The Face Off sex position is a 69 position that most men will have never experienced, making it perfect for surprising your man when you feel that sex is starting to get a little bland. Check out our recommended sex positions when you want to try something new.
To get into position for the Face Off, your man needs to sit down on either the floor or on the bed with his legs out straight and his body upright. You then need to stand in front of him, facing in the same direction so that your butt is in his face. Keep your feet outside his. Next, you need to bend right over to start giving your man a blowjob. Meanwhile, you will be exposing yourself so that it’s easy for your man to perform cunnilingus on you and eat you out.
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What The Girl Does In The Face Off Position
When in the Face Off position, you just have to focus on three things:
- Staying Comfortable
- Keeping Your Balance
- Giving Him A Wonderful Blowjob
1) Staying comfortable is actually pretty easy. If you keep your legs straight, then they will get sore quite fast. But if you bend your knees, you’ll find that you can stay in the Face Off position for much longer. Additionally, if you need to take a break, then feel free to stand up straight, while your man keeps pleasuring you. Also for some, it takes some time to get used to having your head upside down.
2) Keeping your balance is also relatively easy. Just put your hands on the floor and spread your legs quite wide like you might in a lap dance.
3) I explain in a lot of detail exactly how to give your man a great bj in the section all about blow jobs and fellatio.
What The Guy Does In The Face Off Position
Your man has a much easier job in the Face Off position. He has two things he needs to focus on:
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- Helping You To Stay Balanced
- Giving You Great Cunnilingus – cunnilingus tips
1) To help you keep balanced, your man just needs to gently put his hands around your legs or back and hold you in place.
2) Some men don’t pay enough attention to pleasing their girl while others do. If your man is not doing a good job, then there is a way to give him some help. Just start telling him what you like as he is doing it. Say things like, “That feels amazing” or “Right there” or “Don’t stop.” This positive reinforcement will let him know to keep doing the things you like. Check out our guide to sexual communication for more ideas.
Things To Consider When Performing The Face Off Position
The Face Off is not a 69 position that many could dream up on their own, but it’s still a whole lot of fun! Below is some great feedback that I’ve managed to get from students who’ve tried it with their man:
- If you find it difficult bending over, then position your feet behind your man’s back so that you don’t have to bend over as much.
- You can also use the Face Off position exclusively for receiving oral sex from your man. This means you don’t have to lean over so much, or you can even stand completely upright during it.
- Try giving him a handjob if this position doesn’t work so well for simultaneous oral.
- Performing the Face Off in the reverse direction (by having your man stand and lean over while you sit down) doesn’t work so well. It makes it very difficult for him to perform cunnilingus on you.
- This can be quite a dominant oral sex position if you are the female partner.
Similar Positions
69
69 – The classic position where you can orally satisfy one another.
Lie Back
Lie Back – A blowjob position where you’re on your back.
Golden Gate
Golden Gate – This position is a little trickier but is worth trying if you’re agile.
There are even more 69 positions in our positions guide.
Sean’s Thoughts On The Face Off Sex Position
I like the Face Off position. It’s really different to the regular 69 position which makes for a nice change. The only issue I have with it is that it can often be difficult for a girl to perform without getting tired or feeling weird because their head is upside down, but for guys it’s really easy.
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I like the Face Off position. It’s really different to the regular 69 position which makes for a nice change. The only issue I have with it is that it can often be difficult for a girl to perform without getting tired or feeling weird because their head is upside down, but for guys it’s really easy.
Me and my partner 69 all the time we have done it in every position that we can think of a good one is if you have a lazy boy chair she would get in the chair and recline back and then I will get on the top part of the chaor so that my cock is hanging right in front of her mouth and I lower down so that my face is between her legs so I can suck her pussy lips and clit into my mouth while she is having fun with my cock we found that shaving all the public hair off just before we have fun makes it more sensitive she loves sucking my balls into her mouthwe can tease each other for hours
Wouldn’t recommend trying this one if like me you have a history of low blood pressure and iron deficiency…toppled over like a tonne of bricks, terrified the shit out of my partner.
Good point. I hope you’re ok!