How To Deep Throat Without Gagging

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Don’t worry, you don’t need to be a giraffe to learn how to deep throat without gagging.

 

Learning how to deep throat your man without gagging is a powerful skill to posses. However it often takes a long time to learn. This guide will help to quickly get you up to speed so that you can give your guy great deep throat every time.

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Deep throating involves taking your man’s penis deep into your mouth, where it often enters your throat. While this feels great for your man, it can often severely irritate your throat and cause you to gag or even feel like vomiting. The main thing you must learn if you want to be able to give your man great deep throat is to control this gag reflex so that you can comfortable take your man’s penis into the back of your throat.

Once you know how to control your gag reflex, deep throat will be just as easy as giving a regular blowjob to your man.

Controlling Your Gag Reflex

Controlling your gag reflex takes time. If you are one of those lucky girls who doesn’t have a gag reflex then you can skip this section. The key is to slowly desensitize it and these steps will show you how.

  1. Using either a finger or a peeled banana is best. Just place it into your mouth and slowly edge towards the back of your throat.
  2. Eventually you will feel it hit the back of your throat where it will trigger your gag reflex. When this happens, hold it there and don’t move it.
  3. You now need to maintain your breathing through your nose while at the same time heavily concentrating on relaxing your throat. (Sometimes this is really easy and sometimes this can be quite tough. The key is to keep trying, even if you do find yourself accidentally gagging every now and then.)
  4. Hold the banana steady at the back of your throat for up to 10 seconds. Don’t try to move it in or out.
  5. Try doing this for 3-7 times every day for a week. You’ll start to find towards the end of the week that it will get a lot easier and your gag reflex won’t be as sensitive
  6. Your gag reflex will becomes less and less sensitive over the coming weeks, as you continue practicing. Once you notice this, then it’s time to take it a step further. Every once in a while, try moving the banana slowly in and out of your mouth so that it’s repeatedly brushing off your gag reflex. The first few times you try this, your gag reflex will be heavily stimulated making you feel like throwing up. But it’s important to try your best to stay calm, keep breathing and relax (even if your throat is in spasms!).
  7. After a few weeks of this, you will have eventually worn down the sensitivity of your gag reflex to the point where you are quite comfortable taking a banana deep into and out out your throat without convulsing or coughing excessively.
  8. Now you need to try it with your man!

Just 8 steps, sounds easy!

The truth is that it’s actually really difficult to eliminate your gag reflex completely. However, with this training, you can still get it under control so that you can give your man deep throat without accidentally throwing up on him.

Deep Throating In Real Life

When you are deep throating your man in real life, you should start off giving him a regular blowjob, before slowling transitioning to giving him deep throat. This is so that you can quickly transition back to the blowjob or even a handjob if you are uncomfortable with it.

I don’t recommend making a big deal out of it with your man. It’s actually better if you say nothing at all and just surprise him by giving him deep throat when you are fully comfortable practicing on the banana. That way there will be less ‘performance pressure’ on you to make sure it goes perfectly right.

FAQ On Deep Throat

Q: What’s with all the saliva?

A: When you deep throat your man, you will notice that you produce huge amounts of saliva. This is perfectly natural and you won’t be able to prevent this, so try not to worry about it too much. On the plus side, it will help to lubricate your blowjob/deep throat, making the whole experience more enjoyable for your man.

Q: I don’t like bananas! What else can I practice on?

A: The truth is that a peeled banana is the cheapest item that is commonly available that resembles a penis. The great thing about a peeled banana is that it has no sharp bits or edges. It also is soft and deforms if you apply to much pressure to it, meaning that you never have to worry about hurting yourself with it.

Q: I’ve been following your steps for X number of weeks and my gag reflex will still not disappear. What can I do?

A: Certain people have incredibly sensitive gag reflexes that just won’t disappear, even with all the training in the world. If you are one of these unfortunate people, then rather than wasting hours on training that won’t fix the problem, your best option is to try one of the other techniques that you can find on the site.

Q: I don’t want to give my man deep throat, but he’s insisting that I do. What should I do?

A: My opinion is that all great relationships are based on trust, respect and mutual understanding. It’s important that your man understands this. So you need to talk to him to make sure that you are on an equal footing and that he’s not calling all the shots without listening to you.

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  1. Fayona March 30, 2013 at 4:35 pm #

    I would much rather suggest practicing with a sausage than a banana.

    When you deep throt, your throat opening squeezes really tight around the object and a banana will often break very quickly, especially if you’re gagging. It’s both dangerous and ruins the practice.

    A sausage also has skin on it, which will get slippery like a penis would which will help with sliding it down your throat.
    Start with a thin but long one until you’re used to having something pass your throat opening and then move on to a sausage with more girth.

    Last but not least, don’t be afraid of gagging! It’s what helps produce that thick viscosity spit that will help you go down on his member so much easier!

    • Sean Jameson April 9, 2013 at 11:47 am #

      Hi Fayone,

      Excellent suggestion! One thing I would suggest though is to use a cooked sausage (make sure you allow it to cool first) to avoid any possible diseases transferring from the sausage to your throat.

      Sean

    • David August 9, 2013 at 7:26 am #

      I see your thought here, and it makes great sense once you start to enter the esophagus… I think the point is for it to be soft initially just for the gentle stimulation of the relax itself. Once you want to practice penetration, your idea is perfect. The point about the girth of the sausage option in perfect too!!! I never paid attention, but it is handy since it’s not just sausage that comes in different sizes!!! LOL I will definitely pass that one on to a friend. She used to deep throat for her ex, but can’t handle it because her husband is so much thicker. Taking your idea, I will get her to find some sausage a tad thicker than her ex and have her get used to it and then step up to a thicker one, and so on… until she can handle one the size of her husband. She’s gonna love you for that suggestion I promise!!! BTW: I love the advice on the gagging… I have taught a few GF’s how to deep throat and never really made that correlation. I guess it’s easier to notice on the giving side!!! lol

      Cazzie, YES it can be an OMG turn on to hear the gagging sound. I want to know she is OK for me to be able to enjoy it, but if she is in full control or hasn’t indicated there is an issue… that “struggle to manage my cock, in an all out effort to pleasure me” is d@amn near enough to make me cum on its own!!! Same thing applies to the gagging/struggling when someone first learns to swallow too!!!

      As for the banana’s “fibrous” issue… notice it said a PEELED banana!!! :o)~~

      On the numbing spray: I’m in the medical field, so first let me say this is NOT IN ANY WAY “medical advice!!!” Just take what you want from it.

      The main reason a woman’s gag reflex exists is to make those without one better at blow jobs than everyone else!!! Right??? j/k!!! Seriously though, it is to protect your “airway” so you can breath. Overdose on pain meds and alcohol (in addition to other things) knock out a person’s gag reflex and is part of what can kill them… i.e. falling asleep on their back and drowning in vomit, etc… Women I have been with who had no gag reflex I could really detect will still gag/cough when something “goes down the wrong hole” so to speak.

      Now, I totally agree with Sean on “to each their own”. That said, from a medical standpoint think about what I just told you above. From a “real life” standpoint, I would only let a GF use it if you can be EXTREMELY aware of your actions and use as LITTLE as possible!!! You want to make the reflex “something you can control/tolerate.” You DO NOT want to be drooling like you went to the dentist’s office!!! At that point it’s very possible you will not know you are “aspirating” until it is too late. (Fluid going into your lungs which can cause a type of pneumonia, and other life threatening issues such as sepsis.) The same “numbing spray” if sprayed in the wrong spot, or even inadvertently inhaled while spraying it in the right spot, will numb your cough reflex too. If you are going for the facial, cool… Just remember if you are so numb you don’t feel him in your throat, when he cums, you are too numb to notice if he pulls out of your throat… hence you are also gonna have trouble realizing you need to start swallowing until it is too late and you could very well end up aspirating on something a LOT thicker than your saliva!!!

      Putting all that together, have you ever had water (or worse coke) has gone down the “wrong hole” before? Have you ever found yourself hacking to get rid of it? Now think of a decreased the ability to cough as hard… Now thing and realize that if it burns in the eyes, it will probably (I’m guessing here) burn other mucus membranes too, similar to soda maybe… Oh yeah, one more thought: If you cough for 10 min on liquid soda, how long will have to cough to get something as thick as semen coughed up? If you swallow (which is the what makes sense anyway, from my standpoint lol), you probably never noticed, but a portion of semen is designed to coagulate and basically form globules. Imagine those forming in the tube you are trying to breath through! The good news? It will liquify. The bad news? In roughly 15-30 MINUTES!!!

      Don’t get me wrong, if something is completely consensual… then I’m all for it. So I’m not saying “don’t” I’m just wanting you make sure you realize there is some risk.

      One last note, from the guys side… if it makes your throat numb, it will make his penis numb too!!! That’s basically the same stuff they put in the “endurance gel” for guys.

  2. Cazzie April 23, 2013 at 9:01 pm #

    Hi Sean,
    Great advice! I think practicing on a hot dog wiener may be better… bananas have a tough fibrous end that may scratch the throat, what do you think?

    Fayona’s comment about “Last but not least, don’t be afraid of gagging! It’s what helps produce that thick viscosity spit that will help you go down on his member so much easier!” really makes sense, (seems to be something a guy would love to hear too) ;) What is your opinion on a numbing gels? I’m no deep throat champion but this stuff makes all the difference in the world. Seems like the “sex positive” community frowns on numbing gels for the butt but I never see anything about numbing gels for the throat. What is your expert opinion? Thanks!

    • Sean Jameson April 29, 2013 at 10:27 am #

      Hi Cazzie,

      My opinion is ‘to each their own’ as long as they are not hurting anyone.

      Sean

  3. jim stud July 11, 2013 at 12:40 pm #

    Doc Johnson.com has a 10′long 1″ across, 3 1/2″ around toy that works out for learning to get something INTO your throat and around the corner. It’s solid enough to push unlike a banana with no chance of part of it breaking off in the throat. It’s also very smooth and very cleanable. Can also be used for getting used to the idea of anal play/

  4. Guess who January 4, 2014 at 2:31 am #

    For obvious reasons this comment has to be totally anonymous, as I am a guy and have deep throated a friend. I simply have always felt it unfair to ask my lady to do something without knowing what it entails, apart from basic sex of course. So I know what cum tastes like and I know how to deep throat. What I found made it posible was quite simply, extend the tongue out as far as you can, and when your guy’s cock gets to the point of the gag réflex, start swallowing, and keep swallowing, as with food. Even when pulling it out again, keep up the swallowing action as that eliminates the gag réflex. After all, we don’t gag when we swallow food do we? Have fun and go deep.

  5. Karen February 16, 2014 at 1:08 am #

    That`s so helpful!!!! I can swallow like, 4 inches penis but i only did it once when i was so drunk i could barely think, sobered up when i felt semen running down my throat and was like wtf am i doing? I will use the sausage and see what it happens. my date is gonna be so…. pleased.

  6. Rock April 14, 2014 at 1:48 am #

    It’s great useful for my girl to learn how she can give a wonderful oral sex to me! She has been felt so difficult to do a perfect deepthroat while she perform a blowjob. But now she can take a whole cock fully in her mouth. Thanks a lot!

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