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The Reverse Cowgirl sex position is one of the more well-known sex positions out there. It’s great for those who like being on top of their man, but don’t want to spend all your time looking into his eyes; although, there of plenty of positions like that in our ultimate guide to sex positions.
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Getting into the Reverse Cowgirl position is easy and thankfully doesn’t require a huge amount of flexibility. Your man first needs to start by lying down on his back. You then need to get onto your knees, with one on either side of him, over his lap so that he is facing your back. Then just lower yourself down on him.
You can then start to slowly grind on him or you can start bouncing up and down. In many ways, the Reverse Cowgirl position is very similar to both the Acrobat sex position. If you and your man switch positions, you’ll be performing the Reverse Cowboy.
What You Do In The Reverse Cowgirl Position
One of the best things about the Reverse Cowgirl position that makes it easier for those who are a little shy or nervous being on top is that you don’t have to face your man while performing it, which takes a lot of the ‘performance pressure’ or anxiety out of the equation that some girls feel when on top of their man.
Once you get comfortable being on top of your man, there are a few things you should try out. Experiment with leaning either forwards or backwards (using your hand to support yourself) to change the angle of entry. You also have the choice of either grinding on your man or bouncing up and down on him or a combination of both.
What Your Man Does In The Reverse Cowgirl Position
Your man can choose to take either an active or more passive role during Reverse Cowgirl. He can lie there while you do all the work or he can become more involved.
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If he wants to become more involved, then he can grind back up against you as you are grinding on him. Or he can thrust up and down. If you want, lean back towards your man so he can use his arms to support you.
More Tips When Performing The Reverse Cowgirl
There are a bunch of girls who have tried out the regular Cowgirl Position with their man, but few who have tried out Reverse Cowgirl. For those that want a more fun experience when performing the Reverse Cowgirl position, here are some tips:
- You can also switch roles by performing the Reverse Cowboy sex position, where your man is on top, straddling you and bending his penis right down to enter you. Just make sure your man has lots of penile flexibility!
- Try doing it in front of a mirror. The cool thing about performing the Reverse Cowgirl position in front of a mirror is that you can see everything you’re doing while your man is obscured. This is one way to give your confidence a boost!
- Try performing Reverse Asian Cowgirl. This is simply a combination of the Reverse Cowgirl and Asian Cowgirl positions.
- Reverse Cowgirl is perfect for anal sex as well as regular vaginal sex.
Similar Positions
Betty Rocker
Betty Rocker – Lean down low over his knees.
Acrobat
Acrobat – Lean back against his chest in this variant.
Side Saddle
Side Saddle – Crouch between his knees when he’s at the end of the bed.
Thigh Tide
Thigh Tide – Have him lift his thigh so you can grind against it for clitoral stimulation. More on that in this post.
Don’t forget to try all of the girl-on-top positions from our guide.
Sean’s Thoughts On The Reverse Cowgirl Sex Position
I really enjoy the Reverse Cowgirl sex position. It’s also one of the easiest and best sex positions for overweight people. It’s a nice and easy variation of the regular Cowgirl position. If you are a girl who finds themselves feeling awkward or a little nervous being on top of their man, then you should try Reverse Cowgirl, as you don’t have to worry about making eye contact with him.
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The other bonus about this position is it gives you the ability to play with his testicles or put pressure on his perenium. If she’s not quite there, gently pulling down on his testicles will help him last longer or using a knuckle to put pressure on the perenium will send him over the edge! When I did it with my hubby he said wow and asked where that came from.
This is awkward but i feel so bad when my boyfriend has to do all the work when being on top. Yes it feels great but he gets worn out quickly. I tried being on top but i don’t know how to get my rhythm right. Any ideas?
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I too feel this way would love ßtips on getting into and maintaining rythym
I feel the same way would love an article!
This guide on how to ride your man should help
My friend wants to try something a lil different..do u have any tips on s&m
This guide should help.
My man seems to avoid me on top, and that’s my favorite although I’m embarrassed to tell him. He did say, never on top.. which made me feel discouraged abit. But alsoIf I’m giving him A bj, and hes about to ejaculate but I’m enjoying it and thought he’d be happy to but instead he jumps up and rather insert in my vagina face to face position. Which I found offensive as if I’m not doing the bj right or am I over thinking things? Tried not to be too sexual.
The main thing is to let him know what you enjoy and vice-versa. This way he will learn how to keep you satisfied too.
It’s because cumming in a pussy feels absolutely amazing. Getting blown is great, but giving a girl a load deep inside is just simply incomparible. It’s like going from a thrift shop scavenged piece to a Prada ensemble.
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What about people that are a bit overweight? I can’t get on my knees to do this reverse or forward facing with my man and it just KILLS my legs!
Try leaning forward and resting on your arms as you do it. This will take some of the pressure off your legs.
My partner always having an early ejaculation when we were having sex thats why i cant satisfy my self.never experience the viginal orgasm and it feels bad for me because im not enjoying my sex life.what should we do
Get him to get you off in other ways, using his hands and fingers and by going down on you.
We use this position all the time and my wife uses plenty of lube and masterbates until she has on average two awesome- this is great because it takes all the pressure off me regardless of how much time she needs and she is completely satisfied
When my wife and I were young, experimental lovers, just getting together, all she had to do was bounce on me in this manner. We didn’t even take our clothes off, and she would squirt over and over again. But, now that we are seniors, we can’t get her to squirt at all.
Reverse cowgirl seens hard I want to try it but I’m afraid I’ll break his penis. He doesn’t band easily.