6 Blow Job Tips To Blow His Mind!

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Use these 6 BJ tips to keep things spicy!

I decided to write these 6 blow job tips for people who don’t have a lot of time to read but still want to try something different with their partner. You’ll notice that some of these BJ tips are quick and easy to do, while others take some time to prepare and ‘organize’. So without further ado, here they are:

Get Tasty!

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This is probably the easiest tip to pull off while also having maximum reward for both you and your man. That’s why it’s the first one. A great way to make your man’s blowjob far more enjoyable for BOTH you and him is to use something tasty in your mouth. Now i don’t mean something like steak or potato chips! I mean using something like chocolate sauce or maple syrup or even flavored lube. Whatever you choose needs to act as a lubricant in your mouth that gives the blowjob a different sensation, while at the same time making it taste great for you! Whipped cream is also a tasty lubricant worth trying

When you do try one of these tasty lubricants when going down on your man, it’s a good idea to only use a little bit of maple syrup/cream/etc before using a lot to make sure that it doesn’t get everywhere and leave a mess.

Don’t Forget About His Balls

When you are giving head to your man you may think that you should just concentrate on pleasuring his penis with your mouth. The truth is that this feels great. But at the same time, you shouldn’t forget about the rest of him. The next closest part of his body that feels great to have stimulated, touched and massaged is his balls. You can use either your mouth or your hands. A lot of students that I have talked to have told me that they prefer just using their hands, especially when their man doesn’t shave down there to rub them.

As I always say, just make sure that you don’t use to much pressure and that you are gentle when massaging them. They really are incredibly sensitive!

Give Yourself A Rest – Use Them Hands

When giving your man a blowjob, you’ll find that your mouth and jaw may quickly get very tired from all the work, especially if you are doing it in an awkward position. A great way to give your mouth a rest is to simply use your hands instead. Just simply grab his penis and start giving him a handjob. Then after a few minutes when your jaw and mouth has recovered, you can start giving him a blowjob again. The great thing about this is that his penis will usually be covered in your saliva which acts as a lubricant when you start giving him a handjob.

Cover Your Teeth With Your Lips!

This is a blowjob tip that not all girls have to worry about. I have included it simply because I have gotten so many questions about it. Many girls naturally have small mouths and many guys have a large girth. This often makes it incredibly difficult to give a blowjob properly to your man without your teeth getting in the way. As you probably already know, a man’s penis is incredibly sensitive and even slight contact with your teeth can be very painful for him.

The to prevent your teeth from accidentally getting in way, you can use a very simple technique. All you need to do is wrap your lips over your teeth so that they act as a barrier between your teeth and his penis. This can often be a little uncomfortable for you, but your man will seriously appreciate it.

Don’t Give Him A BJ Every Night

Not giving your man a blowjob every night may sound a little counter-intuitive, but the simple fact is, it works! Remember when you were a kid and you desperately wanted that one thing your couldn’t have (a toy, a piece of clothing, a guy, etc.)? The more you couldn’t have it, the more you wanted it. But you didn’t care much for the toy or guy you could easily have? Guys operate in the same way. When they have access to something every single day, they quickly grow bored. But when they don’t have easy access, they want it real bad!

Giving him a blowjob is exactly the same. If you give him a blowjob whenever he wants it, then he won’t value it as much. But if you only give him one once or twice a week, then he will appreciate it and enjoy it a whole lot more. It’s as simple as that. However, just make sure that you don’t use it to control him or to get him to do things, otherwise he may resent you for it.

Hot & Cold

The last blowjob technique is really fun, but takes a little preparation beforehand and is not actually too practical. To perform the Hot & Cold, you need some ice cubes and some really warm water close to you when you go down on your man. What you are going to do is alternate between having hot water and ice cubes in your mouth as you give your man head. These different temperatures will give your man 2 really nice, but different sensations.

If you have sensitive teeth, you may find it to be too painful constantly switching between having really hot water and ice cubes in your mouth. If that’s the case, then this is a blowjob tips you may want to avoid. Also make sure that the hot water isn’t so hot that it hurts your man’s cock.

If you enjoyed my tips in this article but want a true sex masterclass, then you may be interested in watching this blow job tutorial video where you'll learn my most powerful techniques & tips for giving your man incredible oral sex. Enjoy!

 
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Comments

  1. Ana says

    Sean, my partner and I use condoms. I even use one when giving him a bj. I’ve tried some of the tongue techniques and he doesn’t feel it. What can I do to
    Make it feel better for him with a condom?

    • Sean says

      Hi Ana,
      2 things spring to mind:
      1) Use more force when using the tongue techniques so that he can really feel it.
      2) Both get tested for STI’s. Once you are both clean, then you don’t necessarily need to use condoms while giving him a blowjob anymore.

      • Cheyenne says

        i have found your information very useful, to be honest i have never actually given head before. i wanted some information to get me started and i think this has been really useful. i have talking to my guy about this for a little while now and this has given me more confidence. enthusiasm is the key! i really want to pleasure him, does it feel any different for the man with or without a condom on? should i be using a condom for my first time? is it better to use the flavored lube or condoms for the first time? should i make any eye contact while giving the blow job or will it make it awkward? i dont fancy the idea of swallowing so do i just tell him that before we get started? your information has been really helpful so far but answering this questions would be fantastic! thanks

        • says

          Hi Cheyenne,
          So guys like condoms, others don’t. It’s a personal preference. I always advise people to use condoms unless they are in a monogamous long term relationship, there is absolutely no point in taking any risks. If you feel like using lube the first time you have sex, then definitely do as it will make everything much easier.

          Making eye contact with your man during a blowjob can certainly enhance it, but don’t worry about it too much if it’s your first time.

          If you don’t want to swallow, then DON’T. Don’t ever feel like you have to do something that you don’t want to do. You can tell him this before you get started or you can just spit it out afterwards, it’s up to you.

          I hope this answers your questions!

          Sean

  2. Livy says

    To be completely honest in have never suck a dick before. But im going too. And I need to know how to End it.. Like when im tired or is getting late how do I end it? And also ik you have to use your lips to cover your teeth, but what about you very back teeth? Your blog is soo helpful! Thanks!

    • says

      Hi Livy,

      It’s not a big deal if you have never done it before. There are tons of ways to end it, you can let him finish in your mouth, you can finish by giving him a handjob, you can even finish by letting him cum somewhere on your body. As for covering you back teeth with your lips, this shouldn’t be an issue so don’t worry about it.

      Sean

  3. Chelsea says

    Sean, Well, i’ve gave my partner a BJ, and used the tongue techniques, but he says it doesnt feel any better. I wanna do something that will make his toes curl, what do i do? x

  4. Julie says

    No matter what I try, my two front teeth are just too big! :/ I cant even pull my lips over them! My boyfriend is thick and big so what can I do? He always expects me to DT because I told him about my previous relationship ( smaller and thinner) but I cant seem to make any magic.. Help!

    • says

      Hi Julie,

      Don’t worry if you can’t do absolutely everything with every partner you are with. If you could, you would be some crazy, sex-ninja-goddess! All you need to do is let your man know that his penis is too darn big! He will take it as a massive compliment.

    • bryan says

      Julie, you can lick his head and massage his balls with your hands. Mix it up by running your tongue along his shaft while rimming his ass with your finger. Be creative, use lots of saliva or lotions.

    • Liz says

      You may also consider using silicone teeth whitening trays while giving the bj as they will significantly lessen the edge on your teeth. You can have custom ones made by your dentist – for whitening of course – that will stay on well

    • says

      Hi Chantelle,
      Most guys prefer it if you start to really slow down as he is cumming and then stop once he finishes. However many guys love it when their partner goes incredibly slowly and softly for a few minutes after they cum.

      Sean

  5. Bj Queen says

    So I did not us use condoms the first more on my man and he is married but he enjoys my bjs cause of your tips and wants me to suck off his friends and I did it ur tips are helpful try thxs

  6. Vanessa says

    Hi Sean,
    Thank You so much for showing me how to give my man the best blow job.. You where so right about it being on his mind all day so am going to buy your book this week are sex life has gotten a lot better…

  7. Susy says

    Hiya,

    My bf and I decided to take things a LOT slower after a little rift in our relationship because I felt a little pressured. Things are a lot better now but he’s gone from ravenous to overly cautious. Foreplay right now is good because we’re on a different level with each other now but I imagine this new excitement will not last long enough and it’ll become boring. What could we do without getting down on eachother?

    Thanks

  8. RKG says

    Hi Sean,
    I’m not really a head giver and but it’s only because I don’t really have any confidence in doing it. Now yesterday I came across your website on facebook and click on it. Once I read the tips that you have posted, I took heed to them. Now be and my bf have been together for 8yrs and when I give him a BJ it’s usually no longer than 5mins. but today I tried some things you’ve posted and he actually admitted to it that it was the best BJ that I have ever done and that it was the first time that I made his eye actually role to the back of his head. When he told me this it made me feel so good and happy inside like I actually knew what I was doing. His actual was were “Damn babe I didn’t know you had it in you like that, it actually felt like I was cumming but I knew I wasn’t.” My thing is what are other things that I can do to keep him like this in this shocking stage? I like to keep him guessing and always want to try new things when giving him a BJ just without him knowing what I’m going to do next. All I really want is to make him cum with just a BJ but he takes longer with those then him being inside of me, what are the key things that I need to do to put him on his a** to the point that he can’t believe what I just did to him. PLEASE HELP ME……BECOME A PRO

  9. justme says

    A treat you’ll love to eat!
    Put a couple-three marshmallow peeps in the microwave for a couple of seconds. (just until puffed up…NOT HOT). Apply generously to penis. Now go enjoy your candy coated penis.
    DO A TEST RUN FIRST, ALL MICROWAVES ARE DIFFERENT. MARSHMALLOW TEMPERATURE SHOULD BE LIKE A BABY BOTTLE. DO NOT APPLY MARSHMALLOWS TO HIS PENIS IF IT WILL HURT/BURN/SCALD HIM.

  10. LittleMissNaunty says

    Hey :)
    I really enjoyed your advice!
    But sometimes when I give my boyfriend a handjob he doesn’t enjoy it as much.. Is it because he is so used to himself materbating? Lol
    Or just personal taste?
    I’m not so sure he only likes it in some postioning of the penis itself, but not all the time!! I use a lot of spit so it isn’t like sandpaper (haha). Ahh I don’t know what to do to improve it!!
    Anyways thanks

    • says

      “sometimes when I give my boyfriend a handjob he doesn’t enjoy it as much.. Is it because he is so used to himself masturbating?”

      This is the problem exactly. The problem is that your man has become the world’s greatest person at giving himself a handjob. He knows exactly what he wants and when he wants it. So don’t ever worry if it’s not ‘perfect’. You can learn more about giving him a great handjob here.

  11. Renee says

    My husband nn I are freaks we’re newly weds so figures right!! Nn I’m pretty good at head :)) but tonight I totally kissed it like told nn after he was like ” you never did it like that before !!! You never kissed it that was amazing!” Lol so it’s amazing what tiny things can really make a mind blowing bj!!! Thank you!!! Keep up the good tips! Lol with this blog I’ll go from pretty good to awesome in no time!! :))))))

  12. Elissa says

    Before reading your techniques I hardly ever gave blow jobs and never enjoyed giving them. After reading your tips I get nothing but compliments from my guy and I really enjoy it now. Thank you so much!!

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