thrusting her hips up. And her pussy is so very wet. I know that I am doing a great job.

60. I love giving oral, almost more than penetrative sex. I [feel] like I give great oral, but the reaction I get and the amount of time I can get her to climax. It is all because when we first got together, we discussed what she likes and dislikes when receiving oral.

I start with what she calls “puppy dog licks” along her vagina and outer lips. When [she] starts to get into it, her clit gets very pronounced, and that is where I stay for most of the duration.

I’m a lucky man as my wife can orgasm multiple times during a session, so my goal is to get her to a point where her orgasms start to [rollercoaster], hitting back to back, driving her to have whole body orgasms and cumming multiple times in my mouth and all over my face.

At the same time as I’m eating her clit my hands are playing with her breasts and nipples, with some spanking of her breasts that excites her even more. Occasionally I move my hand down to finger her and hit the G Spot and A Spot, causing her to really cum hard.

I will typically spend 30 min. up to 1.5 hrs giving her oral.

61. It is the taste, feel, and the pleasure that you can give someone else that is such a turn on. To feel their body react to what you’re doing is amazing. Her pussy and parts get so enlarged and plump…. and then it becomes wet and wild.

My cock enlarges and becomes hard – the precum gathers on top of the head, and it is usually very sweet. AND, when a male and/or female comes, it is nothing like being right up close and personal to watch that reaction. It is just beautiful.

62. I love bringing pleasure to my girlfriend, and I get a lot of pleasure making her moan and cum. I like licking her all around the vulva and her clit, sucking her clit, and using my fingers inside of her. I take my time, and I will do it as long as she needs to make her cum, often times 20 minutes or more.

63. I like her taste. Previously not with other partners. Also, she masturbates at the same time, and I use my hand. Satisfaction of knowing she enjoyed it.

64. I get pleasure from seeing someone feeling pleased because of me. I read your tips on how to do it better so my girls love it.

65. It turns me on, and it turns my partner into beast mode.

66. Seeing how it makes her crazy makes me crazy.

67. I just love pleasing her. I love nibbling on her clit, and sucking her clit into my mouth. I want to allow her to have an [orgasm] before we try together.

68. I love it as it gives great pleasure. I love the way the inside of her pussy feels on my tongue. I love to feel her juice in my mouth and rubbed on my facial hair.

69. I love the taste, love being down there with my face in the most intimate spot of a woman, but I want to get better at it.

70. I am the reason that she’s feeling good.

71. Finding the man in the boat and going until she explodes is fun, especially when she begs for more.

72. I love the sensation in my mouth. I love giving her pleasure. I love knowing I’m good at it and can make her cum and feel pleasure. I love hearing the sounds she makes. I love when she sits on my face, being enclosed by her pussy. I love her taste.

73. When she starts humping my face, about to orgasm. I’m in heaven.

74. Love the sensation of partner surrendering. Extends her pleasure beyond what I can sustain with penetration. Ability to generate multiple orgasms. Partner is usually grateful.

75. It’s hard to explain. I just love the taste, the feeling of her skin in that area, and the way she enjoys it so much.

76. I enjoy the scent and taste of vagina and how the girl usually reacts when I’m pleasuring them with my tongue.

77. It allows me to express my feelings and my own signature talents.

78. It is pleasurely rewarding. Just watching her respond is great. It is all about her.

79. I enjoy the way it makes my wife feel and her reactions when she gets turned on. I enjoy making her cum with oral.

80. It turns me on when I’m nibbling on her clit then she cums.

81. Trumpeting her clit, she loves it. It gives her multiple [orgasms], and licking and teasing the area is amazing to watch and absorb her [response] and actions is incredibly satisfying. Watching and feeling it drives my bride crazy. Also can taste pretty dang good.

82. I love how they react…makes me feel very cared for and appreciated.

83. I love controlling her orgasm, building her up, then pulling back a little, and then the feeling as she is squirming and bucking against my tongue and mouth when she cums.

84. Having power over her and her orgasms is hot.

85. I love giving satisfaction to my wife, also love drinking her squirt.

86. I am a pleaser when it comes to satisfying her! [It drives] me wild when I look up and see her eyes closed and moaning! I love the squirting!

87. I love tasting her cum and turning her into a mess with orgasms.

88. It is always part of every sexual encounter. She cums multiple times. It is so hot for me I could almost cum while performing it.

89. I absolutely love utilizing my tongue on her clitoris, after trimming her pubic hair.

Note: We edited the responses slightly for grammar & spelling.

24 Guys Explain Why They Don’t Enjoy Eating Pussy

Sometimes the honest answer to “Do guys like eating pussy” is..

No…

But as you can tell from these responses from men, it’s often not that they don’t like going down on women….

There’s usually a specific reason in the moment (and one you may be able to do something about!).

1. She farted on me.

2. When she has never enjoyed herself and cannot let go.

3. When they [are] not clean down there.

4. No response, no direction as to what she needs to increase her pleasure.

5. I ate a lass out once that was not hygienic, and it smelled terrible.

6. The only time I haven’t enjoyed it with a woman was when there was a scent I couldn’t get past.

7. Too much pubic hair.

8. The worst time is when you smell [odor], a real bad foul odor. I hope that answers your question. You need to teach more about personal hygiene to the young ladies. They don’t have a clue what’s going on.

9. They just didn’t enjoy it.

10. The worst time was when the woman was not clean. It made it impossible to continue with any of it.

11. The smell of a bad one.

12. She was a pickup girl, sort of scrounge but I fucked her anyway. I went down to eat her, and her pussy had yellow Colored juice that stunk. I made it quick, came in her and got out asap. Then poured whiskey over my dick to kill any bacteria. It was the worst fuck I ever had.

13. The [first] times..I didn’t know what i was doing.

14. She wasn’t clean.

15. Odor, too much pubic hair, and discharged menstrual fluid while I went down on her.

16. There was no joined joy.

17. It just didn’t seem, I guess, fresh and clean, and had a weird taste.

18. It smelled bad.

19. It was a 1 night stand. She wasn’t what you would call clean. She had a bad smell. It almost made me sick.

20. Wasn’t in the moment. Smell and odor due to infection [Editor’s note: likely bacterial vaginosis, which creates a bad smell].

21. Went down on a smelly [pussy] and had to quit.

22. Couldn’t do it. Her pussy smelled.

23. Bad taste. Had to bail on it.

24. When I didn’t get hard because she stopped me from making her cum.

13 Signs That A Guy Enjoys Going Down On You

Now that you know why men like eating pussy (and sometimes don’t), you may be wondering what signs to look out for that he likes eating you out

1. He Tells You He Enjoys Eating You Out

You pretty much don’t need to keep reading if your partner tells you that he likes eating you out. What more than that do you need?!

If you’re still on the fence, err on the side of believing your partner. According to one study that tackled the question of “Do men like eating pussy?”, 52% of men find giving oral sex very pleasurable [1]!

That’s good news, because 90.9% of women like receiving oral.

2. He Asks To Go Down On You

Another pretty obvious sign he likes going down on you? He asks to do it. This may not always be the case. But chances are, you can tell from his tone of voice if going down does something for him or if he’s just doing it out of obligation. If he can’t seem to get enough of eating you out, it might give him more pleasure than you realize.

3. He Physically Initiates It

Sometimes body language speaks more than words. Does he spread your thighs and crawl or kneel between them without you even indicating you want it? There’s a good chance you’ve got an oral sex lover on your hands!

4. It Makes Him Hard

Does going down on you give him a raging hard-on? That’s definitely a good sign!

Now, it’s unlikely that any single thing makes him hard. Often, it’s a mix of activities and sensations. For example, you’re at least partially naked, which is arousing to begin with.

5. It Makes Him Cum

An even more compelling sign that he likes eating your pussy is if eating pussy makes him cum. He’s got to be incredibly turned on to cum without any direct penis stimulation!

Learn: 4 intense tips to make your man cum hard.

6. He Does It Even When You Have Your Period

For many people, cunnilingus on your period is something you’d prefer to avoid. After all, it can be messy, clumpy, and not smell or taste as good as usual. That’s why it’s such an important sign if your guy goes down on you while you’re on your period.

Psst, you can receive oral while wearing a tampon to help prevent the mess. Similarly, you can expel extra blood with your fingers before sexual activity.

7. He Does It After Sex

After sex, you might be a bit messy from your fluids and his. But if that doesn’t deter him from licking your clitoris until you scream in pleasure, take note. This isn’t a super common sign that he likes going down on you.

8. He Texts/Calls You About It

Count yourself among the lucky ones if your partner is so turned on by the idea of eating you out in the future or your past sexcapades that he brings it up. It’s a surefire sign he loves going down on you!

You can even use it as part of your dirty talk if you know he loves to eat you out.

9. He Asks How To Be Better

Just because he asks you how he can be a better cunning linguist doesn’t mean that he loves eating your pussy. He might feel like he has to and might as well do a good job of it. But if any of the other items from this list apply to him as well as this one, he may very well like performing oral sex on you. Asking how to be better for you is one of the sure signs that he enjoys having sex with you.

10. He Moans With Pleasure

Moaning during sex is an easy way to tell if someone is enjoying themselves in (and sometimes out of) bed. It’s also pretty hot to hear. So if you can feel his moans or even feel them between your legs, he’s probably having a pretty good time down there!

11. He Compliments Your Taste, Smell, or Appearance

There’s something so reassuring when your partner looks up, face slick with your juices, and tells you how good your vagina tastes or smells. Any self-consciousness you may have had melts right away.

Plus, who doesn’t love compliments? Discover what compliments men like.

12. He’s Determined To Pleasure You

Does it seem like it’s his personal goal to give you sexual pleasure? This one’s a little iffy. It might be more about his self-esteem or being in competition with himself than him liking the physical act of giving oral sex. But it could be true that he just loves eating you out.

13. He Doesn’t Make You Feel Like You Have To Reciprocate

Some people view oral sex as an exchange rather than a selfless, giving act. This is often the case for men when they go down on their partners. They want you to then give them a blow job or have intercourse in exchange.

But a partner who doesn’t expect or doesn’t even let you return the favor really loves making you feel good. This is also one of the 17 signs that he is making love to you instead of just having sex.

Of course, you might enjoy making him feel good just as much, so you should make sure your skills are up to snuff.

Read More: How to give a satisfying blow job.

What Does It Mean When A Guy Wants To Eat You Out?

The more signs he likes going down on you that you can count, the more likely that he’s definitely interested in pleasuring you with his mouth. But why might that be?

He’s (Sexually) Attracted To You

If he thinks you’re gorgeous, why wouldn’t he want to eat you out?! He may feel lucky just to be in your presence. Here are another 11 signs of sexual attraction.

It’s His Fetish

Most people enjoy giving oral sex because it makes their partner feel good. For these people, it’s not a fetish because they can orgasm without going down on their partners.

But for some people, it may be a cornerstone of their sexuality and necessary for orgasm. That’s right, they may only be able to cum when performing oral sex on you.

Discover: A list of every kink and fetish (there’s well over 200!)

He Wants To Please/Pleasure You

This one’s a no-brainer: he wants you to feel good. Similarly, his willingness to eat you out might please you emotionally, another reason he’s willing to spend time between your legs.

If your man has a submissive nature, he might take extra pleasure in doing your bidding. Check out these ideas to dominate your man.

He Wants To Use It As Foreplay

For many people, they see oral sex as a foreplay technique before penetration. It gets you aroused, which means you’ll be wetter, making penetration smoother. That penetration will also feel more comfortable when you’re aroused. Hopefully he’s not just eating you out because he thinks he has to before intercourse, but that’s sometimes the case.

He Wants You to Stay with Him, and Stay Faithful

Research suggests that one reason why some men might be more likely to go down on their romantic female partners is to encourage them to stay faithful. Giving oral sex has been identified as a type of “mate-retention behavior” to discourage a partner’s infidelity [2, 3]. Of course, if you ask him, he probably isn’t aware that he’s doing this.

We recently asked 268 women why they cheated: They explained the 23 reasons why women cheat.

It Makes Him Feel Like A Man

Giving you pleasure might be more about his ego than you. One study concluded “that men felt more masculine and reported higher sexual esteem when they imagined that a woman orgasmed during sexual encounters with them” than those who were assigned a thought scenario where their partner didn’t orgasm [4]. That’s a pretty strong reason why men like to eat pussy.

Does It Mean He Loves You If He Goes Down On You?

A common misconception is that if he goes down on you, he loves you.

This isn’t always the case, but there are a few reasons why you might think that he loves you if he’s willing to go down on you.

Cunnilingus ≠ love – Some people reserve certain activities for romantic partners only because they see them as more intimate. You might not kiss a one-night stand on the lips, for example. Others might add oral sex to that list. However, everyone has different “rules” for these things, and some people don’t follow such guidelines at all. 

Further reading: Watch out for these 23 signs he only wants sex and these 19 signs that he doesn’t want you sexually.

He may value your relationship more if he goes down on you – At least one study has found that women are more likely to orgasm when in relationships [5, 6], perhaps because women feel more entitled to sexual pleasure when in a relationship.

Sadly, both men and women are “more ambivalent about the importance of women’s sexual pleasure outside of relationships” [5]. It’s a short leap to assume that these beliefs lead to men doing the things that women need to orgasm more often in relationships. Clitoral stimulation is important to orgasm (and enjoyment!) [6]. And oral sex is great for that.

The findings about oral sex and mate-retention mentioned above are another reason why men might be more likely to go down on committed partners. Obviously, cheating isn’t of concern for non-committed sexual relationships. But research shows that these things are complicated.

You need to talk about it – If you want to know whether your partner loves you, your best bet is to talk about it instead of asking yourself, “Does he love me if he goes down on me?”. You could easily draw the wrong conclusion if you’re trying to guess based on his behavior. Whether he goes down on you or not might have nothing to do with his feelings or lack thereof.

P.S. If he’s said he doesn’t want a relationship or anything else that indicates he’s not emotionally available, believe him!

Don’t get hung up on a guy who’s only in it for the sex if you want more.

Now you know the signs he likes eating you out, and you can stop asking yourself “Does he mind eating me out?”. You may recognize some of them from your past sexual encounters, or you might make a point to look for them the next time your partner’s head is between your legs.

You should also rest assured that if your partner says he likes going down on you, he’s telling the truth! You’ve seen for yourself all the reasons why guys like eating pussy. You don’t need to feel any guilt when he does it or shame about your body. Instead, just lie back and enjoy it when he’s sucking pussy (or take control and sit on his face)!