Few things are as hard as dealing with sexual frustration. Indeed, "frustrating" is part of the phrase! When left unchecked, sexual frustration can ruin your life, not to mention your relationship. But you can learn how to deal with sexual frustration and take control of the situation, so that doesn't happen. Dealing with Sexual Frustration When You're in a Relationship Some people might assume … [Read more...]

Your brain might automatically think back to steamy nights in your high-school boyfriend's car when you think of dry humping. This was a great way to stay chaste, if you were into that, while still being able to make each other orgasm. Hollywood certainly liked to remind us how erotic it can be. Dry humping certainly mimics sex in many ways, but it also offers pleasure where sex may miss … [Read more...]

Learning how to cum is easy. I'm going to show you how to do it, during sex and masturbation, even if you currently struggle to cum. First, I need to clear something up... Cumming Versus Squirting We refer to "cumming" and "to cum" as the act of reaching orgasm or climaxing in women. Some people use the word "cum" to mean squirt. That's fine, and you may want to read the guide on how … [Read more...]

While many women are quick to reach for a sex toy to stimulate their clitoris or vagina or just play around with regular clitoral/vaginal masturbation, they might find the thought of anal masturbation to be taboo. While the exploration of anal play comes naturally to others, you may have to work yourself up to the idea, perhaps at the insistence of your partner. However, you may experience more … [Read more...]

So many sexy blogs and magazines are talking about edging these days! But what is edging exactly? Edging is getting close to... Orgasm but NOT letting yourself cum yet. Repeat that process as many times as you can stand before you finally let yourself have an orgasm. It will make your resulting orgasm feel a lot more powerful and intense. Edging is sometimes known as orgasm control when … [Read more...]

In the movies, women always seem to have toe-curling, scream-inducing orgasms that wake the neighbors. They're left panting and disheveled while their partners boast a satisfied smirk. Do you wonder if you can achieve an orgasm of that magnitude? Are those even real? If so, can you have one? Of course, the big screen is all fantasy, but some women do report having full body orgasms - and they … [Read more...]

How do you orgasm? If you're like many women, you come after stimulating yourself with your hands, your toys or your partner's body. Many of us get locked into using the same old methods to orgasm, but most people can come in multiple ways. One exciting way women are getting off is without using their hands at all. Yes, hands free orgasms are possible for many women, and can even be done with … [Read more...]

Although there is a bustling sex toy market, many women first experiment with insertables that weren't designed for sexual use. If you're grabbed something from your local produce aisle or have at least considered buying it to use as a dildo to masturbate, you're not alone. If you want to learn all the different techniques you can use with your dildo to have back-arching, spine-tingling orgasms, … [Read more...]

You're going to learn the exact exercises you can use to tighten your vagina so that you can make your man cum in seconds (not minutes) and both of you can have more powerful orgasms. You read that right: I said both of you. But first, we need to dispel a few myths about having a tight or loose vagina! Busting Myths About Loose Vaginas Many people talk about a woman having a vagina that's … [Read more...]

G-spot. A-spot. C-spot. It might seem like your body is an entire alphabet of sensitive areas. There are so many that it's nearly impossible to know them all. The U spot is today's topic, and it might not be a spot that you're familiar with, even if you've accidentally stimulated it in the past. Learn about this sensitive spot, how to stimulate it and ways to incorporate U spot play into your … [Read more...]