In this article on dirty text messages, I am going to teach you:
- 3 Dirty Text Message To Send That Will Keep Him Thinking About You.
- 2 Sexy Text Messages To Make Him Horny.
- 4 Dirty Text Messages That Will Build Sexual Tension.
- The 3 Keys To Making Dirty Text Messaging Work.
- 2 Naughty Text Message To Tease And Titillate Him With.
In the main article on how to talk dirty, I explain why all girls should learn how to talk dirty to their man. It’s not just to turn him on. Talking dirty also works great for building sexual tension and keeping him thinking about you as well as teasing him when you are not around. Also did I mention that it will turn him on like crazy?!
Sending dirty text messages or these dirty talk examples is a great way to talk dirty to your man when you are not around. So what kinds of dirty SMS text messages should you send your man to keep him thinking about you?
Dirty Text Messages To Keep Him Thinking About You
I personally find that the most powerful use of dirty messages is to keep him thinking about. Here are some examples that you can send him:
I had this crazy dream about you last night x
Just saw something that made me think of you. x
I was thinking about you last night as I was falling asleep.
All three of these text messages are designed so that they are not very direct, just like some of the dirty talking phrases I’ve written about in the past. You’ll also notice that they are hardly sexual at all. The purpose is to get him thinking and wondering about you, while also telling him something that he would really want to hear.
Dirty Text Messages To Build Sexual Tension
Text messages are the perfect way to build sexual tension with your man. The texts you send can be quite sexual, but the fact that you and your man are quite far apart means that there is a barrier to anything sexual from actually happening (barriers are what build sexual tension). Try sending these messages to your man. You may find that some of them are a little wild and ‘out there’ while others are a little quieter:
I’m going to blow your mind later!
The great thing about this one, is that it could mean a lot of things. It could mean that you are going to give him an awesome blowjob…or it could mean that you are going to show him something cool. By being indirect and not clear like this, you will also get him thinking about you, which is exactly what you want!
I don’t know what it is, but I really need to see you right now. x
I really miss having you inside me. I wish we were in bed right now.
If I didn’t have to go to college/work today I would fuck you really hard!
These messages will build a lot of anticipation with your man. So when he finally does get a chance to be alone with you, he will be pretty much panting like a dog. You will find lot of other great ways to build sexual tension by talking dirty on the main dirty talking page.
Dirty Text Messages To Arouse Him
Keeping your man thinking about you and building sexual tension are 2 of the more subtle ways of sending dirty text messages to your man. A more direct way is sending him a message simply to arouse him. Try these for example:
I want you on top of me now.
I have been reading some tips online that I want to try on you. I think you’ll like them. x
You will find that it’s easier to send your man messages like these when you have been seeing him for a while first, otherwise, it may seem as if you are coming on a little strong!
Dirty Text Messages To Tease Him
You need to be careful when sending your man a message to tease him. It’s important that you are not overly mean to him when you send them in case he gets the wrong idea. Here are some good examples of what you should consider sending him to tease him:
How come I’m always horny when you’re not around. Grrr! x
If you were here right now, I would give you the blowjob of your life!
3 Dirty Text Message Tips
1) Just because the title of the article is ‘Dirty Text Messages’, it doesn’t mean that you can’t send your man these types of messages as an email or private facebook chat or IM.
2) You may be eager to start sending your man all kinds of dirty text messages, but my advice is to first test the waters with some tame messages to see if he’s into it. If it’s clear that he is, then you can proceed to send raunchier messages. If you start off by sending him a message that’s really out there, then you risk him getting weirded out by it.
3) You will notice that there is a lot of overlap between sending messages for turning your man on, building sexual tension, keeping him thinking about you and for teasing him. Don’t worry too much about this. Just keep in mind the 4 main reasons for sending your man dirty text messages so that you always write the message that fits what you want to achieve best.
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I want to send my boyfriend the “I just had a crazy dream about you“ text. What should I say if he replies asking about it? Do I tell him what it was about or do I leave him guessing?? Thanks Sean xx
If he replies, then send him this:
“I’ll tell you about it later!”
Hey guys, I want to have a really sexy night with my boyfriend I want to blow him away. Any tips? And what is the best sex position to pleasure him? I really need a fuck tonight, so please helpppp!
I like doggy style personally, but there are two others! One is if you get your guy to sit on the couch (naked) then you put his dick were you know it goes! And you bounce up and down! The other is I’d you lay down on the bed with you’re legs up and out! Get him to kneel down and wrap you’re legs round his neck! This will stretch out your pussy!! Then he simply thrusts his hard wet cock in you! I had a fuck last night actually and these positions made it worth while!!! I’m planning to fuck with my guy tonight aswell, so do you have any tips?! I want it hardcore and dirty! Oral is fine too!
Hey Sofi, thanks for your comment! I think you are talking about the Anvil and Sofa Surprise positions. Check out the Sex Positions section and the main Blowjob section for more awesome tips!
I really want to use some of these right now with this guy I’ve been talking to for weeks and we like eachother but we just aren’t together yet. What should I do .? Do you think it’s to early for ” sexting” persay.?
Hi Madison,
Unfortunately I just can’t help you with that as I don’t know all the facets of your specific situation. If you are going to use them though, I would suggest that you use the most subtle ones first to judge his reaction and then take it from there.
Sean
How soon in the relationship can you send those text messages?
My boyfriend is away in colorado in the army nd he comes back n february. I want to send hin a turn on sext but wht shud i say ???
Hi Jassy,
It’s totally up to you what you send him, but I would always suggest starting off with something light and judging his reaction, then going from there. The last thing you want to do is send him a super-raunchy text only for it to catch him off guard and freak him out. Something as simple as, “I was thinking about you a lot last night” will work great as it could mean something sexy or simply something romantic.
Sean
My bf likes it when i lick his penis after he cums and i taste it, personally i like the taste it’s creamy and salty!
Any tips on how to include a picture?
Hi Gabrielle,
To be perfectly honest, I believe that including a picture with a dirty text message can be risky in case your man decides to share it with someone else. However at the end of the day, it’s truly up to you with what you do.
Sean
Admittedly, I have this guy who texts me whenever he wants a Blowjob (so I’m technically not a booty call). He texts me when he doesn’t want a BJ too, and I want to send him a dirty text that doesn’t sound romantic but not completely subtle. I don’t dirty talk a lot and when I do, I feel like a loser after attempting to say something dirty. Help?!
I am in a long distance relationship, my bf lives in another country the area is remote and it’s hard to communicate sometimes. The area that he works in sometimes there is no signals at all. I know he loves me but when I’m not able to speak to him it makes me feel some frustrations and insecurities. I love him to death but am scared that we will eventually loose interest. I want to know what to say to him to keep him thinking and smiling when he thinks about me.
Hi Mandy,
It sounds like you are going to need talk to him about this. Unfortunately the Bad Girl’s Bible only deals with one aspect of relationships…sex. However there is much more than just sex that you need to look after if you want to make your relationship last, like a shared connection, great communication, common interests, etc.
Sean
Hey Sean
how often a day or week should the texts be sent to my guy?
I sent him one the other day and he responded with nice.
Please help
Hi Sarah,
Honestly, I advise you to send them infrequently. This way they will never be expected. Instead they will always be a nice surprise for your man. So try to stick to only once or twice a week.
Sean
What are the best positions when youre man is built like a football linebacker 5 ft 11 and 280 and I;m 5 ft 4 and 135 lbs LOL Some of the positions are a lil rough on me
Hi Carolyn,
In general you’ll find most positions where YOU are on top to be best. You may also be interested in some of the spooning positions.
Sean
Hi Carolyn,
The positions that I most strongly recommend in your situation is any where YOU are on top.
Sean
hi…i m in great trouble, my husband has 2nd wife, how can i get him back sexually. plzzzzzz help me
Hi Naina,
Sounds like a tough situation. Unfortunately I don’t offer relationship advice, sorry,
Sean
Hey sean!
Like the previous comment, my bf is 6’2, 235lb, qnd built like a line backer and I’m 5’1 so some positions are a bit tough/rough haha, but my guy really enjoys dominant positions any suggesons for some spice without such diffiuculties?
Hi Steph!
As well as trying the positions where YOU are on top, also make sure to talk to your man to let him know what you do and don’t enjoy. This way he will know what positions are uncomfortable for you and what things he does that you find uncomfortable.
Sean
Hi, having sex for the first time is kind of nerve racking… Um, obviously i am a virgin. I was wondering what position feels the best for him, that wont hurt me a whole lot. We have definitely done other things such as foreplay, ect.. Also, with talking dirty i feel like i might scare him… What should i say first? He is a very nice sweet and caring guy, but he loves to take control.
Thanks
Hi Millie,
When you first have sex, try choosing a position where YOU control how deep you take him. Cowgirl is perfect for this. When talking dirty, start off with slowly with subtle things, then slowly ramp up how explicit you are.
Sean
im with a marine whos in another state he likes sexing when im up for it but im not sure how to start without making it obvious i want to any ideas?
Hi Liz,
Start of with some flirty texts that are vaguely sexual. Send him things like, “I was thinking about you last night” or “I wish you were here right now”. These could potentially be interpreted as something sexy and naughty, but if he’s not digging them, then they can equally just be flirty and fun.
Have fun!
Sean
Sean i think my husband is seeking some sex arousal to his ex wife. Wat do i have to do?
Hi Sierra,
It sounds like a tough situation. I can’t really give you any advice on it as it’s more of a relationship question, not a sex question. My advice is to talk to your man about it.
Sean
I am chatting with my man tonight. Since he is away from me having his holidays and i am working these days. So, i sent him a message that if i am with him tonight, i would fuck him really hard. And he answered why??? What will i say now? Hahahaah
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Hi Zoe,
It’s important to try figure this out yourself, this is how you’ll get really good at talking dirty. All you need to do is text him back something like this, “coz I can’t stop thinking about you…grrr I wish you were here right now”
Sean