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Ever feel like all you do is get dressed, undressed, sleep, and have sex in your bedroom? It can get a little boring. For both of you. Instead of just having regular sex with your man, why not spice things up by playing some bedroom games! Below or some of my all-time favorite sex games that you can play with your man. Not only are they fun and sexy, but they are great for showing your man that you are adventurous and like to have fun in the bedroom
Tie Him Up
I honestly consider this one to be one of the tamer bedroom games that you can play with your man. Tying him up is really easy. It just takes a little preparation beforehand. It works best if you have bedposts on your bed. Just tie some tights around each bedpost with enough of the tight free to tie around your man’s wrists.
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Then when you and your man are in bed together, get on top of him and put a knee on either side of him so that it’s hard for him to escape. Now you need to tie his arms to each bedpost so that he can’t use them. With you on top of him and his arms tied, you will have all the control. Now you can do a number of things, you can slowly go down on him and give him head or you can start having sex in the many girl on top positions like the Cowgirl, Betty Rocker or Crab sex positions.
If your bed doesn’t have bedposts, just tie his arms together and hold them over his head.
Just to be clear: You need to make sure that he knows you are just having some sexy fun and that you are not trying to harm him when tying him up.
Racing 69
The Racing 69 is a fun game to play with your man. Here’s how to play it:
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You and your man get into the 69 sex position. When you are both in position and ready, you need to start giving each other oral sex. The winner is the person who makes the other orgasm first. The loser is the person who orgasms first. The loser has to perform a forfeit like cooking the winner their favorite meal or cleaning the house or wearing something really sexy the next day.
The Racing 69 is a really simple bedroom sex game to play with your guy. If your man wants an unfair advantage, then he can use a vibrator or if you want an unfair advantage, you can start by giving him a handjob for a few minutes beforehand to warm him up. These ‘unfair’ advantages can make the Racing 69 a lot more fun and interesting.
The Oral Sex Game
The Oral Sex Game is sort of like a combination between a regular videogame/boardgame/sport and sex. The idea is that you and your man play a game against each other that you are both evenly matched at. It could be Halo on the Xbox 360 or chess or table tennis. The key is that you are evenly matched and that the game you are playing has both a winner and a loser. The loser has to give the winner oral sex.
The Oral Sex Game is really easy to play and instantly makes any game you play with your man a lot more fun and interesting!
Make A Sex Tape
Making a sex tape with your man is something you should only do if you both know and trust each other very much.
Making a sex tape is hot, very hot! It’s something special that only you and your man will know about it. It’s not exactly a ‘bedroom game’ like the other games that I have described above, but it’s still fun. The coolest thing about making a sex tape with your man is that you get to watch yourselves afterwards. Before you dive right in, there are just a few things you need to consider when you want to make a sex tape for yourselves.
- You don’t need a top of the range camera, but it should still be good enough that you can watch it on a laptop/computer.
- It’s easier to just set up the camera on a chair and leave it there. But this is no fun and makes for a pretty boring video. A much better way to video is to combine this with one of you grabbing the camera and holding it so that you can video different angles and positions more closely.
- Make sure to hide the video so no one can ever find it.. Give it a name like, ‘writing tips’. Don’t store it on your computer (use a CD or external hard drive) and make sure to password protect the file.
Remember: Only ever consider making a sex tape with your man if you both really trust each other.
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I’m having sex on and off with my best fried. Most recently just anal sex, which makes me feel like I’m not cheating with my husband. My friend is great, but the sex is average. He is completely in love with me and I do love him, but the sex is a huge sticking point for me. If I merged the best parts of both on my men I’d have the perfect guy for me. What should I do? Should I teach my best friend how to please me or should I just stay with my husband and put up with his BS?
My kids love my best friend and me and my husband can’t seem to agree on anything. I’m just trying to look out for the best interests of my children.
Hi Julie,
That sounds like a really tricky situation. Unfortunately I’m just a sex coach, not a relationship coach!
Hope it works out for the best,
Sean
If you want to keep your kids happy you need to have a long conversation with them to tell them what’s happening and what all these changes mean but you should let them visit their father from time to time but try not break any heart let him down gently
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what if been together since 16 yrsold now almost 50 yrs old and always had great sex life and did most positions in first 10. Now its almost 40 years kids are gone how to make in interesting again. We have used toys made movies tied up etc. Love any ideas
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I am married to the woman of my dreams. A bbw with enormous breasts and big beutiful bubble but. I have always been obsessed with large breasts and she loves to tease me. When we were dating she spoiled me untill I would get so hard as soon as I saw her. Then one day she said she had bought new lingerie and had a big surprise for me. She said she would go put it on but first I had to be tied naked to the bed. I eagerly agreed. When she returned wearing black shiny corset and stockings with high heeled boots I was so turned on. She teased me with her huge boobs untill I was begging to suck on them. She made me admit that I needed mommies nipple because I am a big baby. She pulled out diapers and baby clothes that said mommas boy on them. I wanted her boobs so bad I agreed to wear them. She stuck a pacifier in my mouth that strapped around my head to keep it in. I was sucking it while she put my diaper and baby clothes on. I was so hard and wanted her to touch my cock so bad. She teased me about having a little baby toy and how cute it was. I couldn’t speak because I was sucking the pacifier strapped to my head. She teased me with her huge boobs and nipples untill I was whimpering and struggling. My cock needed attention and I couldn’t resist anymore. She asked if I wanted my little joytoy and I shook my head yes. She said you love playing with your little joytoy all the time don’t you. I was humiliated but shook my head yes. She said good boy. Then she reached into her bag and pulled out a huge dildo. She said my little baby toy was to small and she needed a big cock. She began rubbing it and sucking on it like she used to do to mine. I was squirming and whimpering desperately. She asked me if I needed my joytoy and I shook my head yes. She said that she has trained me to be controlled by my joytoy and she controls it. You need to play with your little joytoy so bad don’t you. I shook my head yes. Now that I have taken control soon you will need to play with your joy all the time. I was so humiliated but agreed that she controls my joytoy .She said she had a surprise for me and reached into her bag. She pulled out a harness and a leash.She said it was to lock my joytoy up and I would have to be a good boy if I wanted to play with my joytoy.I was so shocked and tried to scream but I couldn’t.She stuck her big boobs in my face and teased me untill I agreed to wear the harness and be a good boy if she would let me have my joytoy. Once I was locked in the harness she put the leash on. She said now she can lead me by my joytoy on my knees while you follow kissing my ass and worship me. She untied me and I grabbed my joytoy but it was in its new cage. I pulled off the pacifier begging to touch my joytoy. First you must show me what a good boy you are. I fell to my knees and began kissing her big perfect ass eagerly. She led me around on my leash as I hurried to kiss her ass and tell her how beutiful she is and agree that I am so much happier being controlled by her and that I love playing with my joytoy all the time.Finally she led me back to the bed and unlocked my joytoy. I was so happy to get my hand on my joytoy. I stroked it as she encouraged me. Now we are married and I work as a welder. I have to wear my harness and rush home after work desperate to play with my joytoy.I immediately get my leash and drop to my knees eager to kiss her beutiful big ass and tell her how much I love her and missed her.She loves teasing me with her big boobs and putting me in a diaper while I suck my nipple uy joytoyntill I get so hard and beg for my joytoy. I am so happy and glad she trained me to be controlled by her. I love being led by my joytoy and kissing her ass.I don’t have to try to control my sexual urges and admit that I can’t control my penis but women can. I think men are supposed to be controlled by women and I am so happy my wife controls me. I love being led by my joytoy on a leash.I am eager to please her and always do as she says. I can’t stop kissing her big beutiful ass and little feet. I am so lucky to be controlled by my beutiful wife. I never new I could be so happy.