6 Killer Blow Job Techniques To Make Him Scream With Pleasure!

As insider members of the Bad Girl’s Bible already know, using the right blowjob techniques on your man can literally addict him to you. So with this in mind, I want to show you 6 of our best bj techniques for giving him incredible oral sex.

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When you first learn to give oral sex to a guy, you won’t know too many blowjob techniques. You may even be a little nervous and excited about it the same time. However, as you do it more and more with him, you’ll quickly start to gain confidence. At this stage, you may start feeling like learning some new blow job techniques to use on him. Fortunately, help is at hand. Below are a number of my favorite intermediate BJ techniques to use on your man when giving him oral sex.

Extra Luscious

As a guy writing this, I can honestly tell you that the more wet and juicy a blow job feels, the better. In other words, the more lubrication you can use, the better. If you are someone that can easily produce large amounts of saliva, then great, this won’t be a problem for you. But if you are someone who has a lot of trouble producing a saliva, then you might consider using a water based lubricant. My advice is to use a flavored lube, so it tastes nice for you as well as feeling great for your man. The closest thing that I could find to flavored lube for making a blowjob feel more luscious, silky and smooth is homemade Jello.

The Twister

While the Extra Luscious technique is super easy to do, The Twister takes a little bit more work. To do it, you need to take your man’s penis into your mouth and start off giving him a blowjob as normal. To then start The Twister, you need to slowly and gently spin your tongue right around your man’s penis in a circular motion while his penis is in your mouth. This motion will allow you to stimulate all of the head of the penis and a bit of his shaft too. So you are not taking his penis into and out of your mouth, instead it stays in your mouth the entire time.

When you are performing The Twister, you need to be careful not to hurt your man’s cock, by accidentally pushing it onto your teeth. If your man happens to be well hung and have a large girth, then you may have trouble performing The Twister without hurting him. As readers of the Bad Girl’s Bible already know, I teach some really cool variations of The Twister that your man will adore.

Icy Cool

Icy Cool is probably the easiest technique to use on your man. It’s also really fun to surprise him with. All you need is to have a 1 or 2 small ice cubes nearby when you are going down on your man. During your blowjob, take one of the ice cubes and just slip it into your mouth. If your man doesn’t see what you are doing, then he is in for a real surprise. The sudden cool feeling will feel wonderful for him.

Let’s Get Handy

Obviously giving your man a blowjob involves sucking on his penis. However, just because you are giving your man a blowjob, it doesn’t mean that you can’t use your hands at the same time. While some girls use their hands on their man’s stomach or legs to control how deep they take their man into their mouths, you can also use it on his shaft to provide extra stimulation.

The best way to do this is to just take the first inch or so of his penis into your mouth. Then use your hand (or hands) on his penis to masturbate it. So your hand(s) will be jerking him off on his shaft while at the same time you are using your mouth and tongue to stimulate the head of his penis (also called the glans).

Ball Play

Just as you can use your hands to jerk your man’s cock while you give him a blowjob at the same time, you can also use your hands to massage your mans testicles. But before you jump ahead and start doing it, you really have to understand that they are incredibly sensitive and it can be really sore if you don’t it right.

The best way to start off massaging your man’s balls is to gently tickle them with your fingers. If your man is comfortable with this, try cupping them in your hand and gently massaging them by lightly pressing and squeezing them. Again, make sure to be careful not to massage them to hard.

Enthusiasm

Enthusiasm? You might think this is a joke, but…

Enthusiasm is by far the most important aspect to giving your man a satisfying blowjob.

Why?

It’s simple. Men like to be with girls who like them and are attracted to them. They want to be with girls who can’t wait to get sexual with them. They don’t want to be with girls who aren’t turned on by them. It all comes down to men’s egos. All men like to think that they are cool and attractive and that girls want them. By being enthusiastic when you give your man a blowjob, you are showing him that you enjoy getting sexual with him.

So how can you show your man that you are enthusiastic?

It’s pretty simple. The easiest way is to be proactive. So try taking the lead from time to time. Lead him into the bedroom, rip his trousers off him. Push him onto the bed. You get the idea…

[photo credit: Linda Cronin]

If you enjoyed my tips in this article but want a true sex masterclass, then you may be interested in watching this blow job tutorial video where you'll learn my most powerful techniques & tips for giving your man incredible oral sex. Enjoy!

 
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Comments

    • kitten says

      Hahaha Preachhhh.
      Don’t get me wrong; nothing except maybe sitting on one…is better than going down on a nice hard cock and watching his face melt into happiness …yeh jaw gets tired after a while. Often do wonder if he could cum whenever he wants to but he’s prolonging orgasm just to keep me sucking… Well, hell. I guess I don’t blame him.

  1. KiKi says

    These tips have helped me a lot. My boyfriend loves it and is always asking me to do it! And I’m getting better and better everyday, he said I used every tip in one night, when we were drunk and loved it!! Thank you for the tips they work wonders (:

  2. Kiesha says

    Hi sean I been with this guy for 4yrs and I never made him cum he said no one ever made him cum when he gets a blow job what can I do

    • Sean says

      Hi Kiesha,
      This can be a tricky one. It sounds like your man has delayed ejaculation (sometimes called retarded ejaculation). The method I suggest that you use to get over this is simple, yet quite difficult for your man:

      Firstly get him to avoid masturbating for up to a month. That means no self-touching at all. After a while he will become quite sensitive and much more likely to ejaculate from you giving him a blowjob. You’ll also find that a very small percentage men don’t actually like blowjobs that much. There is the possibility that you man is one of them.

      • Ali says

        Hi Sean, February 1st makes me & my girlfriend a year & she’s kinda hesitant about giving me a blowjob. How do I make her feel more comfortable about it?

        • says

          The key is talking to her about it and taking baby steps. She should try starting by giving you a hand job and getting comfortable with that, then moving on to something like licking the head a few times.

          Sean

      • Amber says

        Dear Sean
        I have recently been having a sexual relationship with a 37 year old man and I am 18 I tried giving him head (oral) and he didn’t cum he would get hard then get soft then get hard again but would not cum and I have never ever had a man not cum for me actually men have loved the tricks I do with my mouth what is the difference between oral sex for a young man and oral sex for An older man what does older men prefer when it comes to oral ……….is it more mental than physical

        • says

          As men get older, their testosterone levels start to drop, making it harder for them to get and maintain an erection. This is especially true for guys that are out of shape or who don’t do much exercise. So as frustrating as it can be, don’t let it bother you too much. Additionally some guys have trouble reaching orgasm from oral sex, but have no problem cumming during regular sex. It just depends on the guy.

    • Daddy_likes says

      If a girl really loves giving head (must have it) she can make a guy cum even with the worst blowjob.

      I’m the same way. If he truly enjoys and wants a blow job then you need to be totally enthusiastic. In a way it’s not just the sensation it is part visual and you have to look and sound the part if you will. You have to be sexy. Put on eye make up. And say sexy sensual things to him. Bigger yet use the 69 position to show your beautiful privates to his eyes. I even love seeing sexy underwear myself. Basically you have to stimulate all his senses. But above all he needs to believe you really enjoy having him in your mouth. Think of it akin to overloading his senses to make him believe he is inside your other private part.

      If I don’t feel that the girl is really into giving head then its a total turn off for me. I assume you can take that to the bank for any other man unable to climax from a blowjob.

      The coup de gras would be to qickly alternate with regular penetration. Each time bringing him closer and closer to climate when inside of you eventually when he is on the cusp of exploding inside of you quickly take him in your mouth and and keep him in your mouth (think of it as practicing or getting him acustomed to being able to climax in your mouth). Or even maybe surprising him when he is behind you quickly turn around and suck him. Even after regular sex. Don’t stop after he finishes. Women get multiple orgasms at least I wish all girls get to enjoy that. Why shouldn’t a guy get a bonus after climaxing. Note as someone else stated gagging is not a turn on. You need to show that you enjoy cum in your mouth.

      Take heart.. if a guy doesn’t give a shit about a girl than he wouldn’t care if a girl hates oral sex. So if he can’t climax because he gets the vibe that your not really into it than hey at least he cares?

      FYI. I’m not sure about the ice cube technique. The peppermint is nice. But warm tea was nice. For me warm liquid reproduces the warms of a women’s privates incredibly. If any women ever wonders what a man gets to enjoy the only thing I can come close to discribing the sensation is the enjoyable feeling of warmth sensation enveloping a mans member along with the ribbed feeling of the vaginal canal.

      Hope that helps. Best of luck!

  3. Chany says

    Kiesha, my husband is the same way. I started using the handy while combining all the other techniques and that worked for him. He says he can’t get it out of his head now and I feel proud of myself lol. Hope it helps.

  4. Principessa says

    Hi Sean,

    Loved the tips, but could you do a section on deep throating as well?

    Regards,

    Principessa

    • Amber says

      Dear principessa
      Beautiful name by the way
      I use to cling at the thought of deep throating now I enjoy it
      My sister gave me the best tip ever and has worked and Everyman is surprised
      Slowly put it down your throat inch by inch slowly take him in your mouth and when u get comfortable look up at your man and see the pleasure on his face and once u get him all the way down your throat make a couple slow swallows and you don’t have to do this but about three times and he’s putty in your hands

  5. Steveo says

    Just wanted to add my $0.02, I study female anatomy a lot and experiment and solicit her feedback, so I’m covered on the “pleasing her” aspect.

    For me, the best BJ is still half handjob, around the base. You can work the base at different/faster speeds than you can with your head, and it simulates a deep penetration feel when in sync with the mouth, and the mouth provides a lot of lube for the whole assembly.

    I don’t like “gagging”, that doesn’t sound like fun for anyone so you don’t need to be marylin chambers to give an awesome bj.

    Suction, lots of it, like you cant wait for him to cum. If you are trying for climax then tell him not to hold back, save the endurance stuff for penetration. And slurping so it vibrates the skin is awesome too. I saw an asian chick make a guy cum with just one long slurp proceeding from base to tip before he even had a chance to get hard.

    Other hand cupping the balls or stroke his prostate if he is willing. Unfortunately, mother nature put the guys g-spot in his ass :( You will have to be a trustworthy person for that move.

    Keisha, I am sorry to hear that. Do you have the same issue with other guys? It might be an attraction thing (heck it might be a sexual orientation thing). I can’t see telling someone not to masturbate, though I could see offering to watch and learn and help, but you should find someone who is more compatible with you sexually, if sex is important to you. Mutual satisfaction is terribly helpful.

  6. Sheli says

    I absolutely love the sick in my mouth. Sometimes more then being pleased my self. I’ve came across a technique using halls throat lozenges. It taste great and puts a different feel for him. Like the ice but last a little longer. Can you give me any other suggestions to put in my mout that will tantize my partner?

  7. simply me says

    hello net friends. go to sonic the next time your there get the peppermint candy… DO NOT THROW THEM AWAY
    put one in your mouth just before you start to make your man happy. keep it in your mouth while your sucking on his penis. start out slow and then build as he moans in delight. take the tip of his penis and suck it hard and fast while keeping the peppermint in your mouth. he will reward you happily
    thajek

  8. Eddie says

    As a guy, extra juice is not always what I look for. As a matter of fact, I like it very much as long as the lips can remain dry or just moist. But the lips need to be stuff. It is a feeling not easily described because this way there is more friction.

  9. Sexy lady says

    Hi Sean, The last couple of times i have given my boyfrined a bj had got him to the point to where he wants to cum and it feels like it coming.. but he doesnt so we have to fuck in the last part of the bj and he gets all light headed from it.. What can we do to where he cum’s when he wants to?

    • says

      Hi,

      There is a small proportion of guys who have trouble with cumming from a blowjob. Your best option is to get him to stop masturbating for a week or 2 beforehand and he should be sensitive enough to orgasm from a blow job.

      Sean

  10. chi says

    While you are licking his balls, slide your tongue down and gently lick his butt, pushing the tip of your tongue against the hole. This will make your man go wild, especially if he did not ask for it.

    • says

      Hi Emily,
      For sure, it all depends on what you feel comfortable with. You could tell your man how much you are looking forward to going down on him along with exactly what you’re going to do to him before you go down on him. During the blow job itself, you could let him know how good he tastes and how hot he makes you. Make sure to check out the dirty phrases section, along with all these dirty talking articles for more advice. This video should also help give you some ideas on what to say to him.

      Sean.

  11. Usagi says

    Hi Sean,

    I am having trouble making my man cum when giving him a blowjob it seems to take ten minutes or more to get him cum is there a way to make him cum faster?

    • says

      Hi Usagi,

      That seems fairly normal to me. One way to get him to cum faster is to get him to refrain for a few days or even weeks before orgasming. This way, he’ll be super sensitive.

      Sean

  12. Rosey says

    Lick him all the way. Start by licking his dick starting at the tip circle it if you want to then go to his balls then to his butt. Make sure its a surprise!

  13. Crazymom says

    Hi Sean
    My boyfriend has performance anxiety when it comes to sex.. I am not the type to brag but I do consider myself pretty good at giving blowjobs and I’ve had great results with my exes and never had any problems. With my current boyfriend, he has a tendency to go soft in the middle of a blow, and I’ve tried everything to make him comfortable.. And he cums fast.. I wanted it to last longer so he could enjoy the blow more than just 3 minutes of me beginning.. What do you recommend?

    • says

      There’s a few things you can try….

      – He could have a few drinks to try an relax.
      – He can try masturbating with a tighter grip to desensitize his penis.
      – You can try talk to him to see if there is anything he’d prefer you to do that might help.

      Let me know how things go.

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