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One of the best ways to bond with your man is snuggling. It releases the hormone oxytocin, your body’s love signal. Physical contact is also a fun way to spend time together, and gives you lots of opportunity for pillow talk. The best cuddling positions are dependent on your mood and situation, but here are ten great options for day or night.
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1. Getting Spooned
This cuddling position is one of the absolute best ways to spend super-close, super-snuggly time together. Spooning involves lying on your side in the same direction as your guy, and cuddling up with your rear up against his front just like in the picture above. Plus, most women are smaller than men, which means they fit perfectly into the contours of their favorite guy’s body.
This is an all-purpose position that doesn’t require a soft bed or couch, since you’re lying on your side, so it works well for picnics in the park, camping, and other outdoorsy moments. For more on spooning, check out this detailed guide.
2. Spooning Your Man
Of course, you can also reverse this cuddling position. Men like to feel cared for and protected too, so give your guy those feelings he craves by wrapping your arms around him and cuddling up to his back. This is a perfect way to incorporate a backrub too, which is sure to up your guy’s love for you. Or reach around and grab his hands for total entwinement.
3. Lying on His Stomach
We tend to think of cuddling as an after-sex activity, but some cozy snuggles can also get things going, and lying on your guy’s stomach is one of the best cuddling positions for this. When he’s on his back, turn over and lay partially on him, with your head on his chest and your torso on his torso.
This is a perfect arrangement for lying and talking for hours or slowly moving toward something sexier (you’ll find a ton of great girl on top sex positions in the sex positions guide). For extra steaminess, start in this cuddling position with your clothes on and slowly take them off, piece by piece.
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4. Lying on Top of Him
This position for cuddling requires some serious commitment, because you have to climb all the way on top of your man. Therefore it probably isn’t the best bet if you guys aren’t lying on something comfortable, but either way, it’s bound to be cozy for you! Have him spread his legs a bit so you can fit one of yours between his for extra closeness. It’s also the perfect position to start the Man Missionary position from.
5. Sitting in His Lap
This position for cuddling is excellent for watching a movie, eating snacks, chilling out or watching the sun set. Because it’s far more appropriate than most of the lying-down positions, you don’t need to worry about keeping it ‘clean’ for your grandmother or little brothers. That makes it a good way to stay close even on a busy day or when there are lots of people around, which is good, because on these days you both often need an extra hit of love and TLC.
It’s also perfect for moving into something like the Back Seat Driver sex position.
6. Lying Underneath Him
Of course, this is another of those cuddling positions that bears a large resemblance to sexy times, but it doesn’t have to result in amorous activities like the good old fashioned Missionary position. Lying underneath your guy is a great way to feel close to one another and to lay face to face, or can offer great opportunities for a little low-stakes making out that goes nowhere…perfect for a quiet evening in.
7. Snuggling Face to Face
One of the coziest cuddling positions for talking, snuggling face to face offers you lots of opportunity to gaze lovingly at your man. Simply turn toward each other in the bed or even on a couch, holding hands or putting your arms around each other like in the Lotus position. If you like, you can even curl your legs up into a fetal position and he can bend his body around you for even more closeness.
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But keep in mind that during the day, this position offers lots of opportunity for your guy to notice your hair and face, so it may not be the best approach after a late night or when your mascara needs washing off.
8. Holding Hands While Lying on Your Stomachs
This cuddling position gives you both a little more freedom of movement. Simply lie down on your tummies and reach into the shared space (which some of us think of as “the neutral zone”) to hold hands. This is perfect for slowly falling asleep with some contact, or for talking till dawn. More of a back sleeper? No problem … this works equally well for those that prefer to lay on their bums, and can even be adapted so that one member of the couple lies one way and one lies the other.
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9. Intertwining Your Legs
If you enjoy snuggled up legs, you might like a cuddling position that leaves your torsos and arms free to do what they like and entwines your legs together. This position can work with you facing each other, with one of you spooning the other, or with both of you on your stomachs or backs. Simply entangle your legs, wrapping yours around his and playing footsie if you get the opportunity!
10. Cuddling Back to Back
A great cuddling position for falling asleep, snuggling up back to back allows you to feel your guy’s warmth and appreciate his proximity without having to do much. It’s best for cozying up under warm blankets as you drift off and gaze out the window or enjoy a little late-night pillow talk. You can even reach behind you and grab a hand.
Working on your relationship can take many forms, but one of the easiest and most enjoyable ways to do it is simply to snuggle up. Take every opportunity you can to get close to your man in the living room, out in public, and especially in the bedroom. You’ll be glad you did!
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Wow you know all the cuddling techniches that u just mentioned here are very important,and me n my partner are on the ryt track bcos we tend to do them all. Thank you very much for your information,I have more experience now because of your articles.thanks.
LOVE THIS!! Me and my boyfriend do all of these all the time, we love to cuddle and relax or watch a movie. We even cuddle when we game!
I love cuddling, my favorite sleeping cuddle is back to back, I like to have his rear in the small of my back, and our feet intertwined.
Some guys like my boyfriend respond negatively to supposedly too much cuddling. I like to cuddle and show affection this way. I came from a family where everyone likes to give hugs and be hugged. He tells me I don’t get enough affection and I try to scale back but it doesn’t seem like I’m being true to who I am. Culturally his family is very different and more reserved than mine.
Thanks Sean, so much info out there benefits men and not enough about the woman. A woman will feel super loved and special therefor sexy if she gets enough quality cuddles.
Kathleen.
Hi K,
It’s not needed to say that women feel the same way as men do. I cannot express all the ‘benefits’ a woman gets in each cuddling position. I might need another article for that. For example, what a man feels when a woman is sitting on his lap, should express by his hands and mouth, depends on how sensual the sitting is.
– A guy who loves cuddling –