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If you have never kissed a guy before then have no fear, the Bad Girls Bible is here to help you gain the confidence and skills to give your man a passionate and hot kiss every time. But before we get to the fun stuff, you need to do some important preparation…
Hopefully you already do these things, because they are an important part of staying fit and healthy. But in case you don’t I’ll list them here to make sure that your mouth and lips are fresh and healthy.
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Brush Your Teeth!
You should make sure to brush your teeth at least twice a day, preferably after every meal. This also applies before giving your man a blow job too! There is absolutely no reason as to why you shouldn’t be regularly brushing your teeth. It’s vital for keeping that horrible fur (plaque) off your teeth and preventing gum disease. Most importantly, a healthy set of pearly white teeth is much more inviting for your man than yellow or discolored teeth.
Floss & Mouthwash
Don’t stop at merely brushing your teeth. Make sure to floss regularly to get rid of plaque and food that gets caught in those hard-to-reach places that your toothbrush can’t reach. Rinsing your mouth out with mouthwash is great for making sure you have fresh breath too. Using mouthwash is also one of my best blow job techniques for pleasing your man.
Have Soft Lips
Making sure that your breath is fresh and your teeth are clean and white is obviously crucial. An equally important aspect is your lips. Are they dry, chapped and rough? If so then you need some lip care girl! At a minimum get some chapstick, but if you are serious about it, there is a massive range of different treatments, creams, balms and gels that you can use on your lips to make them fuller, softer and more inviting to your man.
Okay, that’s the boring BUT IMPORTANT stuff covered. Now onto to the fun stuff!
Start Kissing Him
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Often the hardest part of learning how to kiss is starting it. Perhaps he is too shy to initiate it or he doesn’t have the confidence to try it or maybe he has never even kissed a girl. Our advice is the same when initiating sex with a man.
First start by making sure that you are both alone together and aren’t going to be disturbed. You then need to position yourself so that you are close to your man. Then as you you are talking to him and he is talking to you, start looking at his lips. Make it quite obvious. Every once in a while, lick your lips or gently bite them. This subtle sign of sexual attraction will let your man know what you are thinking about.
Slowly get closer to your man until you are leaning in towards him. Wait for a quiet moment and then slowly move in to kiss him. 99 times out of 100, your man will kiss you back.
This takes a good deal of courage. But it’s totally worth it.
How To Actually Kiss Your Man
As you move in to kiss your man, open your mouth slightly and tilt your head to the side so that you don’t accidentally bump noses. When your lips meet your man’s lips, just start to slowly massage them with your lips. To do this, just squeeze his lips in yours very gently. He will start to do the same back to you. Keep slowly massaging his lips with yours for a few minutes, then move your head to the other side to slightly change things up a bit.
After doing this for a little while, it’s time to start using a little tongue and French kiss him. Slowly start to open your mouth wider and wider until you can easily extend your tongue into his mouth and start massaging his tongue. This makes for great foreplay before having passionate intimate sex with him.
There is no right way or wrong way to French kiss your man. Although one thing that you should avoid is the ‘washing machine’ where you just spin your tongue around really fast in his mouth!
A great little technique that guys love is the ‘nibble’. Just gently nibble or bite his lower lip or squeeze it between your lower lip and top set of teeth.
A great way to kiss your man is to slowly change from kissing him with your tongue to using your lips and then back again to using your tongue and then also nibbling his tongue every once in a while. But kissing him on the lips and mouth is just the beginning…
His Cheeks, Ears and Neck
Getting kissed on the lips feels great for both guys and girls. But getting kissed on the cheeks, ears and neck is an equally pleasurable sex tip. To kiss your man on the cheeks is simple and straightforward. All you need to do is move your mouth away from his and then start very gently kissing his cheek.
It’s then very natural to keep moving up your man’s cheek to start kissing him on his ear. The most sensitive part of his ear is the ear lobe (very bottom part of his ear). Kissing this is quite easy. Just gently suck on it. While sucking on it, you can tease your man with your tongue at the same time. You can also give it a gentle nibble too.
Moving on from your man’s ear lobe, it’s super easy to start kissing his neck. You can open your mouth very wide while kissing his neck and then slowly close it in a gentle sucking motion. But be careful not to give him a love-bite (sometimes referred to as a hickey) when doing this. But maybe you want to give him a love bite and get rougher with your man as you get intimate. If you do want to give him a love bite though, you should try gently biting his neck while you are sucking and kissing it.
From here, you are in a perfect position to move further down and start giving him head or using one of these other techniques to make your man cum hard.
A great way to be the dominant partner when you are kissing your man is to softly put your hand on his chin. When you do, you’ll find that it’s very easy to turn it from side to side to control where you kiss him.
Another great way to learn new kissing techniques is to try to imitate the things your man does to you, that you enjoy. So if he nibbles your lip a little, try nibbling his. If he does something really hot with his tongue, then try doing that back to him.
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how do i give my man a hickey? i would love to give him one. i would like to get a step by step way of giving a hickey
Sean Jameson says
The key is to just lightly suck on the same spot on his neck for a prolonged period of time. That’s all there is to it!
Vicor Creed says
What do I do if my wife doesn’t like giving me blow jobs? That doesn’t help. It leaves me feeling unsatisfied. I need some help.
Sean Jameson says
Honestly, the best option is to just talk to her about it in a frank way. She may not know just how important they are to you and you may not know the real reason as to why she doesn’t like them so much. Once you are both open about it, she’ll realise just how important they are to you and you’ll also realise why she doesn’t like them so much.
i have this thing about my roomate and hes constantly complimenting me on my appearance an i really like him so i do it back….i have known hime for two years and we were alone the otherday and i really wanted to kiss him but as much as i hinted it just didnt happen or anything…can you give me some tips? thanks
Sean Jameson says
Try touching him in a way that suggests you are more than just friends.
Can you make a blog post about eating your girl put. I’ve been trying to impress my girlfriend allot but I think you might give me some good tips. Anyways thanks to you my girlfriend and I are in an awesome and sexualy healthy relationship. Thanks man
How do I let my boyfriend know I just don’t want a kiss from him but more
Sean Jameson says
Talk to him!
I’ve been reading this for a few months, probably since December, and it has made an obvious improvement on my sex life with my boyfriend. I’ve successfully become the best girlfriend he’s ever had at giving blowjobs (or so he says) and now he wants to return the favor. I understand that this is to help women, but could you give me some tips to share with him? Thanks.
Sean Jameson says
They’re coming, stay tuned!
Do men like these things done nice and slow or at what pace?
Sean Jameson says
Experiment and see what he prefers
So this afternoon I wanted to perform oral sex on the man I enjoy a great simply sexual relationship with. He had been doing the majority of the work because positions he seems to favor have me in a more passive role. He was taking a break so I went ahead and proceeded to do something just for him. I have done this only a few times in the past but today I was more comfortable than ever before and although he’s always seemed to enjoy my techniques I decided to ask him if there was anything that he liked in particular that i don’t do that he would like me to do. He indicated that he was pleased by what I do. I explained why I was asking…because although I’m 53 yrs old I haven’t had any kind of serious sexual relationship in the past 16 yrs until we started our relationship Superbowl Sunday 2015 and obviously not much experiences to get feedback on. So I wanted to find out his most sensitive areas and I didn’t expect to hear what he told me. He’s 55 yrs old and he explained to me that here lately as he’s gotten older he’s not as sensitive as he used to be. Is there anything you may be able to suggest as to what I can try?
A technique or a product…anything will be helpful. I’ve read all the different techniques you have discussed and was surprised to learn that, although I’ve never read or learned anything on the subject my own ideas of what I thought would be pleasing and have been using are all included here with many I haven’t tried that I intend to. This has all been very informative and helpful. Thank you so much!