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Has your man recently asked you to pay more attention to his balls? Maybe you’re just looking for a new technique to add to your repertoire. Look no further than sucking balls, and if you don’t know where to start, just keep reading.
Isn’t Ball Sucking Just Teabagging?
When you’re going down on his man, you probably pay a lot of attention to his penis – the shaft and head. These are sensitive parts that are worthy of your attentions, but they’re certainly not the only part of your man’s body that is sensitive. Many women forget – or avoid – to stimulate his balls at all. But sucking balls and other types of testicle stimulation can feel great, and you’ll feel awesome knowing how well you’ve treated your man.
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Ball sucking gets a bad rap! There are people who refer to sucking balls as “teabagging,” especially when a man kneels over another person and dips his balls into someone’s face. Of course, it sounds a little unappetizing when described like that, but your partner should respect your desires before starting any activity (which is exactly why surprise anal is a no-no!).
But as an activity that you both want to try, ball sucking can be fun and pleasurable.
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Why You Should Suck His Balls
Let’s start with why we think it’s so important to suck your man’s balls. They’re sensitive. In fact, testicles form in the womb just like your labia does. These two body parts of analogous but still so different.
You can see evidence of this in the “seam” that runs down the middle of his ball sac just like your labia are roughly symmetrical. This seam where his skin gathers is known as the raphe, and it’s especially sensitive. The raphe feels a little “tighter” than the rest of the sac, which is condensed and wrinkly. You can actually stretch out the ball sac a bit; although, we advise you to proceed with caution.
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Being able to stretch the ball sac is crucial to using a cock ring or similar device, including a ball stretcher.
Men also have a pair of testicles within the sac. They typically sit on either side of the raphe, but they can be moved around the sac gently. This enables you to suck one or both balls into your mouth when you’re sucking on his balls, and you can push them to the side with your tongue.
His balls will pull closer to his body when he’s cold or close to orgasm and pull away when it’s warm out. Aren’t testicles interesting?
In fact, balls move in such a unique way that many of our readers at the Bad Girls Bible find it fun just to see how they can manipulate them. Your man is unlikely to complain as long as you’re gentle about the whole thing.
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Another perk? If you suck his balls, he might be more likely to go down on you or try something that you like in the bedroom.
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Sucking Balls 101
So how do you get started? Get on your knees when you’re stroking him, and you can easily dip your head to suck on his balls. Keep one hand around his shaft with your thumb pressed against the frenulum, the sensitive tendon-like flesh on the underside of the head of his cock. This is another sensitive spot that deserves lots of attention.
You can lick the raphe from top to bottom and gently suck his ballsac into your mouth. Some men like a little nibbling and some even like when you scratch their balls lightly, but you should be extra careful with his skin and make sure to get his feedback. You can manipulate his balls, but they’re still pretty sensitive.
When you’re ready, open your mouth wider to take a testicle into your mouth. Use your tongue to help guide it into place if you need to. Suck gently as you stroke him and run your tongue around his sac. Try humming and see how your man responds to it. It’s sexier than it sounds in writing!
You can add his second testicle if you feel comfortable doing it, but it’s not essential. Even sucking on a single ball can feel great, and your mouth might not be big enough to take both. That’s perfectly okay.
When you’re done sucking his balls, you can slowly pull your head away, tugging on his ballsac with your lips if that’s something he likes. Extend your tongue and lick up the underside of his shaft to continue blowing him. Or you can continue to lick right up his body to kiss him or get into position for penetrative sex.
It’s Not Just About Sucking Balls
Another option is to lick further down toward his asshole and to give him a good rim job. The anus is especially sensitive and is the porthole to another spot in your man’s body that’s especially sensitive: his prostate. Although you may not be able to stimulate his prostate directly with your tongue, it’s still worth checking out. Plus, you can press in through his perineum, the area of skin between his balls and asshole sometimes known as his “taint,” to stimulate his prostate indirectly.
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One thing you can do is use a prostate toy on your man while you’re sucking his balls or cock. Prostate toys are specially designed to stimulate the prostate, sometimes both internally and externally. They may vibrate or not, but all prostate toys should have a handle or flared base that prevents them from slipping inside and getting lost, which can lead to an embarrassing trip to the emergency room!
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We’d be remiss if we didn’t mention how good licking can feel, too. You can lick around his sac, lightly stretch the skin, prod at his balls inside the sac with your tongue and more.
Stretching the skin allows you to pull it up toward the shaft a bit. You can actually stroke him a bit through the excess skin if it stretches enough. Plus, you can stroke and tug his balls downward with this loose skin. You can also cup his balls with your hand even if you’re not currently sucking them.
If you’re feeling especially cute, why not give each of his balls or his raphe a kiss?
Another technique that proves effective is using your breath. Purse your mouth to breathe out a stream of cold breath or hold your mouth open wider to exhale warm breath on your man’s balls – or anywhere on his body, really!
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What If You Don’t Want to Suck His Balls?
You might skip sucking balls because it’s a little gross. Ask your man to shower before you go down on him or, better yet, shower together. As you lather him up, rub your hands over his balls and use the techniques we discussed above. Think of it like a preshow, one that we’re sure he’ll love!
Another issue that prevents some women from sucking on balls is the issue of hair. Yes, you’ll live if you get a pube stuck between your teeth, even if it’s not so pleasant. But you can also ask your man if he’ll shave or trim to help make the whole thing more enjoyable. When he asks “Why?”, just tell him that you want to suck his balls.
As we suggested above, you can turn it into a sexy activity by hopping in the shower and helping him shave. Most men don’t have as much experience shaving their bodies as you ladies do, however. But if he’s not into it, don’t push it. Shaving your most intimate parts is an activity that many people prefer to do alone.
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Whatever you do, you want to have a good attitude. Enthusiasm goes a long way when it comes to sex. Even if you don’t have perfect technique, showing that you’re up to try new things and dedicated to pleasing your man can set him over the edge. So make eye contact and moan softly as you’re ball sucking, and your man will definitely appreciate it!
Although you might not be sure what to do with your man’s balls or the whole idea might seem a little weird, it’s worth giving it at least a second thought. Most men enjoy having their balls sucked, and yours is sure to appreciate the effort. Plus, who doesn’t love to drive their man wild? Now that you know how to suck balls, you’re good to go!
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Mark P says
Getting my balls licked is like heaven. My wife loves it and I know that soon she will be Rimming me.
I used to shave that area, but since my wife gets a Brazilian wax I thought I would make the bold move and do it too. A little painful the first time, but so sexy. And my wife loves the sexy look and feel.
Celia says
I love having my bf on his back, his thighs spread wide allowing me to bury my face and tongue as I take my time to explore every inch of him. From light tracing of my fingers along his inner thighs as my tongue burrows between his ass cheeks to engulfing his balls in my warm mouth as my tongue dances around to humming just to feel his body twitch and quiver. Add to this my slender delicate middle finger probing and penetrating his ass.
My favorite is to work him into a frenzy while never even touching his cock,
There’s so much fun you can have with your bf or hubby where you are in complete control driving him crazy wild. Some of my previous bf’s found it intimidating to feel so vulnerable but it was too much pleasure to deny themselves.
Ladies, get out there and be bold and show your man you know what to do.
Jerry says
Sounds incredible. He is very fortunate to have you.
Robert says
Unlikely to complain about ball sucking? That shit hurts it was fun for a while and my girl did it perfectly, but that’s definitely not something I would want all the time or not even often
Pimps Pimps says
Sucking a man’s balls actually hurts! Be careful and be oh so gentle. I’d rather have her lick them and gently touch them but sucking is absolute pain.
Lily says
I suck on my his balls quite a lot lol, and it’s ALWAYS well received!
It’s most comfy with him on his back and me between his legs. I use my lips to slowly pull each testicle in, suck for a couple moments, and then release it. Repeating several times. Doing an occasional tongue swirly mixes it up, too. Stroke him slowly and he’ll agree to anything lol.
Ladies, have him SHOWER and SHAVE his pubes first! Unless he’s excessively hairy, then maybe this activity isn’t the best lol. For the rest of guys, there needs to be ZERO pubic hair around his penis, balls, and butt to make the feelings better for everyone.
It felt like completely new territory when I was down farther south than a typical blowjob. Lifting his sack up, I got a nice view of his bum. Like the actual hole lol. Makes sense, but I just didn’t realize it was THAT close lol. When I tease him there he becomes a giggly mess.
Lucas says
She has me shave everything, and that tongue of hers teases and traces every detail from the base of my cock, the grooves on my sack, and around my asshole.
Then, she gives this gentle sucking pressure with her lips all around a testicle, before taking it whole in her mouth. Back and forth from testicle to testicle, she’ll stroke my cock slowly while she’s sucking away. She’ll finish me off by sucking my cock and squeezing my balls. I’ll have an orgasm in no time, shooting load after load of cum in her mouth until my balls are sufficiently drained. She deserves every last drop.
MJ says
I can cum from having my balls massaged and sucked. I realized this years ago when an ex GF of mine was giving me a blowjob and just started focusing on them. My current GF loves to suck on my balls while massaging my perineum, and she usually gets really turned on while doing it. She either likes me over top of her so she has full access, or sometimes with me laying down. She massages my balls with her tongue, one at a time, and trails down with her flicking tongue to the soft underside of my scrotum, and massaging my perineum with her thumb, and slowly stroking my cock or lightly rubbing the head with her finger tips in a nice edging tease. My orgasm from that is very intense. So ladies, test it out on your guy tonight. Find what techniques, speeds, and pressures work for him and for you.