The deckchair is an excellent man-on-top sex position that you should definitely try with your partner. Moving into the deckchair position from regular missionary is super easy. You stay laying on your back while your man gets onto his knees and supports himself on his hands placed under one of both of your knees. You can see demonstrations of more great sexual positions.
As you can see from the illustration, when you are in the deckchair position, you need to lift your legs up in the air. If you like, you can then grab your man’s shoulders or waist or even start rubbing your clit in this position. The cool thing about the deckchair is that it’s not hard for either of you to get into it. But on top of that, it also allows you to stimulate areas that don’t typically receive much pleasure during regular missionary.
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What The Girl Does In The Deckchair Position
When you are in the deckchair position, you can relax and enjoy the ride if you like. But if you like to be more active than that, then there are a few things that you can do. One is stimulating your clitoris with your hand(s) or even a toy. You can also gently stroke your man’s arms that are either side of you.
Most men like having their back lightly scratched when they are having sex with their partner while a few like getting their back scratched quite hard. Rough sex can be incredibly passionate. You can scratch the sides of his back while lying down, but if you put your arms under his, and then grab his shoulders, you’ll be able to scratch a lot more of his back.
What The Guy Does In The Deckchair Position
When your are lying down, you may find it hard to change the angle at which your man is penetrating you. However, it’s very easy for your man to change his angle of entry. Most of the time, he will be leaning over you, resting on his hands. But he can also lean back quite a good bit until he finds a spot that you both enjoy.
When he’s leaning far back, he’ll find that it’s helpful to grab on to your thighs. If he holds them tight, this will also allow him to thrust with a lot more power. However, in this position, he is not going to be able to provide your clitoris with much direct stimulation.
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Things To Consider When Performing The Deckchair Sex Position
Having gotten a lot of feedback from students, I have learned quite a bit more about the deckchair:
- It’s easy to do, even for an extended period without getting tired
- It can take a little time to find that ‘perfect’ position and rhythm.
- If you still can’t find a pleasurable spot, such as the G-spot, when in the deckchair position, try putting a pillow under your lower back/hips/waist to raise it up and allow for more angles.
- You don’t need to be super flexible to do it.
- If you or your man likes it hard and deep, then you will find that when he leans back and grabs hold of your thighs, he can fuck you really hard.
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Brute
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Octopus
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Piledriver
You continue to be “furniture” for your man in this position.
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I’m actually more of the girl-on-top type, but this is my favorite. To me it feels deeper than even doggy style but without being so rough (provided he does it right). I can climax that way like no other and sometimes feel as if having a triple orgasm all at the same time. No idea why that is, maybe I’m just made for it. Guess it’s not all that fancy generally, and until recently I didn’t even know it had a name. *g* Now I wonder why they call it deckchair, that’s not how I sit on these!? It should rather go by “gyno position”, at least it’s kinda how it makes me feel at times ;D Horrible association though, so let’s stick with the deckchair.
This is a great position, The last time we fucked for nearly 30 minutes without stopping. My wife likes to talk dirty to me while I am fucking her. For example, she will say, “God your cock is so BIG”. I lean forward and whisper in her ear, “I am going to fuck you so deep, my cock is going to come out your mouth”. I love
to pound her helpless pussy over and over. My cock gets so hard, sometimes I think I might hurt her, but she begs me not to stop. The more I fuck her the deeper and deeper I go. Sometimes, I will take a break and just lay on top of her with my cock trobbing inside of her. I kiss her deeply while I fuck her mouth with my tongue and tell her how tight her pussy feels wrapped around. Once, her pussy muscles started to spasm and made me cum inside of her hot, tight, wet little pussy.
My boyfriend loves this position but my thighs hurt after a while. It does feel superly awesome but my legs keep us back when he holds them after 20 mins they act up. How to keep the fuck going?
Sounds perfectly normal…my advice is to stretch your legs out and once they have recovered go back at it 😉