These dirty talk phrases will keep your man hot for you!
Using these dirty talk phrases is a great way to turn your man on and to add a whole new dimension to your sex life. However before you rush out and start using these dirty phrases, there are a few things you should first know…
1. Most guys really enjoy it when a girl starts talking dirty to them. Only a small percentage of men don’t. So don’t worry if your man happens to be one of those guys who isn’t into it.
2. If you suddenly start talking really dirty to your man, then there is a good chance that he is going to get a little freaked out. It’s a much better idea to slowly introduce dirty talk that is not too extreme or ‘out there’. You’ll also find that it’s easiest and most natural to introduce dirty talk in the bedroom when you are both alone. But once you get comfortable talking dirty to your man, then definitely start using it outside of the bedroom. Using dirty talk in text messages is also really effective.
3. As I constantly say to girls learning how to talk dirty, you don’t have to be super sexual with the phrases and lines your use to turn him on. Sometimes the more subtle phrases are great for building sexual tension and to keep him thinking about you, instead of immediately turning him on.
Below are 12 dirty talk phrases to use on your man. I have organized them into groups of 3. Each group is slightly more sexual and ‘out there’ than the last.
Not Very Sexual Dirty Talk Phrases
I feel so small when you wrap your arms around me.
Sometimes my legs get weak when you kiss me.
I’ve got a sexy surprise for you later… x
A Little Sexual Dirty Talk Phrases
I wish we could just stay in bed and have sex all day long.
I love it when you wear tight clothes and I can see your ass.
Guess what color my panties are?
Very Sexual Dirty Talk
Just being with you makes me wet!
If we weren’t at this party and these people weren’t around, I would jump you right now!
I miss your cock.
Super Sexual Dirty Talk
I just want to be your little fuck doll…
I want to feel your cock in my mouth right now.
I love it when you fuck me like a slut.
But don’t solely rely on saying a few dirty phrases to turn your man on. If you truly want to satisfy your man, then you should also learn some great sex positions along with how to give him a good hand job and blow job.
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I am in a relationship where my partner has been in another country for the past two months, and we will not be reunited for another three months. Is there any way to intensify cyber sex or sexting?
Hi Lynn, check out these 2 articles for some tips:
1) How to have Skype sex
2) Dirty text messaging tips
Hi new to this. I’m in a 3 year relationship and pregnant. Is there any sexy way with pregnancy tips to keep him thinking of me. Lol Ty.
Hi Jennifer, thanks for you question, there is! You can still use pretty much all the oral sex tips on the site and obviously all the dirty talking tips. Just make sure to avoid anything that puts pressure on your stomach or could potentially hurt your unborn child. I will be writing a resource for exactly this shortly…stay tuned!
Hey Sean! Thanks for hearing me out. I think I went overboard with my man from the get-go. I’m a perv most of the time and far more sexual than most chics. My man is less sexual than most guys. And now he thinks that I can only think about fucking and he just rolls his eyes every time I bring up sex. This kills me. It makes me feel unattractive and stupid to tell the truth. And of course, like all taboos, makes me want it more and him want it less. WTF? How do I rectify the situation? How do I turn around what I fucked up from the beginning? I’m so sad with how things have turned out. He’s a very good lover, and this only makes it harder (for me, not him). I want him to want me like I want him! Like before he knew how much I was into him, he was totally into me, but, now that he knows I’m his, he could just as much do without me. I love and adore him beyond words, how do I get him back on the same page? Please help. I’m completely lost and in need of advice. Thank you.
Hi Olivia,
I feel your pain! Although your question is about sex, it’s also very much a relationship one. I really feel that the best thing you can do is to talk to your man about it. Don’t confront him or make him feel uncomfortable about it. But do talk to him about it and see if he understands your situation.
Sean
I have a couple of questions actually, I am married and we have been married for 10 years and we dated 3 years when we first got together we always would hug up and he would kiss me i mean really kiss me and about 5 years ago i had our son and i got very sick i had a massive stroke but now i am better and now all he will do is give me a kiss well a peck (lol). When we have sex he just asks me do u want to do something and i am like what the heck. He never says the word (sex) out loud and he wont let me give him a blowjob or he wont go down on me either how would i get him to have sex other ways than just the missionary way and i want him so bad and it makes me feel like i am so ugly and it is hard just to talk to him about it, i have tried and he gets mad at me for me just ask. Please Help!!!!!!
Hi Ashley,
This sounds like more of a relationship & communication problem with your man. Unfortunately that’s not something I cover in the Bad Girl’s Bible
What I would advise is find out what turns him on and arouses him by talking to him about it.
Sean
Hi Ashley,
I think what you DO NOT need to do is:
1. dont talk to him about it (since you said you already have) because he will feel like your nagging or he cant satisfy you which will not spark passion in him to want to please you more.
What you need to do is:
1. Be pleasant, a smile goes a long way. and you’re probably thinking what’s this gotta do with sex but it overall attitude does have something to do with sex! (in my opinion)
2. Appreciate whatever little he does. dont look at what hez not doin in bed to please you.pay attention to whatever little he is doin right in bed and tell him how great the missionary style was, (Be genuine)
3. Always look your best, exercise and wear clothes that complement your figure. smell nice too. you’ll start feeling good about yourself and when you start feeling confident about your looks and body, you naturally start to appear sexier and appealing.
4.see if anything changes and let me know.
OLivia I am in the very same situation than you with my man. I feel he loves me but sometimes I feel he doesn’t desires me. My man is an amazing lover but he doesn’t like sex like me (or do it with me?). I think I try everything. Abstinence, , being a shy and lovely girl, tantra, kamasutra, white tigress’ things. I don’t want to end my relationship but I feel tired fighting and talking about it. Sean help me!
Hi Sistina,
This is a tricky question as I don’t normally deal with relationship questions. My only advice that I can give you is to talk to him and see if you can get him to be truly honest. Find out what he really wants, what his turn ons are and go from there.
Sean
So, my boyfriend and I have been together for one year, but we live an hour away from each other. I want to leave him speechless after having sex, when we do have time. I want to try new things. Since we are an hour away, I want him to keep thinking about me once I leave, be have things interesting between us! How or what can I do? Please help! Thank you!
Hi Vanessa, you might be interested in checking out the sex tips section for some ideas.
Hi
I have the same situation, with living an hour away. the dirty texting I know does work, but my question is how can I get my guy to ask me to come and visit a little more often. with him bringing it up and not me?
Hi Sarah,
This sounds like more of a relationship question. If you want him to come visit you more, then I suggest you talk to him about that in a slightly more serious way than using dirty text messages.
Sean
Hey, Tell me how to know that whether my partner likes dirty talks or not?
Hi Ritisha,
The key is just trying some light dirty talk to see if he enjoys it.
Sean
How do I learn to swallow? I want to surprise my husband of 18 years with this special thing but I’m’ not sure how to do it without gagging – that would kind of ruin it.
Hi Jennifer,
First try swallowing just a tiny amount of his ejaculate the next time your give him a blowjob. Then if you enjoy that, try swallowing a bit more. Let me know how you get on!
Sean
Sean, I appreciate your website and valuable information, but I disagree with this advice to Jennifer.
A sure-fire way to swallow is just before he ejaculates put the penis deep in your mouth and you will swallow effortlessly without even tasting it.
Hi L Wolf,
Thanks for your comment! This is a great suggestion.
Sean
When you are pleasuring him orally and he about to orgasm, put the tip deep in your mouth, and you will swallow the ejaculate without even tasting it.
Hi, is there any way of pleasing my man, because I don’t do BJs the smell makes me feel sick. Can I do anything else? Thank you.
Hi Lisa,
If you don’t enjoy the smell, then talk to your man about it and make sure that he thoroughly cleans himself before you try it. But if you still don’t want to do it, then why not try giving him a handjob. You can find some great tips in this article on handjobs.
If it’s purely the smell that is a turn off, join him in the shower! He won’t smell like anything except water! And it’s definitely a sexy move on your part.
Hi Sean, 4 some reason i’ve always had a problem talkin dirty not just 2 my man just talkin dirty period n idk y. i made a promise 2 my man n i was that ur word is ur bond. & I really hate breaking a promise. can u plz help me?
Hi Jami,
All the information is here on the site. Try starting out in the dirty talking section.
Sean
hi sean, im afraid of giving a blow job to a man i don’t have a small mouth and small tongue, I’m afraid the guy will think I’m not good or anything, what should i do?
Hi Lilly,
The first thing that I advise is not worrying about it. Most people don’t do it perfectly the first time they try it. Try using just 2 or 3 of my tips from the blowjob section on him. The best way to get better is with experience.
Sean
So tonight I put the baby to sleep early and I told my bf to stay up with me all night and have sex and he sounded like hue was edited but rite after we finished the first round he said he was really tiered and wanted to go to sleep should I be upset or should I just drop it… And the sex was amazing!
Hi Lola,
In my opinion, it sounds like you shouldn’t be upset. Guys often feel tired enough to sleep after sex and your man will be no different. However, you should talk to him to let him know how you’re feeling about it. The key to great sex and a great relationship is great communication after all.
Sean