Today sex therapist Dr. Kat Van Kirk answers listeners sex questions on BDSM, pegging, jealously in relationships, the porn “problem” and many more. If you got questions you’d like answered anonymously by a sex expert in a future episode, please send your question to [email protected]
In This Episode You’ll Learn…
2.35 – How to deal with a man that is “jealous” of your vibrator.
6.25 – How to approach using a strapon with your man and why strapon sex is both healthy and fun.
8.20 – What you need to know about anal lube. Why silcone based lube is best for anal.
8.50 – The do’s and don’ts of mixing alcohol and sex.
9.40 – Why guys are afraid of pegging.
14.05 – Dr. Kat talks about the problem with lower testosterone rates in men and why it’s happening to so many guys.
16.20 – We discuss how porn causes problems in relationships AND why porn can sometimes be a good thing in your relationship.
23.10 – Practical tips on how to explore BDSM with your man.
24.50 – Why the submissive is always in control.
25.50 – Safe words and the traffic light system.
27.10 – Why BDSM doesn’t have to be “hardcore” but can be a little bit more subtle and light.
32.50 – Practical tips for moving past infidelity.
Extra Stuff
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I do have a question not sure if you can answer this for me or not. I have been
separated for over two years, was married 35 years, I am 58 years old. I have had sex with many many guys that I have met online. While I do want a relationship with one guy, I am fearful that I will loose the excitement that I get from having sex with different men all the time. So it’s a bit of a roller coaster ride with me all the time emotionally too. I haven’t found the right guy yet, will I ever?? What do I need to do to get off that roller coaster are my expectations too high now.
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Me and my husband both enjoy BDSM, but I have a low threshold on what I can take compared to what he can give. Do you know any tricks or ways that can help allow me to “take it harder,” he never complains or gets mad. I just get frustrated at the fact I am unable to push past my current limits. Thanks!
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