Learning how to give a blowjob is not difficult. I’m going to show you why. Just follow the advice below you will soon be giving your man a great blowjob.

Having talked to many girls about learning how to give a great blowjob to their man, I have realised that giving your guy great oral sex comes down to a few key things which I cover in depth below. These are:

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Knowing Some Fantastic Blowjob Techniques

Building Your Sexual Confidence

Avoid These Blowjob Pitfalls

5 Fantastic Blowjob Techniques To Use Tonight

The most important part of giving your man a great blowjob is knowing and using the best blow job techniques to give him maximum pleasure. Below are 5 of my favorite BJ techniques,

Building Up

When you are going to give your man a blowjob, his orgasm will be far more powerful if you slowly build up towards it, instead of just ripping his pants off the minute things start heat up. So how can your build up to giving him a blowjob?

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The build up to a blowjob can almost be as important as the blowjob itself!

Start with the obvious stuff, foreplay. This means kissing and cuddling him. While you are kissing and cuddling, slowly lower one of your hands until it is down by his crotch. Start to slowly massage his penis and balls outside his trousers. After a minute or two of this, start to unbutton his trousers and lower them, so that you can easily access his penis with your hands. Gently grab hold of his penis with your hand and slowly start to massage it up and down. In other words, start to give him a gentle hand job.

At this stage, it’s really important to only apply a tiny amount of pressure with your hands, so that you are barely gripping it.

The reason? Applying just a tiny amount of pressure helps to build up tension so that when you do eventually start giving him a blowjob, he will orgasm a lot harder. You can give him this gentle handjob for just minute or up to 10 minutes. Just remember that the longer you give it to him, the more likely he is going to blow his load.

After giving him this very gentle handjob for a while, it’s time to lower your head down towards his crotch.

But when you do, don’t start giving him a blowjob just yet. You still need to keep building up to it.

This will help to further build the tension for your man

To keep building up the tension before you start sucking his penis, start to very softly and gently kiss his penis. Just purse your lips together and kiss his penis all over. This means that you need to kiss the head (aka the glans) of his penis all the way down to the bottom of his shaft.

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After 20 seconds to 2 minutes of this kissing, start to lick it. This is really easy. Just stick out your tongue and slowly lick his penis. It’s much easier to lick his penis upwards from the bottom of his shaft to the top instead of licking it up and down. The underside of a man’s penis is the easiest side to lick and coincidentally it’s also the most pleasurable. This is because the corpus spongiosum which runs the length of the underside of his shaft and the frenulum are both located on the underside of a man’s penis. But don’t forget about the head! After another 30 seconds to 2 minutes of licking his penis, it’s finally time to take his penis into your mouth and actually start sucking his cock!

Hand & Suck

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Using your hands is crucial if you are serious about giving a great blowjob.

The Hand & Suck is a common blowjob tip, but it’s still very powerful. I advise everyone to use this technique if they are serious about giving their man a lot pleasure when learning how to give a good blowjob.

To perform the Hand & Suck, you need the take about the first inch of your man’s penis into your mouth. When it’s inside your mouth, you need to use your tongue to massage it. Just simply rub your tongue back and forth over his penis or instead make a circular motion using your tongue over his head.

Make sure to use lot of saliva, the more the better.

You’ll find that the top side of your tongue (the side with all your tastebuds) provides more stimulation as it’s slightly rougher.

While using your mouth to give the top of his penis a blowjob, you need you grab the rest of his penis with one of your hands (two hands can work also, but you’ll find that one hand is easier). Now just simply use this hand to give him a handjob. I find that it’s best to alternate the amount of pressure you apply using your hand.

The Tongue Squeeze

This is one of my favorite techniques for 2 reasons.

I love teaching it because it gets results.
I love having it performed on me, because it feels fantastic!
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Depending on the setting, you can make your blowjob an act of dominance or submission…

The Tongue Squeeze is one of the more advanced techniques that you should try when learning how to give head to your man. To perform it you need to take your man’s penis quite deep into your mouth. So if you have a very sensitive gag reflex, this technique may not be for you.

Once you have his penis in your mouth, you need use your tongue to push it upwards so that the head/glans is forced against against your palate. Your palate is the hard bit of flesh on the top of your mouth.

While the head of his penis is forced onto the top of your palate, use your tongue to massage the underside of his penis, from his shaft all the way up past his frenulum. You’ll find that using your hand to keep his cock in place is a good idea so that your jaw and tongue don’t get too tired.

The only problem with the Tongue Squeeze to give your man a blowjob is that sometimes your mouth will be too small or his penis will be too big for your to perform it comfortably. But if his penis fits comfortably, he will enjoy it a lot!

Don’t Forget About His Balls

When a lot of people are first learning how to give oral sex to their boyfriend, they only concentrate on his dick. This is perfectly fine, but…

Don’t forget that your man’s testicles are super sensitive too.

Stimulating his balls is really easy, much easier than sucking his penis in fact. To stimulate them, you just need to use an open palm to slowly and gently rub the up and down. When you first start to massage them, make sure to only use a tiny bit of pressure as you don’t want to hurt him. Then when you can tell he is enjoying it, start to vary the amount of pressure you use to see what he likes best.

Just using your palm is easy. A slightly more advanced technique is to use your fingers. You can slowly run them over his balls. This may tickle him slightly, but it feels really wonderful at the same time. Make sure that you have filed down any rough edges on your nails before you start fondling his testicles to prevent yourself from accidentally giving him any nicks, scratches or cuts.

Eye Contact

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Maintaining eye contact with your man during a blowjob can make it feel far more intimate.

Maintaining eye contact with your man is a very interesting and often misunderstood oral sex technique when you are learning how to give your guy a blowjob. You won’t realise it until you first try it, but it’s really powerful. Most men like taking on a dominant role when having sex with their partner. When you are on your knees, looking up at him, you are actively taking on a submissive role, which will enhance his dominant feelings.

The main reason that eye contact is so misunderstood when giving your man a blow job is that it’s actually really difficult to do properly. You may feel awkward, shy or even a little nervous doing it, especially if you want to hold eye contact with your man for a long time. This is why I consider eye contact to be a Pro technique in The Blow Job Bible.

If you want to learn how to build your sexual confidence when giving your man a blowjob so that maintaining eye contact with him is easier, the keep reading…

Building Your Sexual Confidence

When you are thinking about how to give a blow job to your man, you may be wondering about all these different blowjob positions and blowjob techniques as well as some of the more advanced stuff like giving your man deep throat. But there’s a catch:

None of this information is much use if you are really awkward and nervous when you give your man a blowjob.

It will be a lot more sexually satisfying for your man if you appear confident and know what you are doing.

If you are not that sexually confident, then this can be quite tough for you. Below are some great blowjob tips that you should use to help build your sexual confidence.

Practice, Practice, Practice

If you want to get more confident at the prospect of going down on your man, then you need to practice first. But not necessarily on your man. The best object for practicing on is a peeled banana. It is soft but firm, so it won’t hurt your throat. It also tastes great! There is literally nothing better than using a peeled banana, but if you want, you can also experiment with a dildo or another object.

Just be careful not to push the banana too far down your throat to prevent choking.

Sexual Confidence Is Not Just About Sex

Often girls get confused when I talk about sexual confidence. Being sexually confident is not just about being good at sex. Instead it’s about being comfortable with your body and who you are as well as knowing some great sex positions and techniques.

So if you think that learning every blowjob technique, position and tip is going to give you all the sexual confidence you need, then you are sadly missing an important point. To get sexually confident, you need to get comfortable with who you are. The truth is that nobody is perfect and everyone has things about themselves that they wish were different, but can’t change.

To get more comfortable with who you are takes time. The important thing is to realize that most of the things you worry about are not actually that big of a deal.

Remember That He Is Probably Nervous Too

Don’t forget that guys often lack sexual confidence also. He may be worried about not getting an erection or even about maintaining his erection. He also may be worried about cuming too quickly or not cuming at all. These are the main things that guys get nervous about, but there are tons more.

So the next time you give head to your man, remember…

He will often be too worried about his own performance to notice any mistakes or awkwardness.

Avoid These Blowjob Mistakes & Pitfalls!

To give him a good blowjob requires you using some oral sex positions and techniques AND completely avoid making the following mistakes.

Don’t Use Your Teeth!

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Remember that his penis is incredibly sensitive. That means you need to be careful with your teeth!

This one should be totally obvious, but is often easy to forget. Your man’s penis is the most sensitive part of his body. Using your teeth on it is excruciatingly painful for him. Sometimes it’s almost completely unavoidable because he penis is either too big or your mouth is too small.

But how do you prevent yourself from using your teeth? The answer is pretty simple, just wrap your lips over your teeth. It’s not the most pleasant thing for you, but your man will really appreciate it.

The only time when using your teeth is okay, is when you very gently and lightly drag them over his penis to tease him and give him a slightly different sensation to your soft lips and tongue. Remember, light & gentle. He should barely feel it.

Don’t Use Blow Jobs To Manipulate

Nothing will ruin a relationship faster than if you use oral sex (and regular sex) to manipulate your man. This means withholding sex from him until he does something for you or as a punishment. Obviously there are times when he will be inconsiderate or you will just not be in the mood, which is a perfectly fine reason not to have sex with your man. But using it as a weapon to manipulate him will slowly poison and ruin your relationship.

Don’t Rely On Just One Position Or Technique  (Hint: Use Variation)

When you find a great blowjob technique or oral sex position that your man really enjoys, you may feel like using it every single time you give him fellatio. Don’t. He will invariably get bored of it. Instead, it’s a much better strategy to constantly vary what you do, while using the blow job techniques that he enjoys most a little more often than the other bj techniques you know.

The phrase “Variation Is The Spice Of Life” may ring a few bells. It’s completely true.

Using variation is a lot more satisfying to your man, instead of just relying on the same one or two techniques.

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