How To Swallow Cum With Ease – 3 Simple Steps

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You may already have read about the Bad Girl’s Bible and our legendary blowjob techniques. Well today, I want to cover what you can do at the end of your blowjob to make it a wonderful experience for both of you.

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Don’t worry! Swallowing your man’s load is not about turning your mouth into a urinal!

Learning how to swallow cum is an interesting topic. For some girls, the thought is terrifying, while for others it can be very erotic and fun. This guide will teach you how, you’ll learn:

  • How To Make It Taste Better. It’s Actually Really Simple.
  • When You Shouldn’t Swallow His Load.
  • Why You Don’t Have To Swallow It.
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Swallowing your man’s load is something you are going to be doing after giving him a blowjob (if you are looking for tips and techniques on how to give a blowjob, you’ll find tips here, here and here, while if you are looking for tips on giving a handjob, then check out this article). One of the main psychological reasons why your man may want you to swallow his load after cumming is that it’s a submissive gesture. And lets be honest here, a lot of guys like to take the dominant role when having sex with a girl. Another (and sadder reason) is because he has seen it in a porno and wants to try it out himself.

1. What Does Cum Taste Like?

Your man’s cum will usually taste a little bitter and salty, but it usually doesn’t taste completely awful. The taste of your man’s cum depends a lot on what your man has just eaten. A lot of girls have found that if their man has been eating something like asparagus, artichokes or anything greasy it will taste a lot nastier than usual.

However, if your man has been drinking a lot of fruit juice or eating a lot of sweet fruit a few hours before you go down on him, it will taste quite sweet and will make it much easier to swallow.

2. How To Swallow His Load

Swallowing your mans load is fairly easy. All you need to do is just allow him to ejaculate into your mouth. Then when he is finished orgasming, just swallow it. Sometimes, you might want to wash it down with a glass of water or something like fruit juice/soda to mask it’s taste.

WARNING: I only advise swallowing your man’s load if he is completely free of STD’s/infections. To do otherwise is dangerous to your health.

3. I Don’t Want To Swallow His Cum!

You may be in a relationship with a guy who really wants you to swallow his cum, while you may not want to swallow it. That’s perfectly fine. The important thing is to talk to him about it. Great relationships are based on mutual understanding and respect. You should never allow a guy to do something to you that you don’t want him to do. Make sure that he knows this.

As with almost all safe sexual practices, my advice is to try it at least once with a guy that you like, before deciding whether or not swallowing a guy’s load is something you enjoy or don’t enjoy.

If you plan on finishing off a blowjob by swallowing your man’s cum, then make sure that you give him a great bj. The Bad Girl’s Bible has great tips on everything from blowjobs to giving your man a handjob to great sex positions.

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  1. Always Learning October 15, 2012 at 4:36 pm #

    Hi Sean,

    I have always had a great, fulfilling sex life with my partner with wonderful communication. I am always looking for ways to improve, enhance, or spice up things. My question would be this. Would it be easier to swallow if he ejaculates further back or does the location of his release have no effect on making it easier for me to swallow at all? Thank you so much for your time and most of all for your wonderful information!

    • Sean October 31, 2012 at 10:52 am #

      Hi, thanks for your question! To be honest, if he ejaculates further back, then he’s more likely to hit the back of your throat, triggering your gag reflex (not something you want when your man is having an orgasm!). It may taste worse when he ejaculates into the front areas of your mouth, but importantly you have more control over where it all goes.

    • alice June 21, 2014 at 1:30 pm #

      hi! I’ve been swallowing since my first bf, 11 years ago, I use that saliva+cum technique :) when he cums in my mouth (and just before when I feel he’s gonna cum) I produce more saliva and mix it to the cum so it doesn’t taste bitter and it’s easier to swallow (especially with thick cum).

      Very efficient :)

  2. Mario Fellini July 17, 2013 at 1:40 pm #

    As I gay man who has a lot of experience with swallowing come I can tell you that it is tricky. You have to know his cock before opening your mouth for him to deposit his load. Some men come in squirts, others let the come out like a slow flowing river.

    First you should let him handle his own cock just a moment before he comes. Most men like that. Point his cock to the side of your mouth otherwise there may be some gagging involved.

    I always let him handle his cock while coming and after he is done I slowly close my mouth around his dick and with my hand at the lower part of his shaft I squeeze as much come as I can out of it. I keep the cock in my mouth for as long as he will let me while I slowly swallow it. Men love it.

    • Pieter March 7, 2014 at 9:32 pm #

      Bliksem! Wish some girls can take note of your tips!!

    • tex March 24, 2014 at 7:08 am #

      If this was facebook, I would click like!

      I am a straight guy who loves it when his gay and straight friends swallow….
      One day, I hope to try it… thanks to you…. I will be ready

  3. nelly October 7, 2013 at 11:22 pm #

    Hi Sean, i just have one curious question, after my guy cums into my mouth,how long should i massage his cock with my tongue? i’m afraid i’ll ‘over-do it’ and make him feel sore or something.

    • Sean Jameson November 11, 2013 at 8:25 pm #

      Hi Nelly,

      The best answer I can give you is…ask him! He will have the best answer for you as all guys are different and have different preferences.


  4. lee December 22, 2013 at 8:13 pm #

    I love when a guy shoots a huge thick load all over my tongue, then I love to play with it for awhile , like blow cum bubbles or swirl it around my tongue then swallow every drop……. I do prefer a black mans cum over a white mans tho, Idk why I just think that black guys have a much thicker cum load and it tastes much much stronger wich I just love, If Im gonna swallow anothers mans load then I want it to taste like a REAL man !!!

  5. ant December 30, 2013 at 5:08 pm #

    can i ask as a guy cums, what is best todo, as shoots out fast, how deep in mouth, swallow in one etc x

    • Sean Jameson January 9, 2014 at 11:47 am #

      Hi Ant,

      Honestly, it’s up to you and what you are most comfortable doing.


  6. Sigrid January 19, 2014 at 11:21 am #


    I really want to do this to my partner, but I have really bad gag reflexes, and to me, his cum tastes disgusting.
    Right now, I can’t keep it my mouth for a second, without gagging.. :(
    So my question: any tips on how to get used to the taste, and maybe eventually like it?

    - Sigrid

    • Sean Jameson January 20, 2014 at 7:35 am #

      Hi Sigrid,

      There are a few things you can do. The first is making sure that your man avoids eating any fatty foods in the hours before sex and instead tries to drink a lot of pineapple juice (up to 2 liters). That’s my advice for him. If you want it to taste better, then you may find that having a drink or 2 before going down on him helps you to avoid being able to properly taste it.


      • Sigrid January 21, 2014 at 3:19 pm #

        Thanks for tips!
        The only problem might be that I’m allergic to pineapples…

        • Joe April 15, 2014 at 4:47 pm #

          Snickers is supposed to work also.

  7. Gary May 22, 2014 at 5:09 am #

    Have a shot of sweet liquor (such as blackberry brandy) nearby and gulp down the shot mixed up with the semen right after the guy ejaculates in your mouth. Double-plus good!

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