If you are serious about improving your sex skills and keeping your man happy, then it’s crucial that you learn some really solid oral sex techniques to make sure that you always satisfy your man. These blow job tips below will help to get you up to speed fast!
Your tongue plays an incredibly important role during oral sex. Don't forget to use it!
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As you can imagine, there is obviously an entire section devoted to the art of giving your man a great blowjob. But as well as that, we have a whole section dedicated to learning how to talk dirty to him.
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Ok, so this is all very good Sean, but what about some oral sex techniques that I can use tonight!
No problem…Try some of these.
Oral Sex Foreplay
Often people seem to think that giving their man a blow job simply involves taking your man’s penis into your mouth and sucking on it.
There is a whole lot more that you can do before you even take his cock into your mouth.
Instead of just taking it straight into your mouth, try doing some of these things first…
Kiss It
Yes, that’s right, try kissing his penis for a little bit before you start giving him a blowjob. Try doing it for between 10 seconds and a whole 2 minutes. You can gently kiss him all over his penis with your lips.
Also try squeezing his penis lightly between your lips while kissing it.
The reason? First of all, it feels great for your man. The second reason is that it acts as foreplay and builds up the tension massively before you actually do take your man’s penis into your mouth and start giving him a blowjob.
Lick It
Licking his penis is a natural extension of kissing it. It feels even better than when you kiss it, especially if you use a good bit of saliva.
The easiest way to lick his penis is using your tongue to lick slowly from the base to the tip. But feel free to experiment with other styles to. You may just want to concentrate on the head of his cock or you may want to pay some oral attention to his balls. Or maybe you’d like to combine the 2 and add in some kissing too.
Blow It
When I say blow it, I don’t mean that you should give him a blow job like you normally would. I mean that you should literally blow on his dick. If you have been kissing it and licking it for a while, then you will have left some saliva on his penis (the more the better).
When you gently blow air over it, it will leave your man with a nice cooling sensation.
Don’t Forget About AROUND His Cock
You know how good it feels when your man pays some attention to the areas around your vagina before oral sex or even before regular sex? Well your man enjoys it just as much.
So don’t forget about giving his inner thighs, balls and even his ass some attention with your hands, fingers and mouth before you get down to giving him a blowjob.
Sometimes Hot, Sometimes Cold
Now I’m not talking about becoming an ice princess when I mention this oral sex technique. I’m talking about the actual temperature of the blowjob you give your man. There are some really great ways that you can make it hotter or colder.
These hot and cold sensations that you can give your man during oral sex are great for making the entire experience completely different but still really pleasurable and very, very fun!
How To Make It Hotter
So you might be wondering what you can do to make your blowjob hotter than usual for your man. The best way is to just take something into your mouth that will warm it up for him.
The most common thing that comes to mind is…hot water. It’s simple and every house has it.
But unfortunately hot water is kind of boring and it has the same consistency as saliva. There are way more interesting and sexy things that you can use that will also make his blowjob feel different.
What about warm apple sauce ?
Or custard?
Or maple syrup?
Or chocolate sauce?
These are just a few of the different things that you can take into your mouth to warm it up AND give him a completely different texture to his blowjob.
How To Make It Colder
Contrasting hot with cold feels wonderful. The easiest thing to use to make it colder is obviously ice. But like using hot water, it’s actually pretty boring for your man. There are WAY better ideas.
Why not use cream?
Or yoghurt?
Or ice cream?
Or frozen berries?
All of these things will make it way more enjoyable for your man AND give him a completely different sensation than just using ice or saliva. Cream, yoghurt and ice cream will make it feel smooth, while frozen berries will make it feel tingly.
If you are planning on giving your man a hot/cold blowjob, then the best way to do it is by keeping a bowl of what you plan to use beside the sofa or bed or wherever you plan on giving him the hot/cold blowjob.
The last thing I have to say on hot/cold blowjobs is that you need to use them sparingly. You need to use them as a treat for your man. They are not something that you should use every single day. 2-3 times a month is the maximum your should use them on your man.
Very Slow & Sensual
Ok, so we have talked about foreplay and changing the temperature that you give your man his blow job at. But what other oral sex techniques can you use on him?
Not only is it powerful, but it makes giving your man oral sex easier too!
The next time you go down on your man and are giving him oral sex, keep doing what you normally do, except this time, slow it right down so that you are going at a 1/2 or even a 1/3 of the speed that you’d normally give him a blowjob at.
As you go slower, try to apply more pressure to your man’s penis with your tongue, lips, and mouth. But especially focus on using your tongue to apply more pressure as your taste buds on your tongue feel slightly rough to your man which give him a ton of extra pleasure.
You’ll find that as you go slower, it’s actually far easier to give him a blowjob as you have better control over how deep you take him.
To Tooth Or Not To Tooth?!
I am very clear about how sensitive your man is down there. I always warn people when trying out new oral sex techniques that they should avoid using their teeth as they can really hurt their guy.
But there is a small exception to this rule.
If you have given your guy oral sex at least 2 or 3 times before, then you will start becoming more comfortable with each other and more relaxed too.
At this stage, you may want to start having some fun with him and teasing him a little while you’re down there.
A great way to have some fun with him is to very gently nibble his penis between your teeth. Remember that the emphasis is on GENTLY. You’ll literally just be holding his penis between your teeth.
If you want to know how soft you need to be, just try it with a peeled banana. You should be so soft on the peeled banana, that you barely leave any marks at all.
So there you have it, 5 awesome oral sex techniques to use on your man to massively increase the amount of pleasure you give him! [photo credit: mauro.puppett_photography, creative commons]
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