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I’m going to show you how to eat pussy so good that your partner speaks in tongues.
When you use the techniques I am about to show you, your girl is going to shout, scream and cry for more. She may even display signs of addiction.
Quick Warning: This tutorial video will teach you how to make your girl collapse with unending pleasure and become sexually addicted to you. If you are interested in having her completely obsessed with you and only you, then check out this slightly crazy & explicit pussy eating tutorial video here.
Unfortunately, there is a lot of garbage out there on eating pussy the right way. That’s why I’ve structured this pussy eating guide so that it couldn’t be easier to be a cunnilingus master.
Truth be told, there are only two techniques you need: the Pancake and Vortex and they are by far the most pleasurable and intense you can use. In fact, every other technique you can learn is nowhere near as important as these two techniques…although I will teach you some other techniques, so you never run out of ideas.
Here’s how the guide is structured.
- Her Anatomy – A little boring, but god damn important!
- The Build Up – 7 Steps to teasing her to please her aka pussy eating foreplay
- Pancake & Vortex – The only 2 techniques you need to make her shake & scream with pleasure when you eat her pussy.
- 14 More Powerful Pussy Eating Techniques – These will make sure she is eternally grateful for the ecstasy you give her and that you’ll never run out of ideas.
- 11 Dangerous Mistakes Most Men Make – You must avoid these horrendous mistakes that most men make when licking her pussy if you want her to stay obsessed with you.
You don’t want to start using the Pancake and the Vortex to eat her pussy immediately. Taking your time to build up her anticipation and make her want it more is going to make her orgasms more powerful and intense.
This way, when you do finally lick, suck, caress and please her with your mouth, she’ll feel like a heroin addict who finally got her fix. And in case you’re wondering, women adore having their pussy eaten.
I will teach you how to properly “build up” to eating her pussy in just a second, but first, you need to fully understand her anatomy…
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1. Her Anatomy
In the diagram below, you can see the most important parts of the outside of her vagina aka her vulva.
Clitoral Hood – At the top of her vagina, you can see her clitoral hood. The clitoral hood is the little flap of skin that covers her clitoris. It protects her very sensitive clitoris from getting hurt and is similar to your foreskin [1]. Both are known as the “prepuce” [2].
Clitoris – Her clitoris is probably the most important part of her vulva when you are eating her out and licking her pussy. You can see a tiny nub of flesh full of nerve endings that you will be focusing most of your effort on. As you can see from the diagram, it’s located just underneath her clitoral hood (prepuce) [3, 4].
However, the clitoris extends far beyond the surface and is actually 9 to 11 centimeters long in total [6]. Her clitoris also has crura or “legs” that extend to either side her vaginal canal [7], but these are not visible. The hidden part of her clitoris includes part of the clitoral shaft [8, 9, 10], so you can think of your licks as stroking her shaft.
Labia Majora & Labia Minora – Her labia majora & minora are the flaps of skin indicated in the diagram that run along the outside of her vagina. As you can see, her labia majora are much larger than her labia minora. The sensitivity of these varies from woman to woman. Some women will adore it when you lick their labia, while others will be indifferent to it.
Urethral Opening – Her urethral opening is where she pees from, so we won’t be paying much attention to it when eating her pussy.
Vagina – Her vagina is the other area of her body, besides her clit that is super sensitive and feels incredible for her when it’s stimulated with your tongue or lips or finger or penis. Because the vagina is internal, it’s technically incorrect to say you eat her vagina.
Anus – Her anus also possesses a lot of nerve endings and can be quite pleasurable to have stimulated too if she’s into anilingus. I cover more about anal sex in the guide on how to have anal sex.
Now let’s learn about her important internal anatomy…
G Spot – Her G Spot is located on the anterior wall of her vagina [11, 12, 13] about 2-3 inches (5-7.5 cm) inside the anterior wall of her vagina. The G-spot is actually an area inside her vagina where you can access her clitoris internally [14]! If you’re using your fingers, feel for a place surrounded by valleys or “gutters” that has subtle ridges [15 p 82-83]. However, as I explain in the guide to making her squirt, her G Spot won’t feel pleasurable to touch until she is thoroughly aroused and horny.
So if you go looking for it but haven’t first got her aroused, you’re going to have trouble finding it.
You can find out more information on how to find her G Spot in here. Note: I originally wrote this guide for women, but it is just as relevant for guys.
A Spot – As you can see from the diagram, her A-Spot is located much deeper in her vagina on the anterior wall by the cervix. When stimulated it can lead to very powerful vaginal orgasms. Using your fingers to reach her A Spot is going to be difficult, so you may need to invest in something like a dildo to do it for you. The A-Spot is also called the deep spot, AFE zone or even the “epicenter.”
Learn: How to find the A Spot & stimulate it
Vagina – The entire length of your girl’s vagina is sensitive and includes both her A Spot and G Spot.
Cervix – Your girl’s cervix is very sensitive, and while some women love having their cervix stimulated during masturbation and sex, others find even the slightest pressure on their cervix to be an intolerable source of painful sex. Cervical pain might increase around her period if she has period cramps [16].
Related: How to deal with pain during sex.
Anus & Rectum – Her rectum is the area inside her anus. Some girls love anal sex and being fingered anally, while others don’t. My advice is to talk to her and experiment. The anal sex guide should help you out too. One thing to remember is that the anus doesn’t self-lubricate, so you should always use lube. Discover more about lube.
When you’re eating her pussy, you will be mostly focused on her outside anatomy, and I’ve covered the most important parts of it above.
2. The Build Up – 7 Steps To Teasing Her To Please Her
Teasing will bring her to a frenzy, and it works on men, too. More about that in this post. This foreplay also increases the chance that your woman will orgasm – by 50% if you add 15 to 20 minutes [17]!
Now here’s a step-by-step guide to tease her:
1. Start With A Slow Journey – Kiss from her mouth down to her breasts. Keep kissing her body as you lower yourself to her waist and hips. As you get to her panties, place a hand on either leg and slowly spread them. Spots that are especially sensitive and turn a woman on are known as erogenous zones — and you might be surprised by some of them!
2. Panties – Don’t worry about taking her panties off just yet. Instead, kiss her vulva/vagina through her panties and even squeeze it lightly with your lips. You can also softly run your tongue over her vagina from the bottom right up to the clit.
3. Lower – After kissing her through her panties for a few minutes, move slightly lower with your kissing along her inner thigh. You can go as far down as the inside of her knee here, but the further you move from her vagina, the less sensitive it gets. Kiss her down along her inner thigh on one leg, then back up and afterward switch to her other leg.
If she likes it rougher, you can gently squeeze the skin of her inner thigh between your lips or even teeth, but make sure not to be too rough. Otherwise, you risk seriously hurting her. You can also suck the skin here to give her a hickey that no one will see but her.
When crossing to the other leg, spend a little longer kissing her vagina outside of her panties. Don’t be surprised if she begs you to start eating her out at this stage…if she does, try to keep a slow pace to keep building the anticipation.
4. Mons – Before you take her panties off, move your way above her clit to the top of her panties and place some soft kisses on her mons (the area above her clitoris).
5. Take Them Off – If she hasn’t already taken her panties off, place your fingers on either side of them, on the outside of her hips and slowly pull them down until they are all the way off.
6. Close Call – Now start slowly kissing and licking (extremely softly) all around her vagina and clit. The edge of your lips should be making a tiny amount of contact with her vagina and clit as you move your way around…constantly teasing her.
7. Main Course – Finally, you can get to the main course…it’s time to start using the Pancake & Vortex.
3. Pancake & Vortex
These two techniques are incredibly easy to perform and as I said earlier, will be responsible for the most powerful orgasms you can give her when eating out her pussy. They are the:
- The Pancake
- The Vortex.
The Pancake
The Pancake is crazy simple.
Start by sticking your tongue out of your mouth. Allow it to drop down over your chin and relax. Now make it wide and flat (like a pancake) as demonstrated below:
You will be holding your tongue in this position when performing the Pancake, keeping it relaxed, wide and flat.
To perform the Pancake, start with the base of your tongue at the bottom of her vulva. Making sure your entire tongue is thoroughly covered in saliva, slowly move your head upwards from the bottom of her vagina to the top so that your tongue moves from the bottom until the tip of your tongue passes over her clit.
DO NOT make movements with your tongue. Keep it relaxed, wide and flat. INSTEAD, your head will be doing all the movement. As your head moves upward, your tongue will follow.
This is the position you should start at
When you reach the top, stop, pull away from her so you are no longer making contact and start over from the bottom.
In the following demonstration you can see the position at the top…
Keeping your tongue relaxed, wide and flat ensures that you cover as much area of her vulva/vagina as possible, giving her maximum stimulation.
That’s all there is to performing the Pancake…
Although there are some important things to keep in mind…
What should I do with my tongue while I move my head upwards?
Just keep it relaxed, flat and wide. That’s it. Don’t try to make any shapes with it. Don’t curl it up. Don’t perform a flicking motion. Again, it should be relaxed, flat and wide when you eat out your girl.
How much pressure should I use to properly eat pussy?
First of all, you won’t be using the muscles in your tongue to apply pressure as you move upwards during the Pancake because you will be focused on keeping it relaxed, wide and flat…
I know I sound like a broken record here, but this is crucial to keep in mind.
Instead, you will be using your head and neck to apply pressure. This has the dual effect of making sure your tongue doesn’t get tired so quickly…enabling you to perform cunnilingus for longer, but also allowing you to provide huge amounts of pressure (if required).
So, how much pressure should you use…
As little as possible. More pressure does not equal more intense orgasms. You should use minimal pressure for the first few minutes and gauge her reaction to it. You should be so light, that you are barely touching her.
If she can come from incredibly light pressure, then you should focus mostly on using light pressure.
If you are not hearing, seeing or feeling much of a reaction from her (faster breathing. moaning, clutching at linens, bodily tension if she’s close to orgasm), then start to use increasing amounts of pressure until you can tell she’s enjoying it. However, your goal should always be to use the minimum amount of pressure possible to make her cum when you are eating her out.
How fast should I be?
This is similar to the amount of pressure you use…
Move as slowly as possible.
Again, you need to see how she responds to this. If she isn’t getting much enjoyment from your slow movement, you’ll need to speed up. Many women can come when you slowly move from the bottom of her vagina to the top over 15 long, agonizing seconds, while others need you to move as fast a dog drinks water!
When figuring out both how much pressure to use and how fast you should move, you need to listen to her body and see what she reacts to. You should also get her feedback on your technique. Don’t be afraid to ask her if this works for her.
Alternatively, you can experiment by specifying that you’re going to perform a few techniques and getting her to rate them.
Should I do anything different when she is about to cum?
There are two schools of thought about what to do when she is about to cum. The first is for beginners and intermediate folks while the second is for advanced guys…
Super-Steady Pace (beginner – intermediate) – Most women greatly appreciate when you can maintain an incredibly steady rhythm as they are about to cum. So, keep the pressure the same and maintain the same speed. Switching it up now can ruin her orgasm and mood.
Agonizing Slow Down (advanced) – If you have gone down on your girl, brought her to orgasm repeatedly and can now do it with ease, you should try the Agonizing Slow Down.
Here’s how to do it…
When you can tell that she is close to orgasm, slow down ever so slightly so that the final approach to orgasm takes longer than usual. This way she will get to experience the hyper-pleasurable build up to orgasm over a longer period.
As you try this more and more, the closer she is to orgasm, the slower you should get. This way, she will get to enjoy that wildly-intense feeling right before she comes, for longer. This will make her come much harder than normal.
Warning: If you haven’t eaten her pussy much before, you won’t know how her body reacts to your tongue that well. So trying the Agonizing Slow Down when you are new to eating her pussy is a recipe for a frustrated, dissatisfied woman.
Should I do anything different AFTER she has had an orgasm?
Just like guys, most women have a refraction period when they have clitoral orgasms. Her clitoris and vulva become ultra-sensitive, and when it’s touched, it’s almost painful.
So what should you do if your woman has a refractory period?
Well, don’t touch it for a few minutes, duh!
Instead, focus your attention elsewhere, kissing around her vagina and even returning to her inner thighs. Basically, do anything except making contact with her clit and vulva. Returning to foreplay is a good idea or simply lying beside her until she recovers can work too.
After a minute or two, if you want to continue eating her out (and she wants it too), you can test how sensitive she still is by kissing the bottom of her vagina and gauging her reaction. If she flinches, then wait longer. If she enjoys it, move higher and higher until you can touch her clit AND she enjoys it.
Any flinching on your way up and you’ll need to wait longer.
The Vortex
The Vortex is very easy to perform and crazy effective at making her eyes roll into the back of her head.
Make a small “O” shape with your lips like in the illustration below. This “O” shape should be a little bigger than her clit.
Make sure your lips are covered in saliva and place this “O” over your girl’s clit and the surrounding area
Then gently start sucking it.
This will cause her clit to get sucked up into your mouth and will feel very pleasurable for her.
That’s the basic technique, but there are multiple variations you should try, all while keeping note of what she enjoys most.
Constant Vortex – The easiest way to perform the Vortex is by keeping a constant level of suction. For some women, this is all they need to reach climax.
Rhythmic Vortex – When performing the Rhythmic Vortex, you will be sucking and releasing the pressure rhythmically, pulling her clit in and out of your mouth and releasing it. How fast you do this is up to you…
You can do it slowly or as fast as the beat of a song. Talk to her and listen to her body and gauge what she prefers.
Hard Vortex, then slow release – First you need to quickly apply a strong level of suction to her clit, before releasing it slowly. Rinse & repeat.
Licking Vortex (my favorite) – When you suck her clit into your mouth, try holding it there, while you use your tongue to massage her clit. As I mentioned earlier, vary the speed and pressure you apply with your licking to figure out what she enjoys most.
How big should my O be?
The answer to this question is…
Whatever works best.
If your girl prefers you to use a small “O” where you can barely suck her clit into her mouth, then do that. If she finds it most pleasurable when you have a very wide “O” and suck in her clit along with a large part of her labia and vulva, then do that instead.
As always, listen to her body for feedback, but also talk to her and you’ll figure out exactly what she needs for her most powerful orgasms.
Should I use my teeth on her clit?
Hell no! Her clit is one of the most sensitive spots on her body, so it’s highly likely that your teeth will hurt her clit. Even if she explicitly asks for it, you need to be incredibly cautious and I would recommend that you never use your teeth.
And that’s the only two pussy eating techniques you’ll ever need to give your girl mind-altering orgasms and make you the best she’s ever had…
But…
4. 14 More Powerful Pussy Eating Techniques
Of course, there are a bunch of other cunnilingus techniques that work well for keeping things fresh, even if they aren’t quite as effective as the Pancake & Vortex…
So, if you find that you have slipped into a routine or become somewhat robotic when eating and licking her pussy, then you may want to try some of the following tips…
1. Under Pressure
This technique is all about applying extra pressure to the area directly below her clitoris during the Pancake.
So, when you are making your way up her vulva, right before your reach her clit, you should increase the pressure so that the base of your tongue is forced under her clit slightly.
Once the base of your tongue is under her clit, slow down your movement, but don’t release the pressure.
As you continue to move upwards, she will feel the texture of your tongue stimulate the bottom of her clit, adding a further dimension to your oral sex skills.
2. Take Her To The Edge & Back
Edging is a powerful tool you can use to amplify her orgasms. The best part is that you don’t have to reserve edging for when you go down on her to eat her out. You can use it during anal sex, regular sex or any other activity that can make her orgasm.
For now, we’re going to talk about how to edge her when eating her pussy.
Start by eating her out as you normally would…
When you can tell she is getting close to climaxing, start to slow down and back off, so she DOESN’T orgasm.
Spend twenty seconds to two minutes on something else pleasurable that won’t bring her to orgasm like:
- Kissing all the way around her vagina.
- Kissing her up and down her inner thighs.
- Focusing your attention on her breasts.
Then when she has calmed down just a little bit, return to eating her out as normal, but at a slightly slower pace this time. Again, you want to do this up until she is about to climax, then…
Stop.
Again, spend some time on other pleasurable, but non-orgasm-inducing activities until she has calmed down.
Start eating her out again at an even slower pace all the way until she cums.
I can guarantee you that edging her like this will cause her to have one of the most powerful orgasms of her life, if not the most powerful.
And, as I said before, you can use edging during any orgasm inducing activity 😉
Note that it’s difficult for some women to come, even if you eat pussy the right way. If this applies to your partner, I would not advise trying to edge her because you’ll both end up frustrated just like you might feel if you struggle to get hard and maintain your erection.
Related: How to Get Hard and Maintain Your Erection
3. Give Her The Finger
Using your fingers when you are eating her pussy can be awesome. It gives you the opportunity to give her more stimulation, stimulate her simultaneously internally and externally, and provides her with lots of variation. There are a bunch of ways to finger her while eating her out, with some being easy to do, while others will feel quite awkward.
4. Lick Her Clit & Finger Her G Spot
Licking her clit or using the Under Pressure technique of applying extra pressure under her clit while you finger her G Spot is a great way to add your fingers to the mix. Scientists have even found that oral and manual sex (fingering) along with deep kissing are the three activities most likely to get a woman off [18]. So oral sex skills might be more important than making your penis bigger or lasting longer in bed.
You can also use your free hand to press down on her mons pubis to provide stimulation of the G-spot externally. Some women also like when you rub this area.
5. Suck Her Clit & Finger Bottom Of Her Vagina
Alternatively, you can suck her clit like in the demonstration above. While doing this, try massaging the bottom of her vagina, as deep as possible.
Keep in mind that for some women, the bottom of their vagina is not particularly sensitive, although, for many, the bottom of their vagina at the back of it is very sensitive. So you may have trouble reaching it unless you happen to have incredibly long fingers. You can always substitute your finger with a dildo or penis shaped vibrator if you happen to have one.
6. Lick Her Clit, Finger Her G Spot & Play With Her Ass
If it’s not too awkward or uncomfortable for you, you can use another hand to stimulate her ass while your mouth focuses on her clit.
There are a bunch of ways to play with her ass.
- Simply rub it on the outside without ever penetrating it.
- Light, rhythmic pressure on the opening, without penetrating it.
- In & out penetration.
- Holding your finger(s) inside her ass.
Note: The easiest way to play with her ass, is to put your arm over her leg and reach around from behind.
Warning: If you use one or both of your hands on her ass, then make sure you DO NOT touch her vagina with them afterward. Otherwise, you risk giving her vagina an infection.
Get more tips for anal fingering.
7. Experiment
I’ve given you some ideas of how to get your fingers involved when eating her pussy, but there are so many more ways to use them. You don’t even have to use your fingers at the same time you are eating her out. For example, you can take a rest from eating her pussy by fingering her and then return to eating it when you’re ready.
You’ll find 20+ ideas in the guide to fingering your girl.
Speaking of using your hands…
8. Powerplay
Introducing some element of power play when you’re eating her pussy out can be incredibly hot. Here are two ways to do it:
Tie Her Arms Up – If your girl enjoys being restrained when you’re intimate, then tying her arms above her head before you lick her out is going to be a lot of fun for both of you. It takes a lot of her control away. Rather than repeating myself here, check out this guide for restraining your partner during sex.
Get Her To Control The Pressure – Equally, she may adore being the one in control.
She can take control when you’re eating her pussy by putting her hands on your head. This will allow her to control your position, pace, and pressure as you eat her out.
She can even get a little rough by pulling your hair and grinding her pussy against your face.
This also has the added benefit of allowing her to push your head away if her clit becomes too sensitive after orgasm.
9. Get Her To Help
Pussy eating can be a team sport. This is especially true if she has trouble reaching orgasm.
If your woman can’t quite climax as you’re licking her pussy, she can add extra stimulation herself using her hands. I’m not going to repeat myself here, but she may want to try some of the techniques I describe in the Masturbation Guide or this article on fingering herself.
She can also move her labia out of the way while you lick her pussy by spreading them with her fingers.
She can even call an audible, instructing you to use more or less pressure, go faster or slower or to refocus your efforts elsewhere.
10. Experiment With Your Tongue
I know that at the start of this pussy eating guide, I mentioned that there is no need to move/flick your tongue when going down on her.
This is TRUE for the most part…
But…
There is no harm in experimenting with AND gauging her reaction to it. For many women, they find that having their clit flicked inconsistently by the tip of your tongue to be more annoying than pleasurable.
But, a percentage of women DO like it, and some may like it as a finishing move…
And, it’s one way to change things up from time to time. You can try:
- Curling your tongue up and using it penetrate her.
- Swirling your tongue around her clit.
- Flicking her clit up-and-down or side-to-side.
- Using the Pancake in reverse. Start at the top of her clit and move downwards.
- You can even try holding it in place on her pussy with sustained pressure.
11. Pick A Side
Determine which side of her clit she likes most to have stimulated!
- Left or right side?
- Top or bottom?
- Somewhere in between?
Her clitoris has crura (legs) that extend below the clitoris and under the skin to either side of her vaginal opening [19]. This may be the reason there is a particular side that is most sensitive for her.
12. Wetter Is Better
This is not so much a technique, but more general advice when going down or learning how to finger a girl. The wetter you can make it, the better it will feel for your girl.
I’m not talking about using water here.
Instead, I’m talking about using as much saliva as possible. And, if you have trouble producing enough saliva, then I highly recommend using lube instead. Flavored lube can also make the activity more pleasurable for you.
13. Cool Runnings
If you want to take a break from eating her pussy, then a great way to do that is to pull back and make that same “O” shape with your lips during the Vortex
Then gently blow on her wet pussy to give her a cooling sensation.
This is also a great move to use during her refractory period when her clit and vulva can be too sensitive to touch.
14. Eating Her Ass
Eating her ass AFTER you eat her pussy is fantastic if she enjoys anilingus.
Warning: Do not touch her pussy again with your mouth once it has been near her ass. Your mouth will likely have small amounts of fecal matter on it (no matter how clean she is). This fecal matter can then enter her vagina from your mouth causing irritation and infection.
There are a bunch of ways to eat her ass that I have detailed in this Ass Eating Guide. Even though the Ass Eating Guide is written for women learning how to eat their guy’s ass, pretty much all the same information applies to you when eating your girl’s ass.
Get more tips in this post about rimming.
Remember that if you lick her anus, you definitely DON’T want to go back to tongue in vagina stimulation.
5. 11 Dangerous Mistakes Most Men Make
Unfortunately, there are some potential problems, and stumbling blocks that you may run into that will affect the amount of pleasure you can give to your girl when eating her pussy. You need to be aware of these problems and avoid them to make sure you maximize your pussy eating efforts.
1. Don’t use the alphabet – This is where you draw the alphabet with your tongue on her clit/pussy. Most girls don’t enjoy it at all when you spell the alphabet with your tongue on her pussy.
This technique doesn’t work because it’s incredibly inconsistent. You might hit a place she likes, but you’re not going to spend much time on it. Speaking of inconsistency…
2. Be consistent – Being inconsistent is a great way to frustrate your girl and make it near impossible for her to orgasm. Most guys feel the same way when they are getting a hand job/blow job. It’s frustrating when she strokes you randomly with no consistency.
In other words, you should aim to use the same rhythm, speed, and pressure when you go down on her, ESPECIALLY as she’s about to cum.
3. Listen for feedback – Terrible lovers do not look for feedback. You need to listen to her feedback, both listening to how her body reacts as well as actively asking her what she enjoys most.
As you get more and more feedback from her, you will be able to build up a mental library of techniques that are guaranteed to make her see you as the best lover she’s ever had.
When listening to her body, if she’s moaning or sounds breathless, you’re doing a great job. And if she’s closed her eyes or her body is tensing up, or she starts breathing faster/harder, then she is probably close to orgasm, and you just need to continue at the same pace.
However, some women like oral sex but don’t get to that point. An important part of knowing how to give cunnilingus is knowing that not every woman will orgasm or even wants to, and you definitely shouldn’t pressure or rush her.
4. Food is a bad idea – Licking cream off your partner’s body can be incredibly erotic and fun. But licking it off her pussy can cause serious problems.
Some food particles can make their way into her vagina and cause irritation or a yeast infection (find out more about yeast infections) or even worse. For this reason, you should avoid putting cream, chocolate sauce or any other food on or near her vagina.
5. Do not imitate porn – Trying to imitate porn during sex or when fingering her or when eating her pussy is usually a bad idea. Porn is filmed to look good on screen, and that’s it.
Porn directors don’t particularly care whether or not the actors are enjoying it and as a result, porn provides a shitty way to learn good pussy eating technique.
6. Do not be too rough – The clitoris is amazingly sensitive, so you don’t need a lot of force. Although some women enjoy hard pressure, not every woman does.
Try licking through her panties or labia if she’s too sensitive for direct contact.
7. Do not try to replicate sex – You’ll notice that most of the techniques we suggested focus on licking her clitoris and vulva. While many women enjoy vaginal sex, you’re limited with what you can do with your tongue, which probably won’t be able to penetrate very much.
Even if you could, the tongue in vagina technique doesn’t do much for many women.
You can lick around the opening and may even love the taste of her there, but you want to get back to her clitoris sooner rather than later.
Of course, some women do like tongue insertion when being eaten out, so you might want to ask just in case. You’ll never understand how to eat out a girl if you’re afraid of communication!
Related: Use Sexual Communication for Complete Sexual Fulfillment
8. Do use your hands – Using your hands when eating her pussy is A-OK. As I mentioned before, it’s also a great way to give your mouth and tongue a rest and also change things up. Variation is the spice of life, after all. Here are just a few examples of how you can get your hands involved.
- You can switch between stimulating her using only your tongue and then using only your hands and then using only your tongue again.
- You can use both your tongue and fingers at the same time.
- You can use your hands almost exclusively, and as she’s getting close to orgasm, you can finish her off using only your tongue. Or vice-versa.
9. Do not rush, but don’t ignore quickies either – I’ve previously talked about how taking your time can work really well to build anticipation.
It means when you finally go down on her, she’s so incredibly sensitive and ready that you can pretty much do no wrong.
Equally, it can be really hot if you’re at a party together and you quickly sneak off and eat her out before returning knowing that you’ve both been up to no good.
The key is switching things up to keep it interesting. If you do the same thing, it’ll get boring for both of you.
And if you’re the type who rushes eating someone out because you simply see it as a type of foreplay before getting to the “main thing,” you’re missing out — and your girl knows it. Attitude matters and you need to understand that if you want to eat pussy like a pro.
10. Do ask for help – In the ideal world, you will be able to listen and observe your girl’s body as you try different techniques on her, allowing you to see what works and what doesn’t work.
Some women just won’t like certain cunnilingus tips I’ve just given you, and that doesn’t mean anything is wrong with her. It just means you need to spend more time getting to know her specific preferences.
If she isn’t sure what she likes, we suggest trying a few different ways to eat pussy and getting her to rate them.
However…
This strategy doesn’t always work.
Some women are quieter than others and may not react much, even when they orgasm. As a result, you may find it near impossible to tell if she is enjoying herself or not.
The only solution is getting some feedback from her. After you go down on her, try asking her about what she enjoyed, what she didn’t enjoy, and what she wants you to do differently.
This is the only way that you’re going to get better at eating her out.
11. Do not make orgasm the goal – When a girl goes down on you, it feels amazing, right? The same is true for women.
But…
Women often have a more difficult time reaching orgasm when they are with you. They can feel self-conscious when getting intimate. In fact, reaching orgasm when masturbating alone is usually easier for most women.
So try not to focus solely on making her climax when eating her pussy…
Don’t tell her you’re going to make her orgasm, especially if you’ve never helped her to cum in the past.
This allows her just to appreciate the pleasure, even if she doesn’t get off.
AND…
She won’t feel required to fake an orgasm if she doesn’t get there.
Is your partner having trouble with orgasm? Read this together.
What If None Of These Pussy Eating Techniques Work?
If you find that none of these techniques are working on your girl, the most likely reason is that you have not followed Step 1 & 2 of the Bad Boys Bible correctly and not that you don’t know how to eat pussy. If you haven’t removed the Brakes to her sexuality and have not used some Accelerators, then she will naturally find it hard to get in the mood, let go and enjoy you going down on her.
The only other reason is that she simply may NOT enjoy the thought of you eating her pussy. She may be so self-conscious that no amount of effort on Step 1 (Removing the Brakes to her Sex Drive) will allow her to fully enjoy it.
Of course, there are plenty of other great techniques to make your girl orgasm if cunnilingus is not your girl’s cup of tea.
Resources
This guide on the 31 best sex tips for pleasuring your girl is very helpful.
Check out the Wikipedia pages for both the A-spot (AFE ZONE) and G-spot.
Youtuber Stevie gives pussy eating tips in this video as part of her Lesbian Sex Ed series.
Bustle has two posts where women describe what oral sex feels like and what they’re thinking about to provide you with more cunnilingus tips.
One woman opens up about the best oral sex she ever had and what the guy did right before licking her vagina.
The Bottom Line
Learning how to eat pussy is surprisingly easy. However, if you want your girl to enjoy it and more importantly, beg you for it, then you need to be aware of Step 1 – Removing the Brakes to her Sex Drive and Step 2 – Amplifying the Accelerators to her Sex Drive. Otherwise, all the techniques that I’ve just taught you are going to be far less effective when you lick, eat, caress and suck her pussy with your mouth and tongue.
Watch This: Pussy Eating Tutorial Video
I put together an in-depth, step-by-step instructional video that will teach you how to make your girl sexually addicted to you and only you. You'll learn the Vortex and Pancake pussy eating techniques so you can give any woman full-body, shaking orgasms.
If you're interested in learning these techniques to keep her addicted and deeply devoted to you as well as having a lot more fun in the bedroom, then you may want to check out the video. You can watch here.
I think its very good advice my wife and i have been married for 18 years know and I make her do the crab walk out from under me she says im to good at eating pussy I tell her no body is to good at eating pussy its all in the skill and the way u move your tounge I love eating her out have been doing it every day sence our last child has been born and all that but like u say about the abc it never has worked on her I have tried it to many times on her she likes it deep and long the tounge that is not to mention something else lol but any who the main thing is to listen and to respond communicate and pay attention to her movement she has grabbed my hair and held me up against her to were I couldn’t breath lol its all good throw like I said pay attention to her movements and bereave me its worth it
Yeah, I know what you mean, my wife enjoys having me lick her pussy while fingering her and making her cum vaginally while licking her clitoris and when the time comes for her to explode she reaches her clitoral climax with so much writhing and back bending screaming and moaning begging for more until her clit gets so sensitive to the touch that I have to give her a few minutes of rest before I can fuck her. And then she continues cumming vaginally while I am fucking her. That is something I enjoy very much is having her squirting all over me while I am fucking her.
Atta boy glenn. Get that clitoris man. Great comment. Stay strong.
My wife loves it when after I get her nice and warmed up, I hold her clit hood back, pucker my lips around her clit and blow rasberries. It is literally the only way she can cum but she loves it. I’ve never heard anyone else talk about it anywhere so I feel like I have discovered the unknown haha
My wife does that to and in anal she loves anal
I love that feeling of my wife,eating and sucking my wife’s huge clit. Her Cit is so big and black i love the way she fucks my mouth with it, and makes me suck it like a dick. Licking her inside creaming all over my mouth, the feeling is incredible not to say that i am gay but i love her pussy. i love when she squirts all over my face too as well. Smothering me with her pussy and ass DAMN. cum on guys who’s with me!?
I am with you Bro !
My Latina , is squirting over my face like crazy. That is why I had to marry her. I never had anybody else from my ex wife’s and ex girlfriend’s having such a juicy pussy like my wife. She is a fountain. I was in a total disbelief first time when she came over my face in that quantity.
It is intense and it is a regular thing for us. Few times a week I dedicate around 1 hour each time to enjoy her pussy , slow and juicy.
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i know exactly what you mean because when i would used to finger and eat my ex wifes pussy she would cream exteremly violently and it was really really amazing how she was so into it. I dont dislike the taste but I dont mind it at all cause when i eat pussy i get a tingling sensation and sometimes im cum a lot more than usualy. There has to be something like the iron in the vagina that makes my penis more happy than usually, Thank you for Listening
thanks joe , great comment
how i need my bf do this to me
love eating the pussy but the day after have this cut under my tongue from going all out and have to wait for a week before i can perform again. what can i do to fix this problem
So tongue stretches stick your tongue out as far as u can work it out like u are in the gym
My friend had to get dentures on top. He says now he can touch his nose with his tongue when he takes them out and his wife loves it.
This used to happen to me all of the time. It comes from trying to use the tongue love like a penis. If you use the techniques outlined in the article, this won’t happen.
I am with you Bro !
My Latina , is squirting over my face like crazy. That is why I had to marry her. I never had anybody else from my ex wife’s and ex girlfriend’s having such a juicy pussy like my wife. She is a fountain. I was in a total disbelief first time when she came over my face in that quantity.
It is intense and it is a regular thing for us. Few times a week I dedicate around 1 hour each time to enjoy her pussy , slow and juicy.
My problem is that my wife use to enjoy me lick her pussy but it seems like she doesn’t enjoy it anymore. She just lays there and doesn’t make sounds like she use. I have ask her many times what I can due different but she doesn’t say anything.
I bet she doesn’t give you blowjobs any more? Am I correct? I use to have have a girlfriend like that, loved being licked then seem to stop enjoying. My advise still would be, if you enjoy it then keep licking. Add some flavored eatable lub to it and enjoy.
Bro bect Time you eat it! After she’s relaxed make her spread her legs wide as possible while laying down. Theb take your hands,place them at the bottom of her thighs and spread even more. Turn your tongue into a sword sraight and hard and stick it in and out don’t be afraid to drop saliva in there. The wetter the better women love to be fucked with the tongue
That’s so wrong. I never liked being fucked with a tongue until I had a long-term boyfriend who learned my body and like the guide implies; eventually mastered the ability. Also very important, I can have very enjoyable sex without an emotional connection but only after becoming VERY experienced and experiencing the best sex FINALLY after being with my boyfriend for two years. He finally convinced me that he loved me, wanted only me and I learned to trust him and then OMG WATCH OUT. There was nothing he couldn’t do that wouldn’t cause immediate climax even anally. sensitivity for a female can magnify by 100x if she trusts and believes you love her and really want her.
All women know that men can fuck practically anything with a hole and get off so trust is important. Being able to trust a man with my heart is the biggest foreplay first. But if you don’t have that and she doesn’t respond to jabbing or licking too hard then definitely follow these instructions; SLOW AND SOFT.
If a man builds me up right I can cum no matter what but you better be spot on if I don’t trust you and SOFT is the best way to build intensity for a girl who’s heart you haven’t earned.
So glad this exists and I’m not a freak for not cumming like a man.
Wow
Great comment .
Maybe someone else did a better job than you looool.
my girl of 13 years tells me im the best lover she has ever has. i took the time to learn her body and didnt mind asking questions.
as i was reading the article i became aware that these are things to her that i already do. when she says im the best i know shes telling the truth . i love my wife and after 13 years ….she still keeps it hot. and me just wanting more
What is the infect in men in licking pussy?
Who said this was for men women love eating pissy
As a wife, I would usually be the one to suck my husband up anytime he or I felt like it. He really didn’t eat my pussy out as much as I sucked his dick. And I love it when he eats out. MARRIED WOMEN LOVE IT! He didn’t do it till I came before it was like a quick licks only then we would have sex. And of course he would cum and he was satifyied but yet I wasn’t! Just recently about 6months ago he would eat me out and finger me and that only because I removed the BRAKES and started telling him how I want him to eat me out and suck on my clit and finger me either same time or alternate so his mouth can rest and OMG we found out that I am a squirter and he loves it. And I love it. Drives me crazy. Cuming in his face mouth very arousing for both and of course the sex after feels amazing
I am 19 and I had an affair with a 45 year old woman and when I tell you she had the best I ever had I am not kidding. I ate her out for at least an hour and her pussy tasted like candy. I think she took my soul. But something about having to be secret and fucking her while her kids who are my age are in the next room over and me having to say yes ma’am and stuff in front of her children. I even had her take her ring off while we was fucking and I’ve never met her husband but I know 2 hours before he got home from working outta town I was paning his wife in his bed. And just to spite him I had to wear this niggas shirt. I told her I’m the new and improved version
Dont feel bad marie. My girlfriend my girlfriend just goes to sleep when all I want to do is eat her pussy. So ur doing better than me.
I had to tell my husband the same when we were first married. We have been married 22 years now and are always trying to find ways to keep it hot in and out of the bedroom (gets tricky kids)!! I love it when he eats me out!! He will squeeze my thighs while spreading them open, then he will finger me hard with one hand, alternating one then two fingers, and with the other hand he will squeeze my nipples (I will play with the one he isn’t)….so good. Right before I orgasm I let him know I am close and then he will take the hand he is fingering me with and finger my vagina with one finger and my ass with another….SO GOOD. After that I crawl on top of him and ride until neither one of us can’t go anymore!!!
Love the comments as I’m in 15 yr marriage and we’re getting really open when didn’t realize how important it was. I want to please her in every way and doing well now , any good advice on her to have your experience would be great. Her pussy is so beautiful I cant keep my mouth hands and cock off it. I may get so excited that we move to fast. Any good pointers for me,us? She wants me in it with my tongue and mouth so bad these days. Everyday lol..she’s hot and deserves the best.
I really loved your comment and it’s really so enjoyable to squirt on the face of boyfriend’s face also much pleasure for woman too.
If you could please tell me that how can I find that my girlfriend/wife is squirter?
How can I know this and what would be the best way to get her squirted?
My husband wants me to teach him to do this me reading this and then telling him what to do.. .. um..no how about he read this and learn himself.. why are men so fking lazy? Is there a print out link of this that I can give to him?
Just hit ⌘+P (mac) and Control+P (PC, I think) and it will print. Have fun.
Just cause your dumb guy is lazy and stupid doesn’t mean we all are take your comments back to Facebook
Hi, I got a couple things to say. One, Thanks for the tips on how to eat a girl out (I did The Pancake)! I gave my girlfriend her first orgasm and it was amazing. Her legs were twitching, she grabbed the back of my head and shoved it, she started to grind a little bit, and then she came. It was great, I honestly wanted to eat her out again or at any random time. There is one problem though, I do all the work. She doesn’t just lay there, she wraps her legs around me, scratches my back, and kissed me. She doesn’t know much of what she is doing but I took the time to look up things and even told her to come here and look things up. I don’t know what to do, also I haven’t came anytime we’ve had sex and had to fake it. I don’t want to make her feel bad.
The main thing is that you both talk to each other in an open, non-judgemental, non-confrontational way so that you can both ensure that you are meeting each others needs.
If you have trouble reaching orgasm during sex, then try avoiding masturbation for a few weeks. You will eventually become so sensitive, that climaxing during intercourse will be easy.
Pussy is gross. It smells like rotten tuna and gym socks. You pussy eaters like sushi I would guess. Yuccchhh!
Only if someone has bad hygiene or a yeast infection otherwise no vaginas don’t normally stink when there took care of
Yea she must have a nasty pussy if she thinks that
Hi Sharon, maybe YOU should HAVE better hygiene. Did you ever consider that possibility?
You straight up stupid, pussy smells good if you treat it right and sushi is a gift from god
Facts
Wow! Coming from a woman. I have found that women who maintain good hygiene have pussy’s that have no smell to very little smell and usually it’s an attractive smell. Although I have been with some who smelled so bad I couldn’t eat them out. I know it was keeping the pussy clean.
Pineapples also help bruh
I wanna learn how to make my girl cum ??♂️I’m the worst at it I can make her have an orgasm but we Once we’re getting nasty and down and she said she fills the cum but it didn’t wanna come out what should I do when this happens again ?
Talk to her and see if you can get her to the point where she wants to ejaculate
Even many women want it very badly these days. Go figure.
So what do you do if your husband “hates” it and yet honestly I doubt he ever really tried it. Meaning we have been together for 14 years, not once has it tried or wanted too. Now, giving head is fine for me… I mean the kinky-er the sex the better, we can make 50 shades of gray boring well before it ever was written. But I don’t get the rest of it. Any ideas? I mean I don’t want to force him and I won’t push the issue… but seriously, is that it? Please don’t say talk, his answer is he won’t eat anything that bleeds and won’t die. :-\
First, I’m sorry to hear about your situation. It must feel very frustrating for you!
For guys, the more you “push” them to do something they don’t want to do (or are on the fence about something), the more they resist it. So, you need to figure out a way that makes him excited to eat you out.
Here’s a few tips:
1) Suggest that you watch some pornography together. Then choose a video that involves lots of cunnilingus and while watching it, tell him how horny it makes you and also get more physical with him during this time.
2) Praise his adventurousness and willingness to try new things (even if he isn’t particularly adventurous!). Try not to be too over the top and somewhat realistic. Once he starts to associate positive feelings with being adventurous, it can help to actually make him more adventurous.
Let me know how it goes 🙂
Yeah, when you watch rest your head on his shoulder and ask him slowly like a cute woman, can i have it pleaseeee. May be not literally but you get it. No man can resist this. Eating a pussy is the best dish a man can have in his life. LOL I love it.
can u convince him to kiss your inner things and over your panties? if he gets in the right area and you get super excited and make lots of fun noises….maybe he will go all the way! 😉
He sounds a bit insecure if you ask me. After all that time, he hasnt learned wow!!!!
Has anyone ever licked you out? If not find someone to do it on the side. Or a girl.
Thank You. I am always looking for information on how to and Of course my wife always asks where did you learn that from.
My pleasure! And what do you tell her?
Me at 1:57am reading this
I wanna eat some pussy
Also me
I am in the closet ❤️?????
And no one will ever love me
I wanted to eat pussy so badly I would literally lay there and imagine what I would do to her. When the time came I was so excited and I love eating her pussy but yet here I am. Don’t say no one will love you just have to find the right one and they are out there. Me and my girl are polar opposites I never thought a girl like her would want me but here I am. Make yourself available and it’s okay to be nervous!
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The book is only available from this website. You can purchase it here: https://badgirlsbible.com/squirt-shake-scream
Hi, me and my girlfriend has been together 4 months and we still haven’t been to that part of a relationship yet. But this weekend we planned on it, I’m so confused idk what to do, don’t get me wrong I’ve done it before with other females but it just seem like I’m doing something wrong while giving head. Any ideas on how to be better or to spice things up?
Just follow the tips in the guide. They should help a lot. And, as I always say, make sure to talk to your partner and get her feedback so you can figure out what she needs.
My wife likes to have her pussy licked, like most women. But licking her asshole is what really drives her nuts. A few minutes of ass licking while fingering her pussy makes her cum like crazy. Of course this all includes very good hygiene. Nobody likes to eat shit!
LOL, you are a legend
Joe mama likes to have her pussy licked
The biggest problem is so many people have STD’s. Secondly some women have poor hygiene. I had sex with over 100 women by the time I was 22. All different gals. And quite a few after. If they smelled funky turned down more than I had sex with over the years. A girl or woman’s hygiene is super important. Sometimes a funky smell could also be linked to STD’s. If I suspected she slept around a lot might kiss or finger her but that would be it. I’ve seldom if ever gone down on a gal that I can remember including girlfriends. Tried it once with a girlfriend we both cared a lot about each other and she did the best she could in the hygiene department and warned me I wouldn’t like it and she was right and I was disappointed as I cared a lot for her. Gorgeous gal and worked occasionally at the Playboy Mansion as a bunny but not sexually. Some women can help their body and vagina smell and some can’t even if you both love one another. So it really boils down to body-physical attraction and chemistry.
My wife loves to be eaten from behind she says she likes the way my nose goes up inside her combined with my mouth and tounge. I can get my nose and mouth in her pussy just sucks I have to come out for air. She is about 5’2 385. My favorite is when she comes home after a long day and pulls her pants down bends over and says I rubbed myself the whole way home so this is whats for dinner.
My wife loves for me to suck and lick her hot juicy wet pussy until she cum over and over again in my mouth and I swallow every drop of cunt juice then I flip her around and place my penis in her pussy until I cum in her pussy then I eat her pussy out again
Damn I think I just came a lil !!!!!
Tony your wife is lucky, my husband don’t lick pussy at all
My wife likes to have her pussy licked, like most women. But licking her asshole is what really drives her nuts. A few minutes of ass licking while fingering her pussy makes her cum like crazy. Of course this all includes very good hygiene. Nobody likes to eat poop!
Ya’ll need jesus lol
LOL
Funny, cause thats what she screams when I’m eating her out!
Woman love to get the pussy licked. My favorite is getting my clit sucked while getting fingered slow. Makes my pussy come over and over again dripping wet so he can slid in and pound my pussy dry
Damn all this reading from the females is getting me hard. Think ill take care of buisness. My wife thinks its gross for me to eat her pussy. She will let me doesnt like it.
It worked bro.. especially when I was just working all over her body before touching her pussy.. Damn she was almost crying after every touch on her pussy???.. I did the blindfold trick
Thanks!!!
I tested alot of these out on my girlfriend……. I don’t know if you guys really know what you’re talking about. She loves the clit flick and she hated the pancake.
Turns out that not all 3.5 billion women enjoy the same thing 😉 The key is finding out what works for your girl and going with that.
I tried this with my wifes sister. She wanted to do this few times earlier but i didnt. Yesterday i licked her body then to her pussy for about 20 mins. She started shaking to orgasm grabbing my head and grinding her pussy. First time she sqirted. She and she started crying and thanking me. She said she didn’t even know her body could feel
Thank you, It’s an art, one which I’ve always enjoyed. I’ve read several books, articles, always trying to improve! Your guidance is excellent! I actually truly enjoy going down, seeing the pleasure of my partner, knowing I’m making her happy. Thank you again for sharing your knowledge and best practices.
I tried to teach my friend with benefits this and he did not catch on I think he should go gay
uhhh that’s not how it works lol
Sounds like he is the only one with benefits.
I just did this to my girl and she started crying and thanking me. She said she didn’t even know her body could feel that good. Thank you!!!!
Happy to help 😉
Really? Guys need to be instructed? I have not gone down on a woman and them not climaxed, I don’t use the two techniques and also can get them to orgasm while riding me… end of the day (from a males point of view) I’d say their all different and react different, write the alphabet with your younger on the clit works, some days kissing it works.
Making a woman climax during cunnilingus comes down to the individual and how turned on the are at the time, no matter what technique is.
If you’re an ugly smelly fat slob, I doubt if she’ll orgasm.
My husband of 8 years has eaten my pussy 2 times. He is not very good at it. Our sex life is a little boring so this weekend he is in for some training. I need a good suck and fuck. Found this whole page to begin being able to talk dirty to him. Now I just want to have a fuck fest all weekend. He better prepare himself lol.
We have the opposite problem. When we have sex, I go down on my wife every time. Usually after about 5 minutes of finger play and just admiring her pussy. I make sure I play with the hair and the mound. I gently squeeze her lips and make it fun as much as I can. Then I dive in, again very gently or she will object. Without fail every time. she says something like “you do this every time now” as if I’m trying to back door her or something. My reply is usually “but I love doing this” or “I’m just trying to show affection”.
I mean she doesn’t stop me but I don’t feel like she is enjoying it. I even focus on just light licking and kissing. Still not her thing. Here’s the thing: I love eating pussy, I love everything about it. The taste and smell are just something I really like. I don’t want to apologize for this. I don’t know what to do. You can say it’s my technique but there’s been at least one woman who loved my pussyeating skills. Just not my wife.
Some women don’t enjoy receiving cunnilingus, it’s true! The key is talking to your wife and figuring out what she does enjoy. The sexual communication guide can assist in this.
Thank you for this! Most accurate explanation I’ve seen so far!
And for the guys who think they already know it and don’t need it. Please put your ego aside and read the damn manual. Believe me when I say, there are very few guys that really know how to eat pussy. The ones that do, are the ones that actually shut up and listen.
Yes you r right.and this is the first time I have replied my advice is every pussy eating session is different and one time she likes it one way the next time its totally different .well got to go my beautiful black girlfriend is ready to git her pussy and ass licked good luck
I used this technique on my Saturday morning delight yesterday and although I had done similar things in the past with her. She always orgasms 3 or 4 times with me once oral and 2 or 3 times with penetration after oral. When eating I’ve always finished her with a large vortex. I’ve never done the pancake or smaller vortex till yesterday. let’s just say she could not contain herself during extended pancake. So I would go to small vortex with some tongue massage as I sucked it in. As she approached climax, stop. Back to slow pancake then speed up just a bit. Couldn’t maintain pancake long because she couldn’t remain still and I was fighting to keep control lol… back to small vortex. repeated this 4 times maybe and finally let her explode. then it was on to sex which always leads to more orgasms for her and is always great. But the appetizer to our Saturday morning is me down on her till she gets hers once. I can honestly say her intensity and not being able to stay still was way more evident and although I worked her up 4 times maybe before letting her get it. She got there much faster and I didn’t have to work as hard on it.
Glad I could help!
I am 50 and never been the type that comes reliably from oral sex. But my ex-boyfriend used these techniques and made me come, every time he went down on me. That was amazing! I am here to say that this works. I think it was the flat tongue (pancake) technique that he used on me. It’s exactly right what the author says, don’t change the motion, don’t do flicking or twisting. Just a nice steady flat tongue. Loved it. I will save this on my computer, print it, and basically give a copy to every guy I meet from now on. Thank you a million times!!
Glad I could help 🙂
Gonna do this first time in life means first intercourse with a mature woman who wants me. She says she will tell me what she needs which her husband doesn’t give.
I will give her good pancake and vortex with g spot then i will go with ride
This helped me out a WHOLE lot. I wouldn’t say that I am bad eating pussy, but makes sure to take me from mediocre and acceptable to… ” Yes right there. DON’T STOP!” So I have endless appreciation for the author of this article, not only for showing me these different tips, and techniques, but for also not it behind a paywall. Thank You SO MUCH!!!
With many more women that are doing it nowadays which it is very obvious why so many of us straight guys are still single now.
Hmmm…I’m not sure that this is the reason some men are single.
He is right, and women eating other women out are really keeping many of us men single nowadays like he said.
Coming from a woman, that is definitely not why many of you are single!! Many of you are single because you can’t communicate, aren’t loyal, tend to only think with your genitals (when in reality, a relationship is so much more and needs so much more along with a good love life! And women are human beings that bond and relate differently when in a relationship and are whole persons with many different needs), cheat, lie, and so many just act like they need someone to assume a mother/caretaker role instead of needing a partner and so women end up feeling like they are having to take care of a man-child which is soooo much not worth the trouble! We’d rather pleasure ourselves or go without than deal with all that nonsense. Also, I know many women who stay with men who are terrible in bed, because they have great qualities and bring a lot to the table in the partnership. If you are insecure about other people, then perhaps you should really take a good look at yourself and do some soul searching and inner work. After all, a man of quality isn’t intimidated by a woman of equality. You should step it up and stop crying and whining and feeling sorry for yourself.
Yes! Louder for those in the back!!
Ok so my boyfriend of three years Love’s freaking me. He’s not the best at it but I like when he eats me out. My problem is when I comes down to me cumin it’s like my body won’t let it out until I get to the bathroom. But if he’s fucking me or making love to me then I cumin. How can you help.
The Orgasm Guide should help.
I feel bad ? because he wants to taste my cum again I Happened twice before and he loved it but I haven’t been happening since.
I have only had my pussy sucked once and it feels like heaven to me I feel like being sucked right now. All this is making my pussy bleats for a dick.
Lol
My wife loves it when after I get her nice and warmed up, I hold her clit hood back, pucker my lips around her clit and blow rasberries. It is literally the only way she can cum but she loves it. I’ve never heard anyone else talk about it anywhere so I feel like I have discovered the unknown haha
Fucked my girl using these techniques! you really helped me alot not gonna lie, i feel like a god !
Nobody can match my skills on the battlefield, im untouchable. Peace.
I just tried these technique on my girl. She was telling me I was to rough and making her pussy sore. It would take her a hour to have a orgasm. I thought I knew what I was doing. She would say I was getting better. However She was frustrated and I knew it.
But I read this article slowly! I took my time. My girl came in 20mins. She told me how long it took. Her orgasm was so Hard like I never seen her Cum before. She gave me 2 ok signs. She was still quivering after 10 mins. She told me what ever I read keep reading. She even put both her hand s in the air and said thank you Jesus. Thank you for your help
Oh, my pussy is so wet after reading all your comments.. My pussy needs to be eaten up.
i love pancake. i love it (pancake)
I’ve been married 17 years. My guy has not tried to go down on me once. He avoids getting his face near my p*ssy. I have great hygiene. I have a Brazilian wax. I have a clit hood piercing. I smell like coconut oil with a hint of peppermint. I’d lick me. In fact, I have licked my fingers like they do in p*rn just to make sure there’s not something I’m missing in making it be irresistible.
He’s a good guy. Great dad. Sex life is hella boring, tho. He rolls over before sleep, humps my hip a few times to “turn ME on”, finishes in 5. Foreplay not much at all.
He’s a pastors son. He’s also a pastor. Idk if this factors into it. Idk if he thinks it’s wrong. I think he just thinks it’s gross. But I give him great head?! I’ve recently stopped cuz it’s just too discouraging to not get it back. I’m so freaking empty in the bedroom. I hate even sleeping in the same bed as him.
I’ve tried talking to him. Without judgment. He doesn’t listen or gets mad.
I don’t wanna leave him. Like I said, he’s a great guy and a great dad. But I’m starving. I finish myself all the time cuz he does his 5 minute hump and done.
I’m at my wit’s end. Help. I can’t leave. My kids need their parents together. I’m just… Broken. If he really loved me, why wouldn’t he listen? Why wouldn’t he enjoy? Why wouldn’t it be a fun adventure for us? I don’t understand. I have cried many years. Also because I get little to no sweet wifey attention outside of the bedroom, either. It’s so hard not to be jealous of other couples. You know what he did for our anniversary? Nothing. Know what he did for mother’s day? Not a darn thing. Didn’t even say anything.
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I’m so sorry to hear this. My only advice is to talk to him and if necessary talk to a qualified professional. We also have a guide to better sexual communication that you may want to check out.
I’d quit letting him do his 5 min hump dance and give him nothing until he wants to have an honest conversation and listen to your needs. He’s obviously not taking you seriously. I’d also suggest talking to a professional as well. But if your needs aren’t being met, don’t keep meeting his. Also, sorry to hear this. My partner has ED really bad, and although he tries, that’s been our hang up to the point where I dread intimacy and I don’t even get turned on anymore. It’s something we’re working on but a partnership needs to be just that. Both parties have to listen to understand and try to meet the others needs and compromise.
If you don’t go down on your wife/women or don’t lick ? her ass someone will do it for her.
Sucking on my wife’s labia minora really gets my wife pumped (pun intended), her inner lips swell and she is wild after that. I move from labia stimulation to clit stimulation and finish off with fingering and clit licking,she loves it.
I’ve never had an orgasm and I’m 25 with or without partner lol it would be a dream come true.
The guide on how to orgasm for women should help 😉
A lot of women are eating it these days. Go figure.
Something I can’t stand is when guys chin rest or (it feels like they are) smashing their face into my vagina. It doesn’t allow for maximum pleasure. Pull away a little
Pancake!!! YESSSSSSSS suck like a kiss!!! Not too long not for a millisecond.. and make sure you get that clit in there.. after a few times a light lick right at the end buttt not a hard tongue flick.
Also, shave. I shave my cookie and tell you I did and then you have sandpaper mouth. No.
Hate constant flicking
Aggressive fingering is a no no.
100% slow down.. tease, light kisses, smile
Oh and constant eye contact is creepy af. Don’t ask lol. Let me arch my back and dive into the pleasure:)
Awesome, thanks for your feedback Becky!
My wife doesn’t want my mouth my hands or any other part of my body near her pussy. We used to do oral on each other all the time. Now when i am max 2 inches in her she says ok you’re done right. Go away now and don’t drip all over me. Of course I am not done by then. She never wants to have sex anymore. Maybe 4 times a year. Help.
Sorry to hear Sam. Check out our guide on improving your sexual communication.
My wife use to love me to eat her pussy and ass . But now she’s 56 she doesn’t want me to touch her . I’ve fucked sucked an eat her pussy an ass in every way you can think of . I’ve tried toys while eating but as soon as I’ cum she goes to sleep . She will suck my dick ,half ass., but hell I get more out of jacking off than trying to fuck her
Thanks this was so helpful 👍👍💓👌
My friends with benefits guy is excellent in bed when he fucks me but we have been getting together once or twice a month now for a year and he has never gone down on me, I have asked him to and asked him why he hasn’t but get no response, what do you think that is about, oh yeah he loves to get a blow job
Sorry to hear that Beth. My only advice is to talk to him. Our Sexual Communication Guide will help.
He is selfish
hi am 20 and am having a problem with knowing when am about to cum i don’t think it’s cuz of my boyfriend cuz he knows what to do and he knows all my weak spots it just i don’t know when am about to cum ,i don’t feel anything and am not loving it what do u suggest me to do.
In early fetus stage the body changes to a Boy (penis) or a Girl (clit). Keep this in mind! Now when you oral play with your girl (never shoot straight to the point!) play around areas and go very slowly closer to the point she pushes her clit direction your tongue as she can’t wait any longer. Sucking etc what I was reading is right but not well explained. Is like a girl will give her man a Blowjob and put her lips around him and sucks but don’t do any movements. You would be wth! You love to feel the lips going up and down even supported by her hand.
Now the same is with the Clit or like mini penis. Suck it in and let it go very short moment have a break you will feel already by the first time she is getting crazy. Now follow a rhythm and start suck and let it go faster and faster till she explodes screaming. Please remember a woman is not a guy with 1-2 orgasm and done. Women can have single orgasm, multiple orgasm at the same time (oral and G-spot etc) and even chain orgasm. I and my Girl like for me to come when she is almost wiped out! Of course not all man and woman are the same but try it out. It never failed in my life.
Many more women are really into it now as well. Go figure.
So, (from a 52 y.o. woman)–a couple of things. First, and I suspect this is true for many woman, you CAN feel the legs of the clitoris, I have better luck before my erectile tissue starts filling with blood. Also, the Clitoris has a shaft, you can feel it above the head of the clitoris (the small protrusion most commonly called the “clit”) under the hood.
It kinda feels like softish cartilage–essentially, the whole clitoral structure is like a large “wishbone” of a turkey. The shaft and head are similar to a man’s penis in shape, and sit at the middle of the two “wishbone” legs, and the shaft feels good, it’s not nearly as sensitive (so it’s hard to hurt it), but it has great feeling when it’s stroked.
It takes women a full 30 min +/- of attention from you, to get 100% aroused guys, it’s like if it took your dick 30 min. to get hard. Also, getting a woman fully aroused does NOT require touching her genitals all the time. Women have entirely different “sex brain” than men. During that time her erectile tissues are filing with blood and prior to her being fully engorged, you need to start from the outside (outer labia) and highest part of her whole gentile area (shaft and Crura (legs of clit), then work your way to her inner labia, then onward to her vagina or anus.
There is also a vestibular bulb which starts just above her vagina and each bulb wraps around the sides of the vagina. It’s OK to put pressure on the bulb early (and even after it becomes erect, and you will be able to feel it swelling), and it can feel good—it’s hard to do wrong touching this area. Work on these areas FIRST, and as her erectile tissue fills, her lips will swell and open up exposing her clit and vagina opening, THIS is when you should start with direct attention to the head of the clit—not sooner.
Another thing…there is a tube of erectile tissue around her urethra, and when it’s full engorged, it creates a ridge on the upper wall of her vagina, which does two good things for YOU, and ensures she cannot damage her urethra during sex and is much less likely to get a UTI from it, if that’s a concern for her. What it does for you?
1) it makes her vagina more “snug” (along with the PS spot swelling on the lower side of her vagina too), for some women, it’s in a really big way (I am one of those women),
2) you can do any position and it will likely not hurt most women, because if all her erectile tissue is fully swollen, and her Uterus has lifted (yes, it does this for sex when she is fully aroused), which happens when all the “sensitive” things inside have fully prepared for penetration. It’s a game changer to get her to this point, it increases the chance she will have an orgasm (or two), and it greatly reduces any trauma or uncomfortable issues for her.
To learn more really, really in-depth about the mind/body relationship for women, and greater detail about a woman’s anatomy and sex, I highly recommend this book: Women’s Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure, by Sheri Winston.
Sean gives great advice to jump in and get it done, but if you REALLY, REALLY want to wow your woman, get this book and have you both read it. It will take your relationship to a whole other place. All women have the system to squirt, all women have the capability to have multiple orgasms. It’s just about frame of mind, creating new mental pathways to pleasure for women and understanding the anatomy/physiology of a woman’s body for men. Always use lots of coconut oil when touching your lady, slippery feels good and means it won’t hurt.
Great advice!
First rule: Sex is something you GIVE, not something you get.
Mental attitude is critical for women. She will SUBMIT (with spectacular results) if you FIRST submit to HER by demonstrating that your first goal is to please her.
Build anticipation verbally, groan, and tell her how much you like what’s you see, smell, taste.
My wife nicknamed me Magellan because i explore to find where her most sensitive parts are today. They move.
the article is great, thanks, it really helped! the comments are wild as fuck though lol
Thank you
Great information can’t wait to try on my love
I once had a woman friend, now I love to eat pussy, and I would eat her pussy over and over again I guess expecting different results, and she couldn’t get off. I have used the technique that I used on many other women and has never failed to bring on gangbuster orgasms. So keep in mind not all will get off on oral
I followed the instructions to the letter, and my wife said the experience was mind numbing, she came very close to passing out. She said the anticipation drove her crazy so when I actually started she was ready to explode. I have never seen her react this way before. I asked her on a scale of 1 – 10 how it was and she replied 20. It looks like there is going to be a lot of fun in our future.
Glad I could help 🙂
I have been dating this girl since 2016 and because she lived far away from we only saw eachother like 5 time in a year.We had to wait to have sex to go to colloge and I was super excited to finally have sex with her but also I was kinda nervous cause we were dating for 6 year but we didnt have so much time to expirience eachother body so I was super nervous cause I wanted to make her happy and cum all the time so I found this website and its been so useful now She wants me to eat her out like all the time until she comes but sometimes ıt tooks longer and I am getting really exhausted cause I dont she really cares about my own pleausure.I have been cursed with gift to eat pussy like a good I wish I have never search this website I mıght enjoy the sex too
That was indeed an informative article and I am thankful for that. I have often my tongue tired when it is about to reach her to orgasm, sometimes it needs 20 minutes licking and the thing is that if you stop in the middle to take a rest, she loses the climax so you must start again. Using fingers to rub the clitoris also works but your hand gets tired. In both style, finding the clitoris is the major step and that is indeed not as easy as described in this article. Your tongue loses it when things get wet and sleezy as clitoris and around together swells during the cunnilingus. I appreciate your efforts.
My first serious girlfriend was a bi back before it was cool for women to be bi.As a teen I didn’t have a lot of experience yet so she educated me very quickly, both by herself and with the help of a friend which was fine with me. One thing she taught me was to not make any noise, that the quieter the better. It’s better to usually use the flat of your tongue and keep it soft.Don’t ignore the other parts of her pussy, suck those pussy lips softly and tug on them gently.That “‘O” he just explained, gently tug at the clit if it’s not too sensitive and circle your tongue around the clit at the same time. This really drives most women wild but in short spurts as it gets really sensitive quick. Use the flat of your tongue after that to kill the sensitivity a bit, pulling the hood back to expose the clit while using the flat of your tongue helps to pop that thing out so you can get to it. I’ve had a lot of luck using my finger and making a “”come here”” motion but side to side move your hand back and forth really fast while using the same motion will have a river running. Also, don’t be afraid to use the hand to smack her pussy and clit at the same time gently. They say pain and pleasure are very similar and most women enjoy it a little rough.Whatever you do, Just don’t bite it if you ever want to get it again!
When I eat pussy her clit gets big and throbbing and tongue fuck her make her shake and with the vibrator on her clit when she is getting pounded she will cum
You saved my marriage, my wife’s Mom died.She didn’t want anything to do with me. I thought we were heading for divorce.
I used the pancake and vortex combined. She got up on me and came all over my face.
You did more for my marriage and me then anything.
Thank you my friend.
Hi Greg, sorry to hear about your mother-in-law, but happy I could help 🙂
Just gotta say scruffy facial hair can be a huge nono too. Getting your whole pussy & inner legs scratched up by 2 million pointy things. Dudes.
(Thank you for this, by the way… will pass along to all future lovers!)
Today even women want it just as much too.
my wife does not like fingering but she likes my tongie. So. . how should I do her to like also my figers and how to make her sqiirt. Can i do her squirt with my tomgue? plz give me good advice? !
Talk to her and ask her what she enjoys the best. Even better, get her to show you
She gets arrogant during the day and I tell her that she needs to be put in her place with a tongue lashing. She told me that I didn’t know how to do that.
Later that day, my girlfriend put her dog to bed at 9:00pm..by 10:10pm, she had 14 orgasms! I got her to pop soo many times that she started to cry towards the end.I told her that I can keep going( my face and beard was getting drenched). The eating sessions all last at least 30 minutes……get some flavored lube and a bib.
There are times that I am not fully in the mood, I tuck her in bed and eat the hell out of her….she is hooked!!!!
What if my girls clit is like, tiny and I can’t find it? Also she never wears panties lol
Get her to help you find it 😉
Have her on top in reverse. (and a headboard is helpful for this position) Some people call it face sitting, but I just call it another oral sex position. She can control the pressure and movement as you really get direct access to everything to work a bit all over slowly at first all around and a little bit of tongue insertion before moving home to the clit and from there go a little slow and flat tongue it and let her work on the build up and then bring her home so to speak… and instead of a 69 the focus is all on her. Never hurts if she is throwing a hand job in there while you are having at it in this position, but this is still focused on her. Have given many women orgasms in this position. I even have a chair that accommodates it for her comfort. Very fun and a female dominate position which can certainly add to the excitement.
Well they are so good techniques and surely I will try it on my bae are ofc she would love it! Thank you for this, another little info to my brain
Heya 40 year old men I’ve never tried this on my girl but I plan to 😆 all these comments are greatttt! I hope she loves it I will keep all you guys updated in full explicit detail and I must add that pussy fat and juicy I might suffocate if I do please send help 😅