How To Have Phone Sex

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How not to have phone sex!

I love your big dick!

You’re going to make me cum so hard!

These are 2 sentences that a lot of people associate with having phone sex. But he thought of using sentences like these for phone sex can be a bit scary for some people.

The funny thing is that phone sex doesn’t have to be ‘wild’ like these sentences. It can be if you want it to be, but it doesn’t have to be. It’s actually something I teach you in depth in the dirty talking tutorial video.

Let me show you how to have phone sex with your man. I’m going to teach you everything from bringing it up with your man to making it really hot and steamy for both of you. But first 2 Ground Rules.

2 Ground Rules

  1. If you and your guy have just started dating, bringing up phone sex within the first week or 2 is a little risky if you don’t know him that well (Unless you are in fuck-buddy relationship).
  2. Testing the water first with a sext message is best.

Bringing Up Phone Sex

You have to start somewhere. But if you suddenly say something that’s really raunchy and dirty, you might scare him off the idea of having phone sex altogether

So you need to be quite subtle about it. The best way to approach it is with some sext messages/im messages like I mentioned in Ground Rule 2.

Here are some great sext messages to send him, that subtly hint that you are interested in having phone sex with him:

I was thinking about you in bed last night

I can’t wait till I see you because…

I wish you were here right now ;)

You’ll notice that all of these text messages are not overly sexual. They could be interpreted as hot & sexy or they could be interpreted as you just letting him know that you like him.

If your man responds well and texts you with something like:

I was thinking about you too!

because I’m awesome in bed?!

So do I!

then you can tell that he is interested in phone sex and you can start sending him raunchier and raunchier text messages. If not, then don’t worry. Try sending another subtle message in a few days time and see how he responds.

Taking Phone Sex To The Next Level

Once your man starts to participate in sexting, you should gradually increase how naughty your sext messages are. Start describing to your man how you want to kiss him, how you want to hold him and what you are doing to turn yourself on.

There is not much pressure when you are sexting with your man because you have lots of time to think of something to say for your responses. That’s why I recommend sexting first.

Now that you are comfortable with sexting and you can tell that your man is too, it’s time to move on to actual phone sex. Again I recommend that you start off fairly subtly with your man, but it does’t have to be too subtle. Try saying something like:

I really like sexting with you, it makes me so wet!

I wish I could kiss you right now.

I’m not wearing anything right now…

If you have already been sexting a bit with him, you are almost guaranteed that these words will turn him on. He may be a bit nervous at first, but he should respond enthusiastically with some steamy things himself.

Most couples find that the first few times they have phone sex together that it can be a little awkward.
But after get through that awkward phase, it becomes really fun and hot for both of them.

So even if you are nervous or feeling a little awkward the first few times you try, just keep going. Eventually it will become second nature to you.

The easiest way to have phone sex is to simply describe what you are doing. So if you are naked in bed and feeling hot and horny, just describe it to your man. If you are caressing your body, then tell him. If you want to give him a blowjob, then let him know. If you want him to lick you out then tell him. It’s really that easy. Just keep the 3 tips below in mind when you are doing it:

3 Phone Sex Tips

1. Private Comfortable Places Are Best - It’s a million times easier to have phone sex with your man when you are somewhere that’s comfortable and private, where you can call your man without being disturbed. This will help you relax and get into the rhythm of phone sex a lot more quickly.

2. Slow, Seductive & Sultry Voice - Phone sex is a million times more effective when you speak slowly and seductively. Cracking jokes and talking really fast is not a turn on for guys, especially if you are trying to have phone sex. So try practicing your voice a little bit beforehand, it’s totally worth it.

3. You’re Not Working In A Call Center - What I mean by this is that you need to be enthusiastic about phone sex. When you are working in a call center, you voice is boring, uninterested and unenthusiastic. You are barely thinking about what you want to say, and you don’t really care about the outcome. If you talk like this during phone sex, then you are going to have trouble arousing your man. So remember, be enthusiastic.

If you are looking for more great tips, techniques and help on learning how to have phone sex with your man, then I highly suggest that you take a moment to watch the dirty talking tutorial video. It will show you the most important techniques (and examples) to use on your man when talking dirty to build sexual tension, turn him on and keep him attracted. Click here to watch it now.

The Dirty Talking Video…A Step-By-Step Guide

Secret If you are interested in learning more about how to talk dirty to your man, then you should check out this free presentation I just recorded. It will teach you everything you need to know about talking dirty to your man. Click Here To Watch It Now.


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  1. Tina November 5, 2013 at 6:19 am #

    Sean, thanks for mentioning that at first it can be awkward, that is the truth! Thank you!

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