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Learning how to give oral sex to a guy is just like learning any other skill. It takes time. The more you practice, the more your blow job techniques will improve. Plus your man will appreciate all the practice you are putting in! This tutorial will teach you right from the start everything you need to do in order to give your man great head with your mouth.
Preparation
Before you start to give your man a blowjob, you must make sure to take care of a few things first. These might not sound like the most fun and sexy things, but they are crucial to staying safe and having long-term fun with your man.
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Most importantly, are you both clean and disease-free? I am not talking about whether or not you have had a shower today.
I’m talking about something far more important. You need to go to a doctor and get checked up regularly to make sure that you are not carrying any diseases or infections. If you are even a little worried that either of you may have something, then use a condom to be extra safe. Your man should also do the same. Once you are both happy that you are disease-free, then the next part is a lot easier.
You need to make sure that your mouth is fresh and clean. So make sure to thoroughly brush your teeth and rinse your mouth out before going down on your man. If your man is particularly hairy, then it may be a good idea to get him to trim his hair down there too.
If your man is a little hesitant, then just tell him that you can do a better job if he trims himself first. Alternatively, you can ask him if he prefers you to trim your pubes before he eats your pussy. If he says, “Yes,” it’s the perfect opportunity to say that you feel the same about him.
Once you are both sure that you are clean and disease-free, then it’s time to get down to business.
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Oral Sex Locations
If you have never given your man oral sex before, then you will find that doing it somewhere private the first few times makes it a lot easier. So this usually means doing it in your/his bedroom, although if nobody is home, then you can try other areas in the house. Once you have gone down on him a few times and are comfortable doing it, then it’s time to move to more exciting locations or even try having sex outside.
The Actual Oral Sex
Once you are both alone, it’s time to start sucking his cock. However, you may find that your man is a little nervous or shy about it. If this is the case, he may not initiate it and you’ll have to take the lead. If this is the case, don’t worry just relax. All you need to do is to get him to lie on the bed.
Related: How to initiate sex.
Once he is lying in bed, just start kissing him as normal. While you are kissing him, slowly start to lower your hand until you are rubbing his crotch, outside his trousers. As you are rubbing his crotch, you should start to feel his erect penis underneath. When you can feel it, start to unbutton and unzip his trousers and pull them down. He will usually help you at this stage.
With his trousers off, you should be easily able to get access to his erect penis. Just grab it and gently start to give him a hand job. Make sure to be gentle and only do it for a very short while (less than a minute) so that you still have time to give him a blowjob.
At this stage, it’s very easy to start sucking your man’s penis. All you need to do is slowly lower your head towards his crotch and take his penis into your mouth. When you take his cock into your mouth, you need to make sure not to take it in too far. Otherwise, you may accidentally gag, cough or start spluttering. This is not how to be sexy!
At first you just need to slowly take his cock into and out of your mouth, so that your lips are wrapped around it the entire time. Make sure to use a lot of saliva. The more you use, the better it will feel for your man. You’ll also find that you can use your tongue to gently massage your man’s penis while it’s moving in and out of your mouth.
Quick Quiz: Do You Give Lousy Blow Jobs?
If you are new here, then you may want to take the quiz below to learn how good you are at giving oral sex and satisfying your man. You may discover you that you suck (pun intended) or that you are already a blow job queen.
After a few minutes of using this simple blow job technique, your man is going to orgasm and cum. You will be able to tell when he is going to cum by listening to his breathing. It will start to get much louder and stronger as he reaches orgasm. You can either take his load in your mouth when he cums or instead, take his dick out of your mouth so that you don’t have to taste it.
Related: Learn how to make your man cum powerfully.
Quick Oral Sex Tips
If this is your first time giving your man oral sex, you may be nervous. If so, then just turn off the lights when you do it. It will take all the pressure off.
You’ll find that it’s easiest to give head in blow job positions where he is lying down on his back or when he is standing up and you are kneeling. In practically every other position, either his stomach or legs will get in the way.
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Wow. God says that we need to be pure! You are teaching people how to do the opposite!!!!!
How come you visit the this site if you don’t like what everybody talks here, just read and learn then enjoy..
God want you to enjoy sex with your husband and oral sex is part of it
it is ever in the bible she do oral sex with him /and he doing with her
Dear um…,
God designed sex…all kinds…these tips aren’t only for dating couples, they’re for anyone in need of tips to spice up their relationships, including married couples! People have the right to make a personal choice about what they do with their significant others and guess who’s business that is…NOT YOURS!!! Stop going on sites that are “unpure” and giving asinine comments about other people’s life choices.
On a personal note, IF SUCKING MY MAN’S DICK IS WRONG, I DON’T WANT TO BE RIGHT!
“What enters the mouth does not defile man, but what leaves it…” says Jesus. As a Godfearing Christian I am grateful for the variety of pleasure that one can induce to one’s sweatheart. God rewards faithfulness of mind and body, and to have good variety helps caring the relationship with your partner and make it enduring instead of dull and lacking excitement. Actually, not creating real pleasure to your partner is evil, as it causes temptation to unfaithfulness (1 Cor 7). “Everything not done by faith is bad” says St Paul, so it is a good idea to embrace what God has provided instead of setting up rules that are not found in God’s Word… It is better to pray and humbly ask for blessing and inspiration, than to lose the good stuff for nothing. “For the pure, everything is pure” (St Paul).
So, I gave my first ever Blow Job a few days ago. Everything was going right, I follow instructions and I did the best I could. I think he enjoyed it, but while I was at it, I burped, and not a lady like burp but a horri loud burp. I hated it. He said it was ok but is there a way for this not to happen again?
It’s really not a big deal Anna.