Don’t worry, you don’t need to be a giraffe to learn how to deep throat without gagging.
Learning how to deep throat your man without gagging is a powerful skill to posses. However it often takes a long time to learn. This guide will help to quickly get you up to speed so that you can give your guy great deep throat every time.
Deep throating involves taking your man’s penis deep into your mouth, where it often enters your throat. While this feels great for your man, it can often severely irritate your throat and cause you to gag or even feel like vomiting. The main thing you must learn if you want to be able to give your man great deep throat is to control this gag reflex so that you can comfortable take your man’s penis into the back of your throat.
Controlling Your Gag Reflex
Controlling your gag reflex takes time. If you are one of those lucky girls who doesn’t have a gag reflex then you can skip this section. The key is to slowly desensitize it and these steps will show you how.
- Using either a finger or a peeled banana is best. Just place it into your mouth and slowly edge towards the back of your throat.
- Eventually you will feel it hit the back of your throat where it will trigger your gag reflex. When this happens, hold it there and don’t move it.
- You now need to maintain your breathing through your nose while at the same time heavily concentrating on relaxing your throat. (Sometimes this is really easy and sometimes this can be quite tough. The key is to keep trying, even if you do find yourself accidentally gagging every now and then.)
- Hold the banana steady at the back of your throat for up to 10 seconds. Don’t try to move it in or out.
- Try doing this for 3-7 times every day for a week. You’ll start to find towards the end of the week that it will get a lot easier and your gag reflex won’t be as sensitive
- Your gag reflex will becomes less and less sensitive over the coming weeks, as you continue practicing. Once you notice this, then it’s time to take it a step further. Every once in a while, try moving the banana slowly in and out of your mouth so that it’s repeatedly brushing off your gag reflex. The first few times you try this, your gag reflex will be heavily stimulated making you feel like throwing up. But it’s important to try your best to stay calm, keep breathing and relax (even if your throat is in spasms!).
- After a few weeks of this, you will have eventually worn down the sensitivity of your gag reflex to the point where you are quite comfortable taking a banana deep into and out out your throat without convulsing or coughing excessively.
- Now you need to try it with your man!
Just 8 steps, sounds easy!
The truth is that it’s actually really difficult to eliminate your gag reflex completely. However, with this training, you can still get it under control so that you can give your man deep throat without accidentally throwing up on him.
Deep Throating In Real Life
When you are deep throating your man in real life, you should start off giving him a regular blowjob, before slowling transitioning to giving him deep throat. This is so that you can quickly transition back to the blowjob or even a handjob if you are uncomfortable with it.
I don’t recommend making a big deal out of it with your man. It’s actually better if you say nothing at all and just surprise him by giving him deep throat when you are fully comfortable practicing on the banana. That way there will be less ‘performance pressure’ on you to make sure it goes perfectly right.
FAQ On Deep Throat
Q: What’s with all the saliva?
A: When you deep throat your man, you will notice that you produce huge amounts of saliva. This is perfectly natural and you won’t be able to prevent this, so try not to worry about it too much. On the plus side, it will help to lubricate your blowjob/deep throat, making the whole experience more enjoyable for your man.
Q: I don’t like bananas! What else can I practice on?
A: The truth is that a peeled banana is the cheapest item that is commonly available that resembles a penis. The great thing about a peeled banana is that it has no sharp bits or edges. It also is soft and deforms if you apply to much pressure to it, meaning that you never have to worry about hurting yourself with it.
Q: I’ve been following your steps for X number of weeks and my gag reflex will still not disappear. What can I do?
A: Certain people have incredibly sensitive gag reflexes that just won’t disappear, even with all the training in the world. If you are one of these unfortunate people, then rather than wasting hours on training that won’t fix the problem, your best option is to try one of the other techniques that you can find on the site.
Q: I don’t want to give my man deep throat, but he’s insisting that I do. What should I do?
A: My opinion is that all great relationships are based on trust, respect and mutual understanding. It’s important that your man understands this. So you need to talk to him to make sure that you are on an equal footing and that he’s not calling all the shots without listening to you.
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I would much rather suggest practicing with a sausage than a banana.
When you deep throt, your throat opening squeezes really tight around the object and a banana will often break very quickly, especially if you’re gagging. It’s both dangerous and ruins the practice.
A sausage also has skin on it, which will get slippery like a penis would which will help with sliding it down your throat.
Start with a thin but long one until you’re used to having something pass your throat opening and then move on to a sausage with more girth.
Last but not least, don’t be afraid of gagging! It’s what helps produce that thick viscosity spit that will help you go down on his member so much easier!
Hi Fayone,
Excellent suggestion! One thing I would suggest though is to use a cooked sausage (make sure you allow it to cool first) to avoid any possible diseases transferring from the sausage to your throat.
Sean
Hi Sean,
Great advice! I think practicing on a hot dog wiener may be better… bananas have a tough fibrous end that may scratch the throat, what do you think?
Fayona’s comment about “Last but not least, don’t be afraid of gagging! It’s what helps produce that thick viscosity spit that will help you go down on his member so much easier!” really makes sense, (seems to be something a guy would love to hear too)
What is your opinion on a numbing gels? I’m no deep throat champion but this stuff makes all the difference in the world. Seems like the “sex positive” community frowns on numbing gels for the butt but I never see anything about numbing gels for the throat. What is your expert opinion? Thanks!
Hi Cazzie,
My opinion is ‘to each their own’ as long as they are not hurting anyone.
Sean