The Sybian sex position gets its name from the Sybian machine. This is a powerful vibrator in a box that you need to straddle in a manner quite like the Cowgirl position, with a knee on either side of it on the bed. Not everyone loves this position, but thankfully there are plenty more options in our list of the best sex positions.
Performing the Sybian sex position is similar to this, but is has some differences. The first is that your man will be on either a bed of cushions or a soft-cushioned seat/stool. He will be lying on his back/butt.
Quick Warning: While this woman's story & subsequent BJ tutorial video is quite distressing, it will teach you how to make your man scream with pleasure and become sexually addicted to you. If you are interested in having your guy completely obsessed with you and only you, then check out her story & (explicit!) blow job tutorial video here.
You will still be straddling your man like in the Cowgirl position, except instead of resting on your knees on either side of him, you will be on your feet or will have them in midair while you are sitting in his lap facing him. You can put your hands on your man or on either side of him to help keep yourself balanced.
What The Girl Does In The Sybian Position
When in the Sybian position with your man, you are going to be using your legs to push yourself up and down on him. You can also grind on him slowly by keeping him inside you and thrusting forwards and backwards or in a circular motion.
When in the Sybian position, you are also in the perfect position to put on a show for your man if you like. This means that you can start rubbing your clit and breasts. While this feels nice for you, your man will also enjoy it too! When in the Sybian position you are going to be doing a lot of the work, but you have most of the control also, which means that you can lean quite far forwards or even a little backwards to change the angle of entry.
Some women feel a little nervous getting on top, but we’ve got great advice for boosting your confidence when on top of your man and you’ll find more tips for riding your man here.
If you want to give your man back-arching, toe-curling, screaming orgasms that will keep him sexually obsessed with you, then you can learn these sex techniques in my private and discreet newsletter. You'll also learn the 5 dangerous mistakes that will ruin your sex life and relationship. Get it here.
You can rest your hands on your man’s stomach or even stimulate your clit with one of these clitoral stimulation techniques.
What The Guy Does In The Sybian Position
Your man will be fairly immobile in the Sybian position. He can gently thrust back onto you though if he wants. Other than that, the most he can do is rub your legs and waist with his hands and keep eye contact with you.
Things To Consider When Performing The Sybian Position
The Sybian position is really just a variation of the Cowgirl position and is not as popular as it. Still some students of the Bad Girls Bible have tried it out with their men and have reported back some of their experiences on it:
- Finding a soft footstool/seat with no armrests is usually the hardest part, although a pile of cushions will do.
- You may find that a fitness ball will suffice. You can also use one of these exercise balls in the Speed Bump position.
- Just because the Sybian sounds sexy and not that many people have tried it out, don’t expect it to give you way more fun and pleasure than other positions.
Similar Positions
- Cowgirl – The classic girl-on-top position.
- High Chair – Here’s another position to try with a chair or stool.
- Corner Cowgirl – You don’t need a chair for this variation.
- Face to Face – A kitchen counter makes this position fun when you don’t have a lot of time.
The Sybian is one of our many sitting sex positions.
Sean’s Thoughts On The Sybian Sex Position
The Sybian is one of those positions that I decided to include for completeness. Just because it’s in the Bad Girls Bible doesn’t mean that it’s a killer position, though. You may find that you spend most of your energy just setting it up instead of enjoying it.
Watch This: Blow Job Tutorial Video
I put together this in-depth, step-by-step instructional video that will teach you how to make your lover sexually addicted to you and only you. It contains a number of blow job techniques that will give him full-body, shaking orgasms. If you're interested in learning these techniques to keep your man addicted and deeply devoted to you as well as having a lot more fun in the bedroom, then you may want to check out the video. You can watch it by clicking here.
i m 26 and married just 3 yrs running. initially my hubby was not so happy with me bcoz i m from a conservative east indian family did not know well how to perform good in bed with him. my of one married collegue advised me to learn bj, gave me some such video and told about yor website. i have learn from the bj video and from your website. now my man is so happy with my enthustic skill of best sexual performance. the sex positions illustrated by you also very nice. we tried those with great satisfaction and pleasure. i think that a best sex life is important for every matured individual. i always take care of my hubby.
I’m glad I could help!
I have been with my boyfriend for almost three years and we do have a sex life but we are having trouble. It takes him a long time to get hard and sometimes he will get hard and then it just gets weak. He can’t stay hard enough to have more that one org. We need help please.