The sitting sex position is kind of similar to the Back Seat Driver position. As you can probably imagine, the name for the sitting sex position comes from the fact that you use a table and chair to perform it, making it perfect for right after a meal! It’s one of many novel positions in our sex positions guide with illustrations.
To perform the sitting position, your man needs to sit down on a chair that is 2 feet from a table facing it, with his legs open quite wide. You then need to back yourself up into your man with your legs quite close together in a standing position. Optionally, your man can then lift his legs up from the ground and place them on the table. When he does this, you will be ‘trapped’ between his legs.
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What The Girl Does In The Sitting Position
When you are in the sitting position, your legs will be together and slightly bent, and you will be ‘bouncing’ up and down on your man’s shaft. You can put your hands on the table in front of you to steady yourself and control how fast you move up and down. You can also simply sit down on his lap with his penis inside and just gyrate your hips and rub yourself on him.
Alternatively, you can put your hands on your man’s legs to help push yourself upwards and downwards. If you do put your hands on his legs, then try to put them on his thighs, close to his hips as this will put very little strain on him. Avoid putting your hands on his shins or knees as you may hurt him.
What The Guy Does In The Sitting Position
Your man will be sitting on the chair, with his back leaning up against the back of the chair when performing the sitting position with you. But he still will be doing some of the work. He can put his hands on your waist and help to lift you up and down on him. Or he can put them on your shoulders and pull you down with each stroke for more powerful sex.
He is also in a good position when performing the sitting to massage your breasts or masturbate you or even finger you if you are having anal sex. If you like rough sex, he can scratch or bite your back.
Things To Consider When Performing The Sitting Position
When you are performing the sitting position with your partner, there are a few things that you should consider, which I have learned from talking to my students.
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- The sitting position is ideal for anal sex as well as vaginal. It’s easy to perform both when you are in this position
- You may not initially enjoy the sitting that much. My advice is to try it out a good few times before giving up on it, though. You may find that you enjoy it a lot more by leaning forwards or backwards to find a really good spot.
- When you are performing the sitting, your man is in the perfect position to massage your back and neck as well as kiss them too. Tips here.
- Back Seat Driver – No table? No problem! You can still ride him!
- Lap Dance – Just like the name suggests.
- Lazy Wheelbarrow – Lean down to the floor if you can.
- Washing Machine – A standing pose where you lean over a piece of furniture.
These are just a few of the positions where you’re in his lap.
Sean’s Thoughts On The Sitting Sex Position
As a guy, I have to say that I really enjoy the sitting position. The best way to set the sitting up is to surprise your man with it after cooking him his favorite meal. If you are wearing a short dress and no panties, then you can quickly get into this position without much trouble, which will end up making the whole thing a lot hotter!
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