Nobody likes having quiet or even silent sex. It’s a complete turn off and a recipe for a very dull sex life. That’s why I am going to teach you exactly how to talk dirty to your man so that you can build sexual tension, keep him deeply attracted to you and most importantly, so that you have incredible sex. After all, incredible sex is why I created the Bad Girl’s Bible in the first place.
The dirty talk phrases below are just a sample of what you are going to learn on this site (click here to skip straight to the dirty talk phrases). They can be used both inside and outside of the bedroom. And they are just as effective when sent as a message from your phone.
However before you rush out and start using the dirty phrases below, there are a 4 things you should first know…
1. If you suddenly start talking dirty to your man and are being extremely explicit, then there is a good chance that he is going to get a little freaked out. It’s a much better idea to slowly introduce dirty talk that is not too extreme or ‘out there’ or explicit. Start slowly and build up to the more intense stuff.
2. You’ll also find that it’s easiest and most natural to introduce dirty talk in the bedroom or when you are both alone. This way there is far less pressure. Once you get comfortable talking dirty to your man in private, then start experimenting elsewhere. There’s nothing more exciting than seeing your man’s reaction when you lean in and whisper something filthy in his ear in a crowded bar!
3. Almost every guy on the planet adores it when you talk dirty to him, but…it’s vital that you quickly learn what type of dirty talk he likes. Some guys prefer it when you are subtle and even polite with you talk dirty to him, while others prefer it when you are super explicit. So one guy might love it when you say something simple and subtle like, “I can’t wait to get you home,” while another may prefer it when you use incredibly explicit dirty talk like, “I can’t wait till we get home so I can get down on my knees and feel your cock throbbing in my mouth.”
The key is finding out which type of dirty talk works best on your man by experimenting and trying it out in different ways, whether that’s sending him these sexts or dirty messages, using these dirty talk examples, these extra 20 examples even these ones or just asking him some dirty questions, like these ones.
4. Most importantly, as I constantly say to girls learning how to talk dirty, you don’t have to be super sexual with what you say. Sometimes the more subtle phrases are great for building sexual tension and to keep him thinking about you. Now, on to the dirty phrases…
I have organized them into groups of three phrases. Each group is slightly more sexual and ‘out there’ than the last.
“I feel so small when you wrap your arms around me.”
“Sometimes my legs get weak when you kiss me.”
“I’ve got a sexy surprise for you later… x” (great when sent as a text message/IM/email)
Semi Sexual Dirty Talk Phrases
“I wish we could just stay in bed and have sex all day long.”
“I love it when you wear tight clothes and I can see your ass.”
“Guess what color my panties are?”
Very Sexual Dirty Talk
“Just being with you makes me wet!”
“If we weren’t at this party and these people weren’t around, I would jump you right now!”
“I miss your cock.” (great when sent as a text message/IM/email)
Super Sexual Dirty Talk
“I just want to be your little fuck doll…”
“I want to feel your cock in my mouth right now.”
“I love it when you fuck me like a slut.”
These phrases are just the start. When you master talking dirty to your man, you will be able to build sexual tension, turn him on and keep him attracted to you with ease. If you want to learn more on talking dirty (including more dirty talking examples), then you will learn pretty much everything you need to know from this dirty talking instructional video. Check it out here.If you enjoyed my tips in this article but want a true sex masterclass, then you may be interested in watching this blow job tutorial video where you'll learn my most powerful techniques & tips for giving your man incredible oral sex. Enjoy!