The Deep Impact position is very similar to the Criss Cross position. It gets its name from the fact that you can have very deep penetrative sex with your man. It’s also easy to have passionate, even rough sex in this position. Other positions from our sex positions guide might be better for intimate sex, however.
You need to lie down on your back in this position and point your legs towards the ceiling (you can bend them if they are starting to become uncomfortable). Your man will be on his knees, upright, facing towards you. He can either be on the floor, lower than you, or on the bed. You need to rest your legs on his shoulders, one on each shoulder. He then grabs you by your thighs and holds you tightly while he is thrusting into you.
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What The Girl Does In The Deep Impact Position
When you are in the Deep Impact position, you need to let your man do most of the work as it’s a position for him to feel dominant in – and for you to feel submissive. More on that here. If your man is kneeling on the floor and you are at the edge of the bed, then you can grab the edge of the bed and pull yourself in towards him with each thrust.
Your man won’t be providing much stimulation to your clit in the Deep Impact position, so you can use your hands to masturbate yourself instead.
What The Guy Does In The Deep Impact Position
Your man has a very simple and straightforward job in the Deep Impact position. He just needs to thrust in and out. That’s it! If he wants to thrust harder, then he can grab your legs to give him more leverage. He can also slightly lean over you to dominate you more and change his angle. If he wants, he can lean backward and raise your waist from the bed.
If he is on his knees on the bed, he can change his height by bringing his knees either closer together or spreading them further apart.
Things To Consider When Performing The Deep Impact Sex Position
A lot of students that I have talked to about the Deep Impact sex position really enjoy it. They have given some interesting feedback on it:
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- The Deep Impact is great for rough, passionate sex with your man. But sometimes guys get a little carried away and it can become more painful than fun for you. If your man does get a little carried away, then make sure to tell him. Great sex is about 2 people enjoying themselves. It’s not just about him having a good time, while you lie there feeling uncomfortable.
- The Deep Impact is just as good for anal sex as it is for vaginal sex. Tips in this post.
- Instead of grabbing you by the legs, he can grab you by the arms and use them to pull you in.
Similar Positions
- Anvil – This one requires a bit more flexibility because your legs are further back.
- Butterfly – Your man stands up at the edge of the bed.
- Criss Cross – Crossing your legs at the ankles is a simple move to switch things up.
- Launch Pad – Bend your legs at the knees and rest your feet on his chest in this similar position.
There are 24 more sex positions where you can rest on your back here.
Sean’s Thoughts On The Deep Impact Position
I find the Deep Impact position to be really enjoyable. It makes for a great change from slower, more sensual sex. It’s not something that I would recommend for every time you have sex, but it’s a nice position for when I want to express my more animalistic side with a girl.
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Hey,
My man is a big dude over 260/6.4ft and i am 128/5.4ft, he has a big belly and I have a somewhat big butt….too much flesh in the way lol. i would never tell him this but he is not too big n thick in the penile department. any suggestions for us?
Hi Roslyn,
The key here is finding positions that work for both of you. For some couples, they can’t perform certain positions because the man’s penis is too long/short/wide. That’s right, having a penis that is too long can be a bad thing sometimes. The key is to realise that there are some things that you can’t do as couple and that you should enjoy and savour the things you can do together.
If the girl has long legs, this is pretty much the best position there is to fuck in. Great penetration, great angle, fantastic view, and it’s simple to aim and cum wherever you want.
My husband is big (and heavy!) and also well endowed. This would be a good position for us cos I don’t have to bear his weight on me.
I’m a tall dude and my girl loves to wrap her long sexy legs around my back as a variation to this position. She says it feels so good and both of us love this position!
I love this position. I usually like to grab the girl by the butt instead of her legs. Then I have great control of her whole body. I can pull her up and down on my cock and it feels amazing.
Not sure if this is a different position because I don’t usually go as deep here. But it really puts a lot of pressure on a girl’s g spot. And I used to make my ex squirt like this in the past 😉
I never can satitfy my partner with oral sex how can I make him enjoy it
Get him to stop masturbating for a few weeks and he will become super sensitive.