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Giving your man a good blowjob requires a lot of things. You need to have the right mindset, the right BJ techniques (which you can learn here and here) as well as knowing some great blow job positions to use on your man if you want to make it a good one. Below are the ten best positions that you should use on your man when giving him a blowjob. I have broken them down into 3 different groups: Basic, Intermediate & Advanced and you can skip straight to them by clicking here.
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But before you skip straight to the blow job positions below, I want to teach you some vital things that you need to know in order to give your man an incredible blow job. You see, there is more to a great blow job than just the positions you use when you go down on him.
The Build Up – Before you even lay your lips on his cock, you can build up the sexual tension with your man, so that he is practically begging you to go down on him. If turning a guy on and making him crazy horny with lust and desire before blowing him is something that you’re interested in, then you can learn exactly how to do it Chapter 2 of the Blow Job Guide here.
Make Him Scream With Pleasure – Using just one or two techniques on your man during a blow job isn’t going to be that exciting for him. If you really want to keep him on edge, gasping, moaning and arching his back in ecstasy then you need a range of different techniques in your oral sex tool box.
The Bad Girls Bible Blow Job Guide has you covered, you’ll learn 22 blow job techniques in Chapter 3 here, 14 BJ tips in Chapter 5 here and another 21 techniques in Chapter 8.
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Finish Him Off With Maximum Satisfaction – Once you know your man is close to orgasm and cumming, then it’s time to finish him off. I’ve dedicated an entire chapter of the Blow Job Guide here to making sure your man collapses in total bliss as he reaches orgasm and cums. You can learn how to do this here.
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Basic Oral Sex Positions
These are the 3 easiest to perform blowjob positions. They are easy to perform because they give you a huge amount of control over the blowjob. So you never have to worry about accidentally taking your man’s penis too deep into your mouth and coughing/choking on it. They also don’t require any crazy acrobatics or super flexibility.
If you have very little experience with giving your man a blowjob or you have an over active gag reflex, then I highly suggest that you first start by learning and using these 3 BJ positions.
Intermediate Blowjob Positions
Once you are comfortable with the basic BJ positions above, you should try out some of these intermediate positions. Each of these blowjob positions gives your man a little more control over how deep you take him, so if your throat is very sensitive be careful! Of course, you can always learn how to better control your gag reflex using these tips.
By the way, these are called “Intermediate” blow job positions because they take a little more skill from your to perform them. They don’t necessarily give your man more pleasure.
Note: The Cinema BJ position is often referred to as the Car blowjob position because both involve the same action.
Once you are comfortable trying out these blow job positions, it’s time to move on to trying some more advanced positions for sucking your man’s dick.
Quick Quiz: Do You Give Lousy Blow Jobs?
If you are new here, then you may want to take the quiz below to learn how good you are at giving oral sex and satisfying your man. You may discover you that you suck (pun intended) or that you are already a blow job queen.
1,114 Woman Study: Do women like giving blow jobs?
Advanced Blowjob Positions
Just like I mentioned in the “Intermediate” section, you might believe that these advanced blowjob positions give your man far more pleasure than the intermediate and basic positions. But that’s not quite true. These positions are in the advanced section because they are harder for you to do.
All of these oral sex positions give your man way more control and you less control, which is a major turn on for some guys, and you may find it pretty hot too. In other words, your man will decide how deep his penis will go into your mouth. So if you have a ticklish and sensitive throat, you should try the Basic or Intermediate blow job positions instead. Or you can be proactive and learn how to control your gag reflex using this strategy.
If you are already comfortable giving your man deep throat, then you will both adore the positions below:
- Face Fuck Blow Job Position
- Jack Hammer Blow Job Position
- Lie Back Blow Job Position
- Plumber Blow Job Position
What blow job position you use when giving your man a blow job is only one part to becoming a blow job queen. That’s why there are nine other chapters in the Blow Job Guide. If you are serious about giving your man insane amounts of oral pleasure and keeping him deeply devoted to you, then you may want to check them out.
Chapter 1 – The Basic Building Blocks To A Breathtaking Blow Job
Chapter 2 – 19 Oral Sex Tips To Start Your Blow Job With A Bang
Chapter 3 – 22 Powerful Blow Job Techniquese
Chapter 4 – How To Finish Your Blow Job In Style
Chapter 5 – Learn How To Suck Cock Like A Pornstar
Chapter 6 – 10 Very Sexy Blow Job Positions – You are currently reading Chapter 6
Chapter 7 – How To Deep Throat Your Man Without Gagging
Chapter 8 – 9 Bonus Oral Sex Techniques To Use On Your Man
Chapter 9 – How To Swallow Cum With Ease & Make It Taste Great
Chapter 10 – Readers Tips Of Giving Great Fellatio
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I really want to know the side effects of giving a blowjob….. It will actually feel great but wouldn’t it lead to any medical complications…. Sandy
Hi Sandy,
It shouldn’t lead to any medical problems if neither you are your man are carrying any infections or have an allergy to seminal fluid.
Sean
I love this. My boyfriend and I use this all the time. I know we are not post to do this but it feel soooooo good to him and feel great in my mouth.
I love to give my man intense blow jobs anytime he wants. I have never seen your book or video but I can tell you that all 5 techniques and tips I definitely practice. Thank you. I will keep reading your newsletter because I don’t ever want to stop learning new ways to keep my man SATISFIED! Every wife and every girlfriend who plans on becoming a wife, needs to heed this advice. Insure that you will be all he will ever want or desire. I’ve got my man like that!
Hi.
When I come in contact with my girlfriend.
My ejaculation occurs within a minute.
Is it normal thingh r having some problem indication
Sounds normal, but you can make yourself last longer by following the advice in the guide to lasting longer.
Hey so long as he is keeping you satisfied too then it’s all good <3
My man’s favorite thing about getting my best bj’s is how excited I get while I’m doing it. I love to make him feel like he is the only man on Earth at that moment. His member in my throat is such a turn on that I tremble and that makes him tremble while he reaches in my panties.
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I am 29 now and when I first did this I thought it was disgusting now I take pride in that fact that I am good at this. Also it makes my man want to eagerly reciprocate, which I also love. I love this, I am glad I found this site. Thanks, Shelly
My husband likes blow jobs but he takes a very long time to cum. He isn’t as sensitive so sometimes getting there can be an issue. Is there any tips for this? Thank you 🙂
The simplest tip I can give you is to just get him to stop masturbating for a few weeks. His sensitivity will massively increase.
Dear..kiss on his lips,nack,belly and chest during blowjob..
I ENJOYED your tips and pictures on how to. I found the information helpful and easy to follow. I considered myself an adventurous person sexally but giving a bj was always a weakness in my treasure chest of pleasing myself and my man. I will use the tips given and I am sure I will now make him tremble with much pleasure.
That pic gave me an idea…would guys LIKE to get a bj through underwear? Or would they find it hot at least?
You could try it! Let everyone know how you get on!
sooo sexy and helpfull he will luv this it will be his second fav thing to do his first is sticking his cock in me 🙂 thank u!!!
Fuck yeah!!! My girlfriend entered me
Into this realm and it fucking kicked ass! She mothafucking made my day! She sucked it clean through the boxer briefs and then found the co** and ba**s through the gofer hole. It ruled. All couples shall try this or will answer to G*d in the after life.
I can’t fuck for a long time i got discharge in just 5 minutes . Can you help me how could i increase time
Well is it too sensitive to continue?
A lot of your positions assume the guys penis is pointed down. But my guys always wants to stick straight up towards his belly button. Do you bend it down to get it that position?
Most penises can flex downwards, even when fully erect. The key is taking it slowly so he doesn’t overdo it and hurt himself.
My guy is slightly more advanced than me (well, maybe a little more than slightly) and I have issues with you know standing out. I’m pretty much the first woman who’s been with him that wasn’t drunk and I really want to know how to please him without being like them. I’m busty and whenever I go down on him he likes to see “my girls” though, but I don’t know how to incorporate that so much. Please help
Hi Lani, you’ll find a whole range of tips in the Bad Girls Bible newsletter here.
I want to try doing it in the car with my husband. I just want to try something and it might make us feel like we’re in high school again. I am 27 and he is 30. I want to know what kind of blowjob positions I could use to sort of amp up his pleasure, keep in mind he’s about 6 feet tall and I’m 5’2. Thank you
Honestly the cinema position is the easiest. Just make sure that you don’t do anything dangerous or illegal.
You forgot the second face fucking position. Woman on all fours on the bed. Man standing. Want to step this one up a notch ? Do it in a thing and heels.
So a lot of these positions are really great and i’m definitely going to give these a try but I was wondering if there was any tips on how to move my tongue where to put my hands and what foods like pop rocks and mints would be the best? Ill try anything once.
Hey Avalon, check out this step-by-step tutorial video and this guide here.
I love all the advice and tips on different things I can do to satisfy my husband. One thing I struggle with is my husband ALWAYS wants to cum in my mouth. I’m very scared to because the first and only time I ever did it, it went bad. Any advice?
Hi Samantha,
The key here is talking to him in a judgmental, non-confrontational way so that he knows how you feel about it.
Sean
Am Glad 2 Have Found Ths Site.Av Learned Alot.Nd We Av Been Reading With With My Wife.She Has Learned Alot.Thanks
dear friend you might want to consider changing your blog name to something else say bad girls’ diary, bad girls’ corner, bad girls anything else… but importing the name of a religion’s holy book into this arena seem to be going to the extreme… nice website though.
In fact ‘bible’ can be a generic term for any informative reference work. It’s origins as a word derive from that used for ‘paper’.
iam really going to try this out with my boyfriend its extra cool.
I truly enjoyed all that I read. I litterally do everything you said before reading the article. My fiance shakes, screams, and laughs un-controllably when I have oral sex with him. It causes me to have multiple orgasms.
And it is true, he is so sexally addited to me. I have never seen anything like it.
Thanks for helping others come to a sexually satisfying place
I just had sex the first time today, and I discovered that I surprisingly have (somewhat) good gag reflex. But I do have to admit that the face f*****g is a bit intense though, not that I’m really complaining about anything though…..
It’s all about how you take it and how big he is
a gal of my friend says she do blow job and I want her to do so to me, m in love with her n d way she talk about blow job made me to fall for her, I really want her….Any advice
Love those positions might try them soon
My boyfriend loves when he stands with his legs open and I get on my knees behind him, sucking his penis from the back, sometimes sticking my head between his legs while to get all of it in my mouth, drives him crazy all the time ????
I’ve read your articles…they are nice…but I’ve already tried all these sexual and oral positions before…I already know about everything you’ve written,don’t you have anything new?
Have you tried the tips on my newsletter?
The 360 blowjob
My sexy girlfriend dug deep and pulled this one out of her blowjob toolkit. She has me laying on my back in the middle of the bed naked with my legs apart. Facing the 3 o’clock position she bends down and begins sucking my cock after a minute or so she takes all of me as she moves between my legs to the 6 o’clock position causing my entire dick to twist in her mouth. A couple minutes more she moves to the 9 o’clock. A few more minutes she moves to the 12 o’clock position still keeping my cock all the way in her mouth. Now that’s she’s at the high noon position i put my hands on her butt cheeks as she lowers herself onto my face. Her pussy is so wet as my face is buried into her opening. I licked and suck as my tongue went up and down her succulent pussy lips. I was just about to give her clit a workout when she raised up and moved to the 3 o’clock position as my entire cock twisted in her mouth once again. A few moments later she reversed the clock position going back to the 12 o’clock position as my lips were on her pussy lips. This time I went straight for the clit first tonging it then sucking her sweet tasting clit that had come out of it shell just for me. She started moaning louder each time she swallowed every inch. She started to tighten up as she quivered then jerked several times having a intense orgasm. Her juices flowed into my mouth. I came hard as she really gave my cock a workout I soon would not forget.
Hey Sean you may just have to add a new blowjob position. Girlfriend calls this one the 360 degrees of pleasure and l call it the clock sucker. We both think your website is awesome!
Thanks Don, this sounds very fun indeed!
awesome tips.
TANKS ALL D WAY, I’L TRY DIS WIT MY SPOUSE
OMGOSH!! I read thru your techniques and tried the “lie back position “. What can I say, it was amazing. I was eagerly taking him, and got so turned on by it I was squirting before I knew it! After a while we went to the reverse cowgirl, to give his bad knees a rest, I came repeatedly… with a little fingering in my ass during the ride, I was cumming left and right!
Then we moved to doggy stlye for a bit, still making me squirt, I had to have it in my ass, after squirting a couple more times he came in my ass as I let loose one last time!!! So HOT and SEXY, I don’t think I have ever had it so good.
Glad I could help!
I gave dude a fifty minute blow job the other night. I was sweating and squirted a bucket and a half.
I always swallow, unless he’s giving me a facial (which I suggested). He gets so turned on that I can deep throat him and never gag.
I’ve never watched porn but I feel like I give porn star blow jobs.
I feel like a queen spider 🕷️ when he steps into my web 🕸️.
Wow!! So educative nd fun… Am gonna try them with my bf soon…! Thank u!!
I read the Bad Girls Bible BJ tips and tricks and learned my 3 decades of being a nurse has given me an incredible skill. I knew I had a “mind over matter” lack of getting nauseated or gagging at work and home when doing smelly chores. What I didn’t realize was my throat also has been trained to not have a strong gag-reflex. In fact, I don’t have a gag-reflex at all.
The other night, I told my BF I had a surprise for him. He had told me there were 2 porn stars he thought give the BJs he likes. I watched them both and one was pretty tame but she looked up at her partner/camera a lot and he said that’s what he liked. The second video was a quick BJ and then on to Face and Throat F#^%ing. I told him the actresses must have their throats numbed to do that.
So I started remembering several of the ways to please him during oral sex and would look up at him every 20 seconds or so and he wasn’t looking at me at all. I thought I was doing horribly. He never once looked down at me as his eyes were closed and his head tilted back in ecstasy. I was able to deepthroat him as far back as it would go. I started making a swallowing motion twice and then came back up for air. I took the head of his dick and rubbed it 3-4 times against the roof of my mouth. He grabbed my head gently, fingers in my hair tight, but not pulling and pushed my head enough for me to understand he was about to cum. He came in the back of my throat so far I never tasted it.
He was so cute and goofy and told me:
“Congratulations! That never happens to me. Do you realize how hard it to make a guy cum with a BJ?”
I remember Samantha from Sex in the City saying-well they don’t call it a job for nothing!
So thank you BG Bible and Sean for the great tips for the tips! I feel like I got the highest compliment ever and I am curious to see if other nurses know they have a great talent they don’t even know they have.
I got major brownie points the other night and we are making long term plans!
So happy I could help!