119 Best Sex Positions (With Pictures!)

by Sean Jameson, author of The Blowjob Bible and The Bad Girl's Bible.
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This sex positions section of the Bad Girl’s Bible is one of the most important. Below you will find instructions and information on every enjoyable, popular sex position as well as some of the more exotic ones. Enjoy!

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Girl On Top aka Straddling Your Man

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Being on top and taking control can be really fun!

If your man is always on top during sex or in the ‘dominant’ position, then straddling him is a great way to switch things up and take on a more dominant role yourself. Below you will find some of the best Girl On Top sex positions:

Sitting Sex Positions

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Why not sit down and let your man do the work?

These sitting sex positions are great if you have tired or sore legs. If you want your man to do the majority of work, while you literally “sit back and enjoy the ride”, then try out these positions below:

Standing Sex Positions

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Got bored of having sex in bed? Then try it standing up!

Some of these standing sex positions are great for when you want to have more physically vigorous sex with your man. Another great thing about having sex while standing up is that you don’t need a bed. Perfect for when you want to have sex around the house and elsewhere….

Sitting Down On Your Man’s Lap Sex Positions

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Sex positions, where you sit down your mans lap can make for some really intimate sex.

Any sex position where you are sitting down on your man’s lap means that you can make a lot of body contact with him. Perfect for when you want to have more intimate sex!

Exotic Sex Positions

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If you find yourself getting bored with the ‘Regular’ sex positions, then try some of these exotic ones!

All of these exotic sex positions are quite hard to classify, so I decided to give them a section to themselves as they are either a lot different from the other sex position groups or they are very difficult to perform.

If you ever want to try something radically different, then I highly suggest that you try out one of these. Although you might want to stretch first!

Lying On Your Side Sex Positions

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Lying on your side can make for some really slow & sensual sex for both you and your man.

If you are tired or would prefer your man to do the bulk of the work during sex, then you should try some of these lying on your side positions. A lot of these positions also include Spooning or a variation of Spooning, which is pretty much the most intimate lovemaking position you can do with your man.

Lying On Your Back Sex Positions

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There are plenty of positions when lying on your back. This is great for those who like their man on top.

These sex positions all involve lying on your back. This includes probably the most famous of all sex positions, Missionary. If you prefer your man to be in a more dominant position than you during sex, then you should try some of the positions below:

Lying On Your Stomach Sex Positions

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Having sex while lying on your stomach is great if you are really tired and want to relax.

Having sex with your man while lying on your stomach can be very relaxing and intimate or alternatively, it can be quite vigorous, hot and sexy depending on what type of mood you are in.

Doggy Style Sex Positions

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If you enjoy ‘taking it from behind’ then you’ll love all these different variations of Doggy Style!

Doggystyle sex is probably the most talked about sex position. Most couples find Doggystyle sex to be naughty and hot, while some find it a great way to hit angles they wouldn’t otherwise hit. But Doggystyle doesn’t just involve one position. There are a lot of different variations, which you will find below.

Kneeling Sex Positions

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Sometimes it’s really fun to switch things up and to try having sex while kneeling.

When many folks first start trying out new sex positions, they immediately try variations of the most common positions, like Missionary or Doggystyle. It turns out that most of these ‘regular’ positions involve you either lying on your back or on your stomach.

For a lot of couples, these variations of ‘regular’ positions are just too similar. If you are finding this to be the case, then why not try out some of the kneeling positions below. They all involve you being on your knees.

69 Sex Positions

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Oral sex is one of the most enjoyable parts of getting physical with your man. That’s why we included these different 69 positions!

The 69 sex position is great for those who like to both give and receive oral sex. But there is more than one way to do the sixty nine with your man.

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  1. Canoe June 22, 2012 at 7:36 am #

    I totally want some of these for lesbians!

    • Clair February 2, 2013 at 10:33 pm #

      Me too!

      • ash March 18, 2013 at 4:40 am #

        Me three

        • TayBaby April 19, 2013 at 7:38 pm #

          Me four!

  2. Josh September 29, 2012 at 1:20 pm #

    What r some good blow job position for bi males

  3. Princess Cadence November 7, 2012 at 6:51 am #

    I REALLY want to try these out now! I think my BF will bow to me and call me a Goddess for sure!

    • Sean November 20, 2012 at 10:39 am #

      Awesome! Good luck and I hope everything goes well!


    • Prince Shining Armor December 9, 2012 at 5:06 pm #


  4. Justice December 15, 2012 at 5:57 am #

    I’ve done alot of these positions before ever coming to this site. Found some new ones I’m dying to try. Thank you sean

    • Sean January 2, 2013 at 5:20 pm #

      No problem Justice, glad you like ‘em

  5. Craig December 27, 2012 at 9:03 pm #

    My partner & I have full night sessions to which we do everything from all positions, all penetrations , all over the house(and back yard grass ) and sex toys . We are very fit , very private but an extremely Erotic couple.
    Although we are extremely satisfied my Beautiful girl is now thinking of other things that we can do ( in her words “im going to up the anti ” ) , from ice cube penetrations to weeing on each others privates and each other (very stimulating) . Im looking for ideas that will keep me ahead of her “Anti” . I,am Her masculine prince charming with a great imagination , can you suggest any ideas , any book , or any web site.

    • Sean January 2, 2013 at 5:07 pm #

      Hi Craig, thanks for you comment, thankfully I have a solution for you…It’s called the Sex Bucket list (click here to read it now). Make sure to add your own ideas in the comment section that aren’t mentioned on the list to help out other couples.


  6. krista January 27, 2013 at 10:08 pm #

    Just let me say.. WOW!! cant wait to try some of these out with the hubby. Things have been in a bit of a rut since our youngest son was born in September. Thanks for this site I am getting tons of great ideas to spice things up a bit :)

    • Sean Jameson January 30, 2013 at 8:58 am #

      Great to hear Krista, let me know how you get on


  7. Sepide February 8, 2013 at 10:17 am #

    Great! Need a partner, BTW :(

    • farshid August 11, 2013 at 9:11 pm #

      Sepide I live in tehran and ready for you ! how we can contact ?

  8. Miri March 1, 2013 at 2:13 am #

    What would you say are the top 3 or 5 most intimate positions?

    • Sean Jameson March 5, 2013 at 9:47 am #

      Hi Miri,
      The answer is…it depends. Different people enjoy different positions and different things sexually. However in general I would say whatever position offers the most skin-on-skin contact is the best for intimacy.


  9. lacie March 2, 2013 at 3:50 pm #

    Im younger and new at sex, my boyfriend isnt though. What are the easiest positions thatll keep him…. not as bored??

    • Sean Jameson March 5, 2013 at 9:30 am #

      Hi Lacie,
      I know you may think that I have the answer to this, but the truth is your boyfriend does. Communication is key, so ask him about what kinds of positions he gets the most enjoyment out of and what types positions he enjoys the most. Even get him to take a look at the sex positions section for some ideas.

  10. jackline March 3, 2013 at 9:17 am #

    I wanna know if boobs get bigger after men sucks it or touches it

    • Sean Jameson March 5, 2013 at 9:27 am #

      Hi Jackline,
      Emm…interesting question. I guess it depends on a person to person basis.

  11. lacie March 19, 2013 at 5:03 pm #

    Im really skinny and very flexible, unlike my boyfriend whos kinda chubby, what are the best positions to do so I dont get crushed but dont do all the work also??

    • Sean Jameson March 26, 2013 at 9:00 am #

      Try some of the sex positions where you are lying side by side and he is behind you if you don’t want to do too much work. You may also be interested in trying out some of the girl on top positions too, although these require a bit more work from you.

  12. mary March 31, 2013 at 11:07 pm #

    Hi,what is the best safe and comfortable position for anal s** for a virgin girl?

  13. faisal April 6, 2013 at 2:41 am #

    U rem0vd my ques???

    • Sean Jameson April 9, 2013 at 11:38 am #

      Hi Faisal,

      This is possible. I have just changed hosts, so it may have gotten lost during the migration process. If you want to post your question again, i’ll be happy to answer it


  14. Annie April 13, 2013 at 8:15 am #

    God bless you Sean..I’m dying to be with my baby..I’m going to successfully perform some of these awesome positions with him and blow his mind away..! :)

    • Sean Jameson April 19, 2013 at 8:57 am #

      Hi Annie,

      Great to hear! Let me know how it goes.


  15. Renate April 16, 2013 at 9:29 pm #

    My boyfriend and I are both still virgins. He actually really wants to have sex with me (I guess because he’s a guy), but I’m afraid. My body is as ready as it can be though it’s a bit tight down there. I love him and I want to have sex with him too but I’m afraid it will hurt and such. Do you have any tips for me (or actually for us) like what position we can use? Missionary won’t work because my boyfriend is a bit overweight and I can hardly breathe when he is on top of me. Do you have any tips please?

    • Sean Jameson April 19, 2013 at 8:39 am #

      Hi Renate,

      The most important thing is communicating this to your man, so that in the moment he is aware that he may be hurting you. If you are quite tight, then one thing you should definitely use is some lube. This will help to alleviate any potential pain. As for positions, try some of the girl on top positions, that you’ll find in the sex positions section.

      Have fun!


  16. nitty April 23, 2013 at 11:49 am #

    very useful website sean…. and very helpful too…
    i hav some query whenever i do sex with my gf she is in lot of pain(unbearable according to her) irrespective of the positions so no enjoyments we do only orals.. and she is shy to try out new positions…
    what should i do.. help me man…

    • Sean Jameson April 29, 2013 at 10:32 am #

      Hi Nitty,

      Try talking to her about it to find out the root cause of the problem. But the best option is to have her go see a doctor about it.


  17. lacie May 1, 2013 at 2:23 am #

    Heyy Sean, me again, i gave my bf head last night and could not make him.. you know, he said it wasnt me and that it was because of the fact my mother was right inside and could walk out any moment, i guess he was nervous?? Was that a lame excuse or can that really happen??

    • Sean Jameson May 6, 2013 at 8:36 am #

      Hi Lacie,

      Absolutely this can happen, so don’t worry about it at all. It really isn’t a big deal. Some guys are more sensitive compared to others, so some find it easier to orgasm than others. If your guy isn’t that sensitive, then he is going to take a little longer to orgasm.

      If he feels under pressure to come, then it’s highly likely that he won’t. So try to focus more on both having a good time and enjoying yourselves as opposed to getting to the end.


      • lacie May 8, 2013 at 10:58 pm #

        Thank you so much!

  18. sherry May 11, 2013 at 3:17 pm #

    I was told by my boyfriend of seven years that I basically suck in bed… he said the work is one sided and when I asked what I should be doing he said if I haven’t figured it out by now then I’m not going to… I must say I am pregnant with my fourth child so mobility has declined.. two of our kids sleep in the same bed and often watch us have sex because he is set on them sleeping with us and this makes my job harder with a two year old in my face. I am at a point where I am at a loss as I thought our sez life wasnt bad. I regularly give blow jobs and we experiment a lot. This morning our sex started off with two babies asleep in the bed while I was woke up to being poked and ployed into sex. foreplay included his hand and eventually face in my vaginal area and I gave him a blowjob. I started to get abdominal cramps about forty minutes into the session. mind you I didn’t even get to pee before beginning. so cramps were probably caused by this. anyway, so I went to pee to help and when I got back I was told all the work was one sided.. with two kids in the bed… so when I asked what am I supposed to do? I was told if I haven’t figured it out yet I’m not going to. what do I say to that… so I tell him maybe he needs to teach me what he wants and he said I should be able to figure it out… well I can’t.. so here I am. I was told by him that I am not sexually attracted to him which is not true… what am I doing wrong?? help!

    • Sean Jameson May 13, 2013 at 8:47 am #

      Hi Sherry,

      This all sounds like a very difficult and complicated situation. Honestly, I don’t think it’s the best idea to be having sex while your children are in bed beside you.

      As for the actual sex, you need to understand that it truly is a 2 way street. You both need to please each other, it’s not just about you pleasing him. He needs to meet your needs too.

      So you might want to consider having a more serious discussion about this with him, so he really understands that you’re not totally sure what he wants.


  19. Mrs Grey May 23, 2013 at 2:53 pm #

    I loveee all of your posts! Please don’t stop posting!

  20. Heather May 24, 2013 at 11:27 pm #

    Sex is my life but… What if your boyfriend has a lil dick?

    • Sean Jameson May 27, 2013 at 9:49 am #

      Hi Heather,
      You may be interested in trying any position where your man isn’t rocking back and forth that much so that there is no chance of him slipping out.

    • Julie September 26, 2013 at 2:43 am #

      Then be thankful cuz you can pound him hard! Or have him pound you hard!

  21. Layla June 7, 2013 at 11:52 pm #

    Hi Sean,

    Would really appreciate your help with this one.

    My partner and I have sex all the time, but we struggle to both reach our climax unless we do oral. We’ve tried so many different positions and what we have found is that his spot that makes him cum is at the end of his shaft on the top, close to his belly (pelvic bone) I’m puzzled to work out how we can stimulate that area? while he’s in me.

    It may sound funny but when he’s in me and if im on top I struggle to reach that area.
    Do you have any positions that may help get him to cum inside without help of a hand job or oral? and vice versa for me?

    Thanks in advance

    • Sean Jameson June 11, 2013 at 10:51 am #

      Hi Layla,

      If he is having trouble cumming, then one of the easiest ways to become more ‘sensitive’ is for him to stop masturbating for a few weeks.

      A great way to stimulate the top side of the end of his shaft is to get into the spooning position with him. But instead of entering you, he can thrust along the outside of your vagina which will stimulate the top side of his entire shaft. This feels even better when you are wet or use a little lube.

      During actual penetrative sex, he will find the basset hound (when he leans backwards) or the g spot sniper position best for stimulating the top side of his shaft.

      For you, try the cowgirl position, but instead of bouncing up and down, try grinding on your man forwards and backwards so that you are rubbing your clitoris over his pubic bone.

      Let me know how you get on!


  22. Bonbon June 11, 2013 at 4:25 am #

    Hi Sean,
    My boyfriend is about 6’2″ and I’m 5’5″, and although I’m a virgin, I know that I’d be much more comfortable with being on bottom. I act very flirty outside of the bedroom but get pretty shy when it comes to anything very sexual.
    I hear guy-on-top positions aren’t good for height differences, so what should I do? He’s had more experience than me, but he’s still very new to the bedroom.

    • Sean Jameson June 11, 2013 at 10:31 am #

      Hi Bonbon,

      Thanks for your question! The best thing that you can do is not worry too much about what you ‘think’ your man prefers and dislikes. Instead, try a few different positions and gauge his reaction when you are actually having sex. Thinking about how he may (or may not) feel about a particular position without actually trying it out will drive you insane! And don’t forget that your man is probably just as nervous as you are. Good luck & have fun!


  23. Merce June 12, 2013 at 8:00 pm #

    Hi Sean,

    Bonbon kind of mentioned it, but what are the best positions for height differences? I’m 5’2″ and my boyfriend is 6’5″. He likes to suck on my nipples while I’m on top but then I can barely grind on him and when he’s laying on top of me, his chest is almost covering my face. And I’m not too fond of doggy style because he’s a little too big. He also has an extremely sensitive head and shaft and have found that he likes it when I play with his balls while we’re going at it but I can only do that while on top (which doesn’t really get me off). Any suggestions? This is my first real relationship in about 3 years so I’m already nervous about messing up!

    • Sean Jameson June 18, 2013 at 11:29 am #

      Hi Merce,

      I would love to be able to give you 5 positions that will work perfectly for you. But the truth is that you need to experiment with different positions to find what works best for you.

      While I wish there was a perfect solution for your situation, there unfortunately isn’t. You could make it a game for you and your man, trying to work through each of the 119 positions over the next few months.


  24. Kathleen July 2, 2013 at 3:59 pm #

    Okay so me and my boyfriend/fiancée are both virgins we have only dated each other and want to take it to the next step. We are both ready and I’m really looking forward to this but he wants it to be safe and I want someplace someone wouldn’t walk in on us. But besides that what is an easy yet fun position that will make is want to do it again and again. And he is worried about crushing me but I can hold him for awhile. Please help I want to fuck him so badly

    • Sean Jameson July 10, 2013 at 11:09 am #

      Honestly, I think that you should try out spooning or even good ole missionary. Let me know how you get on!


      • Kathleen August 17, 2013 at 7:51 am #

        It’s been great thanks to you though your separate vacations making hooking up more difficult. And the school year is starting so there goes my free time.

  25. Vanessa July 13, 2013 at 10:11 pm #

    hi, sean
    so i been with my boyfriend for 3years, n we well i enjoy having sex everyday if i could but i dnt know why but when we have forplay i get wet fast but once into the forplay i get dry n it hurts when he rubs my clitoris and i cant seem to get myself wet again. i also thought of trying to have him do me from behind but ever since i had my daughter i have this kind of thing i guess embarrassment of a hemmoroid i have. i dnt know what to do can u help me please!

    • Sean Jameson July 16, 2013 at 7:24 am #

      Hi Vanessa,

      Don’t worry! Even when you are super turned on, you may have trouble becoming wet. It’s very common. All you need to do is use some good lube. Just remember not to use oil based lube if you are using silicone rubber based condoms!

      Don’t worry too much about your haemorrhoid, we’re all human after all! I sure if you talk to your man about it, he’ll tell you himself that it’s not really that big of a deal at all.


  26. Brenda July 15, 2013 at 12:56 am #

    Hi Sean

    To be honest I feel ashamed asking this but I was hoping you could help me… For some reason that I don’t understand I can only get an orgasm when I’m on top. I would love to get an orgasm while my boyfriend is on top. It feels amazing whenn he is on top but I still don’t orgasm. I really want to boost his ego by having it while he is on top. What to do???

    • Sean Jameson July 16, 2013 at 7:16 am #

      Hi Brenda,
      Thanks for your question. The last thing you want to do is put pressure on yourself! If you do, you’ll find it much harder to cum with him on top. The key is not being ‘outcome dependent’ which means not putting too much emphasis on reaching orgasm with him. This can be especially hard, when you really want to though!

      Many women report that they find it easier to orgasm in a position like cowgirl because they can control how much clitoral stimulation they receive. If this sounds like you (you need a good amount of clitoral stimulation to orgasm), then you may be interested in a man on top position like the coital alignment technique.

      Let me know how you get on,


  27. Thuli July 19, 2013 at 6:55 am #

    Dear Sean

    This is really interesting and more of it would not destroy but would keep our relationships up to a very good standard.Please keep on giving us more.


  28. Reshma Singh July 27, 2013 at 7:48 pm #

    i am university girl and living in girls hostel, where our room mates are lying fully nude at night time and playing as lisbion sex game. Though our all room mates have enjoyed penis pleasure with their boyfriends who are our class mate, but in hostel we wants which type of positions is best for us when we play sex game with same genders.Generally we uses “Bananas:” 1\2 portion in partner vigian and remaing parts in other partner vigina, but it is only for few min. of foreplay like an artificalpenis, please let me know the new positions for same genders.

  29. Kathleen August 17, 2013 at 7:46 am #

    Thank you so much for making this you helped me and my boyfriend have sex for the first time and each time has been amazing. We are trying all the positions because we are both new to sex and its been better every time. We recently tried doggy style which we first thought it was too animalistic but we did it today and it was the best sec ever. I had to squeeze a pillow so hard to keep from screaming it was amazing. Thank you again for making this wonderful place of sec knowledge.

  30. R Malhotra August 18, 2013 at 9:27 pm #

    I love my husband a lot and want to get intimate with him. We have tried many positions but I dnt know why I don’t enjoy during sex with him. My husband is slightly shorter than me. He often says that his dick is not that big to reach my ultimate point.
    Now, he first starts with foreplay,then starts fingering to make me orgasm and then we start intercourse. I really enjoy the foreplay & the orgasm but not the intercourse. Plz advice.

    • Sean Jameson August 26, 2013 at 7:46 am #

      Hi R,

      Bottom line: Just keep experimenting. Tell him that you want to try and discover what are the most pleasurable sex positions and techniques. Straight up telling him that you don’t enjoy intercourse with him can be easily misinterpreted by guys (we are a surprisingly sensitive bunch!).

      You can also try introducing sex toys into your sex life. Remember though, that’s it’s not just about penis length and girth (although for many women this is important), clitoral stimulation is just as important, so you may want to try out a position like the coital alignment technique for extra clitoral stimulation.


  31. Shelbie September 13, 2013 at 3:51 am #

    Hey Sean,

    I read through the sex positions article. Is any of this safe for a pregnant woman?

    • Sean Jameson September 16, 2013 at 7:47 am #

      Hi Shelbie,

      I’m not a doctor and don’t pretend to be one online. Your best option is to talk to your doctor about safe sex positions when pregnant.


  32. Shannon September 16, 2013 at 7:31 am #

    Ok im a lil chubby and its hard for me to masterbate the way i want to but it all works out but my man is in good shape but we do just one position an im tired of it. It makes me not wanna have sex with him. But i be so horny i wanna jump on him.. Tell me what can i do for the both of us thanks

    • Sean Jameson September 16, 2013 at 7:38 am #

      Hi Shannon,
      Honestly, I think the best thing is to just talk to your man and let him know how you feel about things.

  33. Annie September 16, 2013 at 10:59 pm #

    Hi Sean

    I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now, we had a great sex life upon until a few weeks ago I realized that , I’m not aroused for him I don’t get wet anymore, he seems to think that I’m not into him anymore. He is my world I’m very much inlove with him but he’s always talking about how good his ex was and that she was always wet, I think he’s still seeing her so I don,t know if all of that is affecting me. he does,nt believe in using lubricants so thats a no no, and he does,nt believe in foreplay all the time. This is frustrating me we hardly have sex anymore because i find myself fighting to get wet but its just not happening. I need serious help.

    • Sean Jameson September 23, 2013 at 6:31 am #

      Hi Annie,

      Don’t worry! Let me tell you a few things:

      1) Tons of women have trouble getting wet, even when they’re aroused by their partner. Your man is being a a bit of an idiot for getting in a sulk about it….but the problem is that he does not realise that it’s completely normal! The most important thing to do is simply talk to him about it, so that he understands the situation.

      2) Lots of people use lube. It’s totally normal. Again talk to your man about it.

      3) It’s not so cool of your man to compare you to your ex. Let him know if it’s killing your mood.

      4) Your man needs to understand that you understand foreplay. Again, to make him understand, you gotta talk to him about it.

      I know that my advice may sound like you should ‘confront’ him. Don’t! Instead, just try to talk to him about in a way that shows you are concerned and are not judging him, but do want to get it handled.


  34. Anais September 19, 2013 at 8:38 am #

    Hi I was wondering if you could tell me what kind of sex positions are good for when a couple wants to have sex in a car? Please and thank you.

    • Sean Jameson September 23, 2013 at 6:18 am #

      Hi Anais,

      Honestly, it depends…on how big your car is, how big are small both of you guys are and how flexible you both are. Just make sure to put the see right back until it’s flat!


  35. Paula Bono September 21, 2013 at 12:12 am #

    I know in kamasutra the name of the sex position is the double decker but what do you call it? I may have missed it on your site.

    Thank You

    • Sean Jameson September 23, 2013 at 6:15 am #

      Hi Paula,

      I’m not too sure, can you describe it?


  36. Jae October 2, 2013 at 12:59 am #

    Hi Sean,

    Ok so I’m dating this guy I’m really into. We seem perfect for each other. Everything just works. The problem is that he is extremely experienced and I’m a virgin. He is very sexual and has been very vocal about it to me. I think about it all the time. I definitely want to have sex with him and want us to be in sync on every level especially sex, but I’m terrified that I won’t be good enough. I want to make him happy. What do I do? What are some good ways to ease into it without it being awkward? Those are just two questions, I have a boatload. Lol

    • Sean Jameson November 12, 2013 at 9:39 am #

      Hi Jae,

      The best thing to do is to talk to him so that he understands where you are coming from. Great sex is all about great communication, not just being experienced. Let me know how it goes.


  37. Amanda October 6, 2013 at 11:19 pm #

    Hi Sean,
    Love the site, can’t wait to try some of these! What would you recommend for someone who is a little shorter in length? While I’m a fan of doggy style, I find there tends to be slipping out just before I come.

  38. krystal October 9, 2013 at 8:15 pm #

    My hubby hates oral but the rest we can try

    • aamir April 17, 2014 at 10:02 am #

      dear krystal your hubby is doing right if he hates oral .yo know sexually transmitted diseases can spread through oral sex so it should be avoided

  39. Amy October 19, 2013 at 12:01 am #

    I am very very shy kind of person when it comes to being in bed. I never make the first move, and for some reason cannot feel comfortable if the lights are on naked. I feel like I rarely ever do the work in bed and while I want to do something I feel like I simply cannot cross the barrier. I just feel too shy and nervous to ever do anything. I get flushed and shut down. Unfortunately.

    • Sean Jameson November 8, 2013 at 8:22 pm #

      Hi Amy,
      That’s unfortunate, but there is a way past this.

      Start small, very small and you will see how easy it is. Here are a few simple things you can start off doing.

      -While kissing him, put your hands on his cheeks and tilt his head to a different direction.
      -Initiate a kiss with him.
      -Initiate a hug with him.
      -Grab his hand and play with it.

      Once you see how easy these things are (and how much your man enjoys them) then you’ll find it a lot easier to progress further and further.


  40. Katherine October 29, 2013 at 8:12 am #

    Hi Sean,

    My boyfriend and I have had sex quite a bit now, but I never seem to be able to.. uhh… finish I guess. Its gotten to the point where we barely even try for me anymore because its almost embarrassing. Any tips at all? We’ve tried a few things, and he’s more experienced (I’ve only been with him) And I don’t know what to do to avoid this. I don’t want to lose him or merely be used entirely for his enjoyment either.



    • Sean Jameson November 8, 2013 at 8:54 am #

      Hi Katherine,

      Try some doggystyle positions :) This way your hands will be free so that you can ‘assist’ yourself by masturbating while your man is penetrating you. Some women find it tough to orgasm during intercourse, so don’t worry, you are not alone.


  41. Annie October 31, 2013 at 8:08 pm #

    My younger, but more experienced, boyfriend would like to have sex in the back of my car as this is something he’s never tried. What positions would be good for this so I can give him an experience to remember?

  42. Brittany Berrien November 16, 2013 at 8:40 pm #

    Where is it for lesbian

  43. Sani November 16, 2013 at 9:00 pm #

    My bf was a virgin around 25+, me? well no, we made sex, now our relationship is on its 3rd month. And now he is asking me for new positions that will make him more exciting, im still in the reading process about this bible :) the problem is his dick, it wont stand up at some time even how hard we stimulate it :( just asking for a position that will make him cry for more. Lol

    • Sean Jameson November 18, 2013 at 8:19 am #

      Hi Sani,

      It shouldn’t be a too much of a big deal. Here’s the thing though…your man could be having trouble for a ton of reasons. He could be a little nervous or even stressed. Another reason could be due to watching too much porn, which often has a desensitizing effect. My advice is to give it time and make sure he doesn’t watch porn for the next few weeks.


    • shermin December 13, 2013 at 9:13 pm #

      i am male, in iran the woman do nat live sex ,they think it is force for them,so i am going to go to sweden ,i dont know how to find good gf in there,can u help me?

      • Sean Jameson December 15, 2013 at 7:55 pm #

        Unfortunately the Bad Girl’s Bible is all about giving sex advice to women.

  44. Lora Jones December 11, 2013 at 2:18 pm #

    First up is a simple one which you can do by lying on your back ready for the missionary position. However, rather than spreading your legs – lit them up ad put your feet on your partner chest gently and let him rest on your soles. It kind of looks like you are squatting on his chest sideways if you are doing it right. You are not going to be able to kiss and touch as much in this position but it does give other benefits.
    The position will increase how tight your vagina feels by virtue of the position, but also it engages the vaginal muscles due to the pressure making them squeeze tighter. This is from the pressure on your feet that runs down your legs, cum and all your pelvic area.
    Extra hard but tighter version: if to close you ankles as close to your thighs as you can to feel a greater squeeze!

  45. Amanda green December 19, 2013 at 4:29 am #

    I was not taught anything new bout how to suck my man of 12years’s dick, he’s the only person I’ve ever given head to, & I taught myself everything u posted & more! But do u know. Any secrets on how to keep him from Cummings before me?

  46. vikki December 26, 2013 at 6:36 pm #

    Hi im vikki frm uk.my gf is so hott and she is married.cn u tel m a hard position 4 hr2 enjoy plz

  47. Mia January 9, 2014 at 6:58 pm #

    I just have to say that your site change my life. Thx and dont stop you are doing awsome job! :D

  48. Sarah January 16, 2014 at 6:25 pm #

    Hi Sean

    wanted to ask I did all you said for giving a BJ and My guy LOVED IT Every time. recently though he didn’t want one, does that mean anything. Because he’s always wanted one before we would do anything. please let me know. You are so helpful like Mia said

    • Sean Jameson January 20, 2014 at 7:43 am #

      Hi Sarah,

      Sounds pretty normal and honestly, it probably doesn’t mean anything at all.


  49. gypsy January 22, 2014 at 1:32 pm #

    Hey Sean, i havent really done that much with my boyfriend and im not super comfortable with my body. i’d like to introduce some of your ideas and possitions to him but i have NO idea how to even start.

    if you have any advice please advise.

    great website though!

    • Sean Jameson January 27, 2014 at 7:51 am #

      Hi Gypsy,

      Thanks! The easiest way to introduce new things into the bedroom is to just try variations of what you already do with him. Then try variations of these new things. And on and on.

      Another way is to take the lead and just get into a new position (most guys love this!).

      Another way is to mention that you want to try something you saw online. A simple way is to send him a facebook message of one of the positions that you want to try with him and tell him you’d think it would be hot.


  50. Katie smith January 23, 2014 at 6:12 pm #

    Hi Sean, I was wondering, for some of these positions one of the partners has to take initiative to bend over or lead them to a certain spot on the house. If you do this before talking to them about it will it be awkward or will your man like it ? For example the Burning man, if I were too just lead him to the sofa & bend over will he most likely know what’s going on ? Sorry it’s a silly question

    • Sean Jameson January 27, 2014 at 7:46 am #

      Hi Katie,

      Avoiding awkwardness is key here. The best way to approach it is to initiate foreplay when you are already on the sofa. So start touching him, grabbing him and kissing him when you are already on the sofa together. Then it makes it incredibly easy to just transition to having sex with him and then start using the Burning Man.

      Or if you are already having sex with him in the bedroom, you could try whisper something like this in his ear, “I want to try something”, then grab his hand and lead him to where you want to go.


  51. jasmine March 17, 2014 at 6:41 pm #

    OK I need to spice up my sex life its the same thing every time. I need ones that ain’t going to hurt my back . I had a kid a year ago and my back is horrible so please if you have any position that I should try let me know .

    • Sean Jameson March 24, 2014 at 2:16 pm #

      Hi Jasmine, it sounds like it’s best to talk to a doctor about this.


  52. Teri June 9, 2014 at 1:38 pm #

    Hey Sean,

    What positions would you recommend for overweight, untrained women?

    (Besides traditional Missionary and Doggy….)

    Thanks in advance

  53. Joanne June 12, 2014 at 9:27 pm #

    Hey Sean,
    I got a tiny question here. I’m a larger woman ( almost 205 pounds), but the only places I am REALLY fat are my thighs and behind, and my fiancee is a lot thinner than me (around 125 pounds). Sex was great so far, but I was wondering… What positions would you recommend for us, keeping in mind this big difference between our weights? Any “doggie style” positions are out of the question, due to my huge behind.
    Thanks in advance :)
    Btw, you did an awesome job with this site! I just love it! :)

  54. Mitesh June 22, 2014 at 4:54 am #

    Hey hi I have a small problem with last 2 Week’s whenever I sex with my girlfriend she will be satisfied but I’m not all the time I don’t know why this happened with me. We sex with different types of pose but she can’t satisfied me. (I’m not using any type of supplements or medical products.)

    Please give me any type of solutions.

    • Sean Jameson June 23, 2014 at 7:18 am #

      Hi Mitesh,

      2 bits of advice…The first is to make sure to constantly talk to your GF to let her know what you enjoy and what you need (just make sure to pay attention to her needs too!). The other bit of advice is to make sure you keep trying new positions and techniques with your GF. As you do, make sure to keep note of what you enjoy and try out variations of that.

  55. Renee July 7, 2014 at 11:49 pm #

    What are the best positions for intercourse when the man is not well endowed. Also, how can I convince him to used enlarging sleeves, etc. with me because I like a full feeling, which I don’t get without an accessory.

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