30 Dirty Things To Say To A Guy

dirty things to say to a guy, bad girls bible, sean jameson

Talking dirty to your man is a really simple & quick way to spice up your relationship.

Learning how to talk dirty to your man can be very nerve wrecking…especially that first few times you try it. Whether it’s mustering up the courage to do it or actually thinking of what to say, it can leave you a little nervous.

Quick Note: If you want to learn my most powerful dirty talking phrases, tips & techniques, then you will learn a lot from this dirty talking tutorial video. Enjoy!

Fear not, the Bad Girl’s Bible is here with 30 different dirty things to say to your man to arouse him, make him blush and keep him thinking of you. You’ll notice that I’ve divided up the article into 3 sections: A Little Dirty, Very Dirty and Filthy Dirty.

I always advise students when they are starting off with finding dirty things to say to their man that they should try out some of the ‘A Little Dirty’ phrases first. This is for a few different reasons. The first is simply that these ‘A Little Dirty’ phrases are a lot easier to say to your man whereas the ‘Very Dirty’ and ‘Filthy Dirty’ phrases & examples can be a bit more difficult and nerve wrecking to say to your man.

The second reason is to test your man. The truth is that the vast majority of guys really do enjoy dirty talk, but there are still quite a few guys who don’t. If your man happens to be someone who doesn’t enjoy dirty talk, then it’s better to test the waters first with something tame, rather than saying something really extreme and wild.

One Last Thing – The last thing I want to say when learning new dirty things to say to your man is that getting good at talking dirty takes time. I hope this really sinks in…

Getting good at talking dirty takes time.

You are not going to become a dirty talking diva just by reading a few lines on the internet. You become one by learning some example dirty phrases, trying them out on your man, keeping the ones that work well, improvising some of the phrases all while adding more and more to your dirty talking repertoire. It’s a long process, but once you master it, it’s a skill that your man will really appreciate and will make him highly likely to reciprocate.

Not onto the goods!

A Little Dirty

Here are 10 dirty things to say to your man that are a bit on the tame side, but still effective:

  1. I was thinking about you today.
  2. I wish we had more time alone if you know what I mean.
  3. I love running my hands all over your body.
  4. You make me feel so small when you hold me.
  5. You look really sexy when you wear that shirt/jeans/top.
  6. It’s so hot when you grab me in public.
  7. I can’t wait to get you home.
  8. I want to bring you to the shower and wash you.
  9. I love the idea of being stuck on a desert island with just you and a bed!
  10. If I offered to cook for you in lingerie and heels what would you say?

Very Dirty

These next 10 dirty things to say to your guy are a little more kinky. Enjoy!

  1. Feeling you dominate me is so dam hot!
  2. Hearing you moan in my ear during sex is so sexy.
  3. I get so wet when you pin my arms above my head during sex.
  4. I’m going to give you the wettest blowjob tonight.
  5. Do you want to try anal with me?
  6. You know…I’m not wearing any panties!
  7. You’re gonna make me cum so hard.
  8. I wore this skirt just for you.
  9. If there wasn’t so many people around, I would fuck you right here, right now.
  10. I’ve been so horny all day long, do you think you could help me out?

Filthy Dirty

These next dirty things to say to your man are just like the headline, Filthy Dirty!

  1. I wish I could have your cock inside me all day long.
  2. Fuck me like I’m just your little whore.
  3. I want to feel you shoot your load in my mouth.
  4. I just wanna be your sex slut.
  5. Grab my hair and fuck me like a dog.
  6. I want to feel your cum all over my face.
  7. I’m going to jerk you off until I get every last drop out of you.
  8. Lets spend the entire weekend together completely naked!
  9. Fuck me, fuck me!
  10. Pound me harder!

These are just a small sample of dirty things that you can say to your guy to turn him and and make sex a lot hotter for the both of you. If you are interested in learning more, then I strongly suggest you use the techniques I teach in this dirty talking instructional video.

If you enjoyed my tips in this article but want a true sex masterclass, then you may be interested in watching this blow job tutorial video where you'll learn my most powerful techniques & tips for giving your man incredible oral sex. Enjoy!

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  1. MIRIAM says

    These tips have really been helpful.Ever since I subscribed,my partner has always been looking foward to spending the time with me…ALONE

  2. sammy says

    These dirty tips are out of this world sean you need medals! Ive just met sum1 who am getting close to and i cant wait to use some of these a BIG THANKS SEAN!

  3. manda says

    When I was reading everything and following mm all your advice religiously.. I definitely noticed a difference in the way my fiance was towards me. Luv your tips

  4. Devon says


    I just have to say thank you and please keep it coming!!! Last year I got out of a long term relationship with a man that did not enjoy dirty talk or anything too wild in the sex department. I know weird and very boring. Our ultimate doom. A few months ago I met a new man and he is very much into the dirty talk and kinkier things with sex. I love it, but I felt like I was completely overwhelmed and very out of practice with these things that I enjoyed. Your tips have given me the renewed confidence to try new things and make sure that things don’t get boring in my new relationship. The best part is that I have the confidence to be me. My new boyfriend says that I’m a “goddess” and a “bad girl” that he can’t get enough of. I just smile and say “Thank you Sean” in my head when he calls me those things, especially a bad girl! That one gives me a wicked smile!

  5. belinda says

    Thank you so much Sean ….have been married for a year now n I will say my husband n I sex relationship was so boring until I joined the BGB ever since almost six months now my husband always close from work early n he doesn’t spend time with his frds anymore our marriage is so full of happiness n on now de best in everything u know what I’m trying to say right …n he lovely every bit of it.thank u n pls I wanna know do u have any sex tips for pregnant women …Cos I’m three month pregnant n I’m scared to have any sex for now….

  6. Siza says

    Hi Sean,

    Thank you for being a wonderful Master, I am a better student now. When I met my partner, he was a very shy man who was quiet during lovemaking but now he is a very changed man, gone is that “reverend” in the bedroom, he screams his lungs out now. Lol
    He told me that blowjob has never been his “thing”, but now he is always looking forward to getting one.
    I somehow have suspicions that he is also one of your students, he is always ON FIRE these days.

    Thanks once more.

  7. Mary says

    I’ll tell my husband while I’m giving him a blow job my mouth is so dirty you have to wash out my mouth with your sex juices

  8. Angie says

    Dear Sean,
    First of all, I’d like to thank you for your help and advice on how to improve your sex life. I’m 36 year old and I have to say that when it comes to sex, I never got the opportunity to explore my sexuality very much.
    . For the past 3 years I’ve been seeing my boyfriend and he is very much into blowjobs. This is something I could not do very well. So it was very frustrating to learn how to do it properly without causing him any pain. 3 years later, I got really good at it, one thing I did learn about myself is that I love pleasuring my boyfriend. Now I can give him up to 5 to 6 bjs a day. Problem is relationship wise it’s not going good. We’re always arguing we still can define what our relationship is. I felt like this whole time I was just a girl who gives him blowjobs than his girlfriend. Is it bad to say now I hate giving blowjobs because I was with someone who treats me bad?

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