The Lie Back blowjob position is probably the most advanced of all the blow job positions in the Bad Girls Bible for giving head. I don’t recommend it for beginners, so if you are looking to brush up on your blow job skills, then make sure to check out the in-depth, illustrated guide on giving a great blow job where you will learn over 50 different blow job tips and techniques to pleasure your man.
How To Perform The Lie Back Blow Job Position
When you perform the Lie Back with your guy it’s quite difficult to control how deep you take him. To help you relax when taking him deep, I highly recommend reading my article on how to deep throat without gagging, specifically this section of the deep throating guide where you’ll learn how to control your gag reflex. To get into the Lie Back position, you need to lie down on your bed on your back. You need to position yourself so that your entire body is on the bed, but your head should be hanging over the side of the bed, so that you can easily tilt it backwards and take your man in your mouth.
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The one great benefit of this position is that your mouth and throat will be in alignment making it slightly easier to deep throat him without gagging when compared to positions like the Thigh Pillow and Doctor blow job positions where your mouth and throat are not in alignment.
Your man should be standing on the floor by your head, but he may have to crouch down a bit depending on how high your bed is. He should start by slowly leaning forward while remaining upright so that you can take his penis into your mouth.
Extra Tips On The Lie Back
Slow At First – It’s crucial that your man takes it slowly at first. Having your head upside down can be very disorientating when you first try it, making it difficult to concentrate on giving him a blowjob.
Stay In Control – Try putting your hands on your man’s legs/waist to help you control how deep and how fast you take him into your mouth. Of course, if you like him being the one in control, then don’t worry about this.
All About Your Nipples – If you enjoy nipple stimulation from your man, then he’s in the perfect position to do it. These nipple stimulation techniques along with these additional tips will help increase your pleasure while giving him oral.
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I always love to read your articles.they are awesome amd they’ve really helped me.when my man is away,he is always thinking of me and what I do to him.I’m very grateful,thank you
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i am sooooo trying this!
My boyfriend can’t get enough of this position and neither can I when he is totally in charge. It took a little getting used to at first but I can take all of him in this position. He is also able to lean down and pleasure me while he goes all the way into my throat.
I love fucking in the mouth in that position but I have not found the right person to really handle it
Wow i love reading your articles and for sure they do help
You want to spice this one up? Masturbate while doing this to him. Or throw on a set of heels and something sexy…
My wife just did this to me last night and it was amazing. She used a viborator while I helped with one hand played with her nipples with the other. Truly an amazing experience.
I want to try this position so bad, but I’m worried about spit running into my eyes
Lie Back Position
My girlfriend surprised me a few days ago when I got home from work she was waiting naked at the front door. She closed the door and pushed me back against it dropping to her knees while undoing my pants letting them fall to my ankles. Kissing my half erect penis she looked up at me and said, all I could think about today was feeling your entire huge cock pumping your massive load deep into my throat as I tighten both my hand on your ass pulling you into my mouth even deeper. Well after she said all that she went to town on my now erect penis I was so turned on that I probably came in a minute or so. After losing my load and her milking every last drop from me. To my surprise she looked up at me and said can I please have seconds, I don’t care how long it takes I just really love making love to your awesome cock with my lips and mouth. Wow, I was in such shock I couldn’t speak I just nodded yes she smiled and took my balls into her mouth. As the head of my cock laid on her forehead she was really turning me on once again feeling her tongue and lips caressing my balls as she ran her hands slowly up and down my legs. She started humming and moaning and OMG in a instant I was so turned on the head of my cock starting raising off her forehead as my erection was coming back she replaced my balls in her mouth with my now hard penis. I was enjoying her running her tongue around my swollen cock head when she suddenly stopped grabbed my penis and guided me quickly to the kitchen table. She climbed on top the table laid on her back with her head over the side as her beautiful long hair was almost touching the floor. Come here as she opened her mouth wide. I’m yours take me however you want. I reached down took my cock in hand and rubbed my mushroom head slowly over her lips, cheeks, and forehead before putting a couple inches her mouth I was in heaven I reached up and fondled her breasts and nipple as I leaned forward and kissed her stomach.
I gave her 3 long slow strokes before pulling out of her mouth. Before I could tell her how awesome this was she took my left hand and said slowly give me every single inch of your boner. With my other hand I inserted my penis and slowly started giving her every inch. When the tip of my penis entered her throat she put my left hand across her throat as I gave her every last inch. Wow that is so amazing I could feel and see the outline of my penis head bulging raising the skin about a third of the way down her throat. I put my hands back on her breast as I went deep with each stroke absolutely loved watching the bulge in her throat that was the head of my penis and shaft with each long slow stroke. I kept telling her over and over how fucking hot this was and how fucking amazing she was with each thrust. Needless to say in no time I was reaping the rewards of my back to back blowjob shooting my load deep down her throat for the second time. Doing the lay back position on the kitchen table sure had me hooked. I went to her feet spreading her legs apart as I pulled her to me I wasted no time burying my face between her warm shivering thighs wondering how many times I could make her orgasm without stopping. Best day ever!
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Hello Sean:
My lover (and it seems, a lot of men) are very visual. As well he gets really turned on by sexy lingerie and watching me touch myself or masturbate. And, of course loves blowjobs. This is a perfect position for all of these. When we bought our bed, we actually measured it to make sure it came to just below his balls so that I could comfortably perform this type of blowjob without straining my neck. It also makes it great if I decide to swing around, perpendicular to him so he can play with my pussy while I suck him. You can also change the height of the bed by putting memory foam or even a thin air mattress on top. That also makes it a good height for him to fuck me standing while I am relaxed on the bed. Sometimes I wear an outfit called “the black widow”. He plans on dying of a heart attack while getting a blowjob. Lol. Mine is black, see through lace and covers all sorts of blemishes and stretch marks which makes me feel way more confident and sexy. It covers my breasts but has easy access, short (just below my crotch) and can be worn with or without panties, stockings etc. He goes wild when I wear this. So I make him beg a little so he doesn’t get too used to it. Lol. From his vantage point he can see everything from head to toe as well watch his penis in my mouth because my head isn’t hanging down off the bed. I’m able to totally relax because I’m comfortable, one hand guiding his cock and massaging his balls and one hand between my legs pleasuring myself and his voracious appetite for visual stimulation. You can also incorporate mirrors for a better view between the woman’s legs.
Thank you so much Sean for all your tips and advise. People are the only species with the capacity to have sex for pleasure so help us keep the flames of passion ignited and burning bright. Infinite love and gratitude my friend.
I tried it for the first time . Wow it felt good going down my throat. Cant wait to do it again
What can I say about this position apart from “Wow!” I will try to expand however! 🙂 I’m naturally submissive and this position really honed in and intensified those feelings. I’d never experienced it first hand, just watched it on porn movies – and to be honest, some of them can leave me cold as there are no feelings behind it. When I tried it with my sexual partner, part of the reason it was so hot was due to those underlying emotions. I was wearing black stockings, suspenders etc., and I just asked him: “Would you like to try it? – it will be different from a BJ, as you will have more control.”. I didn’t have to ask twice, lol. laying on my back and putting my head slightly over the bottom of the bed, I could feel the butterflies in my stomach. “This is it, I’m actually going to do it!” I thought, as I took a steadying breath and parted my legs and put my hands down to my side. When his cock slide into my mouth all I could think of was “Oh my God, I’m being ‘face fucked’, this is what porn stars do!” and felt deliciously naughty. From his moans and “Oh my Gods” I could tell he was enjoying the experience too. He started to work into a rhythm and thrust a little too deep for my novice mouth to take on a couple of occasions, so I had to put my hands back on his thighs to move him out a little bit and a couple of times I had to pull out as the gag reflex took hold but after a few steadying breaths, I was ready for him again. I’m therefore looking forward to reading your article of how to control this reflex and take him deeper for longer. For his part, he’s a very considerate lover and even though later he said he wanted to ram it deep into me, he (somehow) managed to control himself. I asked him what it felt like for him and he said a feeling of dominance and also the sensations were amazing. It was his first time trying out that position too and said he hoped I loved it as he certainly did! I happily answered in the affirmative and although I have a slightly sore and hoarse throat today, every thrust of his cock into my open, willing and loving mouth was worth it 🙂 Xxx
The lie-back blowjob position is great for blowjobs and deep throatfucks, which my boyfriend loves to give me while he caresses my breasts. Obviously, all of this requires trust, communication, and staying relaxed. With practice, I have learned to remain calm while my boyfriend’s erect penis slides through my open mouth, past my tonsils, and into my throat upon initial penetration. It is normal, at first, for the gag reflex to react to such penetration. The first several times, I gagged, coughed up saliva, and puked. But with practice, I learned to suppress my gag reflex. I still cough up saliva, but I no longer panic when I do. I just accept and embrace the fact that deep throatfucking will cause me to cough up saliva, and we both understand and welcome anything that I cough up as simply my throat’s natural lubrication, whether it is my saliva or even my puke, which makes it easier for my boyfriend to thrust his erect penis back and forth inside of my throat. For me, the experience is so intense and sensual, and because I am so vulnerable during such thrusting, it actually feels so liberating to me because I have willingly submitted to it, I know and expect the saliva and puke will periodically flow into my mouth, and I trust that my boyfriend will make sure I can breathe every 30 seconds or so while he thrusts back and forth inside my throat. For me, it is so satisfying to hear him moaning with pleasure with each thrust. And it is so satisfying for him each time that he ejaculates inside of my throat and watches me gulp down his semen into my stomach. It can be a messy experience, of course, but we both know it goes with the territory and so we don’t even give the messiness a second thought during our love-making sessions. I focus on sucking his shaft, breathing, hearing his moans of pleasure, and swallowing whatever comes out of his penis — usually it is semen, but sometimes at the end of a session, it will be his urine that flows into my throat. I have discovered that swallowing piss is easier for me if it is released in my throat than if it were released in my mouth.
Curious if anyone has any advice on this position. We tried this position and ran into the issue that when I cam she felt it almost come out her nose due to being upside down. Wondering if anyone else has had this happen and figured out how to make it more comfortable to still be able to swallow in this position.
This position is incredibly sexy. But when me and my girlfriend tried it she had some trouble with it feeling like it might come out of her nose. Was wondering if anyone else had this issue or any solutions to it.
Thanks!