How To Swallow Cum With Ease – 3 Simple Steps

You may already have read about the Bad Girl’s Bible and our legendary blowjob techniques. Well today, I want to cover what you can do at the end of your blowjob to make it a wonderful experience for both of you.

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Don’t worry! Swallowing your man’s load is not about turning your mouth into a urinal!

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Learning how to swallow cum is an interesting topic. For some girls, the thought is terrifying, while for others it can be very erotic and fun. This guide will teach you how, you’ll learn:

  • How To Make It Taste Better. It’s Actually Really Simple.
  • When You Shouldn’t Swallow His Load.
  • Why You Don’t Have To Swallow It.

Swallowing your man’s load is something you are going to be doing after giving him a blowjob (if you are looking for tips and techniques on how to give a blowjob, you’ll find tips here, here and here, while if you are looking for tips on giving a handjob, then check out this article). One of the main psychological reasons why your man may want you to swallow his load after cumming is that it’s a submissive gesture. And lets be honest here, a lot of guys like to take the dominant role when having sex with a girl. Another (and sadder reason) is because he has seen it in a porno and wants to try it out himself.

1. What Does Cum Taste Like?

Your man’s cum will usually taste a little bitter and salty, but it usually doesn’t taste completely awful. The taste of your man’s cum depends a lot on what your man has just eaten. A lot of girls have found that if their man has been eating something like asparagus, artichokes or anything greasy it will taste a lot nastier than usual.

However, if your man has been drinking a lot of fruit juice or eating a lot of sweet fruit a few hours before you go down on him, it will taste quite sweet and will make it much easier to swallow.

2. How To Swallow His Load

Swallowing your mans load is fairly easy. All you need to do is just allow him to ejaculate into your mouth. Then when he is finished orgasming, just swallow it. Sometimes, you might want to wash it down with a glass of water or something like fruit juice/soda to mask it’s taste.

WARNING: I only advise swallowing your man’s load if he is completely free of STD’s/infections. To do otherwise is dangerous to your health.

3. I Don’t Want To Swallow His Cum!

You may be in a relationship with a guy who really wants you to swallow his cum, while you may not want to swallow it. That’s perfectly fine. The important thing is to talk to him about it. Great relationships are based on mutual understanding and respect. You should never allow a guy to do something to you that you don’t want him to do. Make sure that he knows this.

As with almost all safe sexual practices, my advice is to try it at least once with a guy that you like, before deciding whether or not swallowing a guy’s load is something you enjoy or don’t enjoy.

If you plan on finishing off a blowjob by swallowing your man’s cum, then make sure that you give him a great bj. The Bad Girl’s Bible has great tips on everything from blowjobs to giving your man a handjob to great sex positions.

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If you enjoyed my tips in this article but want a true sex masterclass, then you may be interested in watching this blow job tutorial video where you'll learn my most powerful techniques & tips for giving your man incredible oral sex. Enjoy!

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  1. Always Learning says

    Hi Sean,

    I have always had a great, fulfilling sex life with my partner with wonderful communication. I am always looking for ways to improve, enhance, or spice up things. My question would be this. Would it be easier to swallow if he ejaculates further back or does the location of his release have no effect on making it easier for me to swallow at all? Thank you so much for your time and most of all for your wonderful information!

    • Sean says

      Hi, thanks for your question! To be honest, if he ejaculates further back, then he’s more likely to hit the back of your throat, triggering your gag reflex (not something you want when your man is having an orgasm!). It may taste worse when he ejaculates into the front areas of your mouth, but importantly you have more control over where it all goes.

    • alice says

      hi! I’ve been swallowing since my first bf, 11 years ago, I use that saliva+cum technique :) when he cums in my mouth (and just before when I feel he’s gonna cum) I produce more saliva and mix it to the cum so it doesn’t taste bitter and it’s easier to swallow (especially with thick cum).

      Very efficient :)

  2. Mario Fellini says

    As I gay man who has a lot of experience with swallowing come I can tell you that it is tricky. You have to know his cock before opening your mouth for him to deposit his load. Some men come in squirts, others let the come out like a slow flowing river.

    First you should let him handle his own cock just a moment before he comes. Most men like that. Point his cock to the side of your mouth otherwise there may be some gagging involved.

    I always let him handle his cock while coming and after he is done I slowly close my mouth around his dick and with my hand at the lower part of his shaft I squeeze as much come as I can out of it. I keep the cock in my mouth for as long as he will let me while I slowly swallow it. Men love it.

  3. nelly says

    Hi Sean, i just have one curious question, after my guy cums into my mouth,how long should i massage his cock with my tongue? i’m afraid i’ll ‘over-do it’ and make him feel sore or something.

  4. lee says

    I love when a guy shoots a huge thick load all over my tongue, then I love to play with it for awhile , like blow cum bubbles or swirl it around my tongue then swallow every drop……. I do prefer a black mans cum over a white mans tho, Idk why I just think that black guys have a much thicker cum load and it tastes much much stronger wich I just love, If Im gonna swallow anothers mans load then I want it to taste like a REAL man !!!

  5. Sigrid says


    I really want to do this to my partner, but I have really bad gag reflexes, and to me, his cum tastes disgusting.
    Right now, I can’t keep it my mouth for a second, without gagging.. :(
    So my question: any tips on how to get used to the taste, and maybe eventually like it?

    – Sigrid

    • says

      Hi Sigrid,

      There are a few things you can do. The first is making sure that your man avoids eating any fatty foods in the hours before sex and instead tries to drink a lot of pineapple juice (up to 2 liters). That’s my advice for him. If you want it to taste better, then you may find that having a drink or 2 before going down on him helps you to avoid being able to properly taste it.


  6. Gary says

    Have a shot of sweet liquor (such as blackberry brandy) nearby and gulp down the shot mixed up with the semen right after the guy ejaculates in your mouth. Double-plus good!

  7. Bobby says

    You also don’t need to swallow at all. Most guys are thrilled that you just let them cum in your mouth. Keep the blowjob going and it will dribble out. Its hot and a tactful way of not swallowing…

    • Ray says

      Most guys pretend to be thrilled because they are conditioned to have low sexual expectations. Swallowing is a lovely demonstration of your partner’s pleasure and desire for you. A good blow job is nice (and sadly rare because we’re taught men are just happy to be in there!) finishing in the mouth is better, and having your cum swallowed is the best! I’m glad this site, at least, recognises male sexual experience is as drawn-out, complex and nuanced as it is for females. It’s true, nobody should do anything they don’t want to, but sexual pleasure is (or should be) mutual – don’t expect a giving partner if you aren’t one yourself. Imagine the condemnation for a man who objected to tasting a woman’s fluids down below!

  8. Donnie says

    I like to suck on a breathmint, spearmint is my favorite, and drink lemon water before I give head. After he cums I can swirl it around in my mouth before I swallow and then drink more lemon water before I go back down to milk every last drop. I have only gagged and spit twice because his their load was just too much to handle,

  9. Solly Sol says

    Hi there
    My wife swallows cum very often. She loves the taste and finds much enjoyment in it. If for some reason she doesn’t want to swallow , and want only a mouth full, she tells me beforehand and I oblige by giving her the signal when I am ready to ejaculate. Holding her breath she blows out her cheeks, letting my semen fill the side of her mouth, and when I’m done, she disposes of it in the bathroom or in a face cloth or tissue she keeps on hand.

  10. Pandora says

    I stumbled upon this page but want to thank you all for your honest candor.

    I am a woman who loves to give her man a great blow job, but have always had trouble swallowing. Even after trying sweet juices to reduce the bitterness. It’s more of a texture thing for me.

    I’ve talked with my partners about this problem (to me it’s a problem). They tell me they think it’s just as hot to let them cum in my mouth and let it dribble down. Or to cum on my chest instead.

    I do whatever I can to please him but feel bad that I can’t swallow for him.

    Any other suggestions?

  11. zeluxolo nkosi says

    You’re all disgusting and will burn in hell only vaginal-penile sex is allowed nothing more nothing less

  12. Shirley says

    Hey, I’m going to try and swallow cum for the first time and I’m really excited for that… so is my partner.
    I was wondering, what do men feel about playing with cum in the mouth, as a woman in a previous comment said she likes to ” blow cum bubbles or swirl it around my tongue then swallow every drop” do guys like this? do they find it hot?

    • says

      Hi Shirley,

      The answer is, it depends. It depends on his preferences and desires. He may love it or hate it. They only way you’ll find out though is by talking to him about it.


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