The Sideways sex position is just a variation of the Spooning position with your man. It’s often called the Side-by-Side sex position too. It’s splendid for those of you who are a little bigger and find regular Spooning to be difficult. You’ll find even more perfect positions for you and your man in our guide to the best sex positions.
To get into the Sideways position with your man, just lie on your side with him also lying on his side right behind you. You then need to lean forwards and bring your legs towards your chest while still lying on your side. You can vary how close you pull your legs to your chest to change the angle that your man is penetrating you at. Meanwhile, your man will stay in pretty much the same position.
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What The Girl Does In The Sideways Position
When you are in the Sideways position, you just need to move around by leaning forwards or backwards and bending your legs or straightening them out. You will also be in a position to rub yourself to help you orgasm and even finger yourself if you are having anal sex with your man.
You can put your top arm backwards to pull your man into you as he is thrusting as well. Other than that, though, Sideways is a fairly passive position for you. Your man will be doing most of the work.
What The Guy Does In The Sideways Sex Position
Your man will be doing the same things that he does when he is in the Spoons position with you. So he will be lying on his side while gently thrusting into you. He can put his top arm around your shoulders and pull you in close to him, or he can grab hold of your waist to help thrust into you. If you are having anal sex with him, then he can reach around and start to massage your clit and even finger you.
If your back is close to him, then he can kiss it and can kiss you on your neck and your cheeks if you turn your face around. Check out our guide to be a great kisser here.
It doesn’t have to be sweet and intimate, however. He can easily pull your hair and engage in other rough play. This is a great position to try a blindfold, which is just one element of light bondage you should at experiment with.
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Things To Consider When Performing The Sideways Position
Many students of the Bad Girls Bible have tried Sideways with their man, either on purpose or by accident when already Spooning with him. Here are some of their insights on it:
- Many find that the Sideways position is just as good as Spooning. It’s just as satisfying, but there is also a lot more variation to it.
- You can try leaning over slightly onto your stomach while in the Sideways position also so that it’s sort of like a combination of Sideways and Doggy Style.
- If you are in front of a wall when in the Sideways sex position, then you can put your hands out in front of you and push back against your man for harder penetration.
Similar Positions
Teaspooning
Teaspooning – Has you in a more upright position.
Bookends
Bookends – You’re both in a full kneel, facing one another.
Bouncing Spoon
Bouncing Spoons – He sits and you kneel in his lap.
There are plenty more spoon-like positions to go through in our full list of positions.
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Sean’s Thoughts On The Sideways Sex Position
I like the Sideways position just as much as I like Spooning. They are both very similar and are both great for when you want some slower, more intimate sex.
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This is one or our fav positions. It’s very slow, romantic and intimate. I love laying on our sides and sliding in behind her and having my chest on her back. I like to use my top arm and play with her breasts or nipples, or reach down and massage her clit nice and slow and just relax, be lazy and enjoy each other and the closeness. I love when she turns her head back and we kiss and she reaches a hand down and plays with my balls or scratches her nails underneath or lightly wraps her hand around my penis as I slowly thrust.