The prison style sex position is great for those that like be dominated by their man and for him to be in almost complete control, which is one of the most common fantasies. You can perform the prison style position while standing up or while on your knees. If you’re looking for more positions, check out our sex positions guide!
Standing
To perform it while standing, both you and your man need to be facing in the same direction. Your man needs to then enter you from behind, either vaginally or anally. You then bend over so that you stomach is parallel to the ground and you are facing the floor. You can spread your legs while your man keeps his close together or vice-versa. Then you put your arms parallel with your body. He can bind your arms if you like light bondage.
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Your man then holds onto your hands/wrists and starts thrusting in and out. In this position, your man can thrust in and out hard and quite deep if that’s what you both enjoy. Tips for deep penetration here.
This is why it’s called prison style. Your man is in control of you and almost ‘forcing’ himself on you like he was in a prison.
On Your Knees
When performing the prison style on your knees, you do everything as you would when you were standing, except both you and your man will be on your knees. You need to spread your knees wide, and your man can keep his close together or vice versa. You can also lean down a little and rest your head and shoulders on the bed if you like.
What The Girl Does In The Prison Style Position
When you are in the prison style position, your man will be doing most of the work. But you do need to give him instructions from time to time so that he knows how fast and how deep you like it. It’s also important to let him know if he is pulling too hard on your arms. Besides this, you will have very little control.
What The Guy Does In The Prison Style Position
When your man is in the prison style position, he will have almost total control, which is a major turn on for a lot of girls. Check out this post about being submissive.
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He can lean backwards or forwards to change the angle of entry. He can also stop thrusting and instead grind up against you in a circular or “figure of 8” movement.
If your man can use just one of his hands to hold both your hands, then he can use his free hand to start rubbing your clit. Or if you are having anal sex with him, he can finger you.
Things To Consider When Performing The Prison Style Sex Position
Some students enjoy the loss of control they feel when doing prison style with their man. Here is some of the feedback they have given me on it.
- If it’s your first time trying it, make sure to tell your man what you like and how hard to fuck you. Otherwise, he might get carried away and accidentally hurt you.
- This position is perfect for those of you who like anal sex with your man when he is in a very dominant position.
- Make sure to experiment with this position while on your knees as well as while standing to see which you prefer.
Similar Positions
- Leapfrog – Transition to your knees and lean your upper body downward from Read Admiral to get into this position.
- Standing Position – Lean down toward the floor, and you’ll gracefully move to this position.
- Washing Machine – If you find it difficult to support yourself, try this variant where you lean on a piece of furniture or a washing machine.
- Burning Man – Instead of holding your arms back, reach forward to try this position.
There are even more positions like this in the doggy style section of this guide.
Sean’s Thoughts On Prison Style Position
I personally really like the feeling of having a lot of control when in the prison style position, while my girl has hardly any at all. It’s also really fun to try the variation I describe below:
Prison Style Variation
There is a variation of prison style that is a ‘comedy’ or joke sex position. To perform it, you do it just like you would when standing, except your man is not holding your arms. You are also not holding on to him. The whole idea is that you need to try and stay balanced and keep his penis inside you as he moves you forward around the room with each thrust. Once you complete a full lap of the room, you have completed a lap of the prison cell, so to speak! Doing this is a fun change from the regular prison style positionl.
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I really want to try the prison style …it looks so much fun
If it can make my man want me and only me i will try it
This position is best done with 4-7 inch heels. My gf is short, so we can’t do it other way + it’s hot!